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This memorial website was created in memory of our Precious and Beloved Mother, Grandmother, Great Grandmother, Mother in-law, Grandmother in-law, Aunt, Cousin, Mentor and Bosom Friend - MAMI CHRISTIANA TABI nee ATUNGU TABI a.k.a “Margaret Thatcher”, at the age of 84. The roll was called up yonder with Mama's name first on the list on Thursday June 15 2017 at 1:00pm Cameroon time from complications due to an Ischemic Stroke.

Mama's transitioning to Eternal Glory is a bitter/sweet agony, profound joy and deep melancholy to us in that Mami was a Pillar, a Beacon of Hope, a Lioness, a TRADITIONAL ALCHEMIST, an Icon, an Objective Disciplinarian, a Voice of Wisdom and Support Machine not only to her immediate/filial family, but also to many who had the privilege and luxury to interact with her in any sphere of life. Her transition, though, irreplaceable is profound joy to us in that she drifted away to her Creator a couple of weeks after going through excruciating pain and suffering, but deep melancholy in that we all have lost an irreplaceable icon - an entity of her ilk and kind. We shall truly and sorely miss her. 

In spite of this mishap, we earnestly give thanks to the the Eternal Rock of Ages for granting us the opportunity to spend some quality time with her – memories which shall forever remain indelible in our minds. The Iron Lady has flown in ecstasy to Her Father's Kingdom to meet the Love of Her Life and Soulmate, Papa JAMES TABOT TABI who, preceded her to prepare a place for her 38years ago. She is done with her services on earth and had the singular pleasure to see and share priceless moments with three generations of her descendants. Mama is survived by 7 out of 12 children, 26 out of 27 Grandchildren and 10 Great Grandchildren. Beyond reasonable doubts, she sure deserves to finally REST IN PEACE PROFOUND, because and above all SHE DIED IN THE LORD. 

As we continue to celebrate the Iron Lady's life, it is our ardent plea that the Great Man in Battle, the Great I AM grants her a befitting resting place in the Land over yonder, on the other side of the Bridge from whose bound no traveler returns, for the repose of her GENTLE SOUL till we meet again to part no more.

"For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angel, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature shall separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord". Romans 8:38-39



Funeral program for MAMI CHRISTIE TABI nee ATUNGU TABI in CAMEROON:

FRIDAY, AUG 4TH 2017

1:00PM – REMOVAL OF CORPSE FROM BUEA REGIONAL HOSPITAL MORTUARY

1:45PM – LAYING IN STATE AT FAMILY RESIDENCE IN WONYA-MAVIO (MILE 18 OPPOSITE CAMION PARK)

2:00PM – VEIWING OF CORPSE ACCOMPANIED BY GOSPEL SONGS

4:00PM – LIGHT REFRESHMENTS AND ANIMATION

6:00 – 12:00PM – WAKE-KEEPING

GOSPEL MUSIC
ANIMATION BY CHILDREN, GRAND AND GRANDCHILDREN
A CALL TO WORSHIP
EVANGELICAL MESSAGE
EULOGIES AND TRIBUTES BY FAMILY AND FRIENDS
ENTERTAINMENT
ANIMATION CONTINUES TILL MIDNIGHT

