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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Dr. Bernard Mahabir, 70 years old, born on August 20, 1945, and passed away on December 24, 2015. We will remember him forever.
December 26, 2023
December 26, 2023
Dear Bernard, time has flown by so quickly, but the love and memories we shared will live on.
Missing you but know that you’re in a better place. So continue to rest in eternal peace .
December 24, 2023
December 24, 2023
We miss you as usual, and you are always in our hearts and minds. Thank you for all great memories, moments we got to spend together, and all that you left behind with each of us. Mike
August 21, 2023
August 21, 2023
You may have left this earth, but you remain in my heart ♥️. The day was spent reminiscing in Redondo Beach your favorite place.
Continue to rest in perfect peace.
August 20, 2023
August 20, 2023
Happy Birthday my very dear friend. You must know how much you are loved and cherished. To the man who lived an exemplary life, overcoming every challenge. With deepest respect and best wishes.
January 2, 2023
January 2, 2023
Another year has gone by and so many things remind me how you are truly missed and forever treasured.
December 31, 2022
December 31, 2022
Always in our hearts and minds. You are dearly missed. Another year full of great memories with you.
January 7, 2022
January 7, 2022
How can I forget December 24, 2015? It was one of the saddest days of my life. Anyway life goes on, but the precious memories of our time together and the love we shared will never die, and I am comforted by that.
Continue to rest in perfect peace
December 30, 2021
December 30, 2021
Miss you very much my friend and you are in my thoughts often. I am so grateful of the times I was privileged to spend with you. With eternal love. Mike
November 17, 2021
November 17, 2021
I wondered for a long time why suddenly I no longer was hearing from you only to just learn of your passing Uncle Bernard. Over the years I've missed you and our talks. You were always there in my corner giving me your support and comfort and words of encouragement. You will always be remembered for the wonderful and caring person you were, you were a light in moments of my darkest hours and I will forever be grateful for that. Thank you .
August 22, 2021
August 22, 2021
Dear Bernard, as the years roll by, another birthday is here, and a reminder that You are not here in the flesh to celebrate. The many Birthdays we shared together will never be forgotten. Rest in perfect peace.
August 20, 2021
August 20, 2021
We've arrived at another of your birthdays without you being present in person my friend... do know that you remain present in our memories. Continue to rest in peace.
December 24, 2020
December 24, 2020
Merry Christmas my dear friend.  You are deeply missed on earth, but always in our hearts and minds. With eternal love and respect. Your friend, Mike
December 24, 2020
December 24, 2020
Today I choose to hold on to the precious memories we shared together. There are times when I miss you so much, I want to pick you from my dreams and give you a big hug.
Continue to Rest In Peace.
August 20, 2020
August 20, 2020
I had a brief encounter where I sang Happy Birthday to you, and then I woke up! You are missing from my world, but always in my heart ♥️. Rest in perfect peace.
August 20, 2020
August 20, 2020
Happy 75th my friend. You are deeply missed. 

With all love and respect.
Mike
December 27, 2019
December 27, 2019
Bernard, time goes by but our memory lives on... you are still in our memory and our thoughts my friend.
December 24, 2019
December 24, 2019
Dearest Bernard, Merry Christmas to you. You have the advantage of knowing our thoughts and being with us in spirit, but we are limited in our physical body and missing you though you are so near. All the same, we miss you and forever will remain in our thoughts and prayers. G~d bless.
December 24, 2019
December 24, 2019
It only seems like yesterday we were making plans for Christmas, but God thought it best for you to be with him. I think of you in silence and often speak your name. God has you in his keeping, and I have you in my heart ❤️.
August 21, 2019
August 21, 2019
My friend, I was thinking of you just a few days ago. You are forever in my memory.

