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THE GREATEST PRAYER WARRIOR

September 27, 2012
01 The Prayer (American Idol Perform

Thank you mom for praying for us all without ceasing. And thank you for teaching me how to pray and have faith and trust in God no matter what. You were an amazing and beautiful and phenomenal mother. You taught me so much but most of all thank you for teaching me how to love unconditionally and how to forgive. You were the greatest prayer warrior. I love and miss you deeply and tremendously with all my heart and soul. A family that prays together stays together. "Together Forever." I dedicate "THE PRAYER"to my mom and dad and to all of my FAMILY. I pray for love, peace, comfort, strength and unity always.

THE PRAYER BY JESSICA SANCHEZ

I pray you'll be our eyes and watch us where we go.
And help us to be wise in times when we don't know
Let this be our prayer when we lose our way

Lead us to the place, guide us with your grace
To a place where we'll be safe

I pray we'll find your light
And hold it in our hearts
When stars go out each night
Let this be our prayer
When shadows fill our day

Lead us to a place, guide us with your grace
Give us faith so we'll be safe

I want pain and sorrow will be ended
and every heart that is broken will be mended
And remember we are all God's children
Reaching out to touch you
Reaching out to the sky

We ask that life be kind
And watch us from above
We hope each soul will find
Another soul to love
Let this be our prayer
Just like every child

Need to find a place, guide us with your grace
Give us faith so we'll be safe

Singing to my mama!

July 20, 2012

Mahal kita buon puso at buon mundo!  Rest in peace mama!  7/20/12

This is my desire to honor you
Lord with all my heart
I worship you
all I have within me
I give you praise
all that I adore
is in you

Lord I give you my heart
I give you my soul
I live for you alone
every breath that I take
every moment i'm awake
Lord have your way in me.

"I WILL BE HERE"

May 7, 2012

Dear my beautiful mother,

Lately I have been full of so many different emotions. I am blessed because your prayers were answered about God blessing me with a good man.I am excited that we will be getting married but yet my heart has been so heavy in missing you and dad deeply and tremendously. I wish you were both here to share my joys and also help me get through some pains that come with life. I know if you were here you would tell me that everything is going to be alright and to let go and let God. The other day I heard this song "I will be here" that reminds me of you so much and a rush of sadness in missing you came over me. Thank you so much from the bottom of my heart for loving me unconditionally and for always being here for me no matter what. I love you deeply and tremendously with all my heart.

Tomorrow mornin' if you wake upAnd the sun does not appear...I will be here.

If in the dark we lose sight of love Hold my hand and have no fear' CauseI...I will be here

I will be here...When you feel like bein' quiet.

When you need to speak your mind I will listen And I will be here.

When the laughter turns to cryin'Through the winnin' and losin' and tryin'We'll be together'Cause I will be here.

Tomorrow mornin'. if you wake up And the future is unclear...I'll be here

Just as sure as seasons are made for change Our lifetimes are made for years....I will be here

I will be here....You can cry on my shoulder When the mirror tells us we're older.

I will hold you And I will be here To watch you grow in beauty And tell you all the things you are to me

I will be here.

I will be trueTo the promise I have made To you and to the One who gave you to me...I will be here

And just as sure as seasons are made for chang e Our lifetimes are made for years'Cause ...I will be here....We'll be together 'Cause I will be here.

A dream about her

March 2, 2012
I just had a dream about my Grandma. It was in the park. I think because my favorite memories is with her at Benito Park. And she was standing on this yellow slide. She had black leggings, a red top and her hair was shiny and beautiful. Kids passed by me as I approached her slowly and she came up to me and grabbed my arm. She always had this strength that amazed me. And said : Meha, I love you and I'm so proud of you. You know so much more now..... I touched her soft hair, her skin and this instant rush of emotion came over me and I woke up crying. I miss her so much. :'(

Think Positive

August 29, 2011

As we all know mom had a lot of words of wisdom and encouragement. Here is another one of my favorite sayings she used to tell me when I would become discouraged. "Think positive," which comes to mind a couple of my favorite scriptures:

Thank you from the bottom of my heart my beautiful mom for teaching and showing me how to always be positive in life regardless of negative circumstances.

I miss and love you deeply and tremendously!!!

Philippians 4:8
[ Meditate on These Things ] Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things.
 

Romans 8:28

And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.

August 20, 2011

IN MEMORY OF MOM "MARGARET CASTRO". 

TODAY 1 MONTH AGO ON JULY 20TH. 2011. MOM / GRM.DEPARTED FROM US. AND CAME IN UNION WITH GOD. LET'S TAKE A MOMENT AND REFLECT AND LIGHT MOM'S PRAYER CANDLE, AND MAKE A SPECIAL REQUEST IN PRAYER, AND CALL UPON HER NAME. AS MOM IS OUR TRUE GUARDIAN ANGEL AND SAINT. THROUGH MOM'S LIFE ON EARTH, ALL HER SACRAFICES, AND DEVOTIONS.. MOM HAS GAINED GREAT MERRITS IN HEAVEN. THEREFORE, GOD WILL CONTINUOUSLY.. "GRANT HER PETITIONS IN PRAYER. THE HOPE OF BEING REUNITED WITH "MOM & DAD", AND ALL OUR LOVED ONES, GIVES ME A SENSE OF PEACE AND SERENTIY. I PRAY FOR MOM'S TREMENDOUS, PEACE, LOVE, AND ETERNAL GLORY".. REFLECT UPON US ALL. "I GIVE THANKS, PRAISE, AND HONOR TO MOM.. FOR ALL HER SACRAFICIAL AND UNCONDITIONAL LOVE FOR US ALL. "REST IN PEACE MOM".. AND MAY ALL THE SOULS DEPARTED REST IN PEACE. I LOVE YOU MOM WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL. YOUR LOVING DAUGHTER..VIRGINIA

SERENITY PRAYER:

GOD, GRANT ME THE SERENITY TO ACCEPT THE THINGS I CANNOT CHANGE, COURAGE TO CHANGE THE THINGS I CAN AND WISDOM TO KNOW THE DIFFERENCE~~~~

LIVING ONE DAY AT A TIME; ENJOYING ONE MOMENT AT A TIME;

MAY MY TEARS ALWAYS TURN INTO JOY AND MY PRAYERS ALWAYS INCLUDE OTHERS.

MAY MY OBEDIENCE BE THE MEASURE OF MY TRUST.

