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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Lynda Barker(Ross), 47, born on April 3, 1956 and passed away on October 8, 2003. We will remember her forever.

April 3
April 3
Hi Lynda, it's your birthday, you would have been 68, today I was with Ryan, we were in Barrie. I mentioned it was your bday today, he said how Barrie reminds him of you, he misses you too, he really loved you. We were talking about how so much has changed in the last 20 yrs. It's hard to believe its been that long, I miss you so much, we were so close, I wish you were here. Just to hear your voice, or go to the beach together again. Happy Birthday Lynda. xoxo Until we meet again. Love You xoxo
October 9, 2023
October 9, 2023
Crazy it has been 20 years since i have lost my best friend and mom i think about you all the time, you were loved by so many, you had such an impact on so many in the little time you were here, but i can never say thank you enough for everything you have done for me and everyone else. I am trying to make you proud everyday. Till we see each other again i loveand miss you.
October 8, 2023
October 8, 2023
Lynda, I really really miss you, I think about today and think how unfare it was that your not here. I hope you are at peace where ever you are. You were such a thoughtful, kind person, you always helped the less fortunate. Sometimes I sit and wonder if you see Mom and Dad and Barb, and of course Hailey, you will love her, and her fluffy fur. I am so glad we were so close, now I have lots of great memories. so many things remind me of you, songs, the beach we loved, and so many things. One of the greatest gifts to this world is Adam and Alison. I carry you very close to my heart, nothing can break the bond between Sister's, especially one that was as great as you. Love You Forever and Ever and Ever.



April 3, 2023
April 3, 2023
Hi Lynda, happy bday, just thinking what we might have been doing for your birthday. We would always enjoy each others company, we were such kindrid spirits, that will never change. I am remembering the day we went out in my boat, you enjoyed it so much, driving the boat, and feeling the wind in your hair. I love and miss you so much, it is hard some days to live without you, you were the best Sister anyone could ask for, I am so grateful for having the years together we had, lots of great memories, I will see you again, when it is my turn to return to innocence. Love You. xoxoxoxoxoxo
October 8, 2022
October 8, 2022
Another year has passed, you are on my mind daily, I hear John Mellencamp and think of you, I know how much you loved him. I think of how much fun we had at the cottage, especially the night you said you were going to sink the boat, and it happened. Some great times we had up north, and when you had Adam, it was amazing. You would be so proud of him, and Allison is handling life the best she can. You would have 3 Grandchildren now, what a joy it would be for you, you always loved kids. Sometimes I think, why, why were you taken so young, we all really miss you, but we keep you alive in our thoughts, and hearts, I speak about you all the time. Glad we have a lot of good memories together, sometimes I feel you near me. Love You xoxo
October 8, 2022
October 8, 2022
Hey mom, 19 years seems like just yesterday, there is times when i could really use one of our talks, you were not only my mom, but you were my best friend, i could never have had a better mom than you, it is so hard not having you for all the exciting times, your grankids birthday's, Christmas or even Thanksgiving which is fast approaching i can never forget the memories, but sometimes i just wish i could have you instead. I will always carry you in my heart and thoughts. Love you to the moon and back
Love your daughter
Alley
April 4, 2022
April 4, 2022
This year seems a little harder, feels like it was yesterday that you left us. I can't wait to see you again, I have dreams of you all the time. You were the best Sister to me, we have a lot of great memories that keep me going. Love You Forever.xoxo
April 3, 2022
April 3, 2022
Happy birthday mom another birthday with john Lennon and the many many famous people and family to help celebrate with you on your birthday. Love and miss you everyday.

                     love
                     your daughter
                     Alley
October 9, 2021
October 9, 2021
Hey Lynda, sure am missing you, I often sit and wonder how it would be, if I could come and have a cup of tea with you. I wonder what we would be talking about, you were taken way to young. I feel you around me a lot, some days I actually look around. Love and miss you more and more every year. See you on the other side. when my time is right.

