IN LOVING MEMORY OF DR MRS LOVENAH IKODIYA ONUOMA

So hard to pen down this tribute, so difficult to come to terms with your sudden and shocking departure.
Life is indeed short and very unpredictable. When I ran into you at Niger Foundation Hospital early last year, you asked whether all was well with me, as you had not seen me for a long time. You equally said that you only see me whenever there is an event.
After that conversation, I told myself that I would visit more often, at least to tap from your wealth of knowledge and wisdom. Little did I know that the Almighty God had a different agenda?
Much as I am greatly pained by your sudden exit, I remain grateful to God for the opportunity to have crossed paths with a beautiful soul like you, DR MRS LOVENAH IKODIYA ONUOMA.
You were a kind, loving, understanding, and humble mother. You were so easy to talk to and fun to be with. I can recall vividly you singing and dancing to the lyrics of your favourite songs during the numerous beautiful celebrations in your home.
Your generosity, hospitality was simply out of this world. You would not only welcome friends to your home but would go further to giving them a treaty from your sumptuous meals. I will not forget in a hurry the thoughtful and beautiful gifts you gave me when you came back from one of your vacations. 
I will surely hold dear the words of wisdom, teachings, advice and encouragement you gave me during the little time it pleased God to keep you here with us.
Adieu DR MRS LOVENAH IKODIYA ONUOMA. You will forever be in our heart.
With eternal love and remembrance,

BAR IFEOMA MABU ANIEBONAM

Dear auntie Lovenah,

I am finally able to pull myself together and put down something after all these weeks. I am very grateful to God for having known you...your quiet way of solving problems, your amazing, unbounded generosity to all of us at Uzommiri Study Centre, your care for the Paediatrics Department of Niger Foundation Hospital, following up my little and not-so-little requests for the good of the sick children. I followed your illness with a lot of trust in God, visiting everyday and laughing and cracking jokes at the beginning. I was particularly moved when on entering your hospital room early on the morning of March 19, I saw you distressed because you were trying to reach someone in the Centre to confirm that you were renewing your commitment to God as a Supernumerary member of Opus Dei on that feast of St. Joseph. It was truly moving, and I related this to everyone at home later in the day. Never did I think that this illness would end in death and it has been very difficult to process it all. However, it is consoling to remember that everything works out for the good of those that trust in God...and so God knows best, and we trust Him. I've thought about all the testimonies to the impact you made in the lives of so many and I ask God that my own life in some little way, touch the lives of many, bringing a little piece of heaven to those around me, just like you did.
Rest in peace dear auntie Lovenah and take care of the family and friends you left behind... I'm going to your intercession already, for you-know-what.

I have been struggling with trying to write a tribute for you, Ikoh…my sister, my friend. How do I put into words this pain I feel? It has been an earth shattering shock for us. A great branch has fallen off the family tree. How do we bear the heat from the sun without the shade from your awesome branch? How do we go on without you? Oh death, what have you done? Ikoh, my heart is broken in parts I never knew it could. Nwami oma! Ezi nwannem! Chai! I really don’t know what to say. Words fail me. I will think of you always. I am not ready to let go. Your memory will always be a treasure. Ikoh, nwannem…Kaa wo!

To a beautiful calm soul.
When I heard the news, I screamed… my heart broke for your sons and grandkids, and for our church community.
I know it will be hard for your sons to handle this, you are their pillar, their cheerleader and their mother. You can’t be replaced.
Our church community looked up to you, many emulated you, I loved being near you because you reminded me of a true virtuous woman.
You were genuine, open, accommodating and hospitable. I should know because you always so hospitable to all your children’s friends and entertained us with what you had. We were part of the house.
I spent many Sunday evenings with you and saw what a great grandma you were and the wonderful bond you have with the kids sharing many educational and recreational activities with them.
My heart breaks the most for Ikechukwu’…. I don’t know how he will handle your departure. My ever smiling friend, who is very smart and unperturbed… You were his strongest ally, kept it altogether for him. He isn’t taking your departure well… Please pray for him and watch over him and the whole family. They need you.
You are sorely missed, a beautiful and calm soul. Adieu Auntie. You are in a better place.

