It was a wedding that I do not think any of us expected it to be so different but so loving and beautiful. It was full of love. We were all thrilled to be a part of it. Wesley I told him you look like you just left the Knights of The Round Table. The costumes worn by many were great. Wesley walked Lily and handed her over to her Dad. The vows they read made many cry. I don't seem to forget you. You pop up in my thoughts at times of no special rememberance. Maybe I just made up a word. ha
We have created this website as a place for you to share stories and pictures of our mother. This website has a lifetime membership and will be used for her children to remember their mother through your encounters with her. Pictures posted to this website will be used for a slideshow presentation at her life celebration.
LJ's life celebration will be on April 8, 2017 at 3:00 pm at the Ed Lycan Conservatory located at 3400 NW 36th St, Oklahoma City, OK. Festive wear is encouraged.
In lieu of flowers and gifts, we ask that you donate to a trust created for Lily and Wesley Lacina's college fund set up at:
Oklahoma State Bank
PO Box 848
Guthrie, OK 73044
For more information, you can contact Katye Fry or Lisa Brown at Oklahoma State Bank at 405-260-2265
Thank you for all for being a part of LJ's life
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Leave a tributeIt was a wedding that I do not think any of us expected it to be so different but so loving and beautiful. It was full of love. We were all thrilled to be a part of it. Wesley I told him you look like you just left the Knights of The Round Table. The costumes worn by many were great. Wesley walked Lily and handed her over to her Dad. The vows they read made many cry. I don't seem to forget you. You pop up in my thoughts at times of no special rememberance. Maybe I just made up a word. ha
As we got older, we stayed close, we were a part of each other's life events (she was my Maid of Honor) and we both knew we could always count on each other, even from afar. I do wish this past year had been different for her and the kids ... that Steel Magnolias line "laughter through tears" comes to mind - because getting her to do her funny outburst laugh became my goal every time we talked ... (her niece Amy does this!)
I'm still reconciling that I can't go meet up with her in Stillwater - let alone talk to her (well, I still do, truth be told). I have and always will admire how free spirited and fun she was, and yet so very authentic. I see her warmth and charm in her kids and it fills me with so much joy that I sometimes go from sad to happy in the same thought. Her spirit will continue to live within all of us - what a great legacy to perpetuate!
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It was a wedding that I do not think any of us expected it to be so different but so loving and beautiful. It was full of love. We were all thrilled to be a part of it. Wesley I told him you look like you just left the Knights of The Round Table. The costumes worn by many were great. Wesley walked Lily and handed her over to her Dad. The vows they read made many cry. I don't seem to forget you. You pop up in my thoughts at times of no special rememberance. Maybe I just made up a word. ha
Once again Linda I wish you were here with your kids but life had different plans for all.
Linda Jean (L.J.) Blair
L.J. was born to Wesley and Dorine Blair on August 25, 1963, in Ada, Oklahoma. On March 25, 2017, L.J. peacefully left her life on this Earth to reunite with her family, where she was greeted by her parents and sisters, Leslie and Joani.
Following her childhood dream of driving a bookmobile, L.J. worked in municipal libraries and non-profit organizations where she introduced children to exciting worlds found in books. She made books come alive with her great storytelling and fabulous costumes. Her most memorable characters were a cluster of grapes and a green dinosaur. L.J. was also passionate about birds, trees, and flowers; she fulfilled this love through her position in the United States Forestry Service and her Horticulture degree from Oklahoma State University.
One of L.J.’s favorite places to go was Groovy’s where she would dance with her supportive and loving friends. She could never resist songs such as “Brick House” by the Commodores and “Let’s Groove” by Earth Wind & Fire.
L.J. is survived by the loves of her life, her children Lily and Wesley Lacina; nieces Andrya McCormick and husband, Thad; Amy Kellner and husband, Shail; her great nephews Tytan and Tobyn McCormick; and her wonderful friends who brought so much joy to her life.
In honor of L.J., we ask you to read a book to a child to spread her love of a book’s magic or increase the beauty in the world by planting a tree or flowers. The family has requested that in lieu of flowers at her service, memorials be given to the education fund for L.J.’s children (Lily and Wesley Lacina) at Oklahoma State Bank in Guthrie, OK. For more information regarding the education fund, please contact Katye Fry or Lisa Brown at 405-260-2265.
L.J.’s family would like to thank all of her friends and family who visited her in the hospital, sent cards, flowers, or prayed.
Her life celebration will be held on April 8, 2017 at 3:00 p.m. in the Ed Lycan Conservatory located at 3400 N.W. 36th Street, Oklahoma City, OK.Even though her time on Earth has passed, we know she’s still grooving and her contagious laughter is filling the air. Until we meet again…