Let the memory of Lisa be with us forever
  • 40 years old
  • Born on April 3, 1970 in Sikeston, Missouri, United States.
  • Passed away on December 19, 2010 in Sikeston, Missouri, United States.

This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Lisa Chessor who was born on April 3, 1970 and passed away on December 19, 2010. She would want us to try to remember the laughter we all shared with her, so this memorial is to help us celebrate her life. We will remember her forever.

Posted by Manda Chessor on 24th December 2017
I miss you. Ive changed so much that I dont think you would even recognize me anymore....good and bad ways. Some days its so hard to just keep going. Some days I dont WANT to keep going. But I have to. We are going to have a grandbaby! Sylas Jay is due in February. I love him already. I wish you were here to help us spoil him. Blake is struggling with that. Alot. We WILL make sure he knows all about you. I miss you.
Posted by Alice Neal-Guthrie on 15th June 2016
Hi sis. Thought I would say hi. I sure wish you were here to help Manda n Blake. They r having some bad times lately but r working thru them one day at a time.Manda will never find another love as true as yours n her heart still aches but she's better, got a great job n nice house in the city you guys shared so many memories!!! Just keep looking down on them, they need your angel prayers every day‚̧ We all love you n miss our Lisa terribly!!! Until next time, love n miss you!!!
Posted by Manda Chessor on 3rd April 2016
Happy birthday. You are loved and missed every day.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 19th December 2015
Five years later and I still feel the pain just as fresh as that day. The panic, the fear, the disbelief. I would give almost anything to have you back. I still miss you so much. I live life. I have relationships. I move forward. But part of me is, and always will be, stuck there with you. In that moment of loss. Forever. I love you and my heart will always be linked to you.
Posted by Avonda Sue Jones on 19th December 2015
It is so hard to believe that it has been five years since you passed from this earth. I miss you and your loving nature and your infectious laughter. Please keep looking down on us all. Love you cuz.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 20th June 2015
Lisas day is quickly approaching. Thats a tradition I havent carried on with anyone else. That was ours alone. Like so many other things. Every day I miss you still. Every day Im thankful that Blake and I had you in our lives. You were an amazing person and the world just isnt the same without you.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 25th December 2014
Merry Christmas in Heaven. Today we sprinkled some of your ashes at Tower Grove and our old house. I finally fulfilled part of the promise to you to sprinkle them at places signifcant to us. It brought me peace. I miss you. So does Blake. But we are both living and happy and healthy. Everything I know you would want for us.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 19th December 2014
Today marks 4 years since you left us. Sometimes it seems so much longer than that. It feels like its been an eternity since I saw your smile and heard your laugh...but somehow I still remember it clearly. I still miss you and hold you in my heart and soul.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 27th November 2014
Happy Thanksgiving my dear. I baked all day yesterday and of course I'm cooking away today. I miss you for lots of reasons, but little things like our holiday traditions are the things that I miss more than anything. I've got Blake and Jenna to share the day with so I'm blessed. And I had 20 years of holidays with you, that's a blessing so many don't have. I love you and miss you always.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 16th June 2014
Happy Lisa's day to you. Your boy and I have been talking about you so much lately. We both still miss you so very much. We have some big changes ahead of us. I hope they bring us happiness and peace. We've both had periods of happiness since you've gone, but neither of us have been truly happy or fulfilled. I'm really hoping the upcoming changes help with that. I hope you look down on us and guide us as we make our way in our new future. I love and miss you more than I could ever say.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 22nd May 2014
Our baby boy turns 23 today. It seems like just yesterday we were that scared couple bringing him home from the hospital. Time surely does fly. While I know you wouldnt agree with all of his choices in life I do know you would still be proud to see the man he has grown in to. I wish you could be here to help him celebrate, but you are always here in our hearts. We both love and miss you today and every day.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 3rd April 2014
memories that are forever locked in my soul help on days like today when i miss you just a little more than usual ....happy birthday you are loved and missed
Posted by Manda Chessor on 14th February 2014
i carry your heart with me i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart)i am never without it(anywhere i go you go, my dear;and whatever is done by only me is your doing,my darling) i fear no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true) and it's you are whatever a moon has always meant and whatever a sun will always sing is you here is the deepest secret nobody knows (here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows higher than soul can hope or mind can hide) and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart)
Posted by Manda Chessor on 11th February 2014
haven't been on here in a while...ive posted on ur fb page...but not here...tonight u invade my thoughts
Posted by Manda Chessor on 25th December 2013
Merry Christmas. I woke up this am missing you like crazy. Missing our traditions and our routine. Missing the past. Missing what was supposed to be and what will never be. I hope you're celebrating in Heaven. Ill love you always.