Aunty Love, Death dealt a strong blow with this one.... But I know you are finally with OUR Father and the Saints living on.
Growing up you played a huge role in the lives of the young girls back in Enugu. What was Saturday morning Catechism without you, Aunty Dymphna and Aunty Ijeoma (of blessed memories)chasing us "Umu Agbogho" around from Von, Igboeze, to make sure we make it every weekend. Then during the holidays rather than lay around idle, it's Club Os Novos time..(no excuses ladies must be busy)..You always had a way of communicating without verbal communication. One stern look and message passed. I remember how I used to tease Uche, Bukky and Toto Uchay with "I would soon tell Uche's mummy" whenever I see them talking to them girls....Uche would always answer "I'm sure mumsy know say na fine Gee she born..." Heaven really gained a Saint. INTERNATIONAL ROOMIE" as mummy would call you. I'm glad you played a part in my formative years.
It would be weird not seeing you clear out after recollection at Ezindo together with Mrs Nweze but I'm sure you are in a happy place. Keep interceding for your sisters her till we meet to part no more.

Lovie, my International roomie,it is so hard to come to terms that you are dead.I see your ever cheerful face, even in the midst of discomfort; your ever reassuring smiles and words of comfort you readily share.You always see the positive side of things in the encounters I had with you and it is always encouraging.
My dear sister, you passed through hard times taking care of your family with dedication.Now that it looks more Rosie, it's time out for you.
Well, the lives you touched, children and adults you did apostolate with are the numerous fruits you bore for the kingdom.My children (29 years and above) will chat and laugh, about the family Christmas carol competitions at Hill point in those their prime years, pointers of warm and cheerful homes.
My lovely sister,you lived a Good life.To die on a Saturday,Holy Saturday, wearing Our Lady's garment,the Scapular,is quite encouraging.To Our dear mother Holy Mary Our Hope,I say Thank you.You received the last sacrament of the dying.With faith,we know that she has taken you to her son,Jesus Christ. Adieu dear sister Love.

I met Dr. Lovenah Ikodiya Onuoma years back at Iwollo Conference Centre in Enugu State. Her cheerfulness was contagious. Her loving personality was warm and welcoming. She had many stories to tell; stories of music, stories of life and she was a good storyteller. She was a lover of good music both contemporary genres and Greogorian Chants. It was from her I learnt the history of record labels both in Nigeria and outside Nigeria. Our trip from Iwollo to Enugu was soul filling, she played many genres of music. I was lifed up on that trip. When she noticed I had interest in the music she played, she asked me if I wanted them and of course I said yes! She drove straight to a music shop and I bought some of them. This was my first encounter with her.

The second time I met her again was to join her to Iwollo from Enugu, I had to meet her at her residence before we set out to the conference center. It was here that I witnessed the grandma in her, the sitting room had many grandchildren begging for her attention and she managed them all. At a corner of her sitting room had a keyboard, guitar and other musical instruments and a music turntable. Her love for music was practical and endearing. 

Though I met her not more than four times, she had an impact on me with fond memories. I saw a kind and loving person, a lover of God and music. Aunty Lovenah, you may never know this but you inspired me to fall in love with Greogorian Chants.

May your soul rest in peace dear Aunty Lovenah. You will be greatly missed.

Nje nke oma. Na nu udo.

Mummy it has cost me so much to write this because l don't want to believe that you have gone there is one you always tell is l have to be faithful and you always ask me have you call home and do l pray for them all this is always dilet ohafia and thing is don't worry one day my leg the wound we care so now you are in heaven pray for my leg and you always want me to be faithful please pray that we are all faithful
I miss you alot Lantana miss you alo

When I see those closed set of white teeth, with cheeks up and eyes lit I recall you Lovena,,, your cheerfulness in thick and think that draws one to also smile and joke and greet. In fact that lively memory makes me believe that you are still around here with us.Pray for us always
Your faith in God was transparent in the zeal with which you worked in our Club Os Novos with young girls You made your home available to us and your boys then still growing up were so disciplined that they neither appeared in our area of activities nor disturbed us. They would only come to greet and go in to their own side. That was very impressive. You achieved that standard of discipline with boys early because you and your late husband understood the benefits of good family upbringing  I believe you had the opportunity to enjoy the good effect of it,
May God through the mediation of Our Mother Mary Grant you eternal repose in His kingdom
May God console your children, grand children and your entire family members

