I struggled with the reality of a moment like this when I learnt your condition had worsened and you were in hospital, unconscious. We prayed; friends prayed but God's will to call you home prevailed. This didn't go down well with me. Your departure at this time is painful but I have learnt to trust God who knows best and who is good all the time. I am counting on the comfort of the Holy Spirit to move on without you here.

It's okay that I cannot control my tears. Words of men barely comfort me because they were not there: when we trekked distances to school together and you protected me being my older brother; when I had to remind you repeatedly of Papa's time limits as you often forgot when you hung out with your many friends....they were your life! You were a jolly good fellow often teasing us silly and getting chased around the house. We really had fun. I cannot forget your academic distinctions in primary school. We were all proud of you. Under the peaceful ambience of discipline and godly love, our parents taught us to love and deeply respect one another. We stood with you to the end.

Your concern and care for my family was palpable. Your custom was to ask after each of my children by name and try to catch up on the latest about them. The only voice that calls me 'Professore' is silenced! My brother rejoiced with me when I rejoiced and wept with me when I wept; a brother like no other.

Your will to be interred in Kaduna was made long before you took ill. Today that will be done without any hesitation. Kaduna to you was 'sweeter' than any city on earth. You literally grew up and made most of your best friends here. No wonder you gladly responded to being called "The Mayor of Kaduna". It's hard to believe that our gists have been paused for now.
Despite my sorrow, I am full of gratitude that you knew Jesus Christ as your Saviour. My point of comfort is that 'to die is gain' for a Christian. What a joyful privilege! Oh, the blessedness of being known by God and numbered among His saints. I believe this is your desire for all your dear friends and relatives you left behind.

In Keith Getty(1974),"In Christ Alone" are my thoughts  for you now:

 No guilt in life, no fear in death
 This is the power of Christ in me
 From life's first cry to final breath
 Jesus commands my destiny
 No power of hell, no scheme of men
 Can ever pluck me from his hand
 'Til he returns or calls me home
 Here, in the power of Christ, I stand

My beloved brother, a lover of people, an excellent gentleman, my unforgettable “Mayor of Kaduna" your memory shall remain evergreen. Rest on till we meet again. Alleluia...!

Professor (Mrs) Elizabeth U. Amuta (Sister) and family.

Tribute

My dearest Uncle Major!!!  Words fail me. A good heart stopped beating a good soul ascended to heaven. Nobody understands how hard a separation is ...it remains only the eternal memory in our hearts. The news of your passing gave me instant goosebumps. The MEJ (in mama Folake's voice) The only one that calls me Folly mama, Everyone's uncle, very lively, so loving, caring, full of life and giving, so many beautiful memories of you.
My earnest prayers is that God comfort,  strengthen and heal the broken hearts of Aunty Tee and the rest of the family at this time of grief.
Rest well Uncle, your memory lives on!!!