Posted by Kathy Henry on 20th December 2013
Lisa I remember you when we were small riding the same school bus together and then you became one of our family members. I remember the last time I saw you was at aunt Ruby's Christmas family get together. You are loved and very much missed. Luv you cuz r.i.p.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 20th December 2013
Yesterday was 3 years. For some reason this year has been the hardest holiday season without you and momma and daddy. Maybe it's because Ive been living alone so long. Maybe its because I dont have anyone there to do our traditions with. I don't know. Its still VERY hard for me. Some days I'm strong and ok and other times I still ache from the loss of you. EVER SINGLE DAY I think about you. I guess I always will. I hope you are looking over us and seeing how strong we've grown since you left. I love you always.
Posted by Tracy Abbott on 19th December 2013
Its been 3 long years today that we lost u. I miss my sissy an my best friend. We love an miss u theres not enough words to tell u how much love u ur baby sis
Posted by Manda Chessor on 24th November 2013
It's almost Thanksgiving. Blake told me he missed me cooking a big meal at home so that's what Im doing this year. I hope its as good as he remembers and that we are able to share memories and laughter with the meal. I wish more family would be here. I wish YOUR family was still in my life. Guess things are what they are. Love and miss you always.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 7th September 2013
Miss you today and every day.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 24th August 2013
Missing you today
Posted by Manda Chessor on 10th July 2013
yesterday would have been our wedding anniversary...i missed you
Posted by Manda Chessor on 16th June 2013
Happy Lisa's Day in Heaven. You are loved and missed always.Give my daddy a big ol hug for me.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 4th June 2013
I went on a great training for work today and came back all excited and inspired. Then I came home to an empty house. I wish you were here. You would sit and listen as I babbled on about my students or a training I went to or idea I had for the classroom. You didnt just listen, you were interested in what I was saying. You shared in my excitement. I remember you saying "I love when you get that sp
Posted by Manda Chessor on 22nd May 2013
Today is our boys 22nd birthday. I still dont know how the time has flown by so quickly. I know you were looking down with such pride at him today...but I miss you being here to help us celebrate.He is different than we imagined in some ways...but I know you would still show unconditional love and pride. He misses you more than he will talk about. Especially on special days. We both do.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 13th April 2013
I've been watching these sappy love movies all day. They make me think about my life now. They make me think about my future. And they make me think about my past with you. I was truly blessed to experience such a wonderful love story with you. Thank you for all that you were to me. I will always miss that. I will always miss you.
Posted by Lisa Radica on 3rd April 2013
HAPPY BIRTHDAY LISA, LOVE AND MISS YOU SO MUCH, PLEASE CONTINUE TO WATCH OVER ALL OF US BUT ESPECIALLY MANDA AND BLAKE.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 3rd April 2013
Happy Birthday Lisa. I love and miss you every single day. I was blessed to spend 20 years celebrating this day with you, but still wish I could spend this one with you too. [i carry your heart with me(i carry it in] BY E. E. CUMMINGS i carry your heart with me(i carry it in my heart)i am never without it(anywhere i go you go,my dear;and whatever is done by only me is your doing,my darling)
Posted by Avonda Sue Jones on 3rd April 2013
I'm always thinking of you and miss you so very much. You were such a great person and I know you are in heaven watching down on us all. I love you my dear cousin and wishing you were here to celebrate your birthday here on earth bur God had a different plan for you. Keep watch over us all.
Posted by Tracy Abbott on 3rd April 2013
happy birthday sissy we love and miss u so very much just not the same with out u. u was the best big sis I thank god every day I had a great sister.an now I am tryin to be the big sis like I had now of course u know I know u r watching over us every day. I need ur help watch over us close happy birthday love u sissy
Posted by Manda Chessor on 10th March 2013
Missing you today and everyday. I miss our talks most of all. You could help me make sense of everything.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 16th February 2013
I miss our friendship. You could always make me feel better.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 25th December 2012
Merry Christmas! I hope you were looking down on us and saw how happy our boy was. He is truly all grown. He isn't even going to go to dinner with us today..for the first time ever. It's hard to accept but I know you would be proud of how independent he has become. We all miss you so much, not just on the holidays, but every day.
