February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
May God guide you and your girls through this time of sorrow and sadness. Rest in peace, Lillian ! My deepest condolences, Kevin.
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Lillian Venezia, 55, born on March 13, 1958 and passed away on February 4, 2014. Lillian touched so many people during her life and this website is an opportunity for all her friends and family to share how Lillian impacted their lives. Lillian was a couragous and passionate individual who will continue to influence our lives for many years to come.
Service was held on Saturday, February 15th, from 3-9pm
at The Green Building, 452 Union Street, Brooklyn NY 11215,
Ph 718-522-3363.
www.thegreenbuildingnyc.com
Valet service was provided.
Flowers filled the building and were a beautiful tribute to Lillian's life and love for plants and flowers (you know Lillian loved her flowers!).
Donations can be made to the Cancer support organization "Fighting Pretty" via their website www.fightingpretty.org. If you want to indicate that the gift is to made in Lillian's memory, include her name in the name field. For example, write "Lillian Venezia". Checks can be sent to PO Box 951, NY NY 10150.
This organization sends supportive care packages to women who are fighting cancer and Lillian was moved by the package that I had arranged to be sent to her, which included a pair of mini pink boxing gloves.
Lillian’s final resting place: Greenwood Cemetery Brooklyn NY, 5th Avenue and 25th St,: Section 45618, Lot 31, Plan 109. provide this information to the office staff and they can direct you to the site
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February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
To Kevin, and all the Heidels and Venezias: May you find courage, a measure of comfort, and life-long enrichment in the legacy of love and memories Lillian has left with you.
Separated by a continent and sometimes half a world, our paths have not crossed with Kevin, Lillian and the girls since Ted visited in Brooklyn enroute to Egypt in the 90s, so as uncle and aunt we are grateful for all the second-hand sharing at a distance through family mail and photos across the years.
The warmth of Lillian's legacy glows in the photo gallery here. We do not know when we might be in yhour neighborhood again, but If and when you and the girls, together or separately, can stop by for a visit with us in the Pacific Northwest, it would warm our hearts to share in your memories, and in your futures.
Separated by a continent and sometimes half a world, our paths have not crossed with Kevin, Lillian and the girls since Ted visited in Brooklyn enroute to Egypt in the 90s, so as uncle and aunt we are grateful for all the second-hand sharing at a distance through family mail and photos across the years.
The warmth of Lillian's legacy glows in the photo gallery here. We do not know when we might be in yhour neighborhood again, but If and when you and the girls, together or separately, can stop by for a visit with us in the Pacific Northwest, it would warm our hearts to share in your memories, and in your futures.
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
Kevin, I am so sorry to hear of your wife's death. I understand the pain you are going through and want to extend my heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. I pray you find strength in Our Lord. Kevin, I didn't know your wife, but from a few stories you previously mentioned, I understand she was a magnificent spirit. I remember when I met you at work, and you mentioning you were from Hawaii and I asked "now what is a boy from Hawaii doing in NY?!!" ... and you said " I fell in love and followed the love of my life and moved here!". Kevencito, I know your wife will always be the love of your life and she will forever life in your heart. I hope you will find peace and comfort in the days ahead.
If I can be of any help, do not hesitate to call upon me.
In sympathy,
Rita Gonzalez, RN
If I can be of any help, do not hesitate to call upon me.
In sympathy,
Rita Gonzalez, RN
February 8, 2014
February 8, 2014
May God comfort you and your family at this time and keep the loving memories shared in you hearts forever.
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March 14
March 14
Lillian, thinking of you with the fondest of memories from our Holy Family days, then onto Catherine McCauley high school, where we enjoyed breaking the rules together. And of course, living just blocks apart in Canarsie was the best. What fun we had! I’m so glad I got to see you in Brooklyn after so many years had passed at one of our Holy Family gatherings. RIP, dear Lil, and prayers to your family. ❤️
March 13
March 13
Lillian, thinking of you on your birthday, and particularly of your 3 girls and Kevin. We all miss you, and remember the giving person you were. You can be proud of your girls. They are all finding their way.
Aloha, Marian
Aloha, Marian
February 4
February 4
Lillian, I am so glad to be reminded that this is an important anniversary for all your family and friends...10 years since you left us. Today Kevin is with us, and we talked to Ilana. I'm sure we will be speaking of you and wishing you were here in person. I'll make contact with Malia and Imani let them know that we are thinking of them today.
Aloha, Marian Heidel
Aloha, Marian Heidel
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Your holy family classmates will always remember you.
We remembered you at our 50 year reunion. You will always be with us when we gather.
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February 6, 2017
by Jamie Flores
I still think about her...think about my story and how much she was a part of me. When ever I talk to anyone about my cancer story, she is always there with me, helping me navigate my emotions...cautious and careful being so fragile, but she was my rock. When I was with her, we were two women who shared something that no one wanted to share. I do not, will not forget you Lillian....
She always knew.....
March 13, 2015
by Jamie Flores
I have never met anyone who just knew when you were around her what you needed. Tough love, caring words, brillant mind, funny stories....that was my experience with Lillian every week I saw her in therapy. I would virtually run when I went back to work to see her every Wednesday, never knowing what to expect in my session. She let me talk, about ANYTHING, cancer related or not. She never judged me, and knows my deepest and darkest secrets and fears. I miss you Lillian everyday. I still talk to you, and I hope you hear me. I just wish I could hear your words back to me and see that smile as we fought our way along.
We all miss you so much...Happy Birthday Lillian....you are loved...Jamie
we met and were instant friends...
February 12, 2015
My cousin Mickey (my dad's 1st cousin) worked with Lillian at Coney Island Hospital... She and Barbara needed a roommate and I needed a room..we met, and there was no question we'd get a long.... 4th st, between 8th and the Park.... Park Slope... what a great apartment. We were in our early 20's, I had friends from England and they stayed with us a while there. Then Lil, Barb and I took a trip to England and watched Janet & Martin get Married... we took a trip to Paris after the wedding.. and the rest is all a wonderful memory filled with laughter and fun.... Lil, we stayed connected until the early 90's... when grown up life got in the way... but we shared eachother's wedding memories,, and you will live on in my photo's, videos and memory forever....