MAY THE PEACE OF CHRIST GUIDE MY HEART ALWAYS~~~AMEN~~~~

HUMBLED BY THE GRACE OF LOVE

August 9, 2011

 I CAN REMEMBER WHEN I FIRST MET MARGIE, AFTER COMING AROUND VISITING VIRGINIA. I KNEW EVENTUALLY I WAS GOING TO MEET HER MOM. FINALLY WHEN I DID, SHE HAD THIS COOL FAMILIAR LOOK WITH A NICE UPDO HAIR STYLE. THAT I WAS USED TO SEEING AT MY HOUSE IN WEST COVINA. MY MOM HELD ROSARY MEETING WITH FATHER ALOUISIS. AND SOMETIMES I WOULD WONDER IF MARGIE WAS EVER A PART OF MY FAMILY PRAYER GROUP, WHEN I WAS A LITTLE BOY. SO MANY PEOPLE FROM ALL OVER CAME TO MY HOUSE.

IN 1979 WHEN I FIRST MET MARGIE, SHE WAS SO BEAUTIFUL AND SO SAINTLY. SHE WAS ALWAYS DRESSED UP. SHE ALWAYS LOOKED LIKE SHE CAME FROM A ROSARY MEETING.

AT 17 YEARS OLD I LIVED WITH MY MOTHER-IN-LAW, AND FATHER-IN-LAW FOR TWO YEARS IN 1982. AT THERE WEST COVINA HOME, 1851  WALNUT CREEK PKWY. IN THERE GARAGE CONVERTED ROOM FOR TWO YEARS. AND IT HUMBLED ME TO LEARN TO LIVE THE CASTRO FAMILY'S LOVE FOR CHRIST.

WHEN WE MOVED OUT, MARGIE HELD MY HANDS, AND TOLD ME TO TAKE CARE OF VIRGINIA. AND I GAVE HER A REAL BIG HUG AND REASSURED HER, THAT I WOULD ALWAYS LOVE AND RESPECT HER DAUGHTER.

I FELL IN LOVE WITH VIRGINA BECAUSE I FOUND OUT LATER SHE CARRIED HER MOM'S TRAITS. THE HAPPY SWEET VOICE, THE TENDER LOVE, AND THE SOFTNESS OF HER PERSONALITY.

 I GREW UP IN A VERY STRICT AND RELIGIOUS FAMILY WITH 6 BROTHERS AND 1 SISTER. AT THE TIME IT WAS KAOS. BUT MY PARENTS MANAGED TO KEEP US IN LINE WITH A STERN ROMAN CATHALIC FIST.

BUT LIVING WITH THE CASTRO'S AND LIVING WITH THE SOFTNESS OF MARGIE'S DETERMINED VOICE AND TELLING ME TO ALWAYS BE PATIENCE AND HAVE FAITH AND PRAY ALWAYS.

MARGIE ALWAYS WELCOMED ME AS A TRUE SON OF HERS AND GAVE ME ALL THE LOVE AND RESPECT AND MORE. SHE TAUGHT ME PATIENCE AND FAITH BY WATCHING HER GOING TO CHURCH AND ORGANIZING FUNCTIONS. THAT SHE ALWAYS TALKED ABOUT WITH ME.

I WAS SO THANKFUL TO BE ACCEPTED SO QUICK AND SO YOUNG. AND CAN ONLY REALIZE NOW AS AN OLDER MAN.

EVERYTHING THAT I KNOW ABOUT MARGIE IS SO GRACEFUL, GENTLE, AND MOST LOVING OF ALL THINGS THAT EXSIST.

I'M SO PROUD TO SAY I KNOW MARGIE CASTRO LIKE NO OTHER IN MY OWN PERSONAL WAY.

I REALIZED HOW DEEP IN PRAYER MARGIE WAS. AT THE TIME, VIRGINIA AND I WAS YOUNG TEENAGERS. WE HAD OUR SON DANIEL IN 1982. HE WAS BORN WITH DOWN SYNDROME. I CAN REMEMBER NOT UNDERSTANDING AND WAS UPSET AND SAD. BUT MARGIE BROUGHT LIGHT TO OUR SITUATION. BY TELLING ME THAT MY SON WILL ALWAYS BE PURE AND SINLESS. AND THAT SOMEDAY, HE WILL BE PRAYING FOR US IN HEAVEN.

MARGIE TOUCHED MY HEART AND HUMBLED ME THROUGH HER DAUGHTER VIRGINIA. I'VE BEEN GIVEN A GIFT OF THAT WINDOW THAT I CAN SEE. I CAN SEE NO END.

NEVER IN MY LIFE WILL I BE CLOSE TO A MOTHERLY LOVE, OF THE MOTHER OF MY WIFE. SHE CARRIES ALL THE TRAITS THAT WILL ALWAYS BE THE TRUE MARGIE CASTRO IN MY LIFE.

I APPRECIATED WHATEVER TIME I HAD WITH HER. WE WOULD ALWAYS REFLECT ABOUT SAINTLY STORIES. AND THERE WAS NEVER A DULL MOMENT. SHE WOULD HOLD MY HANDS SO TIGHT AND SHOW HER APPRECIATION OF SPENDING THE TIME, BUT NOW KNOWING, I WAS THE ONE WHO APRRECIATED THE MOST.

THERE WERE TIMES, WE WOULD TALK ABOUT JESUS. AND THE OPPORTUNITY TO EXPRESS THE DEPTS OF MY FEELINGS. ABOUT WHAT I'VE LEARNED THROUGH SPIRTUAL READINGS. AS I TRYED TO BETTER MY LIFE. AND SHARING THAT WITH MARGIE WAS A BLESSING.

THERE'S THIS ONE STORY ABOUT THE VIRGIN MARY AND HER SON JESUS, AND HOW THEY CONNECTED SPIRTUALLY WITHOUT SPEECH. BUT WITH THE EYES AND SOUL. MARGIE AND I WOULD JUMP FROM ONE SUBJECT TO ANOTHER AND BOTH LIT UP TALKING ABOUT CHRIST.

I READ TO BELIEVE THAT OUR MOTHER MARY AND HER SON JESUS NEEDED NO PHYSICAL WAY TO COMMUNICATE, BUT THROUGH MENTALTHALEPATHY. WHICH MEANS THROUGH HEART AND SOUL.

NOW I REALIZE I HAVE A VERSION OF YOU MARGIE, YOUR DAUGHTER MY WIFE, FOR ME TO CHERISH AND PRAY WITH. WE BOTH WILL SEE YOU SOON. CAN'T WAIT TO SHARE THE REST OF OUR LIVES, SHARING STORIES WITH YOU. AND LAUGH ABOUT GOOD TIMES.