           TRIBUTE TO A WOMAN WITH A HEART OF GOLD
Lovey, after confusing many of us with your beautiful 'girlish' picture on our platform during your last birthday, you decided to answer the Heavenly call by joining the Choirs of Angels on Holy Saturday. What a day to die!!
You were a lady wity many sweet and admirable qualities. You were very soft spoken, calm and co-ordinated in the midst of difficulties.
Lovey, you were known for your hard work, humility, a resolute spirit and a great optimism always working noiselessly towards achieving success. The cleanliness and order in Niger Foundation Hospital are testimonies of your hard work.
I very much admired your creativity and initiatives - the way you put new life into any project you undertook.
Club 'Os Novos' - for young girls in primary and secondary schools - where they were taught different skills, virtues and doctrinal classes, started in your home at Uduma Street, New Haven before relocating to VON Primary School.
I will not forget how you formed the Dance Troupe that welcomed the immediate late Prelate, Bishop Echevarria when he visited Enugu. You were a great singer and dancer, always natural and simple in everything you did.
Lovey, almost all strutures at Niger Foundation Hospital, including the Oratory, flowers and plants are weeping for you and missing you.
You were a wife, a mother, a sister to your siblings, and a daughter per excellence that will be forever missed.
I will miss your dimpled, captivating smile.
Jee nke oma, nwanyi oma!
May God reward you generously for your examplary work on earth.

Nkechi Nwanne

Fare well Aunty Love
The news of your exit came to me as a big shock at the Easter vigil mass. As i just rushed into Ezindo's gate thanking God in my heart that I was able to participate in the vigil mass, the priest announced that we are offering the mass for the soul of Lovena Onuoma who passed on that afternoon of Holy Saturday. My head went blank. I cannot find word to describe the way i felt throughout the mass.
Aunty Love as i fondly call her, has always been a great support to me whenever my son or any relative is in Niger Foundation. On many occasions she has signed undertaken for us to be released without clearing the hospital bill.
Who will ask the kitchen workers to provide hot water for me at odd times? Who will I complain to about the carelessness of some nurses and the administration of the hospital. You were supposed to help us to make the administration understand that there are some people who are specifically gifted in finding difficult veins and that such people must be available for the patients that need them at any cost. Who will speak on our behalf now that you are gone.
Now that you have gone to heaven remember to tell our Lord something good about my son. To change his genotye and grant permanent healing to his leg ulcer.
Aduie Aunty Love till we meet again in heaven.

Rita Chinelo Onyeka to a Big sister

My Big Sis, Aunty Love,
I've always admired you. I admired you most when you were nursing your husband at Niger Foundation Hospital. Even then you were Graceful & looked great. The last time we exchanged greetings, same charming smiles. Your last birthday picture in Ezindo platform remained your charming, cheerful self. I never knew you were already confined in the hospital. O di egwu.
Well I was not allowed to even catch a glimpse of you in the hospital, having come late....
The little memories of you I have is soothing and comforting...... I thank God for the gift of you and your beautiful life
May your beloved soul continue to rest in peace. Remain the Guardian Angel of your dear family & close associates.
Inspite of my present feeling, I thank God that I have as a Big Sister in you. And I recall "May the most just and most lovable Will of God be done, be fulfilled, be praised and eternally exalted above all things. Amen. Amen."

A BEAUTIFUL SOUL, YOU WILL BE MISSED DEARLY!

My heart is very heavy as I write this tribute, I never envisaged that I would be writing about you in this way when on February 17 this year, you were happily celebrating and rejoicing with us during my daughter's traditional marriage ceremony. There was no indication that you would be leaving us so soon.

You were very loving, caring and generous. The love and compassion you had for everyone around you were inestimable. Your great empathy for the less privileged will continue to resonate with us. You were quite an inspiration to many. Everyone who entered your house had similar experience of your warm reception and generosity. Your never-ceasing warm smile was always welcoming. 

You were an epitome of a Godly woman. Your religious lifestyle led people to God. You lived a life of sacrifice and cared less about wordly treasures and pleasure. You were as selfless as you were determined and left your inspiring mark on many people. Your deeds in faith and love will continually strengthen all who know you.

My heart aches from losing you and knowing that I will not see you again in this lifetime but I know that God called you home for a purpose. I believe you are now in Paradise with our Lord Jesus Christ who took you with HIM on HOLY SATURDAY, March 30th. 2024. As we were agonizing over your departure that day, Heavenly Angels were joyfully welcoming you home. I am hopeful that you are peacefully enjoying the everlasting joy and unending celebration in Heaven. 

ADIEU!

