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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Madison Sweitzer, 29 years old, born on June 15, 1986, and passed away on June 22, 2015. We will remember her forever.
November 16, 2020
November 16, 2020
I got to be a lifeguard with Maddie for a few years and she was always smiling and easily had the most beautiful lifeguard body of any of us! We had some great times at the pool and she was always so kind & fun!
June 23, 2019
June 23, 2019
4 years Maddie has been gone and she’s very missed! I’m not sure if I told you this before Starr but Maddie was driving up to SLC with us one time and I loved that she could just whip out a Beanie! I had tried to make them but I never could do it right. She taught me on that drive how to make Beanies! ❤️ So I think of her every time I make one! She was such a sweet sweet girl and very much a free spirit . Ashlee and I use to go in to Zumies to visit her when she’d be working and her smile was always greeted us! We have quite a few pictures of her that I’d like to give you sometime. Maybe next time Ashlee comes home you could come over and we can go through the box of pictures and give them to you. She was such a fun person that had so much love and light to share. Such a tragedy that she left us all so early. Beautiful beautiful Madison was a gift. ❤️
One of my favorite memories is of her and Ashlee just dancing by themselves being happy teenagers and silly girls with not a care in the world. ❤️
June 23, 2019
June 23, 2019
She was a nice and loving person and she was one of my favorite aunts and we all miss her
June 22, 2017
June 22, 2017
Thinking of your beautiful smile and sweet spirit! Missing you. Love you Maddie!
June 22, 2016
June 22, 2016
Hey Madi! You've been on my mind. I still feel you around. I miss you. I love seeing your beautiful kids growing and thriving. They are doing so well. Matt is an amazing father, and your sis is the best aunt! I hope you see all this from where you are. Lots of love to you friend.
June 16, 2016
June 16, 2016
Happy 30th sweet Maddie! I think about you each and every day. I miss your genuine friendship. Love and miss you!
June 16, 2016
June 16, 2016
Happy birthday Maddie! I love and miss you more then words can say, and wish you were here everyday. Your kids are growing fast and remind me so much of you. You were the most amazing mom sister daughter and friend. Thank you for teaching me and always helping me along the way. I try everyday to remember the sound of your voice and hear the advice you give me. Miss you and love you always and forever.
June 15, 2016
June 15, 2016
Happy Birthday Maddie. We miss you and all the things you did for Matt and my great grand kids
August 22, 2015
August 22, 2015
2 months ago today I lost my best friend and sister. Not a day goes by that I don't wish you were here or miss you like crazy! You were the best friend and sister I could ever ask for. I love and miss you so much!
July 23, 2015
July 23, 2015
In high school I looked up to Madison. She was so beautiful yet so down to earth. She never acted like she was better than anyone and greeted everyone with a smile. Her family is very lucky to have her watching over them.
July 6, 2015
July 6, 2015
You were such a great daughter in law, great wife and mother to my grandkids. I felt so blessed at every thing you had accomplished. The amazing way you brought our family together was wonderful. Not all of my family was into participating in activities and you had a way of getting them involved. Easter egg hunts decorating people as Christmas trees :). My brother, now that was amazing. Thank you for being so genuine and we will all miss you more than you will ever know. I love you so much Madison
June 29, 2015
June 29, 2015
I remember always sitting on Madison's bed and looking up to her so much. I specifically remember her words of wisdom when it came to being a good friend. She used to tell Starr and I that growing up is hard and we will drift apart but we need to always remember our friendship and always have each others backs where ever life takes us. We looked up to her and tried to copy her every move. She was always so effortlessly cool and always made us feel loved. She will be deeply missed!
June 28, 2015
June 28, 2015
You wore an amazing person that words couldn't Describe I will miss you so much!
June 27, 2015
June 27, 2015
Madison always had the biggest smile on her face! She was kind to every person she met! I wasn't close to her but we hung out with the same people. I remember always being so envious of her amazing spirit! Her smile and bubbly personality was so contagious! Rest in peace Madison I know you are no longer in pain and smiling down on all your loved ones! Thank you for sharing your amazing spirit with us all!
June 27, 2015
June 27, 2015
She was the first person to be kind to me when I moved here in middle school. She welcomed me with open arms and made me feel like I was going to be ok. Her smile is contagious and has always been easy to love. I love you Madison!
June 26, 2015
June 26, 2015
Madison,