I AM WHO I AM BECAUSE I'VE BEEN NURTURED AND SCULPTED WITH VIRGINIA AS ONE. BEING SO YOUNG AND UNAWARE OF THE DEPTS OF LOVE. WERE ALL BLIND TO THE DEPTS OF LOVE. UNTIL WE START TO SURRENDER OURSELVES. WHETHER IT BE A STRANGER, A FREIND OR FAMILIA.

EVERYBODY EXSIST AND PUT IN FRONT OF US, JUST AS CHIRST WALKED ON THE EARTH AND PUT IN FRONT OF HIM. TO MAINTAINE PEACE AND LOVE.

MARGIE, SURPASSES ALL THESE SIMPLE CHARITIES OF LIFE. SHE WENT BEYOND EVERYBODY'S MEANS. AND SOULY DEDICATED HER LIFE TO CHRIST.

I KNOW THAT PERSONALLY BECAUSE I WAS THERE EVERYDAY OF MY LIFE AS A TEENAGER FROM THE TIME I WAS 15 YEARS OLD.

MARGIE I WILL ALWAYS PRAY TO YOU BECAUSE I'M TRUELY CONNECTED TO YOU THROUGH VIRGINIA. I YEARN TO BE IN YOUR PRESENCE ONCE AGAIN. I'VE ABSORBED ABSOLUTE LOVE THROUGH YOUR GRACE IN MY LIFE, AND BLESSINGS. I WILL CONTINUE TO BE NURTURED THROUGH YOUR GRACE AND PRAYERS. AND KEEP ASKING FOR MORE BLESSINGS.

I'M HONORED TO BE PART OF MARGIE'S LIFE AND HER SPIRITUAL LOVE. SHE WOULD ALWAYS ASK ME TO PRAY FOR THE FAMILY, BECAUSE SHE KNEW MY FAITH WAS STRONG.

THERE WAS A TIME, WHEN I TOOK MARGIE TO HOME DEPOT. IT WAS RECENTL AFTER MY FATHER-IN-LAW HAD PAST AWAY IN APRIL 2006. SHE ASKED ME TO TAKE HER TO BUY FLOWERS FOR HER NEW HOUSE IN RANCHO ON CRAIG ST. IT WAS ABOUT 12 FLORAL HANGING BASKETS WITH DIFFERENT COLORS FOR THERE EASTER CELEBRATION.

I'LL NEVER FORGET THE TIME WE ALL WENT TO BOLSA BEECH ON FOURTH OF JULY THE YEAR 1990. AND MARGIE HAD WENT ALONG WITH BOTH OUR FAMILIE'S AS WE CARAVANED. WE ALL HAD A LONG DAY AND HAVING A GOOD TIME WITH LOTS OF FOOD AND DRINKS. ON THE WAY HOME I WAS PULLED OVER BY A CHP. I REMBEMBER BEING SO WORRIED AND SCARED I WAS GOING TO BE TAKING IN, FROM BEING UNDER THE INFLUENCE OF ALCOHOL. AFTER DOING A SOBRIETY TEST AND PASSING. I WAS SHOCKED THE CHP HAD LET ME GO.  AS I LOOKED BESIDES ME, THERE WAS VIRGINIA IN HER CAR WITH HER MOM, AND I NOTICED MARGIE HOLDING HER ROSARY AND PRAYING FOR ME. THAT WAS MY MIRACLE THAT DAY. SHE SAID, MIJO I PRAYED FOR YOU. AND THANKED HER FOR PRAYING FOR ME.

GOING WITH MARGIE AT HOME DEPOT WAS ONE MEMORY I WILL ALWAYS CHERISH THAT QUALITY AND PERSONAL TIME THAT I HAD WITH MARGIE. BECAUSE IT WAS JUST THE TWO OF US. I FELT LIKE A TRUE SON. OUR CONVERSATIONS WAS ALL ABOUT THE LOVE THAT SHE HAD FOR THE FAMILY. AND TOLD ME HOW PROUD SHE WAS OF TAKING CARE OF MY FAMILY. IT TOUCHED MY HEART DEEPLY, AND EVEN MORE SO KNOWING I'VE KNOWN HER 32 YEARS OF MY LIFE. I FELT SHE WAS A TRUE SAINT.

I THANK YOU MARGIE FOR ALL YOU'VE GIVEN ME THROUGH YOUR LOVE. YOU'VE HUMBLED ME AS A PERSON. FROM A TEENAGER TO AN ADULT. THROUGH YOUR DAUGHTER THAT SHE CARRIES. IT ALL RESEMBLES YOUR LIFE.

MARGIE I CAN ONLY IMAGINE YOUR TRUE JOY. IF I CAN COMPREHEND THE LOVE OF HEAVEN AS A HUMAN BEING MY HEART WOULD NOT BE ABLE TO CONTAIN THE JOY WHAT YOU POSESS. MY HEART WILL EXPLODE.

I'M ALSO THANKFUL AND PROUD OF MY DAUGHTER VANESSA. MARGIE EXPRESSED TO ME, THAT VIRGINIA AND I  PLANTED A SEED WITH VANESSA. AND WITH MARGIE'S GRACIOUS LOVE, NURTORED THAT SEED WITH LOVE, GRACE, AND WISDOM.

VANESSA WAS BLESS WITH A SEED THAT HER GRAMA MARGIE NURTORED SPIRITUALLY AND ETERNALLY WITH ALL HER GRACE THAT WAS GIVEN BY GOD, THROUGH HER SUFFERINGS.

MARGIE SAID , WE TAUGHT VANESSA WITH FAITH AND LIVING A CHRIST LIFE. AND PROUD THAT WE GO TO CHURCH AS A FAMILY. SHE TOLD ME TO TAKE GOOD CARE OF VANESSA.

ALL THAT VANESSA HAD ENDURED THESE PAST TWO YEARS, UNLESS YOU WERE SPIRITUALLY STRENGTHENED AND FILLED WITH THE LOVE FOR CHRIST AND HAVE A HUNDRED PERCENT FAITH AND WHAT YOU CAN'T SEE OR HEAR.

IT WOULD BE IMPOSSIBLE TO ENDURE SUCH A TASK OF TAKING CARE OF HER GRAMA MARGIE 24/7 NON STOP. WITHOUT HAVING SUCH BLESSINGS, HER GRACIOUS LOVE AND THE KNOWLEDGE THAT MARGIE SHARES.

MARGIE YOU HAVE GIVEN VANESSA THE GIFT OF LOVE. I THANK GOD AND THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR LOVE AND GRACE..

I LONG TO HUG AND EMBRACE MARGIE FOR PRAYING FOR MY SOUL, AND HELPING ME GAIN ETERNITY. WITH MY BROTHER LEONARD, MY NEPEW'S FATHER FRANK, MY GRAMA  AND GRAMPA.