Your sister-inlaw
Assumpta Ekeh

TRIBUTE TO DR. LOVENA ONUOMA.

Lovena of the “A ‘ Love Me Babe!” fame!

"Do you really want to be a saint? Carry out the little duty of each moment: do what you ought and concentrate on what you are doing." (St. Josemaria Escriva, The Way, 815).
That's my summary of your life, Lovena. Your life and death have been a lesson to me that it is indeed possible to do the little ( and if necessary the big ) things of each moment and concentrating on them leaves little room for distractions and in a short time you really do accomplish a lot. That's what I saw you do,Lovena. From laying out the flowers on the Altar in the new chapel of Niger Foundation Hospital, to serious meetings upstairs, to ensuring that NFH facilities are in place, and functioning, to finding out what help you could offer to a friend you have just bumped into and who needs help in the hospital or elsewhere ! You seemed always to be on the look out for what should be done and what is required for things to go well. And you did all this so naturally that it seemed so simple and easy and there was no stress all. You would smile and reassure anybody that all things work unto good . You had the same face for all you came in contact with and with that smile almost permanently plastered on your face. And if anybody was in pain you would be the one struggling with tears with your large eyes but still telling them just to do their best in the situation and be sure things would turn out well. Humility and docility bordered all you said or did even with tears in your eyes, which were a strange combination with the smile on your lips.
You learned to protect life from an early age and taught people through your profession or friendship that always it was beneficial to accept and to do the will of God no matter how difficult you thought they were at the moment. You shared tears as well as laughter in a sincere and natural way that encouraged friendship and confidence. And it was the same for everyone. You had one face for everyone. You were not two-faced.
You had your share of problems and troubles,domestic and otherwise. In fact I think you had more than your fair share; but your steadfast faith made you carry them as if they were the joys of life. And through total abandonment in God's hands you studied, worked, raised the lady and gentlemen we now see, shouldered the care of your mother and siblings some to the end of their lives, lived widowhood as if widowhood was your sister, put everyone under your care and became Mother General even as you hurried to and from Niger Foundation Hospital to ensure your work was done and your colleagues junior and senior got help from you whether you were appreciated or not. Your aim was always to get the job done. On the other hand Your appreciation of kindness from others knew no bounds as you never forgot kindness (large or small) done to you by anybody senior or junior, and you taught your children to do so by your life, always pointing out that God allowed everything!
So being on your feet all your life, smiling through tears, facing domestic responsibilities bravely and carrying on your job with a sense of duty and in a docile manner you had no time to grow old! You always looked young and that God who was allowing everything and who knew how your body had toiled knew when your job was done and whisked you off to your place of eternal rest. We all stared in disbelief and helplessness! But seeing what you have achieved over the years through your docility , simplicity, dint of hard work, abandonment in God and remaining focussed we realised that you flew into sainthood by not wasting time but by carrying out the little duties of each moment that faced you and without fuss. So we thank God for a Life Well Lived. We cherish the sermon that you preached with .your life. We pray for your eternal rest and beg God to use you to continue to teach us how to live and how to die.
Rest in peace our own Lovena until we meet again in the joy of the Lord in heaven.

Prof. Regina Eya

A TRIBUTE TO A WOMAN OF FAITH- MY SISTER IN CHRIST.
DR LOVENAH ONUOMA.

It was quite an unexpected and shocking Post on our Whatsapp forum, that Dr Lovenah passed on.
How,Why,when?
We were earlier informed that Lovenah was on admission and needed rest. We should pray for her and not call or visit her. That I did asking for quick recovery .
Lovenah who celebrated her birthday on the 9 th of March 2024 and passed on ,on 30 th of March 2024.
It can not be true!!!!!
I was confused, shaken and did not accept the chat, until I saw many of our sisters posts dropping in one after the others and tears took over me.
Oh!!!
Lovy Lovy as I called her was a quiet,cheerful, friendly and Spirit -filled sister with her usual smile .We were always communicating and chatting .
When her last birthday with  her beautiful photo was posted on our Forum I immediately sent her my warmest greetings and Prayer.
She immediately replied  to it.
My birthday Message was
"Happy birthday Lovy Lovy.
God bless your new age and grant you many more healthy years ahead.You look Takeaway,young and like a Celebrussy!!!!!"
Her reply-
 " My dearest Prof.
Thank you very much and remain blessed .
God bless you".
That was our last chat.
It beats my imagination that Lovy Lovy who was so happy last November/December 2023 at the occasion of the elevation of her first son Ik to become a SAN would not live to enjoy the fruits of her labour.
No it is heartbreaking!!!!!
Our Consolation is that Lovenah was a devout Christian and believed that death is not an annihilation but a moving of house to a best of Places -Heaven.
May God console and protect  her children, families,sisters in Christ,friends and all those who had the benefits of coming close to Dr Lovenah.
May Lovenah's beautiful and noble soul rest in Perfect Peace in the Bosom of God.

