Kalabro, You are remembered today 5/8/2015, and will be always, as you join our beloved mother, fondly called sisi in the bossom of the Lord. One year is like yesterday. Miss you my beloved brother, Tamuno dein.

WILL I EVER STOP MISSING YOU?

WILLING THE SPACE YOU LEFT EVER BE FILLED?

WILL YOUR SOFT, SWEET TALK AND SMILE EVER BE FILLED?

HOW ABOUT YOUR CARING AND LOVING FOR US?

I STILL MISS YOU !

CHRIST WHO SEES AND PERFECT EVERY SITUATION WILL DEFINITELY FILLED US WITH HIS CARE AND LOVE.

WE ARE HOLDING ON TILL THE DAY OF OUR LORD JESUS CHRIST.

MISS YOU MOM. LOVE YOU MOM.

YOU'VE COME ALONG WAY WITH EVERYONE AROUND YOU WITH PEACE AND LOVE.

YOU'VE COMPLETED YOUR JOB ON EARTH ACCORDING TO THE WILL OF GOD.

LET CHRIST BE GLORIFIED AS YOU ARE PUT TO YOUR FINAL RESTING PLACE,

TO GOD BE THE GLORY.                         SISI, REST-IN -PEACE.

Boma's trip to Nigeria in November 2009, after hearing the news of SISI's stroke.

ON THE 5 OF JUNE 2010 I WENT TO BUGUMA FOR A FRIEND'S MOTHER'S BURIAL, AFTER WE DROPED THE CORPES IN THEIR COMPOUND I RUSHED HOME TO TAKE SOME REST BEFORE I GET BACK TO THE DAY VIGIL, I MEET MY GRANDMUM AT HOME AS USUAL THE EVER CAREING GRANDMUM SHE QUARRELED WHY DID YOU NOT TELL ME YOU WERE COMEING TO ENABLE ME PREPARE SOMETHING FOR U TO EAT, I REPLIED I AM FILLED AND I WILL HELP MY SELF IF AM HUNGRY STILL ANGRY SHE SAID THERE IS LITTLE FOOD AT HOME WHEN U FINISH RESTING CALL ME. I LAYED DOWN TO REST BEARLY 10 TO 15 MINS. AFTER I HEARD MY UNCLE SCREAMED IB, IB COME OH YOUR MAMA DEY FALL OH, I RUSHED OUT WITH SLEEP IN MY EYES AND SAW HER SITING ON THE PAVEMENT AND PANTING AT THE SAME TIME WHAT HAPPENED I ASKED MY UNCLE REPLIED UR MAMA SAY SHE WAN GO FETCH WATER I TURNED TO HER AND SAID MADAM WHY YOU DEY DO LIKE THIS WHICH KIND WAHALA YOU WAN PUT US SO? NA WHO SEND YOU WORK? SHE REPLIED IN OUR DIALECT ABIARI IKE BIRI WARI MINJI DU EPRI, ESAKI TE BEEEH(I WANT TO FETCH WATER FOR YOU TO TAKE UR BIRTH WHEN YOU WAKE UP.) I REPLIED WHO TELL YOU SAY I GO BAFF WEN I WAKE UP? AND IF I WAKE UP I NO GO FIT FETCH WATER FOR MYSELF? SHE LAUGHED AND SAID SHE THOUGHT I I CAN NO LONGER FETCH WATER FROM THE WELL BECAUSE IT'S BEING LONG I DID THAT. I WAS ANGRY AND BUSY QUARELLING HER AND SHE WAS LAUGHING AT ME, WHAT A LOVEING GRANDMUM. FINE WOMAN AS I NORMLY CALL YOU THEY SAY MEN DON'T CRY BUT THE TRUTH IS I CRIED THE DAY I HEARD OF YOUR DEATH. I LOVE AND MISS YOU.

        WITH LOVE YOUR GRANDSON: DAPPER IBIENE BENJAMIN .P.

  THE ENDLESS LOVE OF MY MOTHER TO HER CHILDREN AND OTHERS.

                                                                                         MOM IS SPELLED L .O. V. E.!

CLEAN IS LOVE, SISI IS LOVE, FIAFIA IS LOVE, CLEAN BRIGHT IS LOVE,.

MOM IS LOVE, MAMA IS LOVE, MOTHER IS LOVE. MAY SUCH LOVE CONTINUE TO BURN IN US AND SPREAD OUT TO OTHERS.

SHE IS THERE FOR US, WHEN WE ARE HURT .

SHE IS ON HER KNEE PRAYING FOR US AT ALL TIMES.

EVEN WHEN WE REFUSED TO SEE THINGS HER WAY, SHE CARES FOR US.

SHE TAUGHT ME THE BEAUTY OF LIFE, AND THE MEANING OF CONTENTMENT

GENTLE BUT STRONG IN TEACHING AND DIRECTING GOOD MORAL TO WHOEVER THAT COMES HER WAY.

FILLED WITH SUPER NATURAL WISDOM AND KNOWLEDGE .

A STRONG FAMILY BUILDER, AND LOVER OF PEACE.

SISI IS THERE BEFORE YOU KNOW IT, TO EITHER CORRECT YOU OR TO LEND A HAND

BEFORE YOU ASK, AND GIVE YOU LOVE JUST WHEN YOU NEED IT MOST.

WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOUR SOFT WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT AND

WISDOM, AMAZING SMILE, YOUR SPIRIT OF CONTENTMENT, SHARING AND GIVING.

OF ALL, YOUR GENUINE OPEN MIND FOR ALL.

ACCORDING TO SISI 'S WORDS OF WISDOM AND ENCOURAGEMENT,   "  BE PRAYERFUL AT ALL TIME, BE SUPPORTIVE  TO ONE ANOTHER,  SHARE WITH ONE ANOTHER, BE CONTENT WITH WHAT YOU HAVE, BE MINDFUL OF WHAT YOU SAY, RESPECT AND LOVE ONE ANOTHER, AND LET GOD REIGN IN ALL THAT YOU ARE DOING."

YOUR WORDS IS THE SOURCE OF MY STRENGTH, THANKS FOR BEING MY MOTHER.

NINGI DEIN NA MU.  WILL ALWAYS MISS YOU.

TO THIS I WILL END BY SAYING, "LOVE IS THE ONLY HOUSE BIG ENOUGH FOR ALL THE PAINS IN THE WORLD."