UNTILL WE MEET AGAIN IN HEAVEN WITH YOU AND MANUEL AND ALL OUR LOVED ONES.

I LOVE YOU MARGIE WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

August 8, 2011

 

My mother’s love is the greatest gift full of blessings and so rare
All I need is found in all that she made me to be with gems beyond compare.
A ring around my heart fills me with confidence in the Lord is found
For the gift of my mother’s love has always made me sound.
For the gift of my mother’s love is pearls of wisdom I wear upon my mind every day
I shall be anxious for nothing as I relinquish her when I pray.
I shall always meditate upon the gift of my mother’s love, a love so pure, so true
Everlasting and with the treasures she bestowed upon me I shall pursue.
The gift of my mother’s love is a pin of perfection piercing my being showing in my life so much to gain
The gift of my mother’s love will always protect me from pain.
The good Lord is at work in me and how the gift of my mother’s love at His side will always bring me pleasure
Mom the gift of your love I will always treasure.
 

Baby Jesus..

August 5, 2011

I remember when i was a little girl about 11 or 12 years old I went with grandma and my aunts and nina to the Sante Nino celebration. The Feast day of baby Jesus. There were lots of happy joyful phillipinos, but above them all.. grandma was the star of them all. "The life of the party". She hugged and kissed and laughed with everyone. The best part that i remember was when the music got started everyone gathered their baby jesus's. Grandma grabbed me to dance in the circle of her church members..As the music played danced  with baby jesus in the palm of our hands and did "circle circle" I remember how happy grandma was that we were dancing together. She was happy and proud to show me off. Ill never forget this day..the love that i gained for baby Jesus and how proud i was to have a grandma so loving and precious to me always.

Missing you Grandma...

August 5, 2011

I miss You grandma with all my heart..as the days go bye i miss you more and more I keep imagining your smile and how happy you must be. I miss waking up to you beside me with a sweet morning smile.I close my eyes and try to dream of you or imagine your sweet loving voice. Grandma when i go outside and I look at the sky i know your in heaven. The bright sun remindes me of your smile. Your smile was like the rey of sun.. warms my body mind and soul. Your in the air I breath. You give me hope and tranquility. You are the reflection of my smile...you inspire me. You are the shining star in the night, you are the aroma in the rose. I feel your touch through my mom. Hugging her comforts me as if im hugging you. Grandma i wont stop missing you. I only cry cause i miss you and i remember all our good memories. Im hoping you come to me in my dreams. Let me know you are there. I pray for strength, courage, and wisdom...I love you Grandma with all my heart. Thank you for all your love. I will share with others what you have shown to us...your unconditional love is worth more than words can express.Because of you Grandma i have hope, because of you I will strive for better and  "Through God all things are possible" and I will always remember your heartfelt words that are comforting. Mahal na mahal kita! Siempre! Siempre!! Love your Nurse love your paborite. This is the smile that lifts my soul...

MY MOTHER - "MY BLESSING AND MY COMFORTER"

August 5, 2011

I am so very thankful and grateful to God for blessing me with the most perfect and greatest gift of all, and that is my beautiful and precious mom. She had the rare kind of love that was unconditional and sacrificial. Her love for faith, family and friends was amazing. Ever since I was a little girl I have always admired my mom for her strong faith in God and enduring trials and hardships in life with incredible strength. I always hoped to be as strong as she was and honored to follow in her footsteps as a woman of faith. Thank you mom from the bottom of my heart for teaching me how to love, pray, and to always have faith in God and most of all, thank you so very much for your amazing love and for always being there for me and my kids.  

There were periods in my life when I went through some hardships and my mom was always there for me to turn to for prayer and comfort. My mom and dad’s doors were always open to me and my family and all who needed to stay in her home when there was nowhere else to go. We all have so much to be thankful to mom for. She had such an incredible and overwhelming love for her children and grandchildren. Each and every one of us had a special relationship with her. One of the greatest memories of her is when she started calling me her “Comforter.” Whenever I would spend time with her we would sing, laugh about things or enjoying laughing  about nothing at all. As I am honored that she called me her comforter, she is the one who is the greatest comforter of all. She always comforted us all regardless of what she was going through. I remember when I caught the flu, she and my dad went to my house to make me some chicken tinola (“comfort food”) because she knew it would make feel better. Also, there were numerous times she came over to rub Vick's on my back to relieve my cough. I sure miss those days! There were countless ways my mom showed me how much she loved me. I miss so many things that we used to do together like going to church, movies and special church functions and to the mall, where at times she just wanted to walk around or sit and be around people. She loved to go anywhere there were lots of people. She also loved going for long drives and anywhere there are bright lights.My most favorite thing to do was watch American Idol, Dancing with the Stars and So you think you can dance with her. We enjoyed watching it very much and I deeply miss watching them with her. Most of all, I miss the way she expressed her love for with her angelic eyes and stunning eyes. They spoke louder than words can ever express.
Another memory that comes to my mind was when I took her to the Harvest Crusade in 2007 where Pastor Greg Laurie reached out to thousands to accept Jesus Christ as their Lord and Savior. More than 15,000 people received Jesus in their hearts along with prayer and my amazing mom was one of them. She really enjoyed the worship band and was praising and singing to the Lord with raising her hands up high saying "praise the Lord, praise the Lord." There were over 50,000 people there that day and mom was just so excited to be there praising God. When I took her home she could not stop talking about it for weeks. I thank God that she was able to attend such an exciting and memorable event. I was so blessed to be there with my precious mom who was larger than life. I will always cherish those memories in my heart. As my heart is filled with sadness and missing her tremendously, I also feel joy that she is now home with the Lord rejoicing and singing praises with the choir of angels all day long. I long to see you again my most amazing and remarkable mother. Thank God for the future and hope of eternal life.
"I love you deeply and tremendously with all my heart and soul my miracle mother."
God is our refuge and strength. I pray that God will empower and overwhelm family and friends with God's love, peace, comfort and strength throughout our lives. God bless you all!
Matthew 5:4 - “Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted.”
1 Cor. 13-13  And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.
 Philippians 4:6-7 Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; 7 and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.
Philippians 4:13 - I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.
Jeremiah 29:11 - For I know the plans I have for you says the Lord, they are plans for good and not for disaster to give you a future and hope.
Romans 8:28 - And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.
Isaiah 40:31 - But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength; they shall mount up with wings like eagles, they shall run and not be weary, they shall walk but not faint.
Proverbs 3:5-6 - Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths.

 

a woman who has all the acceptance

August 5, 2011
My grandma is truly amazing. There's a million words to describe her. But one that will stick with me forever is that no matter what you looked like, she will always accept you and never judge you. She always saw the good in people. And that's a trait I will carry on for her always.

