ForeverMissed

This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Lisa-Fe Roldan who was born on 1971 and passed away on July 24, 2010. We will remember her forever.

Words really can't capture her essence: thoughtful, gentle, sweet, kind, compassionate, generous, fun-loving, adventurous, courageous, curious, wise, hardworking, organized, efficient, speedy...There aren't enough adjectives to describe her.  Just this range of adjectives that leaps to mind reflects her many shades and dimensions.  In everything that she did, she gave of her self--whether it was baking for friends and family, volunteering as a reader to young children, delivering meals to the elderly, sorting baby clothes for New York Cares, finding deals for friends, knitting blankets for loved ones, responding to work emails during dinner...She lived many rich lives in her 39 years.  She has touched many lives around the world, and the cries for her loss are echoing throughout.  As we mourn for her, let us also celebrate her joy in life, her compassion for others, and her love for family and friends.

Even the car accident took Lisa Fa's life from us,  but she will live in our hearts forever.    
Our thoughts and prayers are with Lisa Fe's family.    May God give us strength and rest Lisa Fe's soul in peace. 
 
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In remembrance of, and as a tribute to Lisa Fe, two funds are setup in her name.    Please make donations to any of the following 2 organizations:

 

Memorial Fund 1:
St. Jude Children's Research Hospital
P.O. Box 1000
Department 142
Memphis, TN 38148
Tel: (800) 822-6344

 

Tribute # 26372378 (Please be sure to reference this number.  With each donation, a card will be sent to her parents, reminding them of the continued giving in Lisa Fe's name.)

                                           

Memorial Fund 2:
New York Cares
214 West 29th Street
5th Floor
New York, NY 10001
 
Online dedicated tribute page to Lisa Fe via New York Cares for online donations:
 
Any question, please contact Kam Wong at kammambo@yahoo.com for memorial contributions.
Posted by Belen Wichiencharoen on January 4, 2020
Happy Birthday in Heaven Lisa-Fe. Will never forget you in our prayers and miss you!!! love, ninang Belen
Posted by Andrei Olin on January 3, 2020
Dear Lisa Fe,
Happy Birthday in Heaven.

Miss you,
Andrei, Marina and Arabella
Posted by Cesar & Elsa Roldan on December 26, 2019
Dearest Darling Lisa,

Merry Christmas in Heaven Darling. We love you and miss you so much.

Papa & Mama
Posted by Belen Wichiencharoen on July 25, 2019
Dear Lisa,
Our loving thoughts with you forever. Miss you and include you always in our prayers. God Bless you!!!
Posted by Cesar & Elsa Roldan on July 24, 2019
Our Dearest Darling Lisa,

We are thinking of you everyday Darling. We miss you so much.
Till we meet again Darling.

Forever and ever,
Mama & Papa
Posted by Andrei Olin on July 24, 2019
Dear Lisa-Fe,

miss your kind, caring and generous spirit. Thinking of you and trying to carry your legacy.
Hugs,
Andrei, Marina and Arabella
Posted by Glenn Zachar on July 24, 2019
Lisa, Thinking of you today and always. I love you, Glenn
Posted by Belen Wichiencharoen on January 4, 2019
Desa LIsa,
Happy Birthday Lisa. Our everlasting prayers for you and God Bless!!!
Ninang Belen
Posted by Cesar & Elsa Roldan on January 3, 2019
Our Dearest Darling,
 
Happy Birthday in Heaven. We missed you very much Darling.
Love Forever,
Mama & Papa
Posted by Andrei Olin on January 3, 2019
Dear Lisa-Fe,
Happy Birthday in Heaven.
Miss you,
Andrei, Marina and Arabella
Posted by Glenn Zachar on January 3, 2019
Lisa, Thinking of you today and always. I love you. Glenn
Posted by Andrei Olin on July 25, 2018
Dear Lisa Fe,
can't believe it's been so long since we lost you. We miss you dearly.
Hugs and kisses,
Andrei, Marina and Arabella
Posted by Belen Wichiencharoen on July 25, 2018
Dear Lisa,
Happy anniversary in Heaven Lisa. Forever we will remember you
in our prayers. Love, Ninang Belen
Posted by Cesar & Elsa Roldan on July 24, 2018
Our dearest Lisa,
Oh Darling we miss you. We love you and miss you so very much.
Till we meet again Darling.
Love,
Ma & Pa
Posted by Glenn Zachar on July 24, 2018
Lisa, Thinking of you today, as always. Love you always, Glenn
Posted by Glenn Zachar on January 3, 2018
Lisa, Thinking if you today, and always. I love you. Glenn
Posted by Belen Wichiencharoen on January 3, 2018
Dear Lisa Fe
"Happy Birthday Lisa!! Wish you are happy in Heaven resting in peace
with our Lord as we always remember and praying for you". Ninang Belen
Posted by Andrei Olin on January 3, 2018
Dear Lisa Fe,
Happy Birthday in Heaven.