Love Joyce Blake
October 8, 2021
October 8, 2021
18 years ago today you gained your wing. I miss you everyday you always were there when i needed you and always had advice to any situation . Love and miss you a ton.
your loving daughter.
love you to the moon and back mom. xoxoxo
April 3, 2021
April 3, 2021
Happy Birthday mom I can't believe it is another year I am not able to celebrate with you, but I know one day I will be able to have a big celebration with you. I love and miss you everyday.
The craziness going on in the world today you would never want to experience it is not the same as when you where here.
Love and miss you mom
Your loving daughter.
December 24, 2020
December 24, 2020
It is Christmas Eve, one of your favorite times of year you use to love Christmas it is totally different than most years it is complete with a lockdown on boxing day. I miss you everyday more and more. I love you Mmm. Merry Christmas.
October 9, 2020
October 9, 2020
I am a little late with leaving a message, so many things have gone on. I can't believe it has been 17 years it feels like just yesterday, well in a sence it was yesterday for your anniversary, but it feels like you were just here with us all. In just a couple of days it is going to be thanksgiving, I just keep imagining the thanksgiving that we use to share all the great memories, I miss you so much. I can't believe that it has been so long I love you mom. We will meet again one day. I love you and miss you everyday.
October 8, 2020
October 8, 2020
It has been 17 yrs, it took this long for the pain of losing you to be able to put a marker down for you. When I see your name on it, everything seems so real, I don't know why, but it does for me. I would give anything to have one more day with you. We made a lot of great memories together, and I guess that is all we have at the end. I guess that life is about making good memories, and to be thankful that those that can still enjoy life, appreciate every minute we have here on earth still. I think of you every single day, their will always be something that reminds me of you, from a song, to a scent, or visiting areas where we spent a lot of time. I have a lot of dreams with you in them, they feel so real sometimes, I really enjoy them. You left us way to soon, you were so young, sometimes I wonder why I was the one left here. I am sure you are watching us all, I feel your presence all the time. You were an amazing Sister, not everyone has the honour of being able to say that, I love you so much, I miss you, but I know we will meet again, in an after life. Thinking of today, it was a beautiful fall day when you passed, and it is today. Love You xoxoxoxox
October 8, 2019
October 8, 2019
Another year goes by, and oh I wish I could talk to you and see you again, maybe one day, we will meet again. You would be so proud of Adam and Alison, Adam is married and doing really well. Alison has had some ups and downs, but like you, she always lands on her feet. I believe she gets her strength from you. I promised you I would always look out for Alison, and I will always. I saw a monarch butterfly yesterday, and thought of you. There are just so many little signs that you show me, you are around, I will always remember all the good times we had growing up and especially at the cottage. I hope their is good music up in heaven, and I am glad that the rest of the family is with you. I love you so much, you were the best Sister a girl could ask for, and for that, I am really grateful for the time we had together. Love Always
Joyce
October 8, 2019
October 8, 2019
Hey mom, wow 16 years have past that you were taken from us. I have never needed you more than i have needed you lately. I know you are watching and know what has gone on i just wish you were here. I miss you. They say that you learn to live with the pain of losing someone. I just wish you were around. I love and miss you. And think of you everyday. Love you mom
April 3, 2019
April 3, 2019
Happy birthday mom man it really sucks it's another of your birthday's and your not here. I really miss you, there has been so many times that i have needed to talk to you and your not here to talk to, you were all way there when i needed you, i thought as the years went by it would get easier but it hasn't i miss you every day. Happy Birthday mom i love and miss you.
December 22, 2018
December 22, 2018
Well it is Christmas again and I miss you more than ever, just making everything nice, just like you always did. We always had special Christmas's it sure is good to see Alison caring the tradition on, it makes her feel closer to you, just like it does me. Until we meet again.
Love you Lynda.
xoxoxo
December 22, 2018
December 22, 2018
Merry Christmas mom. Christmas sure is not the same with out you around
October 8, 2018
October 8, 2018
Hi Lynda, the years keep going by, but it does'nt get any easier, I miss you so much, if only I could see you one more time. I am just so thankful we were always so close, you were my best friend. I feel you around me sometimes, especially when I least expect it. You will always be in my heart, I hope you are doing everything you ever wanted to do in heaven. I know you are enjoying your journey. Till we meet again, I love you. xoxoxoxo
October 8, 2018
October 8, 2018
Happy Thanksgiving mom man 15 years have gone by and still miss you like crazy. Making one of your favorite candied yams. Miss all the craziness of having Thanksgiving with you. All the funny things that went on. Like the one year were barb was dancing and singing with the Turkey that is what i mean with all the craziness. Miss and love you so much
April 3, 2018
April 3, 2018
Another year, I was thinking today, you would be 62, and I bet you would be going to Rama to see a band, and do a little gambling on the slots. I know you loved it their. Remember the time we went and you wanted a stone, so we took one, LoL. we always did random, fun things. I miss you so much sometimes it hurts. I sure am looking forward to see you again, I know you will be one of my greeters. I love you forever, you were my best friend. xoxoxo Happy Birthday!!!
October 9, 2017
October 9, 2017
Hey Lynda, 14yrs. wow, it is hard to believe it has been that long. I miss you every single day, sometimes when I am feeling down, a John cougar, or Metallica, or so many songs we loved, Hey Alice Cooper, LoL You were taken from us way to young even though I know you are enjoying where you are, we down here on earth miss you, cant wait to see you again, I have dreams of you almost every week, it feels so real, until I wake up. The holdiays are the worst, we used to have such good times toghether, I guess now the kids are making there traditions, and memories for their kids. Love you forever. xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
October 8, 2017
October 8, 2017
14 years have passed and it feels like just yesterday you we're taken from us so suddenly. I miss you every day. sometimes I wish you we're still here with us and to celebrate all the holiday's with as they are not the same. I love you and miss you xoxo
April 3, 2017
April 3, 2017
Happy Birthday Lynda, I had a dream last night with you Barb, and Mom in it, of course it was "CRAZY' I really miss you so much, words can't express. I feel you playing with my hair, I feel you around me all the time, sometimes you are really loud, LoL. trying to get my attention. We were all so close, there is no way we would'nt be still. Can't wait to see you on the other side, it truly is amazing is'nt it. xoxoxo Love Joyce
April 3, 2017
April 3, 2017
Happy birthday mom another birthday without you here to celebrate with us all. We all miss you like crazy love and miss you hope you are having a blast today. Love you
October 8, 2016
October 8, 2016
It never really gets any easier, the years go by, and I always think of what we would be doing in the summer, going to the beach, and oh the memories of the cottage, and winter, skating, and especially this time of the year with Thanksgiving, we were always together, usually the whole family, it just is'nt the same without you here with us, I really wish you were here. (Pink Floyd wish you were here), I think of how much you would enjoy your Grandchildren, and to see how all the kids have grown up to be so awesome. I guess we will just have to wait to see you again on the other side. I sometimes think I feel you near me, you probably are, it gives me a nice warm feeling. Always loved you so much, a part of you is always with me. Love You Lynda. xoxoxoxo
October 8, 2016
October 8, 2016
Well it is that time of year again 13 years has passed and still miss you like crazy. It just is not the same with out you around all the craziness of thanksgiving alex's birthday and all the family gathering around your table and just enjoying the holiday season with you and all the funny and plain out crazy stories of grandma. The major sadness of you not being here is to see how big and fast you're grandkids are getting you would so be in love with Draken just wish him and Linda both had a chance to meet you. I will close by saying Happy thanksgiving mom love you to the moon and back. Love you daughter Al
April 3, 2016
April 3, 2016
Happy Birthday Lynda, I often wonder what our lives would be like if you were still here, I wish you were. From the nde I had, you are in a wonderful place, enjoy your day...love you forever. xoxoxo
April 3, 2016
April 3, 2016
I look outside and it is snowing, brings me back to 1975 when you were in labour with Adam, we lived together in Weston, and it was the worst snow storm of the year. The ambulance finally got through, and I ran out with you in my pj's. LoL I sure do miss you, sometimes it feels like it is'nt really real. We grew up together, we shared a bedroom all of our childhood, I remember all the fun times we had at the cottage, all the times you watched Ryan for me. You were the best Sister anyone could ever have, always trying to help others, so unselfish, so beautiful.
April 3, 2016
April 3, 2016
Happy birthday mom hope you are enjoying your day with all those beautiful people you are with you're mom and dad and of course John Lennon. I hope you are enjoying a big birthday cake and blowing out the candles love and miss you so much
October 8, 2015
October 8, 2015
I was just thinking the other day how we would have been all together this wknd, we had so many laughs together. I miss you more some days than anything, what I would give to have you back. You were taken way to young, one thing though, is the awesome memories we made together for the years we did spend together. Remembering the wknd the turkey took a trip down the sidewalk, we sure did like to laugh. Or the time we were all waiting for the turkey to cook at Mom's and the look on our faces when we found out that the oven had not been turned on, I think you had a can of spaghetti that night...all these memories still hold a place in my heart, just like you do, forever. I sure miss you, hope you are looking down at us and laughing, will see you again in the next phase of life...love you Lynda xoxoxoxxo
October 8, 2015
October 8, 2015
hey mom you have been gone 12 years time has flown by i still miss you and love you more than anything it is still hard not having you around to see your smiling face and you to see all your grand children grow it seems like every year that passes it almost seems like a dream that i want to wake up from but i am not waking up from but it is not working and i so could use your advice on somethings but i can't love you so much but you live in my heart and in my mind
August 21, 2015
August 21, 2015
hey mom guess what I started a tattoo yea i know one that is afraid of needles but it is in memory of you and it is not finished yet but i figured you are alway in my thoughts and in my heart so the only way to share you with the world is to get a tattoo that not only symbolizes you but your grandchildren as well. I just wish that i could share you with the world in person. everyone misses you and you you were there for everyone you were their rock and i know that you would be proud of me
April 3, 2015
April 3, 2015
I lay this flower for you as a token of a lovely mother,sister,grandmother and friend Happy Birthday mom I wish you were here to celebrate it with but you are probably having a great celebration with John Lennon, your mom, dad and likely even our old neighbor Lilly from Port McNichol I miss you so much I love you to the moon and back always in my heart always remembered not forgotten
April 3, 2015
April 3, 2015
Happy Birthday Lynda, I still can't believe you are not with us, I wonder some days what it would have been like to still have you in my life. You were always so friendly with people, and happy, you were hardly ever in a bad mood. You enjoyed life, I remember the days we had, especially at Balm Beach, as a child with you, and as an Adult, great memories. I keep you close to me, in my heart. Lynda I love you so much and miss you terribly, you will never be forgotten. Love Joyce xoxoxo
October 8, 2014
October 8, 2014
Hi Lynda, God I miss you so much some times, I often wonder where you are and what you are doing, I know you send me signs, sometimes I don't catch them, but yesterday I did, the butterfly was so pretty. Someday we will meet again, and then realize how close you always have been, you are in my heart, I love you. xoxoxoxox
October 8, 2014
October 8, 2014
Well mom it has been 11 long years i miss you every day the kids are growing up so fast you would just love them to pieces there is no words to express how much you left your mark and love on everyone Love you to the moon and beyond
April 3, 2014
April 3, 2014
Happy Birthday Lynda, I still miss you terribly, we were best friends, made some really great memories together. We shared the same bedroom growing up, it has been 10yrs, and I stil shake my head some days, and think, you were taken way to young. I know how spiritual you are, and I am sure you are watching over us all. That is because you always cared so much about people. You are always in my thoughts, it can just take a smell, a song, or a memory, I love you, xoxoxo

