Let the memory of Marchela be with us forever
  • 82 years old
  • Born on May 16, 1930 in Galati, Romania.
  • Passed away on May 2, 2013 in Georgia, United States.
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Marchela Blekh 82 years old , born on May 16, 1930 and passed away on May 2, 2013. We will remember her forever.
Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 2nd May 2018
A difficult week and a very sad day today. Five years ago, this date have split my life and my perception of time into incomparable "before" and "after". Losing loved ones is extremely painful on its own, but losing my mother, one of the kindest, smartest, most beautiful and most courageous people I have known, the closest friend and the dearest person in the whole world has been a hundred times more painful and devastating. Every time I reflect on my life "before", I understand that I could never repay life sacrifices that my mother has made for me. And I miss her so very much. For five years after that tragic event, my life was about surviving and existing. Now, the more I think about it, the more I realize that it is time to move on and try living my life to the fullest again. Of course, it will never be the same, as the pain of loss will remain forever, even though the wound might heal slowly, but never completely. However, I hope that I could find peace and closure by cherishing the memory of my dear Mom, spreading our love for each other to people around me and doing my best in changing my life for better. I believe that she would want me to do just that. Please feel free to (re)visit the online memorial that I have created for my Mom back in 2013: https://www.forevermissed.com/marchela-blekh. If, for some reason, you want to turn off or pause music, playing in the background, you can easily do so by clicking on the Sound link on the top of the page. Thank you for reading this, Alex/Sasha
Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 2nd May 2016
Today is a very sad day, as it marks third year anniversary of my dear Mom's passing. It seems like it's been forever, but, at the same time, it feels like it's been yesterday. Even though being very busy distracts me from feeling the sharp pain of loss every hour, like I felt in the first two years, that pain didn't go away at all, but has transformed into feelings of occasional, less sharp, pain and constant partial emptiness of life. However, it also has transformed into a clear realization that I have to be very strong and do my best to overcome whatever life throws at me and become happy for my dear mom's memory, myself and other people around me. And I will do that. I'm already working on it... Mama, I miss you so much. Love you forever, Sasha. Once again, thank you to everyone, who have expressed their condolences, visited my mom's online memorial (this website) and supported me in various ways in this difficult period. Best wishes to you all. -Alex/Sasha
Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 2nd May 2015
Dear friends! Today marks the second year anniversary of my dear mom's passing. To commemorate this sad date, I just posted a tribute to my mother in the "Stories" section. Thank you for visiting the memorial and photo album! I sincerely appreciate your kind support and attention. Best wishes, Alex/Sasha.
Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 16th May 2014
Today is my Mom's birthday. This, along with very recent one year anniversary of her passing, makes it especially difficult time. However, many years ago, this day brought more light to the world. Because of this birthday, I now have all warm memories of time spent together with my mom, getting all the love, care, kindness and wisdom she selflessly shared with me (and a lot of other people). Because of this birthday, I now know what ultimate devotion really means. Happy Birthday, my dear Mom! I miss you greatly and love you so much! You will live forever in my heart and hearts of many people you have shared your life with. Thank you for everything! P.S. I sincerely thank all people who left wonderful tributes on this memorial site or simply visited it and browsed the photo album. This is very kind of you!
Posted by Olga Passec on 16th May 2014
My dearest boy, I know no words can help you heal the sorrow and pain, You will always live with sadness deeply in your heart but let only good memories be kept about your Mom. She is sure to see you from above and help you in all your deeds,
Posted by Danil Botoshansky on 3rd May 2014
Dear Sasha we know it is a sad day for you but in the same time we could see your great effort to succeed in this life and make Marchella proud of you. This great memorial giving me joy to see the visual history of the whole family, great job! Danik, Galia
Posted by Mark Solomonovich on 3rd May 2014
Sasha, Our deepest sympathy. Thank you for the memorial and photographs.. Mark, Lena, Sonya, Phil'ka
Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 2nd May 2014
Dear friends! Today marks the first year anniversary of my dear mom's passing! To commemorate this date, I just posted a tribute to my mother in the "Stories" section. Thank you for visiting the memorial and photo album. I greatly appreciate your kind support and attention. Best regards, Alex/Sasha.
Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 2nd December 2013
Today is another sad anniversary - seven months since my dear mother passed away. Mom, nothing is big enough to thank you for everything that you have done for me. I miss you so much and LOVE you forever! This poem is for you, my dear: Shall I compare thee to a summer's day? Thou art more lovely and more temperate; Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May, And summer's lease hath all too short a date; Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines, And often is his gold complexion dimm'd; And every fair from fair sometime declines, By chance or nature's changing course untrimm'd; But thy eternal summer shall not fade, Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow'st; Nor shall Death brag thou wander'st in his shade, When in eternal lines to time thou grow'st: So long as men can breathe or eyes can see, So long lives this, and this gives life to thee. ~ William Shakespeare / Sonnet 18 Here's a link to musical version of this masterpiece, performed by David Gilmour: http://youtu.be/S8Osse7w9fs.
Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 2nd November 2013
Dear friends! Today marks a six month anniversary of my dear mom's passing! To commemorate this date, I just posted a tribute for my mother in the "Stories" section. Thank you all for visiting online memorial and photo album. Your support is much appreciated. Love, Alex/Sasha.
Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 2nd October 2013
Today is five months since my mother passed away. RIP, my dear mom. I miss you greatly and love you so much! Dear friends, thank you for visiting my mother's memorial website!
Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 2nd August 2013
Hello, everyone! Today I posted a three month anniversary tribute for my mother in the "Stories" section. Thank you for visiting this website and your memories and support. I appreciate you visiting and liking my mom's photo gallery here and in the private album. Stay in touch. With love, Sasha / Alex.
Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 10th July 2013
Hello everyone! I have finally been able to get my mom's photos scanned and organized chronologically. Today I uploaded the pictures to the website. You can find them in the Photo Gallery. Please feel free to share stories or comment on any photo or the gallery itself. Thank you! -- Best wishes, Sasha/Alex
Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 2nd June 2013
"Hello, everyone! Today I posted a one month anniversary tribute for my mother in the "Stories" section. I had my mom's photos scanned professionally and plan to upload them here soon, will notify all. Thank you for visiting this website and/or posting kind words of memories and support. Stay in touch. With love, Sasha / Alex."
Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 16th May 2013
Hello! Today I posted a birthday tribute for my mother in the "Stories" section. And I sincerely thank everyone for visiting this memorial website and/or posting kind words of memories and support. Stay in touch. With love, Sasha / Alex.
Posted by Joseph Freivald on 16th May 2013
Va transmitem sincerele noastre condoleante si suntem alaturi de dumnavoastra in aceasta zi de grea incercare. Cu toata dragostea, Sue si Joe Freivald.
Posted by Louis De Souza on 14th May 2013
Hi Alex, Sorry to hear of the passing of your mother. You have given her a touching and fitting tribute. Hope you can find strength to continue life and keep her close in your thoughts. Take care, Louis
Posted by Vasily Moshnyaga on 12th May 2013
She passed away unexpectedly... but will be remembered forever... R.I.P.
Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 9th May 2013
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Posted by Aleksandr Blekh on 9th May 2013
I posted my farewell speech delivered on May 9, 2013 in the "Stories" section as a tribute to the loving memory of my dearest mother. It is far from being perfect, but it is from the heart, and it is all that matters. Mama, I miss you so much! Love you forever, your son Sasha.

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