Prof Mabel Akpuaka  .

Mother Lovenah Onuoma was a very devout christian, very cheerful and kind.
She will be forever remembered in Blessed Sacrament Parish, Enugu.
Rest in peace Mommy!

You were one of the many gifts of God to humanity, very patient, a problem solver and each time we met forever smiling like there were no troubles in your life; however knowing we're all human, you must have had; but that trust you had in God overshadowed all. You will be missed dearly, I will miss being around you. The last time I met you, cheerful as usual, little did I know it was a farewell. May God console all left behind, but we are rest assured that you are resting in a better place and watching over us.

Upon reading a Whatsapp massage on Easter Eve that Dr. Lovenah Onuoma has joined the Saints triumphant I was short of words...I only wept as I remembered your smiles, your warm welcome and hospitality towards anyone who crossed your path; the story you told at Mr. Chineme Onuoma's House a day before the conferment ceremony of the rank of Senior Advocate of Nigeria on Mr. Ikechukwu Onuoma; the pictures we took with Ikechukwu Onuoma, SAN at the Supreme Court immediately after the ceremony, etc. 
No one crossed your path without taking notice that you are resilient, warm, cheerful , hospitable as these qualities were palpable.
While you were admitted at Niger Foundation Hospital, I only prayed that you will recover as you are much needed within the family, but God knows better.
I'm only consoled because you only changed your address; you moved to a new house; and you are at a place where you will intercede for us better.

M. C. Onyeka.

A TRIBUTE TO A GREAT FRIEND AND SISTER; A LOVING MOTHER AND HEROINE

It is with a deep sense of loss that the Partners, Associates and Staff of Obra Legal, extend our sincere and deepest condolences to our Managing Partner, Ikechukwu Onuoma, SAN and the entire Onuoma family on the demise of their beloved mother, Dr. (Mrs.) Lovenah Ikodiya Onuoma.

We, at Obra Legal are saddened and struck with heart-wrenching grief by the news of her passing, which came barely three (3) weeks after the celebration of her 72nd birthday at which she exuded so much life, strength and typical joy.

Throughout her life, Dr. (Mrs.) Lovenah Onuoma exemplified the qualities of resilience, kindness, compassion, a deep sense of responsibility and an unflagging fortitude that resonates deeply with the values that we uphold in Obra Legal.

Her hard work and the dedication that she brought to her job is admirable and worthy of emulation. Thanks to her exemplary self-application to her duty as the Facilities Manager of Niger Foundation Hospital, which role she held as a true path to holiness, Niger Foundation Hospital and Diagnostic Centre for Thirty (30) long years has held the unbroken record of the cleanest and most homely hospital in these regions. Thus, in her job she lived out her belief that cleanliness is next to Godliness. Her unwavering support for her nuclear and extended family, the Obra Legal family, the Church and community serves as an enduring testament to her remarkable character as a great friend and sister, a loving mother, and heroine.

As we reflect on her legacy, we are reminded of the profound impact she made on those around her. Her legacy of love, simplicity and generosity will continue to inspire us all.

Though she may no longer walk among us or stop by the office as she occasionally did, her memories will forever be cherished.

During this difficult time, we stand in solidarity with our dear Managing Partner and his family, offering our heartfelt support and sympathy as we pray that the treasured memories of Dr. Lovenah bring comfort and solace to them in the days ahead.

May the memory of Dr. (Mrs.) Lovenah Ikodiya Onuoma, forever live on in our hearts as her beautiful soul continues to enjoy the beatific vision in heaven- Amen!

With deepest sympathy.


