ForeverMissed
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Lucy Ramirez - Maffei 79 years old , born on April 23, 1939 and passed away on April 4, 2019. We will remember her forever.
Posted by Pam Maffei on September 16, 2020
Hi Mom, Happy to tell you that today I was able to make your Memorial ¨Lifetime¨. If times get tough or something happens to me this has been taken care of and your memory lives on. Hopefully the kids will contribute on here eventually but they will always have somewhere to go for memories. Miss you so much and love you always and forever RIP
Posted by Pam Maffei on September 16, 2020
Hi Mom,
Today made your Memorial ´Lifetime´. Not really sure who´s
lifetime but I know I don´t have to worry about losing this site for you.
Mom I miss you so much and love you forever and always
RIP Mom
Posted by Pam Maffei on April 27, 2020
Hi Momma, you know I didn't forget your birthday just wasn't up to writing anything. Danny and I spent the day before your birthday together. We both want to do something special for your birthday every year. If it's a BBQ or a visit to the house we really want to do this. This year and the covid 19 shelter in place order made it hard to do anything. I miss you so much Mom. Happy Birthday wish you were here. Love you Always!!
Posted by Donna Jennings on April 23, 2020
Happy heavenly birthday my friend! Miss you Lu!
Posted by Pam Maffei on April 5, 2020
Yesterday marked it had been a year since we lost you. Although I was fully aware of this the pain in my heart and physical pain in my hips made it impossible to do anything but cry. I miss you so much everyday
and will love always. Rest in Peace Mom til we are together again l love you!! Mucho mucho!!
Posted by Donna Jennings on April 4, 2020
It’s hard to believe it’s been a year already lucy! Missing you, have a party with everyone else up there with you! Love you lady! May you forever Rest In Peace!
Posted by Pam Maffei on March 19, 2020
Hi Mom, Today Larry has been gone 2 years and in a couple of weeks it will be year since we lost you. Neither one getting any easier to accept or live with. I love you Mom and miss you "mucho mucho"
Posted by Donna Jennings on November 22, 2019
Love & miss you sweet lady!
Posted by Pam Maffei on November 21, 2019
Hi Mom been marathon watching Christmas movies these last few days. Reminded me about how much you loved to do that. There are so many. I miss you so much and when things happen I still go to the phone to call you. I still have your last message on there. I smile, I cry, I love you too!! mucho mucho!!
Posted by Pam Maffei on October 31, 2019
Hi Mom just wanted to tell you that today more than any other day you've been on my mind. So just wanted to tell you how much I love you and how much I miss you. Just was thinking about the day I came to help you take down your tree. You shared some history on special ornaments and how you kept trying to get give them all to me. I think you knew that you probably wouldn't be here this Christmas with us. When it hit me this reality I went behind the tree and quietly cried. Damnit it hurt so bad.  I love you!!
Posted by Pam Maffei on May 11, 2019
Mom... season finale tonight on Blue Bloods Jamie and Eddie getting hitched after all these years. Good match I think you would agree... Miss you. Don't think I am or was as ready as I thought to say good bye . I never will be and only let go because you were in so much pain. You stayed in pain to be with us cuz that's what you did and who you were. One more hug one more smile one more "mucho mucho" I dream I could have with you. Just thinking out loud and on paper ;)
Posted by Pam Maffei on May 10, 2019
Hi Mom it's almost been 3 weeks since we lost you.. I know you not in pain now and that's all that counts.
Posted by Pam Maffei on April 8, 2019
Morning Mom, I love you and miss you so. You were so good to us and loved us mucho mucho. When we said our goodbye and I said "mucho mucho"our special phrase you smiled and hugged me tighter. You'll be in my heart always. I will remember you when I laugh hard (we were told we laugh the same) and talk to you always. I promised we would be ok and we will. It's just a little hard right now and until things are settled with you I won't be ok. Love you and I'm on it. I Won't drop the ball God Bless you Always
Pam

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Posted by Pam Maffei on September 16, 2020
Hi Mom, Happy to tell you that today I was able to make your Memorial ¨Lifetime¨. If times get tough or something happens to me this has been taken care of and your memory lives on. Hopefully the kids will contribute on here eventually but they will always have somewhere to go for memories. Miss you so much and love you always and forever RIP
Posted by Pam Maffei on September 16, 2020
Hi Mom,
Today made your Memorial ´Lifetime´. Not really sure who´s
lifetime but I know I don´t have to worry about losing this site for you.
Mom I miss you so much and love you forever and always
RIP Mom
Posted by Pam Maffei on April 27, 2020
Hi Momma, you know I didn't forget your birthday just wasn't up to writing anything. Danny and I spent the day before your birthday together. We both want to do something special for your birthday every year. If it's a BBQ or a visit to the house we really want to do this. This year and the covid 19 shelter in place order made it hard to do anything. I miss you so much Mom. Happy Birthday wish you were here. Love you Always!!
her Life

5 Months

It's been 5 months today since you passed. I miss you so much and so many questions still unanswered. I still find myself wanting to just pick up the phone and call you. Feeling lonely and missing you 2 feelings that do not work well together at all.
I can't remember saying that your celebration 0f life went really well.  Praise God and all those who helped make it so special. I love you Mom always always!!!

I'm sorry

Mom, I miss you so much. I still go to call you a lot. Different parts of the day and night I get this overwhelming feeling that I should call or did I forget to call. Its crazy but I think its you. Every day Mom. Hopefully Danny has spoken to Don about having your memorial there. I'm sorry its taking so long we didn't want to disrespect Don by going around him. I'm praying for August there are 3 Saturdays and 3 Sundays to choose from. I kept telling you to write your wishes down. Anyways the last thing I'm sorry for is not finishing the story of you (just below).

Its been hard I love you mucho mucho 

Mom's Start in Life

  My Mom (Lucy) was born 4-23-39 To Jose and Rose Ramirez. There were 17 children but they lost two early on.  Of the 15 remaining she was #12. (if anyone knows different and can elaborate please do). She was named Lucy Ramirez, no middle name. (I'ḿ not sure why most likely Grandma ran out of names after 9 daughters). 

There's a family tree on ancestry that has a good number of entries.  All of the children of Jose and Rose.. theres some help needed for the extended families of those children.     https://www.ancestry.com/family-tree/tree/41180604/family

to be continued......


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Shared by Pam Maffei on May 7, 2019

I love you Mom and miss you Sooo much it hurts..


To Mom: Love Always from your Apples and seedlings

Shared by Pam Maffei on May 10, 2019

                                                                                 Happy Mother's Day Mom 2019

Home is Where Mom is..

She's in Our Hearts for Now.. Always... and Forever 

til We Are Together Again


Always Loved 

                       Never Forgotten

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