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Lily Thao Ngo was born on August 21, 1996 in a small town outside of Boston, MA. She entered our lives and forever changed our worlds.

Lily was very shy and friendly to everyone she met. She would amuse her grand-father by accompanying him on fishing trips and her grand-mother by eating her home made yogurts.

In 2001, Lily and her parents moved near San Jose, CA. Lily became an older sister that year. From that point on, Kathleen looked up to her for guidance and reassurance. They would band together to get their ways with their parents and yet bicker like siblings normally do.

A few years later, Uncle Dale and Auntie Tammy brought younger cousin Jasmine into Lily's world, shortly followed by Alexander, born 2 days before Lily's 11th birthday, whom Lily never had a chance to meet.

On Saturday December 22, 2007, Lily, Kathleen and their parents flew to Houston, TX to have a two week holiday over Christmas and New Year. They were to be joined by family and friends in the upcoming days.

That evening, on their way to dinner soon after landing in Houston, their Honda Accord was violently rear-ended by a speeding Ford F-150 sending the small coupe into a drainage ditch.

The drunk driver of the Ford was heavily intoxicated beyond the legal limit and arrested at the scene. Alejando Sandoval's blood alcohol concentration, BAC, was .12% according to authorities. He is an illegal immigrant from Mexico and has been charged with intoxicated manslaughter and is awaiting trial.

Lily's parents and sister had non life threatening injuries and were rushed to local hospitals in two ambulances. However, Lily had severe injuries and was life-flighted to the hospital. At 10.45pm (CST), Lily was pronounced dead.

Lily was really into Disney's High School Musical; there was a discussion between her and her Auntie Linh whether or not Zac Efron was really that cute. Lily loved that she got her ears pierced (finally!!) and was starting to spend more time at the mall shopping, much like her Auntie Twee. Other times she would patiently show her Uncle Brian how to play the latest video games. The day before her death, she was able to spend time with her friends at the movies.

Lily's smile was brightening and her laugh, contagious. She will be missed dearly by her family and friends.

August 21, 2023
August 21, 2023
Lily,

Happy 27th birthday! You are remembered and you are missed!

Mr. Tomlin
December 22, 2022
December 22, 2022
Dear Lily,

Today is the 15th birthday you have been returned home to God. We miss you dearly!!

Loves
Daddy, Mommy and your babies siblings.
December 22, 2022
December 22, 2022
Lily,
Fifteen years ago God called you to Heaven. No one knows why, but we all have missed you since that day. You are not forgotten :)
Mr. Tomlin
December 22, 2021
December 22, 2021
Lily, 14 years ago God called on you to be in Heaven. You are missed and never forgotten. ~Mr. Tomlin
December 22, 2020
December 22, 2020
Lily,
Today is a sad day realizing it marks the anniversary of God taking you from this Earth. But I know that God had a much bigger plan for you and so I rejoice in the fact that you were my student at least for a short time. You are not forgotten and you are missed!
Mr. Tomlin
August 21, 2020
August 21, 2020
What a year this one has been but I still wish you were here to experience it with me. There's never a moment when you're not missed. Wishing you a happy birthday and sending you all my love always ★~(◠‿◕✿)

- Pauline
August 21, 2020
August 21, 2020
Happy birthday to you Lily, we wishes you were still here with us. We misses you so dearly. Loves, Daddy, Mommy, Kathleen, Cory and Angelika
August 21, 2020
August 21, 2020
Lily,

Happy Birthday! You are always missed.

Mr. Tomlin
December 22, 2019
December 22, 2019
Lily, 12 years ago God took you from this world. We know that He had other plans for you. But you are not forgotten. ~Mr. Tomlin
December 22, 2019
December 22, 2019
Today is the hardest day to learned God is taking you from us. We misses you dearly and always will. May you find peace in Heaven. Loves: Dad, Mom, Sisters and your Brother.
December 22, 2018
December 22, 2018
Lily,
You are missed and not forgotten.
Mr. Tomlin
December 22, 2018
December 22, 2018
Lily,
You are missed and not forgotten.
Mr. Tomlin
December 22, 2018
December 22, 2018
Lily,
You are missed and not forgotten.
Mr. Tomlin
December 22, 2018
December 22, 2018
Lily,
You are missed and not forgotten.
Mr. Tomlin
December 22, 2018
December 22, 2018
Lily,
You are missed and not forgotten.
Mr. Tomlin
December 22, 2018
December 22, 2018
Lily,
You are missed and not forgotten.
Mr. Tomlin
December 22, 2018
December 22, 2018
Lily,
You are missed and not forgotten.
Mr. Tomlin
August 21, 2018
August 21, 2018
Happy birthday to our beloving Lily from the heaven above!!
Much Loves!!
Daddy, Mommy, Kathleen, Cory and Angelika
August 21, 2018
August 21, 2018
Lily,
Happy Birthday! Your beautiful spirit lives on in the hearts of those who knew you. 
Mr. Tomlin
December 22, 2017
December 22, 2017
Hello Lily,

Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays! You are not fogotten.

Mr. Tomlin
August 21, 2017
August 21, 2017
Lily, Happy Birthday! You are not forgotten.
~Mr. Tomlin
August 21, 2017
August 21, 2017
Happy birthday Lily, we miss you dearly. Love you!!
December 22, 2016
December 22, 2016
Dear Lily,

Today is 9 years since you have left us to be with God in heaven. We are here at your memorial site to help celebrate the loves and the memories you brought to all of us while you was here on earth. Love, Daddy, Mommy, Kathleen, Cory and Angelika.
December 22, 2016
December 22, 2016
i miss your laugh, i miss your giggles, and i miss your sweet smile.
December 22, 2016
December 22, 2016
Lily,

Another year has passed without you in this world. But we know that Heaven is better with you there. You are forever in our hearts!

Mr. Tomlin
October 25, 2016
October 25, 2016
Hi there love,

It's been so long since I've spoken to you. I take full blame, but I just never been in a great place ever since you left. Though I don't seem to express it often, I miss you every day of my life and when I'm speaking to you or of you, it always hits home. I've changed a lot throughout the years that I really wish you were a part of physically to see. But thank you anyways for always being there for me as my angel. I know you're watching over me and it really helps. I love you best friend and miss you oh so much.

With lots of love,
Pauline
August 21, 2016
August 21, 2016
Today is your special day, we are here to celebrate your 20th birthday. We miss you dearly and wish nothing but the best for you in heaven. Love Daddy, Mommy. Kathleen, Cory and your baby sister Angelika.
August 21, 2014
August 21, 2014
Happy 18th birthday my sweet angel, we hope you'll find peace above.

We'll always remembering your beautiful smiles and that little almond eyes of your. Love daddy, mommy, Kat, Cory and Angelika

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August 21, 2023
August 21, 2023
Lily,

Happy 27th birthday! You are remembered and you are missed!

Mr. Tomlin
December 22, 2022
December 22, 2022
Dear Lily,

Today is the 15th birthday you have been returned home to God. We miss you dearly!!

Loves
Daddy, Mommy and your babies siblings.
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We Still Remember Lily

May 27, 2016

Lily was the kindest and sweetest student I ever had!  Tragically, she was taken from this earth much too soon.  At the school where Lily attended, we continue to honor her each year.  We do this by allowing our 6th grade students to select one (or more) of their classmates who they believe best emulates the two qualities of Lily which always stood out: kindness and sweetness.  We give many awards at our school, but every student is told that receiving the Lily Ngo Memorial Award is the greatest honor that a student can receive.

Lily, God brought you to Heaven because He had a special purpose for you.  It saddened us that you left us, and we will always miss you.  But I know in my heart that somehow you know that we have not forgotten you.

Your teacher,

M. Tomlin 

Loving Cousin

August 23, 2013

"It was about Christmas time last year (2006). We exchanged presents. I got a Bratz doll. She got a lamp from our family. At night me and Lily would go next to the game room window. We talked about guys, parents being so weird, and etc. That's my story about Lily! Etheir way she is gone. At least she doesn't feel the pain before she died. She is in a safer place. A place where she isn't hurt. But I will always remember Lily as my sister." - Talena, aged 11, cousin

Missing Dearly by Uncle

August 23, 2013

"...I was devastated by news of her death, and infuriated to learn that the Defendant was not only inebriated beyond the legal limit, but also in this country illegally...Lily was a beautiful and sweet young girl with her entire life in front of her until the Defendant took her life, and brought great tragedy to our family. I have many happy memories of Lily: learning to fly a kite in the park; fishing in a local lake and playing video games with her..." - Brian Curran

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