SATURDAY, AUG 5TH 2017

EARLY HOURS – DEPARTURE FOR MAMFE

8:00AM - LAYING IN STATE AT FAMILY RESIDENCE IN NEW-LAYOUT EGBEKAW

11:00AM – DEPARTURE TO MFUNI WITH A BRIEF STOP-OVER AT BESONGABANG

12:00PM – LAYING IN STATE AT FAMILY HOUSE AND VIEWING

2:00PM – COMMENCENENT OF BURIAL RITES

3:00PM – INTERMENT

4:00PM RECEPTION AND ANIMATION

DEPARTURE OF WELL-WISHERS

CONTACTS:
Mrs. Etchu nee Tabi Elza Magbor 857-615-5712; 237-699-23-30-02 (Daughter)
Mrs. Obenesaw nee Tabi Regina Tabe 237-677-34-68-59 (Daughter)
Mr. Obenesaw Paul 237.677-34-2496 (Son In-Law)
Chief Sargent James Tabot Tabi Jr. 237-679-88-96-58 (Son)
Mr. Tabi Raphael Takor-Tambe 237-650-96-19-15 (Son)
Mr. Ebai Julian Tabi-Akpanang 44 7796 841200 (Grand Nephew)
Ekpombang Leevan Tabot-Tabi 237-672-14-51-70 (Grandson)

THANK YOU INCESSANTLY FOR CARING, COMING, SHARING AND SUPPORTING DURING THESE PERNICIOUS MOMENTS.

July 25, 2017
July 25, 2017
Mami Atungu, my grandmother who was also my sister. It would be normal for me to be mad at your departure because there will be no one to occupy those two positions in my life at the same time. But I am glad you have gone to meet God. He alone knows the type of crown you will get for being such a blessing to us. We love you.                          Bisong-Atabe Ojong Obenesaw
July 18, 2017
July 18, 2017
Grand Ma words cannot express the vacuum you have left. You were a Library. Much in store for us. I didn't have the opportunity to exploit the numerous information and wisdom you are going with. Well what can I say? It was God's wish that you depart from us at this time. I still remember your group glin club even though I was just a lil kid then, I remember each time you and your sister my grandmother used to go and dance monikim that attracted my love for this prestigious dance till date. Death they say is inevitable. I thank God that He blessed us to have you till 84 years. May God Almighty receive and keep you in His Heavenly kingdom. Adieu Grandma.
July 18, 2017
July 18, 2017
"The love of a grandma is UNIQUE"
God must have given us grandmothers to lighten up our lives, to make our lives complete, to make us well rounded and better human beings.Grandma, u played a big part in the lives of all the people around you and u were a solution to every problem. Mama ATUNGU, you have ran a good race and fought a good fight. May your soul rest in perfect peace.
July 17, 2017
July 17, 2017
Ma christie, dead is inevitable, You are gone but u live in the lives of those u have touched. As we celebrate u, I leave these dedicated words to your memorial ,
You are not just a normal person in the lives of those u have touched.
You are the reason why they still love and survive,
From infancy, you sad and watched them as they grow to adulthood,
You thought them how to read and write, You were there to guide them all the way, ready to help every single day.
You bought them vegetables, fruits and bread.
When they were sick,you stayed up late by their beds and felt their pains more than they did,
You knew their worries and was ever ready to feed in and make a solution, you stood by them when it was about to end.
In the worst times,you were their best friend, You knew their little secrets and always have the best advise as a mother.
YOU HAVE BEEN AND WOULD ALWAYS BE A WONDERFUL MOTHER.
     REST IN THE BOSOM OF THE LORD.
          WE LOVE YOU AND FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS.
July 17, 2017
July 17, 2017
Dear MAMI Atungu, "Mami Tabi " it is with a heavy and sad heart we bade you farewell after a long , fruitful and productive life . Thoughts of you always brings a smile to my face , your wit ,kindness, sense of mischief and love You are in a better place free from pain and the challenges of humanity . Extend greetings to all that have gone before us, to name a few Pa Tabi my grand Uncle your dear husband , My dad Chief Edward Ebai , Uncle James Ebai , Mami Rebecca Ebai Pa Stephen Ebai , Pa Walters Ebai and all my cousins Fred , & Gladys Tabi, Essoka and Victor Ebai , The list is endless , but their memories live on forever I personally will never forget your contribution to the family and will continue to cherish your warmth and persons. My memories have always been good all this years , your hospitality , and big plates of Fou Fou and eru when I visited , big hugs .
May your gentle soul Rest in perfect peace .
O God You who are peace everlasting , who taught us that peacemakers are Your Children , and whose chosen reward is the gift of peace , pour Your sweet peace into our souls, so that everything discordant may utterly vanish and all that makes for peace be sweet to us forever
O God the life of the faithful the bliss of the righteous , mercifully receive the prayers of Your children, so that the souls that thirst for your promises may evermore be filled from your Abundance Amen
"Gelasian sacramentary "
Our Dear Mum , give us, especially Eliza Magbor the strength fortitude to bear the fatigue and weariness of the coming days
I pray for your gentle soul till we meet again . Tabi
July 17, 2017
July 17, 2017
MY TRIBUTE TO A GREAT WOMAN OF OUR CONTEMPORARY TIME: Mama CHRISTIE ATUNGU TABI.