MY MOM" MY BEST FRIEND"

August 4, 2011

MY MOM WAS A BEAUTIFUL SOUL WHO TOUCHED EVERY PERSON'S HEART WITH UNCONDITIONAL AND SACRAFICIAL LOVE. HER GREATEST JOY WAS HER DEDICATION IN SERVING GOD IN CHURCH. AND HER DEEP DEVOTION TO JESUS AND BLESSED MOTHER. AND SPENDING TIME WITH HER CHILDREN, GRANDCHILDREN, AND OTHER FAMILY AND FRIENDS AS WELL. WAS HER TRUE HAPPINESS.

MY MOM LOVE LIFE, SHE LOVED MEETING NEW PEOPLE, AND END UP BEING HER GOOD FRIENDS. HER MOST COMPASSIONATE WAYS ARE TO NOT TO BE JUDGEMENTAL TOWARDS OTHERS, AND TO ALWAYS PEACE, LOVE AND FORGIVENESS IN YOUR HEART.

MY MOM WAS AN INSPIRATION AND A TRUE ROLE MODEL TO ALL. HER STANDARDS AND MORAL VALUES IS TO THE ULTIMATE. PRAYER TO HER WAS UNENDING. HER GREATEST PASSION IS HER FAITH AND TRUST IN GOD. THAT ALONE, HAS GIVEN HER SO MUCH STRENGTH, COURAGE AND WISDOM.

MY MOM WAS A PART OF SACRED HEART CHURCH CHOIR. AND WAS VERY ACTIVE IN CHURCH FUNCTIONS, ACTIVITIES, AND FUNDRAISERS. I ALSO, TOOK HER TO OUR LADY OF LOURDS CHURCH ON TUESDAYS, TO PRAY HER NOVENA ( ROSARY ) WITH A PRAYER GROUP. SHE WAS INVOLVED WITH THIS CHURCH FOR 15 YEARS. AND STARTED A FILLIPINO MINISTRY GROUP. THAT LEAD TO MANY OTHERS FOLLOWING IN HER FOOTSTEPS.

MY MOM PRAISED OTHER PERPETUAL HELP, AND DIVINE MERCY. PRAYING THE ROSARY WAS A TRUE HONOR. SHE WALKED, TALKED AND LIVED A VIRTUOUS LIFE AND IMITATED CHRIST LIFE.

GOD'S DIVINE WORDS WAS INSTILLED IN HER HEART, MIND, BODY AND SOUL.

MANY MIRACLE'S AND BLESSINGS THROUGHOUT MY MOM'S LIFE. THROUGH HER STRONG PRAYERS, THAT CAUSED MANY HEALINGS TO ALL WALKS OF LIFE. THROUGH HER SPIRTUAL ADVICE, AND LOVE AND AFFECTION TO ALL.

MY MOM ENCOUNTERED NUMEROUS EPISODES IN HER LIFE. AND MANY CHALLENGES. INSPITE OF THE HARDSHIPS AND SACRAFICES. SHE CONTINUED TO STRIVE AND STRIVE WITHOUT CEASING..AND NEVER GAVE UP HOPE ON LIFE, AND STOOD STRONG WITH GREAT HONOR AND DIGNITY.

MY MOM SEEKED AND SOUGHT MANY PRAISES AND GLORY IN LIFE. THROUGH SPIRITUAL READING, PSALMS, HYMNS AND GOSPILL MUSIC. THAT MAGNAFIED MANY PEOPLE THAT SURROUNDS HER.

MY MOM NEVER FOUND FLAWS IN PEOPLE. HER GREATEST GRATITUDE WAS NOT FINDING FAULT, BUT FINDING GOOD IN THEM.

HER SORROWS WERE, THE LACK IN FORGIVENESS IN PEOPLE AND ACKNOWLEDMENT TO JESUS CHRIST. WHEN SHE CAME ACCROSS OTHERS, SHE WOULD SHARE STORIES ABOUT HER DEEP LOVE TOWARDS GOD, AND BLESSED MOTHER AND ALL THE SAINTS, AND ANGLES.

MY MOM WAS A TRUE TESTIMONY OF HER FAITH. SHE ENDURED MANY SUFFERINGS IN HER LIFE. AND YET, EMBRASED WITH HUMILTIY AND STOOD STRONG. THAT IS THE REWARDS OF ETERNAL SALVATION IN HEAVEN.

I THANK GOD FOR BLESSING US WITH A BEAUTIFUL MOTHER. AND THE GIFT OF JOY OF BEING WITH HER AN EXTRA 2 YEARS. SHE'S SO AMAZING. I'M GOING TO MISS HER SO MUCH. BUT I KNOW HEAVEN AWAITS US.

MY MOM HAS ALWAYS BEEN A GREAT INSPIRATION IN MY LIFE. SHE HAD LIVED A VIRTUOUS LIFE.

GROWING UP, I WAS TAUGHT  TO ALWAYS PRAY AND GO TO CHURCH. TILL THIS DAY FOLLOWING HER PATH.

THESE PAST 2 YEARS HAS BEN THE HARDEST TIMES IN MY LIFE, AS MY MOM HAD MANY STRUGGELS. BUT SHE CONTINUED TO TRUST IN GOD AND HAVE FAITH. AS SHE ALWAYS TAUGHT US. SHE ALSO, BELIEVE THAT NO MATTER WHAT WE ENDURE IN LIFE, WE MUST ACCEPT AND SURRENDER, AND OFFER IT UP TO OUR LORD. THESE WORDS OF WISDOM, GAVE ME SO MUCH MORE HOPE FOR LIFE.

MY MOM PROVED TO US, EVERYTHING SHE HAD ENDURED THESE PAST 2 YEARS. SHE MANAGED TO KEEP HER PEACE, AND STILL SMILED AT EACH AND EVERYONE OF US.

WE SHARED MANY MOMENT TOGETHER, ESPECIALLY GOING TO DIFFERENT MALLS, CHURCH FUNCTIONS, PARKS AND MANY OTHER PLACES. SHE LOVED TO GET HER NAILS, AND HAIR DONE. MY DAD ALWAYS SAID..SHE HIGH MAINTANCE!

SHE WOULD SLEEP OVER MY HOUSE ALOT. AND AT NIGHT SAT IN OUR PRAYER ROOM IN FRONT OF THE BLESSED MOTHER.

MY MOM WAS VERY ACTIVE IN CHURCH CHOIR AND SENIOR CHOIR IN RANCHO CUCAMONGA. I ENJOYED WATCHING HER EACH TIME. SINGING OUT LOUD WAS HER WAY OF EXPRESSING THE MUSIC IN HER SOUL. THAT IMMURSED HER HEART WITH JOY AND LAUGHTER.