I am amazed I was blessed enough to have a friend like you in my life. Your desire to give and to serve others is beyond that of anyone I know. I hope and aspire to be the kind of friend to others as you have been to me. I miss you. I hope you can comprehend how much of a loss it is for so many people not having you in our lives. Love you Maddie.
June 26, 2015
June 26, 2015
I met Madison through our neighborhood HOA when we moved into the neighborhood. She reached out to me with her warm personality. Her smile and light was amazing and she had the ability to make you feel good about life when you saw her. I will miss her, so very much. Every day i would walk my daughter to school and would see her getting Krue out the door. Last October she hosted a neighborhood carnival for the neighborhood kids and it was amazing. We talked about doing it every year.... She will be sorely missed by so so many people. Including me and my family.

Matt, Krue and Axzelle,
We are so sorry for your profound loss. I know that your will feel Madison's love for eternity because she had nothing but love for the three of you. She will always be there for you.....
June 26, 2015
June 26, 2015
The image of Maddie I always have and always will hold in my head has three components. First, the smiling slight teenage girl whose house I would give my little sister rides to and from. Second, the beaming, beautiful young woman waddling around pregnant with Krue. And third, the thoughtful, charismatic, and loved mom who went out of her way to keep size 15 shoes in her store for me. I know that's a silly thing to think about, size 15 shoes. But it wasn't the shoes that meant so much. It was the fact that in the sea of people who loved her (and who she loved) she thought about me. And the remarkable thing about her is she thought about everyone to the same degree. I think she knew some detail about everyone with whom she associated that could make them feel loved. And that is something that doesn't exist very often in the world.
June 26, 2015
June 26, 2015
In high school I was taking a Japanese class and when the Japanese exchange students would come to visit they would go to classes with us. It didn't take long before the entire group of Japanese kids were talking about Maddie. We passed Maddie in the hall and her and I said hello to each other and the Japanese kids went nuts! They were like "You know her?!" They just loved Maddie. They thought she looked like Christina Aguilera and Maddie was so sweet to them and took pictures with all of them.
June 26, 2015
June 26, 2015
I didn't know Madi very well but what I did know about her I loved. I loved her smile, I loved how friendly she was, I loved how inviting she was. I loved the kind of mom she was. It was easy to see that she loved her kids and her family. I loved how truly nice and sweet she was. I loved how when she was around the atmosphere just seemed to be happier and things were more fun. I was looking forward to our girls playing and building a friendship. Not only for them but for us moms too. Our girls can and will still be friends though. Madi was just one of those people that you meet and you are truly Wowed by them, and you want them to be your friend, and you walk away feeling like you’ve know them your whole life. She will be greatly missed and never forgotten. I just wish that I did get to know you better so that I had more stories and memories that I could share with your family. I read this quote today and it reminds me of you Madi. “While an original is always hard to find, he is easy to recognize.” –John L. Mason. You were truly an original, and those of us that were lucky to cross paths with you have been blessed and are better for the imprint that you have left in our hearts.
June 26, 2015
June 26, 2015
I will never forget Maddie and how accepting and loving she was. Whenever I saw her she made sure to talk to me and make me feel so good. I remember I was going through a rough time and my best friend Starr told me Maddie had been through a similar situation and offered to talk to me about it. I will never forget how kind that was. I really wish I would have taken her up on the offer because I know I would have treasured words from her. She was so good to me and especially my sister kylee. A memory I have of Madison was at her bridal shower. I will never forget how personable she was that day. After each gift she unwrapped she would go hug each person and really thank them. It probably was the longest present opening I have been to :) but those glimpses of love and sincere appreciation really stuck with me and make me want to be just like her. Maddie you will be missed but never forgotten. Dawn, Starr, jasmine, and Madison are true examples of mother and sister love. They truly are best friends and I look up to them all and love them.
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
I met Maddie through my lil sis Ashlee! Seeing Maddie on any given day would make that particular day so much better! With every hug, smile, laugh or joke she left a piece of herself imprinted on my soul. She was a giver! The type of person that naturally brought love and light wherever she was! I felt comfort when I was around Maddie! I felt I didn't need to take things so serious! She is literally one of the sweetest most bright souls I've ever met! Glad we got to share a crazy summer together! I'll cherish those memories! Even just thinking of her brings comfort! Her light will forever shine and I believe it will seek us In our darkest hours to help us find our way!!  Love you sweet Angel❤️