" If l could see further than others, it because l stood on the shoulders of giants" Sir Isaac Newton once said.

Mama Christy, you stood on the great shoulders your mentor, our late mom, Mami Clara Manyi Abunaw and never went wrong. You lived your life in real time and was everybody's mother, especially the motherless. Lord God, prepare her gentle soul for what you have prepare for us her children, the living. Fare thee well, Mama Christy. Though we'll all miss you dearly we're also confident that you'll intercede for us all in these turbulent times in our Nations life. Now that you find yourself in the tangible presence of God Almighty Himself, thank Him on our behalf for haven given us such MASTER PIECE OF A MOTHER, YOU.

SLEEP WELL, MOTHER.
Mr. AKO ABUNAW
"The lnfra-Realist"
July 17, 2017
July 17, 2017
A Tribute to an Irreplaceable GRAND-MUM
My happiest moments in my life was when I came close to you. I lost my grandmother at a tender age but i never felt the vacuum because you tried me like a grandson you never had. Your type was rare because you are a blessing to all of us. Your departure will be a great vacuum to our lifes. We loved you but God loved you most. Adieu MAMI ATUNGU
July 16, 2017
July 16, 2017
Mani Christie Atungu, you surely will be missed by all who knew you. You were so knowledgeable with herbs, which one to use for what, and I admired you for that. Thank you for all the lives you touched. We thank God for the fulfilled life He gave you here on earth. The time has come for your exit. All I can say is fare thee well, nekor nereh nereh. Sleep tight!
July 16, 2017
July 16, 2017
On wed morning God welcome a very special angel into heaven:my grand Mother.After months of suffering, we sadly say Goodbye to an amazing woman, who brought so much joy not only in my life but to so many throughout her 84years of fighting and winx countless battle on earth, "mami for clovete",my wife, my lawyer, my mirror, my'...,my....oh my endless love,i was never ready for you to leave grand mom.. I pray for a better place in heaven love you. Love you mami Atungu till we meet again in heaven.
July 16, 2017
July 16, 2017
Mama Christy, Nye MaAgbor as I usually referred to you; where are you now? We will never see you nor hear you. But one thing is certain that you are in the best place. Iron Lady, you have done it all. I admired and loved your disciplinary skills. I saw first hand a woman who will not be intimidated by teenagers. A woman whose rules and boundaries cannot be broken by children. A woman who will not mix her words when it comes to letting her children know where they belong. A woman who in-spite of the hardship she faces, puts the education of her children first. NYE MaAgbor, I can go on and on. You have finished your work on earth which is why your father has asked you to return. Yes we do miss you but we know you are now in a better place where there's no more pain or suffering. A city where we all will have to visit at some point in time. Most importantly, your darling husband is now smiling and ready to re-kindle the love you had missed for decades. Farewell mama. May your soul rest in bosom of our Lord.
July 15, 2017
July 15, 2017
Grand Ma,Big Mami the names I Fondly call you.Most of our discussion were mostly on video calls and when we met,you always told me lots of stories about the Manyu tradition and you added another word into my vocabulary "ngoreh neck".I turned and asked you the meaning ,with your beautiful smile you told me "white man woman"I remember visiting you in the hospital,you always smile back at me and kept on asking that I should be given tea to drink.That goes to show hospitable you have always been....Oooh I wish you could stay with us a little longer.Am most certain you are in heaven watching over us and smiling at us here on earth.Till we meet to path no more ...Adieu Grand Ma
July 15, 2017
July 15, 2017
"My mother's own grandma" so it is really true that you are no more. I came to muea to spend some time with you and "my own grandma but did not meet you. Goodbye " my mother's own grandma". I'm already missing you.Your great grand son .kima Divine Alvin Bayen-Tabe (Daviklee)
July 15, 2017
July 15, 2017
"Atungu Njui" I can't believe u r already gone . I didn't have enough time to tell you goodbye . I was eagerly waiting for Sunday when I will take some days off work to come take care of you,but the lord decided otherwise. I really wish I could see you for the last time.
July 15, 2017
July 15, 2017
Dear Mami we are missing you now that you have answered the call of God into eternity.We shall always remember the wonderful times we spent together,the words of wisdom you imparted to us,the love you showered us with over the years.As you join the cloud of witnesses of our family in Heaven,we wish you a wonderful stay in the Bossom of our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ till we meet to part no more.
July 15, 2017
July 15, 2017
grand ma, I remember each time i came to see u,u always received me with happiness, talking to me in Bnyangui though i couldn't understand every word and was answering in English,our conversations were long and interesting since we were also watching Nigerian movies. those memories are for ever in my mind.u were always asking after everybody proving how caring u were.u were a great woman and u will always a great woman for us all.rest in perfect peace under the Lord's guidance grand ma Atungu a.k.a Margaret Thatcher
July 15, 2017
July 15, 2017
MAMA Repose en paix NS n'oublieront jamais tes prescriptions ,ton amour et ton dévouement pour maintenir la famille unis et surtout a respecté les valeurs de la tradition .