Andrei, Marina and Arabella
Posted by Cesar & Elsa Roldan on December 25, 2017
Dearest Darling,

Merry Christmas in heaven. We miss you so much. We love you forever and ever. MA and PA
Posted by Varsha Gogate-Bhuyan on July 25, 2017
Miss you so much. We try to carry your loving, caring spirit with
us always. You are always in our hearts.

Varsha
Posted by Glenn Zachar on July 24, 2017
Dearest Lisa, I love you, and miss you always.
Posted by Cesar & Elsa Roldan on July 24, 2017
Our dearest Lisa,

Darling, we can't believe your are gone 7 years now. We miss you so much and love you so much, miss you, Forever in our hearts, Love, Papa & Mama
Posted by Andrei Olin on July 24, 2017
Dear Lisa-Fe,

Can't believe it's been so long since we lost you. Warm memories of you are always fresh on our minds. You are a special person and we dearly miss you.

Andrei, Marina and Arabella
Posted by Belen Wichiencharoen on July 24, 2017
Dear Lisa Fe,
Another year and we will forever miss you. God Bless you and give
you peace as we pray for you.
Posted by Sonia Mitch Husband on January 4, 2017
Happy belated birthday Lisafe. You are always missed and never forgotten.
Posted by Cesar & Elsa Roldan on January 3, 2017
Darling LISA,

Happy Birthday in heaven Darling. We miss you so much.
We love you. Love, PA & MA
Posted by Andrei Olin on January 3, 2017
Happy Birthday in Heaven dear Lisa Fe.
We think of you often and miss you. Often I recall our morning chats before start of a hectic work day. Can't believe you've been gone for so long.
Hugs and kisses,
Andrei, Marina and Arabella
Posted by Glenn Zachar on December 25, 2016
Lisa, Thinking of you on Christmas, and always. I love you, Glenn.
Posted by Sonia & Mitch Husband on August 3, 2016
Six years has gone by so quickly. Miss you, your smile, your wisdom and your company. Until we meet again. Love Sonia, Mitch, Peggy, Christian
Posted by Belen Wichiencharoen on July 25, 2016
Dear Lisa,
Another year's gone by but memories of you will never be forgotten. May you have peace in heaven with our Saviour. Ninang Belen
Posted by Cesar & Elsa Roldan on July 24, 2016
Our Dearest Lisa,

We can't believe it's been 6 yrs. that you are gone. We miss you so much. God keep you & bless you till we meet again Darling. We love you forever. Mama & Papa
Posted by Andrei Olin on July 24, 2016
Dear Lisa Fe, can't believe it's been 6 years since we lost you.
It's still hard to comprehend that you're gone, but your legacy of kindness, generosity and compassion lives on.
Miss you, and so sad that our daughter never got a chance to meet you.
Hugs and kisses,
Andrei, Marina and Arabella
Posted by Glenn Zachar on July 24, 2016
Lisa, I love you, and miss you always, Glenn
Posted by Varsha Gogate-Bhuyan on July 24, 2016
Dear Lisa Fe,
I miss you more then word can describe. It has been six years but know that you have left remarkable, loving memories behind; especially on the girls. I am so thankful for the time you spent with them. I know you are watching over us. Rest in peace my friend.
-Varsha
Posted by Glenn Zachar on February 14, 2016
My Dear Lisa, Thinking of you on Valentine's Day, and every day. I love you always, Glenn
Posted by Cesar & Elsa Roldan on February 14, 2016
Our Dearest Lisa,

Happy Valentine's Day in Heaven Darling. We love you and miss
you so much. Forever, Pa & Ma
Posted by Belen Wichiencharoen on January 8, 2016
Dear Lisa,

