ForeverMissed

                                                                                                            

                                              

I rest in God.

I rest in God today,

And let Him work in me and through me,

While I rest in Him in quiet

And in perfect certainty.

I am as God created me.

I am God’s Son.

Today I lay aside all illusions of myself,

And let my Father tell me

Who I really am.


-A Course In Miracles




Posted by Valerie Harville on April 30, 2021
Oh Mom, I cant believe that it's been 2 years that you took Dad's hand and crossed over. That day was the last of 3 that changed my life forever. I still don't know what I'm doing. You were my strength, my shoulder, my confidant my whole life.
I miss you more than I can find words for and life has forever changed without you.
I love you, I miss you. Still feel list without you..
At least I know you are with Dad and Jimmy and Gram and Gramps. And I'll see you again.
Love and miss you..... until then. xo
~V
Posted by Valerie Harville on May 9, 2021
Happy Heavenly Mother's Day to the most beautiful, amazingly kind, selfless and wonderful Mom a child (both Jim and I) could be blessed with. I miss you mom, wish I could spend this day with you. I love you. ❤️
Posted by Steve Nix on April 30, 2021
Well Marcia, it has been 2 years since you left us. You are in a better place now but not forgotten here. We think of you all the time, good times and great memories. You did not miss anything last year. It was a mess here. Say hi to Mom, Dad, Tony, and Jim for me.
Love you so much,
your brother Steve
Posted by LAURA PAVAN on April 30, 2021
Missing you so much Aunt Marcia. I love you xoxo
Posted by Steve Nix on April 25, 2021
I can't believe it has already been 2 years since you joined the other part of our family. We all miss you very much and wish you could still be with us. We do know we will see you in the future.
With all my love,
your brother Steve
Posted by Valerie Harville on April 25, 2021
Happy Birthday Ma! I miss you so much and it seems Im always thinking, I need to ask Mom this, only to realize I can't. It happens so many times in the morning. I miss mornings with you. Conversations, coffee, cigarettes, what Blake song and the list we would start the day with. I miss my Mama and my best friend. Hope you're eating German Chocolate cake with Gram today Ma. I love you. 
Posted by LAURA PAVAN on April 30, 2020
Aunt Marcia,
Not a day goes by that you aren't thought of and missed so much. A year of firsts without you here... birthdays and holidays and just thinking of you calls that went by without hearing your voice. We will be together one day and will give each other hugs, kisses and I love you's in person. We know you are surrounded by your loved ones, Uncle Tony, Jimmy, Grandma and Grandpa and our mom and in that we can take comfort. We LOVE YOU SO VERY MUCH, Your loving niece and nephew..Laura and Philip
Posted by Leslie Kisser on April 30, 2020
Words will never be able to express how much I miss you and Love you. I hope you are happy being with Tony, Jim and the rest of the family. ❤️ Enjoy the Peace and Love
La
Posted by michael jolley on April 30, 2020
thanks for being an angel in my corner. I love you Marcia.
Posted by Steve Nix on April 30, 2020
Just a year ago you left us for a better place. You joined Tony, Jimmy and all the rest of the family, in God's care. You are missed, but always in our memories, now and for forever. We will see you soon.
With love as always,
your brother,
Steve
Posted by Valerie Harville on April 30, 2020
Mom, 
It's so hard to believe that you crossed over a year ago today. I remember holding your hand and telling you to take Dad's, that I knew you were tired, Cody and I would be ok and that he and Jimmy were waiting for you, and it was ok to go. I'll never forget those last few moments with you.
I think so often about the things you told me and taught me. Sometimes I get upset because I wish I would have paid more attention. Stories passed down from our family generations and I'm not sure I remember the details the way you told me.
I know you know my heart and this is just my head spinning because it's a day every year until I see you again that will always be filled with so much emotion, so much reflection and so many tears.
I love you today as I always did, and always will. I'm grateful that I was holding you as you took dads hand and your last breath. But lady, I miss your face and I miss your grace. You were my mama and my best and greatest friend. I could write a book about the world's most wonderful you....
I love you and I miss you every single day.
I'm not sure if this anniversary of loss is also an anniversary of a rebirth of sorts into enlightenment and elation for you. So I will celebrate your life, your memory and your reconnection with Dad, Jimmy, Gram, Grampa, Patty, Uncle George and everyone you joined in heaven.
It is bittersweet, like "chocolate all the way from Switzerland." (Open Range)
I will try to patient, knowing I'll see you all again. But the void in this illusion is something fierce and my heart is missing pieces without all of you here.