IYOM, A. J. OFFIAH, SAN, FCArb.
(Founding Partner, Obra Legal)

My mother was an inspiring soul, always there for all who came to her with their troubles. Her home was open to everyone, and her hospitality made them feel important. She was the most loving, humble, compassionate, understanding, family-orientated woman and one of the most beautiful souls one could ever meet. I am going to miss you so much, mum. To the world, you were one person, but to me, you were the world. You did not have much, but we always felt like we had everything. You did not leave millions in your bank account, but you left a legacy worth much more. You taught me love, patience and endurance. You taught me how to pray and led by example. You praised me whenever I did good and pointed out my mistakes with that gentle voice. You encouraged me to work hard. Mother, you were the truest, dearest, more than a mother to me. I called you a friend and also dad when I lost dad. You stood alone for 8 years after dad passed on, and only God knows the inner strength you had. You were precious, a gift from God, so much beauty, grace, love and patience you possessed. You touched my heart in so many ways. Even on dark days, your strength and smile made me realize I had an angel beside me. I do not know how I will do life without you. I love you hoping to meet you after life to part no more.
Onuoma Chukwudi (Son)

You were beautiful in and out, a generosity unparalleled was your mark, big hearted, peaceful, unassuming. A source of strength and peace. I still can't believe you're gone, well I believe I'm wrong, you're not gone for I know you're still with us and warming us with your ever present smile. I saw how faithfully you lived your vocation to Opus Dei as a supernumerary, and how you readily and joyfully encouraged others to live theirs. Thank you so much for all you do. You were always welcoming, open handed, loving and kind, always looking for ways of serving others. My consolation remains that the good Lord whom you served so single mindedly has already given you the reward prepared for His faithful servants. May He grant you rest eternal in His bosom and grant all who mourn His consolation. Farewell till we meet again.

Dear Mom,

There are so many things I’m thankful for, but you’re the most important one.

You've done so much for our family and will do anything just to make us happy.

I love you and I’m so blessed to call you my mom.

You’re everything anyone could wish for in a mother.

Thank you for stepping up, not only by being a mother but also being a “father.”

As the tough person you are — carrying all that weight on your shoulders — you still smiled through the sacrifices.

Thank you for the good examples.

Thank you for the Christmases, get togethers, the parties, the music, the dance.

Thank you for the counselling and the guidance.

Thank you for the meals.

Thank you for caring for everyone around you.

Thank you for loving me as much as you do..

Nothing compares to you.

Love,
Chibueze Onuoma

Dear Lovenah, you opened me your house and your heart when I stayed in Enugu for one month. I’m truly thankful, you made me feel like home in Nigeria, you’re like my grandmother. I will always remember our breakfasts together and the evenings sitting in the parlor chatting and receiving your family with so much love. I was very impressed by your strength and service to others, specially to your family, and trusting in God no matter what. Now in Heaven, you must be very proud seeing all the beautiful and united family that you have. I have them all in my prayers. Thank you Lovenah!!

You fought a good fight! You kept the faith! Rest on mama till we meet to part no more.

I bid farewell to a generous soul whose kindness left an impression on me. Though our meeting was brief, your hospitality when you welcomed me into your home demonstrated your awesome character. I am grateful to have crossed paths with you even though briefly. Your amazing spirit will be remembered fondly.

……The good work we did is what we will be remembered for….. 
Dr Love fell into this group of mortals. A humble, ever-ready-to help human being.
So unassuming religious and flexible in adaptation.

My worries is to the family and friends she left behind.
But God said he will be mother to the motherless.

Dr was a mother in every ramification and every sense of being a mother.

My your soul rest in peace .Amen!

Dear Aunty Lovena, words truly fail me. I still hold back tears when I remember that I will not see you when I come back to Enugu.
Well, God knows best.
Rest in peace and pray for us. Till we meet in the Father's house

Dear madam, we always called you IK's mum, at our house. Meeting you was a pleasure and a privilege. You had a good home, raised amazing kids and led a fulfilled life.
You were very helpful when my dad was sick. You made sure he got everything he needed while in the hospital. We are grateful.
I pray for you today that your kind soul rests in peace with God.

I cried when I saw the news of your demise on a friend's Whatsapp status. For the times I visited your home while in Enugu, Dr. Lovenah you were always welcoming. Though aged, you always looked out for and accommodated anyone around you, not just your children and you did it with ease. As it is always said, there is never a good time to lose a good person like you, but who are we to say otherwise? Mummy may your gentle soul rest in peace.

Rest on Aunty Love. You will be forever missed!