Years have passed and the more we remember you on your birthday. Hope you are now resting in peace with our Dear Lord forever. Missed you. Ninang Belen
Posted by Sonia & Mitch Husband on January 4, 2016
Happy Birthday LisaFe in heaven. Another year without you - everyone misses you dearly. Until we all meet again. Sonia
Posted by Glenn Zachar on January 3, 2016
My Dear Lisa, I love you. I am thinking of you and missing you so very much. You are always with me sweetheart. Love always and forever, Glenn
Posted by Andrei Olin on January 3, 2016
Dear Lisa Fe, Happy Birthday in Heaven!
Hugs and kisses,
Andrei, Marina and Arabella
Posted by Cesar & Elsa Roldan on January 3, 2016
Our Dearest Lisa, Happy Birthday in heaven Darling. We miss you so much. You are always in our hearts forever and ever. We love you very ;much. PA and MA
Posted by Glenn Zachar on December 24, 2015
Dearest Lisa, Thinking of you at Chrisrmas, and always. I love you, Glenn
Posted by Glenn Zachar on July 24, 2015
My Dear Lisa, you are with me always. I love you.
Posted by Cesar & Elsa Roldan on July 24, 2015
Dearest Darling Lisa,
We can't believe you are gone for five years now. We missed you so
much. Forever in our hearts Darling. We love you, PA & MA
Posted by Andrei Olin on July 24, 2015
Dear Lisa Fe,
Can't believe it's been 5 years since we lost you. Miss you and have many great memories of our friendship.
Andrei, Marina and Arabella
Posted by Glenn Zachar on January 3, 2015
Lisa, beautiful in every way. I love and miss you so much, Glenn
Posted by Sonia & Mitch Husband on January 3, 2015
Happy Birthday in heaven Lisa Fe! The snowflakes are falling in memory of you. Miss you this holiday season and always. Love Sonia
Posted by 康維 張 on January 3, 2015
I still don't believe that you left us.. you are truly missed!!
Posted by Andrei Olin on January 3, 2015
Happy Birthday in Heaven Lisa Fe. You touched so many lives and we miss you.
Hugs and kisses,
Andrei, Marina and Arabella
Posted by Cesar & Elsa Roldan on January 3, 2015
Our Dearest Lisa,

Happy Birthday in heaven Darling. God be with you always. We love you and miss you so much.

Love,
Pa and Ma
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Posted by Belen Wichiencharoen on January 4, 2020
Happy Birthday in Heaven Lisa-Fe. Will never forget you in our prayers and miss you!!! love, ninang Belen
Posted by Andrei Olin on January 3, 2020
Dear Lisa Fe,
Happy Birthday in Heaven.

Miss you,
Andrei, Marina and Arabella
Posted by Cesar & Elsa Roldan on December 26, 2019
Dearest Darling Lisa,

Merry Christmas in Heaven Darling. We love you and miss you so much.

Papa & Mama
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My one and only love

Shared by Glenn Zachar on November 26, 2010

It did not take much time for me to fall in love with Lisa Fe. Her beauty, physically, and inwardly, and her many wonderful qualities were immediatly apparent. Every thursday evening she would arrive at my apartment. I was always greeted with a big bright smile, a kiss, and bags of food, gifts, knitting supplies and books that always necessitated more than one trip.  When I reflect upon our year together, I realize that I neglected family and friends during that time, so much did I love being just with her. Lisa Fe somehow found time for me, as well as her many friends, and her family.  I came to be very careful about mentioning things that I needed or wanted because when i did, the next time I saw her, there it would be. To Lisa Fe, the happiness of others far superseded her own. We got together with friends of mine, who had recently gotten engaged, people she was meeting for the first time. Lisa Fe had an engagement gift for them. It was the only engagement gift that they received.  We enjoyed a pleasant evening.  Soon after they left I was sent a text message that said " We love Lisa Fe"  Those who were not fortunate enough to have Lisa Fe touch their lives, will think that much of what has been written, has been overstated. The opposite is the case, there are not enough words to do her justice. She is the most beautiful soul that any of us will ever know.  I loved every moment we spent.  We never had a disagreement, or a harsh word. I have lost the love of my life.  I remain in body only: everything else has left me. I think of nothing but her, and pray every day, that we will  be together again. With My one and only love.  Glenn

Lunch with Lisa Fe

Shared by Arun Manicka on September 17, 2010

This photo was taken near a restaurent at

95, Greene st, NJ.  She always had time for everyone. Sad to hear that you are no more.

An energetic girl

Shared by Yan Li on July 31, 2010

Last time Lisa Fe and I were together was at 570 Washington Street about 3 or 4 years ago. We were discussing something about work – a database monitoring tool. Later on I left Merrill but she and I kept contacting through electronic tools. I had never expected the next time we met would be at her funeral. 

The first time I met her was at Stevens Institute of Technology more than 20 years ago. I was a teaching assistant then in charge of a few undergraduate work study students in a computer lab. She was one of them and the only one I remember. She was always full of energy in study, work and exercise.  Sometimes we had to carry heavy computers and printers here and there and she did better than those boys and never complained.
Once I was jogging on campus and met her jogging too. I asked her what other sports she liked and she told me “fencing”. I did not even know the English word “fencing” at that time. She then warmly invited me to a competition. How beautiful she was with the white uniform and the silvery foil – just like a modern “Mu-lan”!
Later on we both left Stevens and got into the real world and might never meet again.
However, the world is small.
A decade later, I was working at Merrill. One day, I was changing in the gym at the World Financial Center and saw a girl with great shape in navy blue top and shorts. She turned and we both yelled with big surprise. That was Lisa Fe – still looked like a teenage.  
Then she impressed me again: full of energy, full of passion, full of heart.

She left us too early.However, life is not about quantity but about quality. She had lived so well with high quality.