August 20, 2019
August 20, 2019
Thinking of you and missing you always especially on this special day. The wonderful memories remain. So rest in peace until!
August 20, 2019
August 20, 2019
Happy Birthday my friend.  All the very best wishes from seemingly far away.
December 25, 2018
December 25, 2018
When someone you love becomes a memory, the memory becomes a treasure and always close to the heart. The void will always be there, but the precious memories live on. You are surely missed.
December 25, 2018
December 25, 2018
You are always in my thoughts, especially on Christmas. How I wish I could call you to wish you a Merry Christmas like before. For a while, this has to do.
Merry Christmas my dear friend.
December 24, 2018
December 24, 2018
Pam and I talked about you just the other day my friend. You will never be forgotten!
August 22, 2018
August 22, 2018
Dear Bernard, I remember it well. Birthdays were always very special to you and we have had such good times. I do know that you are in perfect peace, and shall forever remain in my
August 20, 2018
August 20, 2018
Happy Birthday my friend. Thinking of you often. Souls are never born and never die. Wherever you are, all the best wishes, have a superbly happy day, and know that you are deeply loved, respected, and missed.
December 26, 2017
December 26, 2017
Not a day goes by that something you said, or did, your rendition of song does not come to mind. Till the end of time, long as roses
December 24, 2017
December 24, 2017
Dear Bernard - so this is going to be our new standing date, every year, until we meet again. I miss you my friend and you will always be in my heart. May the love and light of our heavenly father always shine on you - for ever and ever. Amen!
January 7, 2017
January 7, 2017
We haven't talked in just over a year. I had no idea it had been that long. I think because your voice has become the sound of my conscious. Bernard I was always very proud to call you my friend. I still tell the Woodstock story to my friends. You're a one of a kind guy. Yes I'll tune your guitar when I see you again. Miss you friend.
September 18, 2016
September 18, 2016
My friend Bernard, meeting you through the work that you have been doing for the community so, so many years ago was indeed an honor and my pleasure. I got to know you through your benevolent work as a founding member of the Citizens and Friends of Trinidad and Tobago where you did not only "talk-the-talk", but more than ever, you walked-the-walk". Thank you for inspiring those of us who knew you to always pay it forward.
August 21, 2016
August 21, 2016
As I walked along the Pier at Redondo Beach in remembrance of your birthday, all I could think of were the wonderful memories of our time together. Just strolling along or sitting and looking out on the vast ocean that you loved so much, which you have now become a part of. I felt your presence with every step I took and did not feel alone.
I am comforted that you no longer suffer any discomforts and the God whom we serve promised to be absent from the body is to be present with the Lord!
You are sorely missed! Rest in peace until we meet again.
August 21, 2016
August 21, 2016
Happy Birthday my dear friend.  May special light and love surround you today, as your are deeply missed. Your friend forever, Mike
March 27, 2016
March 27, 2016
Well, here we are, 3 months and some days, and I still haven't been able to get myself to contribute anything to your memory (not that you need one). 

It is so difficult to accept that you are not with us in a physical body. For ages I called you "Dr. Mahabir" despite your insisting to call you "Bernard" until of course you let me have that one. It was only out of utmost respect that I have for you. 

Not that I had any doubt before, but this enormous void that you left behind in my life (and so many others), repeatedly living through so many amazing memories each time I want to call you or think about you, ... have brought me into a deep realization that what an incredible and special friend you have been ... how much I miss and treasure talking with you and discussing various aspects of life and business ... your amazing insight, wisdom, and straight talk. 

I am a much better person because of you. This has been one amazingly worthwhile life journey because of you. You are always in my thought and heart ... until we cross paths again, in another life, in another vehicle. I love you Bernard, my friend.

May the love, light and peace of our heavenly father surround you, bless you, protect you, and guide you throughout your journeys, for ever and ever. ooosss
February 14, 2016
February 14, 2016
I am very saddened by the sudden lost of my very close and dear friend Dr. Mahabir who i have known since i arrived in Los Angeles over 20 years ago. He was not only a very close friend and confidant but his advice as a doctor has been immensely helpful and source of comfort over the years. My heart goes out to both his partner Ms Evelyn Amalu, who introduced me to Dr Mahabir many years ago as well as his children. He was much loved and will be missed.
February 12, 2016
February 12, 2016
Evelyn, Victor Frankle said, "In the face of profound misery life has meaning" May his life always have meaning for you. Doc has made his peace with his creator. He has no more worries. It's us the living that has a lot to ponder. Continue to rest in perfect peace Doc.
February 10, 2016
February 10, 2016
My beautiful friend, Dr. Bernard, has gone to Heaven. I can't believe it's been over forty days already.

Three months ago, we went with the "Doc" to the Harbor and had a great time sea food shopping, walking and talking. I held his hand as we were walking back to the parking lot, and he cried. But I assured him we'll see each other and party with Rina up in heaven when we finish our purposes down on Earth. Then he said, "I'll be helping others up high with wings!" That's where I left off with Dr. Bernard. 