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
You will be forever mossed. Love you Maddie
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
I remember the energy, and that never ending smile. It was wonderful to see her grow into such a lovely wife and mother. Rest in peace Madison.
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
No words are strong enough to explain my love for you honey. You have truly given me life and a feeling of heaven that I never could have dreamed possible. Our children are the proof of your unselfish love and devotion to life. YOU truly showed me what it means to live a purposeful life. I promise I will give every bit of my energy to our children and try my hardest to cary the torch you have always had. You are a lover and leader like no other and my reason for breathing. Know that I am reaching for your feet, smelling your hair and kissing your ears. I love you Madison
June 25, 2015
Maddie had the most contagious smile and radiated a beautiful energy any where she went and who ever she met. I feel lucky to have met Maddie in my lifetime and I will treasure the memories of her. She will be so missed. Love ya girl.
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
My friend I didn't get enough time with you. Your friendship gave me confidence and your smile reassurance. I will cherish the long talks we shared. Your example as a mother and woman has forever changed me. Love you Maddie.
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
Madi you will truely be missed. We weren't super close and our families don't often see each other enough but everytime we got together you were always so pleasant to be around. Your party planning at your house was always so cute and fun! You were a great mother. Your wedding was one of the gorgeous and most endearing I have been to. I wish we would have had more time to get together and do things together with the kids. I am so sorry and wish that I could have been there for you in some way to help. We will always remember the light that followed you , by all the remarks that everyone has made you have left footprints in everyone's hearts. We will miss you ! Love Syd, Zach and Treysen
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
I worked with Maddi for about 5yrs. She always saw the best in me and truly wanted me to succeed. Zumiez and Maddi were a huge part of my "growing up years", and I'll forever be thankful to her for the example she was to me. She was always such a hard worker, and then when she got pregnant with Krue I saw a shift in her, she was still a hard worker, but she worked for him, and lived for him, then when Axzelle was born and she quit to stay home I knew that was her dream, and her calling. I always wanted to be that kind of mom/wife. I feel so blessed to have known someone so amazing.
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
I worked with Madi at the pool for several years life guarding and teaching swim lessons together. She was a year younger yet some how I felt like she was so much cooler! Her beach babe tan and blonde hair, beautiful long legs, spunky energy and the ability to pull off any trend, but more importantly.. She had such a kind heart. She was always sweet to me and had a gorgeous smile and energy about her that left me wanting to know more about her. It's been years since I've seen her but anytime I would see a picture of her it made me smile that she looked like she hadn't aged a bit! What beautiful children she has, Im sure their mommy loved them and I pray for them and the rest of her family to find peace.
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
I knew Madison since we were little but never really got to know her till we were older and ran with the same group of friends. I'd often see her here and there. We'll stop and visit her at Zumiez. And even though we weren't close friends she would always put an arm around me and it was like we knew each other our whole life. Invited me to things and always excepted me and everyone around her. Her personality was just so fun and it was contagious. She was truly a loving individual and I have and will continue miss that special love she shared. My thoughts and prayers extend far and beyond. God bless her family in all things.
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
"I have so many fun memories of Madison! When we were kids Maddie, Starr, jazzy, Megan and I would all dress up in sparkly dresses from aunt Nancy's house and have parades around the neighborhood on Staheli hill. We would sell lemonade, walk or bike to little nissons to get candy, play "school" and she would always be the teacher because she was the oldest. I adored her then and always looked up to her and how beautiful she was on the inside and out! That girl lit up any room she was in and made everyone smile and feel loved. I love you so much Maddie! I hope you know how many lives you touched by just being the amazing and beautiful person you are!

