- 75 years old
- Date of birth: Apr 23, 1940
- Place of birth:
Cleveland, Florida, United States
- Date of passing: Jul 29, 2015
- Place of passing:
Punta Gorda, Florida, United States
|Let the memory of Lois be with us forever|
Lois Jean Bailey, age 75, was born in Cleveland, Ohio and grew up on a farm in Beaver Dams, New York. She moved to Punta Gorda in 1978 with her family. She lost her battle with Lung Cancer on July 29th, 2015.
She worked at McCrory’s until she locked the door for the last time. She retired from Wal-Mart. She loved to read, Bake and do puzzles.
She is preceded in death by her father and mother George and Nina Lytle and Siblings Richard, Robert, Margaret and Elaine. She was predeceased by her husband Thomas R. Bailey.
She is survived by her siblings Donald Lytle and James (Margie) Lytle. And her children Thomas (Deana) Bailey, Cheryl (Edward)Cohen, Debra (Darren) Creamer, Russell Bailey, Cindy Ellis, Scott Bailey and her niece Michelle(Peter) Griffin along with her grandchildren Michelle, Shawn, Erica, Erick, Christina, Amber, Felix, Cory, Krystal, Brandon and Ashley, And many great-grandchildren and nieces and nephews.
A Celebration of Life will be on August 8th starting at 1:00 pm located at 5150 Grovewood circle, Punta Gorda, Fl. 33982. Please bring a dish to pass. In lieu of flowers please make a donation to The American Cancer Society.
Lois may be kindly remembered at icscremationandfunerals.org and on Facebook at facebook.com/icscremationandfunerals
"Well I missed putting a note here for your 77th Birthday but I didn't forget you. I went to Debbie and Darren's house for the weekend. Igo as often as I can to help her heal form losing you. We both miss you so much i can't believe it's 2 years already. Some days are like you left us a day ago. Shelly misses you to. Mojo still looks for you when I come home from being gone as if I took you with me. I wish that was true because I still think about telling you so much after my trips then I remember your gone and I can't. I talk to you every day and night, I know you hear me because I believe in it.Erick's doing ok he doesn't say much but he does talk about you often. We Love and miss you. Debbie and I sent Birthday Balloons up to you. Did you see them?Give Dad a hug and kiss for me, If you see daddy tell him I love and miss him to."
"Good morning mommy. Its your birthday once again and I'm missing you like crazy. Its been 2 years already without being able to celebrate it with you. Cindy and I are going to let some balloons go today for your celebration. I wish I could fly up on one if them and see you. You are 77 today. Give a kiss to dad for me too. I only live 2 hours away from Cindy now so it sure would be great if you were here with us so I could go visit. Its just not the same without you. Cindy comes and visits often. We lost our Pretty Girl almost 2 months ago so I hope she's there with you and and you can take care of her and Ginger and Dee Dee for us. Well my fingers are numb so I will let you go for now. I love you and miss you more than life. Xxxxoooo. Happy 77th Birthday."
I can't believe it's been a year since I last hugged, kissed and told you I LOVE YOU.It has been a fast one, still seems like yesterday you left me.I miss you so much it hurts. I still try to go and tell you things about my day or someone I saw and then remember your not in our room. Today your favoriate movie came out Jason Bourne, I was going to watch it but to tired and emontional so I will go another day.I am going to spread some of your ashes under your tree and then we are going to let go of white balloons to send to you.Mojo still looks for you in our bedroom and when I come home from a trip he thinks I'm bringing you home with me but I'm not. LOVE and MISS you I will see you when I get to heaven till then I HOPE YOU DANCE."
"Our prayers and warm wishes for family. We believe Lois is still watching. We look forward to seeing her again."
"Hi mommy missed you yesterday for my birthday. I finally had my disability hearing and I pray that I will get it the judge was nice and I think I may get it. I can't believe that in 3 days you will have taken your last breath and left us. I miss you so much it hurts to breathe sometimes.We are going to have a memorial for you by spreading some of your ashes under your tree and sending balloons to you in heaven.I know your not hurting anymore I pray you are happy and dancing with dad and grandpa and mary and all the others who went first. Give dad and daddy a hug for me. I LOVE YOU!!"
"Happy Mother's Day momma,
I hope you are dancing and having a great day with Grandpa, dad, daddy, Aunt mary, uncle paul, mary, grandma bailey,and all the others we have lost. I hope you have seen my 1st grandbaby and are holding him or her in your arms. I Love and miss you and dad and all the others tell them I said Hi and Love them.It hasen't been to bad of a day. Thank you for the Gardeinas there was 8 so far on your tree."