The sad unexpected news of your departure left me in shock. All that keeps flashing in my head were the cherished moments I spent with you during the SAN Conferment ceremony; the smiles on your face seeing your first son accomplish that peak in his career was captivating and with hopes that you’d dwell in that happiness much longer.

However, I find solace in the believe that “God’s time is the best”.

May your legacy of unwavering love, support, strength and gentle spirit continue to inspire us all and serve as a guiding light through difficult times.

In loving memory of Dr. Lovenah Onuoma, a remarkable woman whose warmth and kindness touched the lives of many.
May your beautiful soul find Eternal rest in the Lord’s bosom. Amen.

My grandma died in March 30th and I heard about it on April 1st. She was my only grandmother and now she’s dead. I have no grandma or grandpa anymore and it is so sad. My grandma acted like my mom after everything that happened. I love her and I miss her so much. The real reason why she died was because her injury got infected. She was the best and I love her with my whole heart. May her soul rest in rest in peace.
From Onuoma Nmasinachi Lourdes (granddaughter)

My grandmother died on March 30th, 2024. She died in Christ and May her soul rest in peace. I miss you so much and I love your grandma.
May the most just and most lovable will of God be done, be fulfilled, be praised and eternally exalted above all things. Amen - St. Josemaria Escriva (the way).
From Ugomsinachi Onuoma (grandson)

It was on the 1st of April that I heard that my grandmother was dead and I thought it was another April fool, which made me not to believe it. The next day, I over heard some people crying and talking about her, but I still had no idea that it was her until I saw the book. I was surprised because she was a very strong woman and I did not expect it to happen. The worst part was that she died before her mother, which isn’t proper. My heart was and still is broken. She was the light of my life, and I am a wilted flower. She died in Christ, and I believe she is in a better place for her. She will take care of us more. May her soul rest in the bosom of the lord and in perfect peace. Amen.
From Carmen Onuoma (granddaughter)

Aunty, as I used to call you, a codinator, a mother to all, an advocate of the less privileged, your death took us by sudden
What can we do, we can't question God. May God grant your soul eternal rest and may Perpetual light shine upon your soul Amen. Rest in peace a woman of valor.

I call you my Enugu Mother. That is what you have been in many ways, for almost two decades of knowing you. Even without blood ties, your home is always my first and last bustop whenever I am in Enugu. Thank you for all your love & care.
We celebrate with the angels of heaven as you go to be with them, and we give thanks to God because you lived a full life.

Rest in peace ma

My heart is broken 
I have no words…

The little time I have known you, your life thought me that human living have the potential to be a good person if he or she chooses to be, because you were one of your kind. One thing I will never forget about you Mama you had a peaceful life. You are gone but you are still with us I will always remember the last day I saw you on your birthday.

Rest in peace Beautiful Great Mother of many, I've never been too close to you but seeing how united your kid's are, which happens to be a result of your nurturing, it was really a great lesson and something I do admire from afar may God Almighty grant your soul an everlasting rest in the kingdom of God...Amen..

Aunty love was like a mother to everyone, her kindness and care towards us will forever remain fresh in our memories. She was very intentional about making sure her kids had a relationship with their cousins which created an unbreakable bond between us, and for this we are grateful as they turned out to be our big brothers. The memories we have of our maternal home (Omuma) will forever hold a special place in our hearts.
You were a Ray of sunshine and would be missed dearly but our consolation is knowing you are resting peacefully at the bosom of the lord

Ivy, Nancy and Jeffrey.

A tree that millions of birds perched on has fallen.
who will welcome me in my father's house when I visit?
Who is going to come out and call me D-Lily when I visit? Maybe that’s when the reality of your passing will set in .
l call you sister because you are more than a brother’s wife to me, you made the loss of my parents a bit more bearable because you were always there for me when I had no one else to turn to.
Your motherly advice always kept me going, your were a mother and grandmother to my family, even my grandchildren can testify to your love and kindness during their short visit in Enugu.
You disliked discrimination and you lived through the meaning of your name as your love knew no bounds. During my trials, you made me understand that one with God is majority.
A lot of the things that made my marriage a successful one today, I learnt from living with you in Enugu after my late brother married you into our family, You took me in and nurtured me into the woman I am today, I will miss you.
Thank you for giving me the very best nephews, I won’t trade them for anything.
Sister Love, you are gone but the legacy you left behind will be remembered forever, may your gentle soul rest in the bossom of the Lord till we meet to part no more, we love you but God loves you most, Goodnight ezigbo mmadu.