HER CHOIR ALSO, PERFORMED AT THE VICTORIS GARDEN CULTURAL CENTER. THE HAD A HUGE TURN OUT WITH THOUSANDS OF PEOPLE. THERE CONCERT WAS CALLED THE FOLLIES.

MY MOM CONTINUED TO STAY INVOLVED IN ALL SORTS OF SPECIAL OCCASIONS, GIFT GIVING, AND DIFFERENT FUNCTIONS, AND OUTINGS AT MANY LOCATIONS. SHE ALWAYS VOLUNTEERED IN CHURCH FAIRS AND CARNIVALS. HER FAVORITE BOOTH TO VOLUNTEER IN IS..THE PLANT BOOTH, AND PHILLIPINO FOOD BOOTH. SHE WAS SO HAPPY BEING A PART OF THE COORDINATING FUNDRAISARS.

SHE ALSO, WAS IN A FILIPPINO DANCE GROUP. THERE CLOTHING WAS SO BRIGHT AND COLORFUL. SHE LOOKES SO BEAUTIFUL DANCING WITH A HUGE SMILE. NO MATTER WHERE WE WOULD GO, PICTURES WERE ALWAYS TAKEN. AS LOVED IT!

THESE SPECIAL MEMORIES WILL ALWAYS LIVE IN MY HEART FOREVER.

I LOVE YOU MOM WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL..GIVE DAD A KISS AND HUG FOR ME, AND ALL OUR LOVED ONES.

YOUR LOVING DAUGHTER, VIRGINIA CASTRO ROMO

 

 

 

 

 

My Eulogy for grandma By Vanessa Romo

August 2, 2011

I love grandma with all my heart. She has been such a gracious blessing in my life. She has touched my heart and loved me with all hers. As a little girl I was always close to grandma and we shared a special bond. She was the most loving caring and affectionate grandma anyone could ever have.I admired her for her strength, wisdom, and courage. I wanted to gain these qualities and imitate her some day. Most of all i admired her for her strength and persaverance to pull through her sufferings. She never stoped believing that God had a plan for her and for all of us.

One day I asked grandma how she became so close to jesus and blessed mother, she told me that since she was 12 years old she started praying the rosary. She learned how to pray devotedly. She said it made her feel good to pray and she said.. "Mija you have to meditate real hard to feel connected to blessed mother. I yearned to feel the same way.

One of the best memories i have with grandma was when she held my hand while i drove my car. We used to go to the mall and try on cloths together, go out to eat, movies, and church. I felt that special love and bond with her.  We had the most heartfelt conversations about life, her love and devotion to the blessed Mother and Jesus. She always talked about grandpa and their love for eachother.  Grandma's advice to live by your faith is instilled in my heart.

 Grandma walked her talk...she never took her life forgranted or took any of us forgranted. Her love was a gift and uncondiional. Another quality i loved and admired about my sweet grandma was her humbleness and dignity. She thanked God for her test and trials because the true testimony of faith made her stronger and the desire of Gods love healed her pain. Grandma was a teacher and comforter. She was always there to listen and understand...and her laugh and smile healed my pain.

Grandma taught me how to trust in God with all my heart. I prayed so hard for her to be healed. I was overwhlemed with joy when we took her home from the hospital. It was then when i believed in miracles and I appreciated God for his love. I learned that through God all things are possible as grandma always said.

I have loved and cherished these last two years. We had the best most special memories with grandma. I had the strongest love and desire to take care of grandma. I did whatever it took to make her feel so comfortable and beautiful cause she deserved the utmost tender loving care. Though she couldnt tell me she loved me but i could still feel it in her touch and in her smile.  Though it was emotional and painful to see grandma suffer, but i prayed. God gave me strength and renewed my body, mind, and soul. Grandmas beautiful smile was my reward and her trust in me touched my heart. Every night I kissed embraced her because i knew tomarrow was never promised and every morning i thanked God for another day with grandma.

 Grandma is the reason why have compassion for my nursing career.  She always told me, "Have patience mija" and " Pinish your studies". She always believed and had faith in me that some day i would become a good nurse. I know that pursuing my career would make her proud and i know she will walk with me in my journey. Im filled with love and joy and gratefuness to God for giving me the gift of taking care of grandma. Her miracle made a big impact on me and has touched my soul and humbled me. Her love an life will carry me on. I will forever cherish our memories.

I want to express to My nina how much i love her and appreciate her for intrusting in me to take care of grandma. We couldnt have done it without each other. We were side by side always..moment by moment we felt each others heart. Both of us help grandma carrie her cross... Nina I will always cherish the quality time we together with grandma. I also want to Thank my mom for getting me through the tough times. She knew my heart ....she carried my heart too.

Grandma is my greatest inpiration..i have learned love, compassion, patience and kindness. Her genuine faith and wisdom has taught me the best lesson of life. I have yet to live her legacy.

I Love you grandma with all my heart and soul. I will miss you so deeply. One day i will tell my children what a beautiful loving grandma I had. You'll be theirs too. Your our gaurdian angel now.

Ill Miss her saying..."i love you very very much mija...very very much."

 Grandmas love is the very depth of my soul...I have been blessed. I will work my way to heaven to see her again.

Eulogy by Alice Marin - July 27, 2011

August 2, 2011

 This is a very difficult thing for me to begin; I don’t know whether to start with the pain I have over her loss, or the joy and Blessing of having known her for over forty years. I believe I will start with the latter, the way she would have wanted me to, always good things first. I considered Margie to have been one of my closest friends, a friend I could depend on through thick and thin. She consoled me and prayed with me through some of the most difficult times of my life, she also shared with me some of the happiest times of my life with her loving, giving and infectious laughter. From the very first time we met in West Covina to the time that destiny kept us together at the Senior Center in Rancho Cucamonga forty years later, she never changed, always loving, joyful and caring.

The love she shared with everyone was life changing, her love for life, her love for people and especially her love for our creator was special. Her heart was so full of love that everyone she met received some of that never ending agape love. My children were all blessed by her love, her attitude on life, the sharing of her home at times and sound guidance when in need of direction. They all loved her very much and saw her as a second mother.
Margie was a giving person, if you needed a dollar she had a dollar, if you needed to talk she had the time, if you needed to cry she would cry with you and if you needed to laugh ( which was her specialty ) she found a way to make troubles disappear and have you walk away smiling and laughing. What a special gift this woman had.
Margie, I will miss our coffee’s together at Carl’s in West Covina, our Bingo’s and Fiesta’s at Sacred Heart, our dangerous rides in your car when you were a new driver, our discussions of family life in West Covina, then later in life as we matured our Bingo games, dancing, dress up festivities, and most of all aging and laughing together. I will miss you, but I know where you are, in a room that was prepared for you a long, long time ago.
Good bye Margie, I love you.
Your Friend Alice
 

Eulogy by Gilbert Castro Jr.

