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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Lillian Emma Marie Mather, 86 years old, born on May 28, 1923, and passed away on May 20, 2010. We will remember her forever.
May 28, 2021
May 28, 2021
It has been so many years now it is hard to remember when you left us. But my wonderful memories with you and of you, have not dimmed in the least. I MISS YOU SO MUCH. I still cry often for you&grandpa and I really pray you’re together. With everything in me I really pray I will get to hug you again and hang out again in eternity. I always tell my children about you and how amazing you were. You will never be forgotten.Such an INCREDIBLE human being you were granny(and grandpa too). I love you so much granny.SO MUCH.

Eternally,
Your granddaughter,
Jenny xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
May 28, 2015
May 28, 2015
Thank you charmaine, looking at the picture's took me back to a very special time in life. when every one was always around, and having fun and enjoying each others company... as we got older our family's drifted apart and did not see each other as often. now we see each other at family functions when we can.. but we still keep all the people we grow up with like all the grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends deep in our hearts. when you think back or see a picture of some one that truly touch your heart when you were a young child, the tears do flow, but from happiness of having the honor of knowing that person. Still love you aunt lily...
May 20, 2015
May 20, 2015
Hello Granny,
As usual when I think of you I am a basket of tears and am forced to hold in the loud bauling cry I so desperately want to bellow out, in the pain of missing you. But I just take the time to look at all of the wonderful pictures that have captured the beauty of the amazing human being,mother, wife, friend, grandmother you were. So many people love you because you loved so many people. Your life and the love that I had the privilege to be a part of, will FOREVER be embedded in my heart&memories. I am the luckiest granddaughter in the world to have had a granny like you. I miss you so much. And Im so happy grampas still here. And I know one day he will have to leave and come to you, as we all one day will have to leave. I fear dying like you once did, quite a lot actually. But if I can just hold on to the hope of heaven actually being a real place and seeing you again......when that day comes that death knocks on my door.....I pray that a genuine peace will come over me knowing that we will all be together again forever. I love you granny. So so so much. So very much.

For eternity
Jenny&kids&chris
May 20, 2015
May 20, 2015
Five years ago at almost this exact moment I was awoken from a call from Dad telling me you had gone to meet your maker. Once again I cry just like I did as if it was the day I lost you all over again and then slowly but surely I smile through my tears. Remembering you is one of my most treasured pastimes. Love you always and forever. <3 <3 <3
May 21, 2014
May 21, 2014
I look at all these pictures ma, I realize how much I have to tell you. I miss you more now than I did when you left. I somehow messed up, you always loved family, I never knew, you were family and what it would represent. I miss your hugs and kisses, a nice big french girl with a "you'll never forget you've been loved hug" . I'm a momma's boy, always have been, Michelle seen it long before I could ever understand. Ive heard you become a man when your father passes, but what of mothers ? All is lost !! Not true ma, I feel you with me all the time. Michelle has fought the great fight with only power that my mother could summon, you were right she's a very special woman. Aunty Madeline joined you yesterday and I'm sure the cards are already out looking for that special foursome of euchre, don't ask Uncle Ernie I hear he cheats. I bring this up because I know that David is already playing bridge in his own foursome. I quickly just want to tell you I spoke to dad yesterday he's doing great thinks of you everyday like a young boyfriend, silly actually but no wonder with how you look in those early photos. Okay from your son I <3 you so much please feel free to call anytime I've got all the time in the world for you, which I never seemed to have before

           XxxxxxxxOooooo
                 James
May 20, 2014
May 20, 2014
Well Mom it's been four years today and I still miss you so much. Your sister Madeline passed away this morning so she is no longer suffering either. I love you Mom
May 20, 2014
It has Ben a very long time granny but you have never been forgotten and you are always in our hearts!
May 20, 2014
May 20, 2014
I miss you so much Granny. Was just talking to you yesterday....I hope you can always hear me! I love you so much and I hope to spend eternity with you in heaven one day....Ive heard its BEAUTIFUL there. Please send my love to Jesus. I love you granny.
May 28, 2013
May 28, 2013
I love you sooooo much Granny. Still cry for you all the time, I know you would say,"Oh Jenny dnt cry,I want you to be happy, take care of those gorgeous children and give them a kiss for me-and youd say you miss them so much" I know Granny ;) Its just hard when ur so far away <3 Happy bday! Even though I was told everyone in heaven is 21-guess u dont need wrinkle cream anymore;) LUV U
May 28, 2012
May 28, 2012
Happy birthday Mom, perhaps you can ask the Big Guy up there to turn down the heat a wee bit, love and miss you.
May 28, 2011
May 28, 2011
Happy Birthday Mom- I called Dad today, and we both miss you so much. I love you
June 3, 2010
June 3, 2010
I love you so much granny.xoxoxo Im sending my hugs and kisses to heaven where I know you will get them =) Putting a huge smile on your face =)I know you are happy with Jesus now..I miss you.I LOVE U.