Your Sister, and best friend. 
Joyce
April 3, 2014
April 3, 2014
Happy birthday mom another year with out being able to celebrate with you and to see your smile I think about you all the time and miss you so much. Love you and at least you are able to celebrate your special day with grandma and grandpa and all our loved ones. Love and miss you tons
October 8, 2013
October 8, 2013
today marks 10 years that you have been gone and it is still as hard as what it was 10 years ago i miss and love you so much you are never forgotten we all miss you so much
April 3, 2013
April 3, 2013
Happy birthday mom you are missed every day. I know that you are in a better place now love and miss you
April 3, 2013
April 3, 2013
Happy Birthday Lynda, I miss you every day, I am so grateful that we were so close and had such great memories. I love you so much, I know you are where you can do and be anything you want. I got a glimpse a few years ago, it is really quite an amazing place isn't it...You are in my thoughts every day...will be with you again...xoxoxoxo
October 9, 2012
October 9, 2012
Every year you are missed as the years go by it has been a very long 9 years that you were taken from us
April 16, 2012
April 16, 2012
I love and miss you every day this is one way I thought I could help in keeping your memory alive
April 16, 2012
April 16, 2012
I don't think a day goes by, that I don't think about my sisters Lynda and Barb,,I miss them so much. They are in my dreams alot, they are always near me, I just have to call them, and they are there..I am grateful for all the wonderful memories we made together, all the fun we had..