August 1, 2011
Gramma Margie was the most loving, humble and caring person we could have ever known. She always wanted people to feel welcome when she would have visitors or family come to her house. No matter who it was, she would always want them to eat, but her way of asking wouldn't really be asking...she would say, "you'll eat now mija!", in a demanding type of way. But I know she wasn't trying to sound mean, she just wanted to make sure you didn't go hungry. One of my favorite memories of Grandma Margie was at Christmas time at Grandma and Grandpa's house in Montclair. She would always gather all the kids around in the family room, and she would throw change in the air for all of us to catch....and she would chant..."dollar-dollar, dollar-dollar!". My cousins and I would be pushing and shoving to get as much money we could get. All of our memories with her were always fun, happy, and full of laughter. When ever there would be music on, she would grab you by the arm and say, "you'll dance now mija!", with out giving you a choice. She was so funny and always happy. My most favorite memories of Grandma Margie, was when I would come and visit on the weekends. When I would give her a hug and a kiss on the cheek, she would would sneak me a ruffled up five dollar bill, or a couple of ones. Then she would whisper in my ear saying, "don't tell your Grandpa, he don't know I hab money". I would always look forward to spending the night on the weekends when my dad lived at my grandparents. When everyone else was asleep, Grandma and I would stay up late talking and eating peanut butter sandwiches. When we would talk, she would say how she lubs all her children, and we all need to lub each other. I loved every moment I spent with her. There are no words that can express how grateful I was when grandma and grandpa opened up their home for me when I was 18, no matter what kind of trouble I was getting into. When I lived there, she would pour ajax all over the tub twice a month, in order to make me clean it. So I would have no choice but to clean it if I wanted to take a shower. That taught me some responsibility. I am most grateful for when she let my wife Debra move in when she was pregnant with Alicia. At first I thought she was going to be disappointed when I told her Debra was pregnant. Instead, she was happy for me and told me that Debra could move in with us. I was so excited, not only to be a Father, but to know that I had her support for starting my own family. My Grandpa also had my support. I told him before I told my Grandma. So the next day, he wrote a note on an envelope and left it on my pillow. It said,"tell Deborah to bring all her stuff and clothes to live with us...but don't tell my B". He really meant to say queen B. My Grandma Margie has always inspired me to be loving humble and caring towards others. The one thing that I remember about her the most, is how strong her faith was in god. On a daily basis, prayer for friends and family was always the most important thing in her life. She never went one day with out praying for all of us. She was a perfect example of how a Child of god should be. Caring, forgiving, and showing unconditional love. My beautiful Grandma Margie was the most wonderful Friend, Grandma, Great Grandma, Mother, Wife, and Sister that anyone could ever have. I thank God for every moment we had with her. She had the biggest impact on all of our lives. A few days after the funeral... Gramma Margie came to visit me in my dreams. The dream took place in Gramma n Grampa's old house in West Covina. I was in the kitchen and all the sudden I hear her voice calling me, "Gilbert, Gilbert!" Then I see her through the kitchen window in the back yard. So I go outside to the back yard to look for her, and all the sudden she was inside the kitchen. I saw her through the window and I yelled "Gramma!" Then she saw me through the window...so I put my hand on the window and I said "Gramma I love you!" She put her hand on the window and said, "I lub you too mio!" Then I ran inside to the kitchen and gave her the biggest hug and told her, "I love you so much Gramma, I'm gonna miss you so much!" Then I remember waking up in the most wonderful way. I was so glad that Gramma came to visit me in my dreams. I had asked her to visit me in my dreams when I said my last goodbyes to her, when they had to take her breathing tube out... And she kept her promise just like Grampa did. I LOVE YOU GRAMMA AND GRAMPA!

My Eulogy by Ed Siapno July 27, 2011

August 1, 2011

 

Ladies & Gentlemen,
My name is Eduardo Siapno
My friends, call me, Eddie
Mr. Ed in short,
You know what?, Margie, had lived an amazing life, even though to those who love
her age 82 was rather short. She was a great person, who played the role of a mother,
when I arrived here in US. She was the kind of  lady that stood by at that time, I needed assistance. Unselfishly, she provided me, a various amenities in life, that ca be equated to LOVE, .....CARES......and GENEROSIITY,,, she indeed save me from misery, an experience that new iimmigrants would struggle, if no one was there for them. As a new immigrant, before. I saw the light at the end of a tunnel..Indeed she was an instrument to have my family, come over, because, she inspired me to work with a goal. She was a role model that one could ever imagine. If it wasn't for her, I would have lived a life of an ordinary person, which could hardly have both ends met. That's how I became close to Margie. I remember once, Margie told me, that she considered me like her oldest son, Being her "like son" I must admit, that brought joy to my heart, in fact one of the happiest moments in my life. Of course as you all know, I'm referring to Margarita Banting Castro....Like a real son many were so envious of me.It was not because, I was living with the basics in life with their family, but it's more of " I simply became so special, sharing her love like a family member"
It was always me and Margie, my adopted mother in USA.
When I got to the USA, I didn't know how to start, overhelming, with an entirely new enviroment. My first week of course, was to look and apply for a job. Fortunately, I was hired as a mere machinist in El Monte, Ca.Now the problem was my transportation going to work...However, Margie, driving a used Koppel car, and let me used it, until I got my own, instead she walked to and from her job as a school teacher aid at the local school, that was 40 yrs. ago.. Again I emphasize, she turned my fears and anxiety to hope and certainties. She was really the nice person that people whose lives were touched and would feel sad for the loss of her.But I take the consolation of her death, having curtailed the pain that she battled for the last two yrs. more or less.
Yet, she showed strength,as faith led her to a peaceful rest, in peace with the Lord.
What is it that we remember when we think of Margie? I think whoever knows her very well, would agree with me on this. It was her act of Charity...She was the kind of person, that would make everyone feel comfortable.. On a day to day basis,
she always cheered up, people.., tapping somebody who had bad days,..Thats a trademark of Margie Banting Castro. She always wanted to make people hopeful and cheerful..Margie's death was God's will..God saw her getting tired,, so He closed His arms..around her and whispered .."Come with me:" I remember when Rey text me, "My mom was gone.." I simply offered her a prayer,,Back to my senses, it slowly occurred to me and have realized that Margie indeed lived her life wonderfully..She was well-loved and she had done so many things on earth and I am sure
she will do much more in heaven. I will forever be grateful that Margie was there at the right place and the right time to lived a new life..I will be forever be grateful ,spending 40 yrs in my life with a beautiful lady like her. All the memories I have shared with her will be forever be cherished and remembered..Margie will forever live in my heart..In our heart!!
Margie is in heaven now..and we are here at her funeral.This is not the time for us to grieve her death,,but it's our time to celebrate her life..
Don't ever forget Margie. She never wanted to see people cry..She wanted to make every one happy..So at this moment when we are about to lay
her body to rest, let's all think back and remember how Margie touched our lives in a very special way. How she made us smile, and how great Margie was as a person..
This is not the moment for us to shed our tears, but we all shoud be thankful, that we were given the chance to have known a woman named Margarita Banting Castro.
She will be forever be missed, but I know in the right time we will meet her again in the Kingdom of God.We will all meet our father's mother's brother"s sister's
and friends again..all in God's time..She will comfort us again, as she welcome us with angels of the Lord. like how she paved our way here on earth so will she will light
a candle as we journey to an eternal life..
To the bereaved family, My condolences, on behalf of my family..Good evening, God bless....