Ta Fille
Hermine Etoa
July 15, 2017
July 15, 2017
Mama, since I knew you, you had been a calm, soft spoken and jovial mother. It is gradually dawning on me that you have left this world to be with your love, the Lord Jesus Christ, where there is no pain and sorrow but unspeakable joy, everlasting peace, pure and holy love. Even though I miss you, I am happy for you because without a doubt, you are fused in divinity. I will forever love you.

Your Son
Daniel Emoh takor
July 15, 2017
July 15, 2017
The love of a mother never dies.

Your Niece
Essomba nee Elizabeth Enonchong
July 15, 2017
July 15, 2017
My heart bleeds knowing you are no more. Your voice will no longer be heard and it hurts. As you transcend to eternal rest, mami you will always be remembered. You were a perfect example of a mother, wife, sister, and daughter in our eyes. You carried out each responsibility with love and dedication. The moment we crossed paths, you were willing to educate my thirsty faculties. My mother loved You so much. This reunion with her is bitter sweet. Bitter for us who are grieving, and sweet to finally reunite with your loved ones. Mami, your journey here on earth was fruitful and fulfilled. RIP
July 15, 2017
July 15, 2017
Mami Christie is the last of those ladies we called 'Mamfe Thick Madams' who were the movers and shakers of social live in Mamfe Town when my generation was growing up. At 83, she lived a fulfilled life and deserves to go rest. Mami, say hello to your husband, Pa Nurse Tabi and his good friend, Mechanic Bright Arrey-Mbi. Tell them we too are on our way to join them when we will live to part no more. Farewell.
July 15, 2017
July 15, 2017
Atungu Njui , I just can't believe you are gone. It's not so soo, but I did not have nearly enough of you and your wisdom, talk less of your calm Reposing eyes which I kept staring into up to your last days. I still remember your strength, and how you showed it even in your last fight. I will never forget the few words we exchanged these last days. Fare thee well, my wife, your third husband :  EKPOMBANG LEEVAN TABOT TABI
July 10, 2017
July 10, 2017
Njui my wife , u are an amazing woman . But wats more amazing is u gave me an amazing mother n for dat I am grateful it's hard to see u go but wat was even harder was watching u down unable to move or even recognize me so as u rest from all the pain and struggle this world is full of hope I recognize ur smile in the after life
Till we meet again
Your 5th husband
Tabot-Tabi
July 9, 2017
July 9, 2017
Have a most deserved rest my name sake, as you called me. I still remember your pepper soup, the best ever, that you always offered this young Grammar School Mamfe student, in those days, as she trotted along Main Street from school, pass your off-license - you would call! Mother to many!! Many loving memories you have left behind and a befitting legacy. Adieu Mama!
July 3, 2017
July 3, 2017
A very kind of lady to the whole family, She treat every body the same, no discrimination, very hard working,mother of the orphans, very caring, mama we love you but Jahovah love you most. R I P
June 28, 2017
June 28, 2017
ATUNGU MARIBA, ATUNGU THE GIRL, IRON LADY, NNSAN, NNLABA-AKAT, JACK OF ALL TRADES AND MISTRESS OF ALL, THE ONE THAT IS CALLED 'MAMI TABI' BY ALL AND SUNDRY!!!!!!!!!!!!