He was the most interesting, uplifting, helpful and beautiful person I have ever known. Just five weeks before his passing, even though he wasn't feeling well, he offered to cook and make dinner for us.

He lived life better than anyone, and he was the best cook I ever met. You never had a doubt about his cooking.

We treasured our friendship, good/bad times, and most of all, he enjoyed his Coconut Cream Pie hugely/enormously. 

He had the most incredible, infectious smile and through his tough times, he still found the ability to keep smiling.

It has been an honor and true blessing to have had Dr. Bernard in our lives; he touched many and will be forever missed.

May you, Dr. Bernard, Rest in Peace. 

God Bless to Lady Evelyn and the Family.

Love,

Lynn & Mark Savage
February 8, 2016
February 8, 2016
I would like to extend my sincere condolences to my sister Verna who has lost her partner of 22 years.
From the time Bernard was introduced to our family, he was welcomed by all and became an integral part of our family unit
He was such a warm and compassionate human being, that it was very easy to like him.
He attended most of our family functions and captured the hearts of all those who had the pleasure of meeting him.
He was a "people person" and took an interest in all our relatives and friends.
On several occasions when family members had medical challenges of one kind or another, Bernard took a personal interest and would even speak to the specialists involved to ensure that we received the best treatment available.
We enjoyed his cooking, singing and his musical renditions with the guitar.
Bernard was a source of encouragement and inspiration all.
Continue to rest in peace Bernard. You will be sorely missed.
January 8, 2016
January 8, 2016
Bernard! loosing you so suddenly played a heavy role on our hearts and souls. And yes it's true that "death is a part of life" and just because your not here in the flesh, doesn't mean your spirit and memories won't linger on!

I remember when I first met you in 1992, not only did you embrace me and my girls with open arms you made us instantly feel as if we belonged. It was no wonder my daughters started calling you uncle on the first day. You were a man who never took life for granted .you embraced each day as if it was special. (we all can earn from you)
You had a swag about yourself that drew many to you! (Clean! Creased! and Neat!) You had the gift to charm any lady (old or young) and you never hesitated to speak your opinion on any given topic (good or bad)..
You were one of the most romantic men I've ever met! just recently you had me download the song "Thinking out Loud" by Ed Sheeran". (You insisted on singing it for Evelyn).but after I downloaded it my eyes began to water because it was so much like you. (Beautiful and Romantic)
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Bernard not only am I going to miss someone whom I loved and felt deeply about but a true friend and a brother-in-law whom I’m blessed to have shared 20 years of great memories! 
Until we meet again, rest in peace my brother.
Love you forever Tracie Mahabir
January 4, 2016
January 4, 2016
To my father Bernard Mahabir. I love you forever more. May you rest in peace.
January 3, 2016
January 3, 2016
Though many knew of my brother as Doctor Mahabir, I and the family he grew up with on the island of Trinidad, town of Sangre Grande knew him as Bernard, Beno or Ben. To his sisters and nieces, he was Ben. It was the name used when discussing him in the most affectionate of terms. Whether he was Bernard or Beno to me and my brothers, or uncle Bernard or uncle B to his many nephew and nieces, grand nephew and nieces and great grand nephew and nieces, or Ben by his two sisters, he was greatly loved. My brother knew and loved everyone in the family and they loved him back immensely.
I will miss my brother and our love for each other. I will miss our conversations and his life counsel. I will miss visiting with him, I will miss him putting his hand on my shoulder to steady and guide his walk. I will miss his sound medical advice. I will miss his singing. I will miss everything about him.
Bernard, I know you are at piece now and in no pain or discomfort. You struggled in silence, dignity and strength through the last few years of your life. You never complained though it was far more than anyone should endure. Through all of your struggles, you continued to give advice and assistance to family and friends alike. You showed genuine concern and provided great advice for the health and well being of your family and friends. My love and our love for you for you will never fade.
God is now your sight guide and the one steadying your walk. May you rest in peace.
My brother Joe and I join the many family and friends in good thoughts and prayers for my brother Bernard.
In Loving Memory,
Val Mahabir.
January 1, 2016
January 1, 2016
To my Beloved Bernard! Today we would have celebrated 22 years since we became partners in life. Over the years I've seen you overcome each challenge with quiet determination, and you never gave up.
You showed great courage and did everything possible to preserve and extend your life. You touched the hearts of all those you came in contact with, and was an inspiration to many including me. We shared so much over these past years, and the memories will live on Forever! May you rest in peace until we meet on the other shore.
December 29, 2015
December 29, 2015
I am truly blessed to have had a brother like you. You left me with precious memories to cherish for the rest of my life. You were always there for me in good or bad times.The wisdom you imparted to me helped me to face problems as they arose with confidence and determination to succeed. Your charity and kindness did not reside within your family but also extended to friends and strangers. You have helped to extend the lives of strangers you only knew as a result of their health condition and intervened to alleviate their suffering. For all that you have done for family, friends and strangers I know there is a better place than earth where you will be rewarded for your altruism and kindness.