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April 3
April 3
Hi Lynda, it's your birthday, you would have been 68, today I was with Ryan, we were in Barrie. I mentioned it was your bday today, he said how Barrie reminds him of you, he misses you too, he really loved you. We were talking about how so much has changed in the last 20 yrs. It's hard to believe its been that long, I miss you so much, we were so close, I wish you were here. Just to hear your voice, or go to the beach together again. Happy Birthday Lynda. xoxo Until we meet again. Love You xoxo
October 9, 2023
October 9, 2023
Crazy it has been 20 years since i have lost my best friend and mom i think about you all the time, you were loved by so many, you had such an impact on so many in the little time you were here, but i can never say thank you enough for everything you have done for me and everyone else. I am trying to make you proud everyday. Till we see each other again i loveand miss you.
October 8, 2023
October 8, 2023
Lynda, I really really miss you, I think about today and think how unfare it was that your not here. I hope you are at peace where ever you are. You were such a thoughtful, kind person, you always helped the less fortunate. Sometimes I sit and wonder if you see Mom and Dad and Barb, and of course Hailey, you will love her, and her fluffy fur. I am so glad we were so close, now I have lots of great memories. so many things remind me of you, songs, the beach we loved, and so many things. One of the greatest gifts to this world is Adam and Alison. I carry you very close to my heart, nothing can break the bond between Sister's, especially one that was as great as you. Love You Forever and Ever and Ever.



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Hi Lynda

October 8, 2013

I think of you every day, I miss you as much. I had a dream about you last night, it is so nice to see you, they feel so real, maybe they are!!! I am so grateful that I have such great memories of our life together, from bringing up our kids together, especially Adam, and Ryan, what a pair. hahah. I miss my beach partner, we had such fun at Balm Beach, and the cottage. You were so young to leave us, I hope you are enjoying your time in heaven. Love you forever.

Joyce
xoxox 

April 16, 2012

My mom was the type of woman that welcomed everyone and anyone to the house and i remember everyone of my friends use to call her mom and she would give you the shirt off her back. she would make sure that if you came over you felt as if you were in your own home. She would always make sure to say make yourself at home.

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