ForeverMissed

This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Lola Harvell-Wesemann, 87, born on July 10, 1928 and passed away on March 26, 2016. We will remember her forever.

Posted by Phyllis Wren on March 28, 2019
Three years have gone by since your last breath, I can hardly believe how quickly time goes on. I love you Momma, I probably never said it enough when you were alive. I will be eternally grateful to you for being there for me when I was at my lowest. Hugs and kisses, Phyllis
Posted by Phyllis Wren on December 7, 2018
7/10/2018
How could I have forgotten to post a Happy Birthday to you on your special day. Love you Mom and think of you so often...Phyllis
Posted by Judy Hanson on July 10, 2018
You are missed Lola. Sending hugs and love to you on your Birthday.
Posted by Ronald Corey on July 10, 2018
Phyllis you and your family were blessed to have a mother like her she is what motherhood is all about.  God bless
Posted by Phyllis Wren on December 7, 2017
Hello Mom, please give my son a hug and kiss from me and tell him Happy Birthday from his Momma. Love you Mom.
Posted by Phyllis Wren on March 26, 2017
One year ago today you took your last breath on earth. Time seems to be moving so fast. Hard to believe that you are not with the family anymore. Miss you Mom, love you forever.
Posted by Phyllis Wren on September 29, 2016
You were there when I took my first breath and I was there when you took your last. 

I think of you so often. A lovely picture of you is in my bedroom next to Marks....I say good morning to you both every day.  LOVE YOU MOM, Phyllis  9/29/16
Posted by Phyllis Wren on July 25, 2016
Had another dream about you three nights ago. We were at a fair walking around. We were ready to order some food and poof you were not by my side....I found you a little later sitting at a table waiting for me. Love you Momma.
Posted by Phyllis Wren on July 25, 2016
Mom, as you probably well know, your children and spouses met at Lino's to celebrate what would have been your 88th birthday on earth....July10. It was so nice. PS Sorry about the accident earlier that day with the Captiva. I bet you were upset with me...it was only plastic and no one was hurt.
Posted by Phyllis Wren on June 20, 2016
I finally had a dream about you. In my dream you called me on the phone and were chatting away and I finally realized it was you and I said "Momma, I have missed you". Our connection got fuzzy and we lost contact. Call again some time. Love Phyllis
Posted by Ronald Corey on May 22, 2016
Phyllis I am so sorry I was not aware you lost your mom I know how close you were to her. I guess there are no words call me some time.
Posted by Phyllis Wren on May 14, 2016
Mom, Well I got the new license plates for your car that I bought from the rest of my siblings. Today it is officially mine. Ride along with me sometime. Miss you and Love you. Phyllis  5/14/16
Posted by Phyllis Wren on April 18, 2016
I have not dreamed about you yet since your passing although I did have a dream about Dad recently. Miss you Mom.  Hugs and kisses
Posted by Phyllis Wren on April 14, 2016
Mom, I was thinking about the night I stayed at your home before Marks visitation (2007). We had gone to bed and I could not sleep, I got up and walked into your room and said "Mom can I lie down next to you?" Of course you said. I snuggled in close to you and gut wrenching sobs emerged from my body. You held me close and let me cry until the sobs were gone. I remember your tenderness still to this day.  4/14/2016
Posted by Phyllis Wren on April 8, 2016
3/30/2016
Mom, we laid you to rest today next to Bob. You looked beautiful and were decked out in your favorite color: green and you had your jewelry on. Love you Mom now and forever. I trust my poem pleased you. Till we meet again may God hold you in the palm of his hand.  Phyllis
Posted by Phyllis Wren on April 7, 2016
Mom, you were the Rock in our family, always there to help in any way. Love you so much and miss you already...my heart aches.  Phyllis
Posted by Judy Hanson on April 7, 2016
Lola was my best friends Mom. When I first met her, she made me feel welcome in her home. Even though, she had four children, she Always made me feel welcome and special.  She had a Beautiful Heart and the best smile. I loved to hear her laugh. She was a bright spot in my memories. Thank you for being a part of my life. I feel blessed to have known her.
Posted by Kathleen Ellis on April 7, 2016
Phyllis is my oldest and dearest friend since we were 13! I remember Lola in the early 60's! She would always dress up! She was really into fashion with her tight sweaters and scarves around her neck! To your whole family Phyllis, so sorry for your loss. Love to all of you! Xo

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Posted by Phyllis Wren on March 28, 2019
Three years have gone by since your last breath, I can hardly believe how quickly time goes on. I love you Momma, I probably never said it enough when you were alive. I will be eternally grateful to you for being there for me when I was at my lowest. Hugs and kisses, Phyllis
Posted by Phyllis Wren on December 7, 2018
7/10/2018
How could I have forgotten to post a Happy Birthday to you on your special day. Love you Mom and think of you so often...Phyllis
Posted by Judy Hanson on July 10, 2018
You are missed Lola. Sending hugs and love to you on your Birthday.
Recent stories

singing children

Shared by Phyllis Wren on March 25, 2017

Pat was maybe 4 and I was 10, we were singing a song in our home and Mom walked into the room and said to us "If you two were singing for shit, you wouldn't even get a smell".  Pat and I will always remember your words of encouragement.  LOL   Miss you mom and love you forever.

Last day on earth

Shared by Phyllis Wren on September 29, 2016

You were there when I took my first breath and I was there when you took your last.  

I think of you so often.  A lovely picture of you is in my bedroom next to Marks....I say good morning to you both every day.   LOVE YOU MOM, Phyllis   9/29/16

Dream

Shared by Phyllis Wren on May 31, 2016

I had a dream phone call from you Mom the other night.  You were chatting and I realized who was on the other line and I said excitedly "Momma, I miss you".  You started talking again but lots of static and I could not hear what you were saying. Call again Mom any time.  Love you  Phyllis