Your Birthday passed and sunday is Mother's Day, Thank you for the Gardenias on your tree I have been looking and waiting every day for them to bloom. It gave me 3 one for each of us in time for mother's day and when I went to visit Jeanne at the same rehab center you were in there was only 1 flower on the whole bush so I know your there to. It has been so hard learning to go on w/o you I still think I have to get up and go tell you something while watching tv and then remember your not in your bedroom anymore.I have been helping shelly with peyton since you have been goneshe has been his caregiver so she's been under so much stress and heartbroken she don't know what to do sometimes.I LoVE YOU AND MISS YOU so I can't wait to see you again in heaven.xoxoxoxoxox cindy"
"Happy birthday today mommy. It has been a hard 8 months without you here. I miss you so much. I will drink a diet coke and have a piece of cake for you here. I hope daddy and the other wonderful family members are having a party for you in heaven. I love you very very much."
"Hi momma. Just know I haven't forgotten about you and I know its been a while since I left you a message, but its so hard to come on here without crying I miss you so much. It has been almost 6 months since you went to heaven and not a day goes by that I don't think of you and wish you were still here with us. It is so horrible without you being here and it always will be. I finally get to move to Florida, but you won't be there for me to visit. I talk to you every day but its not the same. I want to hear your voice and I can't anymore. I hope you are happy up in heaven with dad and grandpa and all our other relatives that were taken too soon. I know you aren't in anymore pain. I love you very much. I will talk to you again. xxxxxxxxxxxoooooooooooo"
it has been a month and a half since you went to Heaven. I miss you but I know your ok because you were dancing at the side of my bed so I could see that you were not in any pain any more. I am taking it day by day like you said to. I am taking care of a lady that reminds me of Mary she talks low like her to. I will be doing it for awhile because Micki is having hip surgery in October so I will take care of her until she doesn't want me to. I like helping her like I did you. I LOVE YOU but you know that already. Give dad a hug and kiss for me and tell Mary the kids are ok to. Peyton started daycare full time today and he's potty trained. He asked about you Saturday. Gonna go eat dinner, Talk to you later. xoxoxoxox"
"Hi mommy, this is Debbie. I know its been several weeks since I've seen you and I miss you so terribly. Its really hard to be on here and see your smiling face and know that I cant hold you or talk to you anymore. I miss being able to call you or text you and tell you I don't feel good or just ask you what you did for the day. I don't know how I'm going to live without you even though I know you are in heaven and happy to be your daddy and my daddy and all our relatives that were taken too soon just like you. I really would rather you were here on earth and be with me, holding me and telling me you love me. I will always carry you in my heart and think about you everyday. I love you and miss you so much mommy. Til the next time I come on to see your smiling face, take care and tell everyone in heaven I say hi and love them too. Love Debbie"
"Mommy, Today we had your Celebration of life and it went really good. You had many loved ones here to see you and give their last respects to you. They brought food and drinks. It rained the whole time dont be sad, I Love and miss you. Debbie goes home tomorrow and then I will be alone. Everyone said they felt you in our room, I don't. When are you coming to visit me. scootty said you did him and Debbie to. Michelle and Erica felt you today in here and the bedroom. I took your room knew you wouldn't mind.I have so much to tell you. How much I Love you and miss your voice.Till we meet in heaven."
"I wanted to say thank you Mom for showing me how to make Banana Bread, Gooey Pumpkin pie, Pumpkin pie, Apple pie, Chocolate cake and many more. I know in time the hurt that I am feeling now from your loss will lesson as time goes by but it will never go away totally. I know you are in a better place where you are in no more pain. Give my love to all of our loved ones that are with you. I miss and love you very much."
"Ain't Lois you are loved and missed by many. I will forever cherish the memories I have from when I was younger, brown bread, banana bread, fudge and all of the family gatherings. I wish I could have seen you again, but you will forever be in my heart!!"
"We miss you Grandma! Can't wait to see you again! I know you are celebrating in Heaven with the many others who habe went before! I know you are watching everyone from above! Anslee sure does miss you! We love you!
Love Anslee and Shawn and Jennifer"
"You have left a legacy of love. You will never be forgotten & live on in hearts & minds of the many people you have touched. You are & have been a blessing! I rejoice with the angels as you are embraced by our heavenly father God Almighty"
"Aunt lois, I want to tell you first off, that I miss and love u something terrible. Secondly I want u to know u have an amazing bunch of children and I have never seen such dedication including my mom. You were one of the greatest women I've ever been blessed to have in my life. I love u aunt Lois and I promise I'm going to try and make you proud. Natalie, Cameron, and Peyton love you too and just do me one favor, and watch over all of us! Forever in my heart and forever my favorite!"
I will miss hearing your voice calling me and telling me how much you love me and your smile. We have had a long year but we had each other and I am so thankful to have you as long as I did. I will miss your hugs and unconditional love you had for me. I have so many memories of our life together. You are no longer in any pain and are dancing and singing in heaven with dad and mary and all the other family. I LOVE YOU!!"
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