-McKenzi irvin"
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
My girls and I will never forget how much fun we had when we were with you. You are a beautiful, sweet, dear friend. We will forever cherish the friendship and memories we have. My girls vow to look out for your adorable children whenever given the chance. Axzelle has won a special place in their hearts, just like you did in mine! Keep smiling down on us from heaven. We love you, Madison!
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
Just last week I was talking to my dad about Robin Williams movies & I told him Mrs. Doubtfire was my favorite, it reminded me of being a little girl sleeping over at Maddie's, in the basement of their house on Staheli hill. Since she's passed away I've thought of countless memories we had together, some of them being: making up dances at Aunt Dawnes house when Jenna & Kim were down, planning & planning but never actually giving the performance, we would spend hours just setting things up. Swimming at the city pool. Going with Kole & Korys families to the Stahelis big easter party. The teddy bear sleepover party with Aunt Dawne & all her granddaughters at Abby Inn. In the later years I remember her being pregnant with Krue, at Amy Cannon's wedding we sat and talked forever, she was trying to decide if she wanted to name the baby Maddux or Krue & was so excited to have him on 08-08-08. She always asked how everyone in the family was doing & you could tell she genuinely cared. At the Ivie Christmas eve party this last year they had just walked in & Dylan had called Dawns house from his mission, they were trying to decide if they should go talk to him or stay, but Maddie said she wanted to see the family & let the kids be apart of the Christmas Eve party. She sat down & talked to my Dad & I for a long time about what the family was up to and reminiscing about our younger years. We kept laughing about the time Kole & Dawn left town & the kids stayed at our house, Jazzy went missing one morning & we didn't know where she was until Nikohle called & said she'd showed up on her doorstep across the street in her jammies with her blanket. So many fun memories! Everytime I saw Maddie I was greeted with that big smile & a warm hug, I will miss that. I know Maddie will live on through her wonderful husband, gorgeous kids & amazing family. Please know you are in all our hearts & prayers...Love you!!
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
Dear Maddie,
We will forever miss your infectious smile, vibrant personality and amazing gift of capturing everyone's heart you were around.
You were never afraid to be just yourself!
We our so blessed to have had you in our lives. You will always have a special place in out hearts.
Until we meet again. All our love.
Aunt Chris and Uncle Dave
June 25, 2015
I have shared so many amazing and memorable memories with Maddie in our younger years. When I lived in St. George Maddie was such a great friend to me and we did everything together. Maddie was adored by everyone who came in contact with her and she spread light and sunshine everywhere she went. She had a magnetic personality, to know her was to love her. From a young age she was a leader, trend setter, and always kind to everyone. I always wondered how I was lucky enough to be friends with Maddie. There was never a dull moment with Maddie, she would find the fun in everything she did and saw the beauty in everything around her. She loved her family so much and found so much joy in being a sister to her siblings. We lost close contact during the last few years but I always knew that she would be the BEST mother in the whole world. Above anything I want her two adorable kids to know what a special person their Mom was and IS and how much she meant to everyone that knew her. I know she adored her kids and Husband and know that she will be the best guardian angel watching over them throughout their entire lives. They can go throughout life having pride in knowing that their Mom was an incredibly special person and she will live on in them forever. I have no doubt that she will walk with them hand in hand, step by step throughout their lives- not wanting to miss a moment. My thoughts and prayers are with the entire Staheli and Sweitzer family. I have so much love for Dawn and Kole and all of her siblings. My heart truly is broken for their loss and the tremendous loss for her Husband and Children. I love you Maddie!