Farewell Ezigbo Nne

You are a special woman who was loved and respected by all who knew you.Thank you for the warm reception anytime we come to your home.Thank you for raising a wonderful and amazing person.My condolences to the enitre family.

Dear mama,
I don't remember the first time I met you, the same way I don't remember the first time I met my biological mum.
You were always a mother to us at Hillpoint.
No celebration/ event passed without your sending us food and drinks.

Your name, Lovenah, always struck me as your motto in life and obviously that is the only thing that will continue where you are now.

May God grant us the fortitude to bear this great loss.

Adieu

I felt goosebumps when i heard of your death. I was stunned. I was sad, very sad. I thought we had more time, we had plenty of discussions we didn't get to have.

Now, none of that matters.
I think back on your last words to me and I'll hold them close to my heart.

I want to say thank you for making your house a home for everybody. Your grandchildren will miss you. I don’t know how udumii and ugomsi will process this, but so far they seem to be doing okay. I worry it hasn't sunk in yet and i wouldn't know what to do when it does.
Please let your light warm their little hearts.


Your absence has definitely left a huge hole that no one can fill. Please intercede for your children cause i don't know what they'd do without you.
Please watch over them.

I take consolation that you are finally with Mine.

I miss you and i will always be aware of your absence.

Jee nke oma.

Your death came to me as a shock! I lost balance with uncontrollable tears. All I remember that moment, was your loving smiles of hope. I will never forget my little moment with you. God gives and God takes, Glory be to HIS name.

To have a Godly mother is a blessing to anyone on earth. I will be forever grateful for the unconditional love you gave me when I visited your home in 2014, home filled with so much Love and merriment. My nieces and nephew always look forward to celebrating Christmas with Enugu grandma and all the exciting  activities all planned out for them. 

You’re always glad to be of service to everyone around you, I remembered how you went out of your way to make sure my purpose of visiting Enugu was accomplished in 2015. The normal process should take more than 3weeks but you made it happen in 3 days.

Your love towards the OZOH family will always be remembered.

Lawreta Ozoh
Sister in-law

It was with a broken heart that I received the news of your passing.Aunty you are a rare gem,a woman with a heart of gold,loving,accommodating and prayerful.though we may have lost you but heaven gained an angel back.you will forever be missed

My dear legacy sister in law, did you really die? Nope! You didn’t. Am I going to miss our regular weekly chat and discussions? on humanitarian service projects, daily prayers and family?

Could February 25th, 2024 really be the last to hear from you? Could that be why you shared with me multiple pictures of past events; -picture of the cake from SAN for family Valentine party, another cake for your 72 birthday You also shared with me pictures of your late sister’s beautiful burial ceremony.
The final message you shared with me was a Fr Conor Donnelly daily meditation

https://podcasts.google.com/feed/aHR0cHM6Ly9hbmNob3IuZm0vcy80MTA5YTM2Yy9wb2RjYXN0L3Jzcw==

Below the post you wrote:

“ Hello my husband. Hope everyone is alright.?
Above is a nice daily meditation from Fr conor is very good especially for lent.
Enjoy”
Feb 25,2024 

Did you know somehow that God will be calling? So you hurriedly introduced me to this beautiful daily devotion as your last apostolic work in my life?

But did you really leave? No! you didn’t!. You were a special seed that sprout, grew and became one of the tallest of trees.

Your were endowed with divine wisdom that helped you navigate successfully through the murky, tricky and thorny journey of life unblemished.

Your were a great wife, a great mother and a great sister in-law. More importantly you were a great Christian who loved and served God in spirit and in truth.

Did you really die? Nope you didn’t because your stars are still shining everywhere you had stepped on and have touched. Because I see your trade mark in all your children - especially in humility, purpose and fear of God, you are still here.

You were a gentle soul who became a big blessing to the ONUOMA family. And as the immediate past First Lady of the current ONUOMA dynasty, you have left a big hole.

Your humility and purposeful lifestyle shall remain a model to many of us and as a very good source of wisdom.

Now that you have taken your bow to join the Saints of God, be sure that I will beg God to please make you again my late brother’s wife in next life and you will become again my beloved sister in-law “if there were to be a next mortal life”

You will forever be green in my heart. Rest in peace.

Brother in-law
Kenneth Anyika ONUOMA

May your gentle soul rest in the Bossom of the lord. Amen