MAMA, the lyrics of this song by your Husband's most cherished artist - Jim Reeves - definitely crossed your mind before you took your last breath:

"Oh well, I'm tired and so weary
But I must go alone
Till the lord comes and calls, calls me away, oh yes
Well the morning's so bright
And the lamp is alight
And the night, night is as black as the sea, oh yes

There will be peace in the valley for me, someday
There will be peace in the valley for me, oh Lord I pray
There'll be no sadness, no sorrow
No trouble, trouble I see
There will be peace in the valley for me, for me

Well the bear will be gentle
And the wolves will be tame
And the lion shall lay down by the lamb, oh yes
And the beasts from the wild
Shall be lit by a child
And I'll be changed, changed from this creature that I am, oh yes

There will be peace in the valley for me, someday
There will be peace in the valley for me, oh Lord I pray
There'll be no sadness, no sorrow
No trouble, trouble I see
There will be peace in the valley for me, for me"

Your exit is very pernicious to us in that it is HUGE and IRREPLACEABLE; it replicates a BEAUTIFUL pair of GIGANTIC SHOES that none of us can fit in. But our greatest consolation is that you DIED IN THE LORD after leading us to see HIS LIGHT and embrace HIS WORD. So sleep tight, Mami Atungu in company of Daddy, Sister Magda, Papa Joe, Akpanang the Boy, Linda Chubi Cheka, Manow, your darling wife and daughter Sister Rebecca and the rest of the family yonder until we meet to part no more.......................

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July 25, 2017
July 25, 2017
Mami Atungu, my grandmother who was also my sister. It would be normal for me to be mad at your departure because there will be no one to occupy those two positions in my life at the same time. But I am glad you have gone to meet God. He alone knows the type of crown you will get for being such a blessing to us. We love you.                          Bisong-Atabe Ojong Obenesaw
July 18, 2017
July 18, 2017
Grand Ma words cannot express the vacuum you have left. You were a Library. Much in store for us. I didn't have the opportunity to exploit the numerous information and wisdom you are going with. Well what can I say? It was God's wish that you depart from us at this time. I still remember your group glin club even though I was just a lil kid then, I remember each time you and your sister my grandmother used to go and dance monikim that attracted my love for this prestigious dance till date. Death they say is inevitable. I thank God that He blessed us to have you till 84 years. May God Almighty receive and keep you in His Heavenly kingdom. Adieu Grandma.
July 18, 2017
July 18, 2017
"The love of a grandma is UNIQUE"
God must have given us grandmothers to lighten up our lives, to make our lives complete, to make us well rounded and better human beings.Grandma, u played a big part in the lives of all the people around you and u were a solution to every problem. Mama ATUNGU, you have ran a good race and fought a good fight. May your soul rest in perfect peace.
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