Namaste..... my Mother, Mom, Ma, mentor, teacher, best friend, role model...and the kindest, gentlest, selfless person I've ever known.
I'm so blessed to have had you as my guide for the precious time I did.
♾️ ~ Your little girl.
Posted by Steve Nix on April 25, 2020
Happy birthday Sis,
One year ago today I called to celebrate your birthday and got some very bad news. I wish I could call again to wish you another birthday wish but will need to do it this way. We all miss you and will never forget the greatest of family ties. Please hug Tony and Jimmy for all of us. We will see you soon and all be together again.
Your loving brother,
Steve XXOOXX
Posted by Valerie Harville on April 25, 2020
Happy Birthday, Ma! Love and miss you so very much. May your day in heaven be as beautiful and wonderful as you were here. And may the essence of gardenias and wisteria blossoms whisper around you. Love you Mama xoxo ~V
Posted by Leslie Kisser on April 25, 2020
Happy Birthday Sis,
It isn’t much fun celebrating without you! I sure do miss you.
Love ya
La
And you’re still older than dirt
Posted by Valerie Harville on March 30, 2020
Mama,
I miss you every single day. Some days are harder than others. Spring is here, some days, and I think of all the things we would do to add color to our world. The sun is just not as brilliant without your shine. I love you. I hope you and dad are planting heaven's garden with Jimmy and Gram and Gramps....and everyone I hope to see when I see you again. xoxo
Posted by Valerie Harville on January 30, 2020
Miss you, Ma. Every single day. Xoxo
Posted by Valerie Harville on December 10, 2019
I miss you Ma, every single day. My very best friend. I love you more than words even express. Wish so much I could wrap my arms around you. Xoxo ~V
Posted by Valerie Harville on October 30, 2019
Mama, 6 months...  I miss you so much. I didn't realize how much you struggled through and shouldered with such grace. You didn't just make it just seem easy, I didn't even realize so many things were even there because you hid them so well.
Every day, I turn to say something, ask you a question, talk to you and it takes me aback, I still can't grasp that you are not here. 
I love you, Mama, I know you are finally at peace. I just miss you so much.
Posted by Valerie Harville on September 28, 2019
Missing you all so very much. I dont seem to know where I fit in, in this world without you guys. The silence echoes even when the room is full. There is an emptiness that will forever be... a void in this life without you here. I love you now as I loved you always. XO. ~V
Posted by Valerie Harville on August 30, 2019
I miss you so very much. All the words that I could write, they all just sound repeated. Because they all echo in my heart and mind that seem to be the deepest canyon of sorrow without you here. I love you Mom❤ Today you have been gone from our sight for 4 months and you're with Dad. Tomorrow you will celebrate with him once again. This year, 52 years of a promise of forever. Happy Anniversary to you both!!❤
Posted by Valerie Harville on July 30, 2019
My beautiful Mama, inside and out, your beauty and your love will never be overshadowed. It's been three months since you joined the angels. I miss you every day. So many things I want to tell you during the day. I hope you hear them in heaven. I love you more than words can express. I hope that you can feel my heart. ❤
Posted by Valerie Harville on June 30, 2019
Ma,
Everyday without you, I learn a new meaning, a new level of lonely.
I never told you, I didn't even know how much...., you were my rock, my anchor. You held me up. You kept me grounded. 
In the wake of the hardest times, the deepest losses in our lives, I still always had you and you kept me strong.  You were my greatest and very best friend.
I cannot find my bearings. You were my compass and my Northern Star. I miss your voice, your beautiful grace, your strength and your gentle touch. 
My tears feel like the ocean, deep and endless. My heart hurts and my soul feels tired without you and Dad and J.
I love you......I miss you.
Posted by Valerie Harville on May 30, 2019
Mom, it's been a month that you've been gone. It's so surreal and my heart just hurts. So many things I wish I could tell you, and that I wish I had said a million more times than I did. I miss you so much. I love you so much. I hope that heaven is everything you believed it would be and that you have Dad, Jimmy, Kelly, Jack, everyone you loved that are in heaven..... and Peace. My heart, my soul is broken. All of the "Just One More...Days, Times, Moments, Everything's....... would never be enough.❤
I love you.
Posted by Linda McAdams on May 15, 2019
Marcia was an honest, open-hearted soul that truly cared for people that crossed her path. She prayed for us, worried about us and did what she could to make our life better. The love she had for Valerie and Cody was undeniable. May God bless this woman who was an angel on earth and crown her with the peace and love that she showed us all in heaven.
Posted by Valerie Harville on May 12, 2019
It's Mother's Day, I hope you knew while you were here how much I love you and how blessed I am to have you as my mom.  I've never known a more loving, generous, selfless person and incredible mother in my life.  I cant even seem to find the words to express what my heart feels. Thank you for being my mother, my mom and my best friend.
Wishing you the most beautiful day in Heaven this Mother's Day, Ma.
I love and miss you so very much, with all my heart.
Posted by Liz Goodner on May 8, 2019
Valerie
Your mom was a dear friend to me. We only talked on the phone but I consider her a close dear friend. We has long talks cried together and one of my favorite people.  Yes I was her insurance agent however she was much more to me. 
Liz
Posted by michael jolley on May 5, 2019
Peace be with you till we meet again my dear sweet friend. Life is so much better for knowing you. The world needs more just like you. I love you dearly.
Posted by Leslie Kisser on May 4, 2019
Hey Sis,
Thanks for all the laughter and the tears, the late night talks we shared and the OMG walks, The morning phone calls, the "You're Not going to knock that wall down!", "Not another garage sale," "Can't we take a break now," times we shared. My life was blessed having a sister like you. Here's lookin at you kid!
"What the caterpillar calls the end of the world, the master calls a Butterfly" Richard Bach, Illusions
Posted by Amy Turner on May 3, 2019
Marcia, what a beautiful sweet soul. I know you are with your husband and Jim and what a wonderful reunion that must’ve been. Rest peacefully. Prayers for Val and Cody for strength and courage. Much love.
Amy
Posted by LAURA PAVAN on May 3, 2019
Aunt Marcia, you were more like a mom than an Aunt to Phil and me. Always worrying about us and checking in on us. Words cannot describe the loss we feel, but we know that our mom was also there to greet you when you arrived in Heaven. We love you so much and know that this isn't goodbye because we know we will see you again.
LOVE YOU, Laura and Phil xoxo
Posted by Valerie Harville on May 3, 2019
I love you Mom. I miss you so much. As I held your hand here, I know that you took dad's hand and crossed over into his and Jimmy's loving arms in heaven. I know everyone you loved and missed there were waiting for you, I told you they were. I know that one day we will all be together again.  I'm so grateful and blessed to have had you here as my mom, and my best friend.
Posted by Valerie Harville on May 3, 2019
Do Not Stand at My Grave and Weep
by Mary Elizabeth Frye

Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am in a thousand winds that blow,
I am the softly falling snow.
I am the gentle showers of rain,
I am the fields of ripening grain.
I am in the morning hush,
I am in the graceful rush
Of beautiful birds in circling flight,
I am the star shine of the night.
I am in the flowers that bloom,
I am in a quiet room.
I am in the birds that sing,
I am in each lovely thing.
Do not stand at my grave and cry,
I am not there. I did not die.

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Posted by Valerie Harville on April 30, 2021
Oh Mom, I cant believe that it's been 2 years that you took Dad's hand and crossed over. That day was the last of 3 that changed my life forever. I still don't know what I'm doing. You were my strength, my shoulder, my confidant my whole life.
I miss you more than I can find words for and life has forever changed without you.
I love you, I miss you. Still feel list without you..
At least I know you are with Dad and Jimmy and Gram and Gramps. And I'll see you again.
Love and miss you..... until then. xo
~V
Posted by Valerie Harville on May 9, 2021
Happy Heavenly Mother's Day to the most beautiful, amazingly kind, selfless and wonderful Mom a child (both Jim and I) could be blessed with. I miss you mom, wish I could spend this day with you. I love you. ❤️
Posted by Steve Nix on April 30, 2021
Well Marcia, it has been 2 years since you left us. You are in a better place now but not forgotten here. We think of you all the time, good times and great memories. You did not miss anything last year. It was a mess here. Say hi to Mom, Dad, Tony, and Jim for me.
Love you so much,
your brother Steve
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