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November 16, 2020
November 16, 2020
I got to be a lifeguard with Maddie for a few years and she was always smiling and easily had the most beautiful lifeguard body of any of us! We had some great times at the pool and she was always so kind & fun!
June 23, 2019
June 23, 2019
4 years Maddie has been gone and she’s very missed! I’m not sure if I told you this before Starr but Maddie was driving up to SLC with us one time and I loved that she could just whip out a Beanie! I had tried to make them but I never could do it right. She taught me on that drive how to make Beanies! ❤️ So I think of her every time I make one! She was such a sweet sweet girl and very much a free spirit . Ashlee and I use to go in to Zumies to visit her when she’d be working and her smile was always greeted us! We have quite a few pictures of her that I’d like to give you sometime. Maybe next time Ashlee comes home you could come over and we can go through the box of pictures and give them to you. She was such a fun person that had so much love and light to share. Such a tragedy that she left us all so early. Beautiful beautiful Madison was a gift. ❤️
One of my favorite memories is of her and Ashlee just dancing by themselves being happy teenagers and silly girls with not a care in the world. ❤️
June 23, 2019
June 23, 2019
She was a nice and loving person and she was one of my favorite aunts and we all miss her
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July 7, 2015
Madison has always been my best friend as well as my sister. I have always looked up to her. When I was younger I wanted to be just like her. As we got older and we went to different schools I would wait and see what she was going to wear in the morning and then try to copy her same outfit after she left. Only one time my parents picked us up from school early and took us to my dad’s work at the Army to meet John Stockton and another Jazz player. Madison was not happy when I showed up wearing black pants a white t-shirt and a white long sleeve shirt tied around my waist. The exact same thing she was wearing. She was so embarrassed, as she was to old to wear matching clothes with her younger sister.    Every Sunday Madison would set up obstacle courses in our backyard and have all the neighborhood kids over to participate in it. She also directed all of us in setting up different stations with a craft or project for everyone to participate in. She was always good at taking charge and making sure everyone felt included. She was always organizing parades around our neighborhood rather we were dressed up in Utah Jazz clothes parading around during half time of a Basketball Game, or her favorite was always the 4th of July parade. She made sure everyones bikes were decorated and had matching clothes to go along.    As we got older I was asked to write a paper on my Hero for one of my English classes. Of course I chose Madison. My paper read: "My Hero Madison. She is an older sister of mine, and I look up to her so much! Over the summer I hung out with my sister a lot, and almost everyday I was with her she would mention how she needed to do something good for someone! It just became a habit for her. She never thought it was good enough but I know it meant so much to people. Even if it was just stopping and buying lemonade from kids along the side of the street.  She got my friend and I in the habit of doing good things for others and every time I do it makes me feel better. She really does so much for not only me, but everyone around her, and it means so much to know how much she really cares about everyone else. She’s such a great example and I hope I can learn from her example and influence people in the way she has influenced me.”   Madison has been and always will be my hero. As I looked through my box of memories I found numerous papers I wrote about Madison being my hero, but I found even more letters and notes that she had written and left me. She was always leaving me good luck cards, Letters in my suitcase to read and find comfort in when I arrived at girls camp, and simply reminders of how much she loved me. Madison was so good at telling people how much they meant to her and always encouraging others. Something I hope to be better at.    When I got to High School Madison was a Senior. She was taking college classes in the morning but always came and picked me up for lunch or made sure I had somebody to go with. I will cherish those lunch dates forever.    When she first moved to Salt Lake after High School I went to visit her. She took me to the swimming pool where she was working. As we arrived there were quite a few homeless people around asking for money. Madison opened her glove box and handed them Wendys gift cards. She had a whole stack of them and I asked her where she got all of them. She told me that she kept them on hand for when homeless people would approach her. She wanted to help them, but make sure her money was being spent on the right things, like food.   Madison and I have always been close, but when I became a mother not a day passed that I didn’t call her for advice. Anyone who knows Madison knows that she is the most amazing mother and wife, and that her family means the world to her. She made sure everyday was special for her kids.  Krue and Axzelle your mommy loves you very much, and Matt you gave Madison the world, and for that I can never thank you enough. She loved you so much!
June 25, 2015

"I have so many fun memories of Madison! When we were kids Maddie, Starr, jazzy, Megan and I would all dress up in sparkly dresses from aunt Nancy's house and have parades around the neighborhood on Staheli hill. We would sell lemonade, walk or bike to little nissons to get candy, play "school" and she would always be the teacher because she was the oldest. I adored her then and always looked up to her and how beautiful she was on the inside and out! That girl lit up any room she was in and made everyone smile and feel loved. I love you so much Maddie! I hope you know how many lives you touched by just being the amazing and beautiful person you are!

-McKenzi irvin"

June 25, 2015

I didn't see you every weekend
Or talk with you every day 
But from the moment that we met
You got in my hearts way
You reminded me how it feels
To do things for others
And I enjoy sharing stories
Of being "worried" mothers
"Are we going to ruin them
Will they hate us in the end?"
We both know that's not true
This is how we became friends
I saw you walking in
Looking bright with anticipation
Eager to help with anything
Signing the list of participation
I wasn't new
But not a pro
You looked at me
"Come on, let's go!"
We learned how to ask advice
To share where we went wrong
We laughed and we cried
Friendship didn't take long.
In two years time I knew
That you were where I want to be
I may not be yours
But you're a best friend to me 

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