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December 26, 2023
December 26, 2023
Dear Bernard, time has flown by so quickly, but the love and memories we shared will live on.
Missing you but know that you’re in a better place. So continue to rest in eternal peace .
December 24, 2023
December 24, 2023
We miss you as usual, and you are always in our hearts and minds. Thank you for all great memories, moments we got to spend together, and all that you left behind with each of us. Mike
August 21, 2023
August 21, 2023
You may have left this earth, but you remain in my heart ♥️. The day was spent reminiscing in Redondo Beach your favorite place.
Continue to rest in perfect peace.
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December 14, 2016
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Some people show up with very little to share regardless of how much they have, others whole reason for showing up is simply to add value to events. Dr. Mahabir not only showed up when others didn't but he contributed in his very unique ways, and always stood out, I was proud to have known such an icon amongst us who made a difference with his beautiful life. R.I.P  Dr.Mahabir.

MY FIRST CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN

December 10, 2016

From Evelyn, Posted by Mike

MY FIRST CHRISTMAS IN HEAVEN

I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below.

With tiny lights, like heaven's stars,

reflecting on the snow.  Th sight is so spectacular,

please wipe away the tear, for I am spending Christmas with

Jesus Christ this year.

I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear.

But the sounds of music can't compare

with the Christmas choir up here

I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring,

for it is beyond description, to hear the angels sing.

I know how much you miss me; I see the pain inside your heart.

But I am not so far way, we really aren't apart.

So be happy for me, dear ones.  You know I hold you dear.

And be glad, I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.

I sent you each a special gift, from my heavenly home above.

I sent you each a memory, of my undying love.

After all, love is a gift more precious than pure gold.

It was always most important in the stories Jesus told.

Please love and keep each other, as my Father said to do.

I can't count the blessings of love He has for each of you.

So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear.

Remember, I am spending Christmas with

Jesus Christ this year.

Reflections

February 6, 2016

It’s already been forty days and nights. Oh how I miss my best friend and companion.

Since we met, we were never separated from each other for more than a couple of weeks at a time, and when that occurred we spoke with each other at least twice a day.

I will always be especially sensitive to a blind or visually impaired person. I have learned so much after having the privilege of being with one who overcame this challenge on a daily basis. It was my delight and pleasure to describe the scenery in detail wherever we happened to be, so he could visualize what I was seeing (painting a picture as it were).

We had such great discussions on so many topics such as medical issues, current affairs, religion, cooking, music, you name it. We laughed together, cried together, sang together, cooked together, played the guitar (yes I played as well), but I will admit he was the better player. We travelled to numerous places over the years together.

When it came to international travel, I would be the one concerned as to whether he would be able to tolerate the long plane trips. Somehow, with God’s guidance and protection, we always managed to make it to our destination and back without problems.

One of his wishes/desires was to visit my countryGuyana, and that wish was fulfilled. Even though it was a short visit, he enjoyed every minute and always spoke fondly of the experience he had.

About four days before the Lord called Bernard home, he asked me to cook a simple and special dish made with split peas “Dholl”. So later that evening he came out to the living room, and asked if I had cooked it yet, and I told him I would the following day which was Sunday.

On Sunday I prepared the meal, and set him up at the dining table. As he sat down he stated “this smells so good”. As he proceeded to partake of the meal he said “this is the best Dholl in the whole wide world”.

I am comforted that I was able to spend lots of quality time with him, and prepare a meal that gave him so much pleasure.

All of the memories we shared will be forever engraved in my heart and mind. To the most loving, caring and unselfish person I have ever met.

You will be forever MISSED! 

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