Posted by Alice Neal-Guthrie on 19th December 2012
Hey sis It has been two years ago today that God called our angel home We all miss u so much and wish u were here to help our family thru a difficult time. U were always our rock and our laughter when we needed it the most. Manda and Blake still struggle eevery day to remember without hurting but they are both geetting there and doing ok. Merry Christmas Know u r looking down on us.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 18th December 2012
About this time 2 years ago my life began to change. I went to bed early without you not knowing that in a few short hours my entire life would be turned upside down. 2 years ago at this time everything was still ok...still normal. 2 years later Im still wondering why. 2 years later im still missing you more than I thought possible...but thankful for all we shared.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 13th November 2012
I miss my best friend
Posted by Manda Chessor on 9th October 2012
Today is momma's bday. Give her a big ol hug from me. I love and miss you all
Posted by Manda Chessor on 16th August 2012
It saddens me to see that I'm the only one that really posts anything on here. I guess people deal with things differently. It makes me feel a little more connected to you to "talk" to you on here. To put it simply, I miss my friend. Guess I always will.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 24th July 2012
Im awake and you are on my mind. Im not sure why tonight really. Its not a significant date. Im not down or depressed. You are just there..lingering on the restless surface of my mind. I miss you. I don't think that will ever change. You were/are such a part of my life, my heart, my soul. That part feels like its missing now. Like no matter how happy I am (and I am happy again...but you know that)
Posted by Manda Chessor on 9th July 2012
Today would have been our wedding anniversary. Although I am living and loving and in a MUCH better place than I was a year ago, I will always love and miss you. Happy Anniversary love.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 14th June 2012
I will be thinking about you this weekend. You get "Lisa's day" in Heaven with your daddy and my daddy. I hope you know I still, and always will, love and miss you.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 29th May 2012
Thinking about you
Posted by Manda Chessor on 25th April 2012
Some posts on fb have me thinking about us. Ive been looking at our wedding pictures and thinking about how short of a time we got to be remarried.. Sometimes I feel cheated and other times I realize just how lucky I am to have gotten to share 20 years with you and make so many memories that I now cherish.I still miss you and suspect I always will.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 8th April 2012
Happy Easter love. I got my chocolate bunny. A giant Diva one. I have a gorgeous little boy to share Easter with today. I'm all smiles. I love and miss you.
Posted by Lisa Radica on 4th April 2012
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DEAR FRIEND, Love and miss you so much.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 3rd April 2012
Happy birthday love. I miss you much. I sometimes feel alone in my sadness. Blake prefers to keep everything to himself. My family has their own issues. I am disconnected from all of your family..that was my family for 20 years..by their choice. Sometimes I just want to talk to someone that misses you as much as I do. Anyway..happy birthday..I love you and always will.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 20th March 2012
Im at work and its quiet and for some reason you are on my mind. I miss you as always. It's exactly 2 weeks til your birthday, maybe that's why you are invading my thoughts. I can honestly celebrate your life and the memories we created now instead of mourning. I know that is what you want for me. Still, somedays your absence is so strong that it pervades every bit of my life, mind, soul.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 13th March 2012
Today was absolutely gorgeous. I bet you would have been outside washing your truck...and maybe my car lol. Living is easier now. I still miss you but I feel like its ok to live completely again. I love you.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 14th February 2012
Many days have come and gone Since the day you shared with me It was Our Day A Red Letter Day for me We shared much more than just time Laughter -- Conversation -- Silence -- You gave me reason to smile again And be excited about tomorrow Now, when sadness surrounds me That you were gone so soon I try to rejoice That you ever came at all Happy Valentines Day. I will always love and miss you.
Posted by Manda Chessor on 17th January 2012
Im finally REALLY really starting to live again and be happy. Ive tried before. Ive gone through the motions before. I have lived, but not been long term happy. Things are falling into place instead of falling apart. Nobody will ever every take your place, but I have found someone that makes me happy again. You will always live in my heart. I love and miss you still.

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