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May 28, 2021
May 28, 2021
It has been so many years now it is hard to remember when you left us. But my wonderful memories with you and of you, have not dimmed in the least. I MISS YOU SO MUCH. I still cry often for you&grandpa and I really pray you’re together. With everything in me I really pray I will get to hug you again and hang out again in eternity. I always tell my children about you and how amazing you were. You will never be forgotten.Such an INCREDIBLE human being you were granny(and grandpa too). I love you so much granny.SO MUCH.

Eternally,
Your granddaughter,
Jenny xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
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May 20, 2017

Hello granny,

I did not even realize it has already been 7 years! I still miss you today, just as much as when I found out you left this earth. Grampa recently left too, which has been really-REALLY hard&painful on me.... as he felt like my dad and my best friend...and when he was still here, it felt like I was able to keep you close to me somehow too.  I really hope that you both are together right now and somehow you are able to read this, just so you know how much you both mean to me... and always will forever.

I have realized more  now that you are no longer here.... that you both were amazing, amazing people. Mom was soooo blessed and lucky to have you as parents and that is why she is such a good mom, who I am so crazy lucky to have as my mom... and even Jamie my favorite uncle... he is such an amazing person. And the only reason they are both so incredible and loving and caring and giving and kind and just everything amazing is because you and grampa raised them with the amazing love that you did.


I miss you like crazy granny. Soon me and the kids will be going to a memorial thing the nursing home is putting together to remember grampa. I hope you both will be there in spirit. You are both loved so so deeply by me. My dream is that one day I will get to see you both again-that would be wonderful!!


Well granny.... I hate goodbyes so this is not goodbye.... I am sending my hugs and cheek kisses to you and to grampa..... and anyone else that might happen to be there(where ever you are) with you.... (uncle darrel, uncle guy, auntie madeline, bandit, my brother richard, and other children/people you and grampa lost when you where still here... send them my love too!)


Always and eternally,

Your granddaughter,

Jenny and 6 children xoxo

May 20, 2017
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Seven years ago today we lost you mom and just this year we lost dad too. I take comfort in thinking that you are not alone and that finally you and dad are together. So much has happened since you left - four more grandchildren that would have loved you and dad so much. Its taken this long but now most of the time instead of pain there is joy when I catch an unexpected glimpse of you in a picture or melody ... or just find myself doing something and see how much of you there will always be in me. I am very lucky to have had you as a mom.

Love you always

Hi Granny

May 20, 2016

I cannot believe it has been 6 years already. I think about you ALL the time and miss you so so so so much and cry all the time just remembering how amazing you were and how lucky I was to have a granny like you. Reading over everyones past comments warms my heart and brings tears to my eyes. Grampa has been doing so well since you left....he is so strong. And it brings me such joy when he hears my voice and is so happy that it is me. You and him are so much alike. Its almost as if a part of you stayed behind with grampa(like how married couples become one), and I can feel your love for me through him. I miss and love you so deeply and I have to keep my faith that one day we will meet again and spend eternity together. Sending my hugs and kisses and my love and the love of your 6 great grandchildren, who I make sure know who you are! 

And P.S.  all 4 of my girls have not let all of the beautiful jewellry you used to wear, go to waste. All of them cherish your jewellry and even wear it!  At first we had them in containers to remember you and Id even smell it from time to time(lol no Im not crazy! Lol).....because it smells like you still. But then I said to my girls if granny was here and could talk to us, she would say to wear her jewellry! So they have been, and it feels so wonderful to see that, surprisingly a lot of your jewellry brings back so many memories for me. Especialy cmas eve when you would always let me borrow some and summer times and it was so exciting for me as a young girl. Thank you granny for all of the amazing memories I will never ever forget.


Your grandaughter,

Jenny xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxoxox

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