"If Tears Could Build A Stairway"

August 1, 2011

If  Tears Could Build A Stairway

 If tears could build a stairway
And memories were a lane
We would walk right up to heaven
And bring you back again

No farewell words were spoken
No time to say goodbye
You were gone before we knew it
And only God knows why

Our hearts still ache in sadness
And secret tears still flow
What it meant to lose you
No one can ever know

But now we know you want us
To mourn for you no more
To remember all the happy times
Life still has much in store

Since you'll never be forgotten
We pledge to you today
A hallowed place within our hearts
Is where you'll always stay

My Eulogy By Suzie Aguirre July 27, 2011

July 31, 2011

Hello for those of you who may not know me my name is Suzie Aguirre I’ve been a very close friend of the family for over 10 years. I want to share with you some of the memories I have of Margaret and how she has touched my heart. I lost my mother six years ago and it was a very difficult time in my life. Margaret gave me and showed me love that filled the emptiness in my heart and she was like the mother to me. The first time I met Margaret she came up to me and told me hi mija you’re my daughters friend I love you.

 

I thought to myself she loves me already and we just met, but that made me feel so special and from that point on I grew very close to her and got to know the beautiful loving person Margaret was. I will never forget the time I spent with Margaret, going to the movies, out to eat, seeing Margaret sing in Choir at her church spending many holidays together and one I will never forget was New Years eve 2008 and Margaret splashing holy water all over Josie and I we had so much fun that night just being at home. also just the times we spent sitting down and talking for hours about when she was young and how she first met her husband. Through all the times that we spent I seen a woman that truly loved life and loved her family and as well as the lord. That is the reason why when Margaret got sick it was very devastating to see a person so full of happiness a joy to lose so much that was very hard to take in.

 

When Margaret came home from the hospital I moved in with Josie because I wanted to be there for moral support for Margaret and for all the family. That was the best choice I made because I was able to be there everyday and night to help with whatever I could, and the best reward I gained in return was to wake up everyday and see Margaret beautiful smile and I will treasure that for a lifetime. I wanted to thank the family for giving me the trust they gave me to take care of their Mother the few times that I did. Margaret raised a very beautiful family and I’m thankful for getting close to a family like the Castros. I also want to give a special thanks and recognition to Josie and Vanessa for taking care of their Mother/Grandmother the way they did. Josie showed and gave her Mother a love like I’ve never seen it was so deep and amazing to see the way she loved her Mother she was Josie life and her everything. Joise you are truly amazing you take after your Mother and you carry her heart. You will be blessed through out life for what you have done for your Mother. Vanessa you are a unique and one of a kind granddaughter. The sacrifice you gave for your grandma was from the heart. You were there by your ninas side every step of the way, and you will also be blessed in your life for what you have done for your grandma.

 

Margaret lived a happy and blessed eighty two years of life. Margaret showed me how to love and be kind. Margaret passed on her love to everyone she met in life. I will keep in my mind and in my heart of Margaret looking at and smiling and telling me mija I love your laugh and you make me happy. I know she is not suffering anymore and she is in heaven talking, walking, dancing, and smiling with her beautiful smile. I will miss you Margaret You will always hold a special place in my heart.

 

Love your sushi

My Eulogy for Mom...By Josephine Santa Cruz - July 27, 2011

July 31, 2011

Hello my name is Josephine and I’m the youngest daughter…Mom’s Baby.

I’d like to say thank you to all of our family and friends that are here today. I know each and every one of you hold a very special place in our mom’s heart.
 
There's one thing we all knew about mom...her strong and deep devotion and faith in Our Lord and her sacrificial love for her family. Mom loved life and loved people. She always told us to love on another. She appreciated the simple things in life and just to be surrounded by her family and friends was enough to make her happy. She showed us how to have strength n perseverance and never ending prayer.
 
When we lost Hope…mom showed us how to have Faith
When we felt Weak…mom showed us Strength
When we had Tears…mom showed us how to Smile
When we lost Faith…mom showed us Proof
Mom believed in Miracles….and so do we!!
 
I’d like to share our Mothers story with u… it is a truly amazing, yet heart breaking story that has touched and impacted our lives forever. We witnessed miracles right in front of our eyes. We believed in the power of prayer and that “With God All Things Are Possible”  
 
Mom has endured so much in the past couple years. She had a total of 4 strokes, 3 seizures and numerous hospital visits. And thru it all.. thru all her pain and suffering, she never gave up. A true definition of sacrificial love and devotion to her family and constant faith in Our Lord.
 
And this is the story of Our Miracle Mother….
 
Two Years ago on JULY 10, 2009 mom had her FIRST stroke, it was a mild stroke however it still caused her some disabilities but she worked hard to overcome them.
 
Then exactly, 6 weeks later on AUGUST 21, 2009 mom suffered her SECOND stroke. A severe bleeding stroke in her brain that caused more disabilities. She was now very weak. She started to slow down more n more...she now needed to use a walker and wheelchair. Her speech was slurred n her memory just wasn't the same. From the vivacious, outgoing, loving, vibrant, social person who loved life…she lost so much. But mom was a fighter, she never gave up, she didn’t want to let anything hold her down. She still wanted to continue living life to the fullest. She wanted to conquer this stroke! N even though she felt exhausted n weak she pushed herself and continued to go to Church. She was truly devoted to Our Lord. Always in constant prayer.

As mom tried her best to live a normal life…a couple months later on NOV. 7, 2009...Mom suffered yet another stroke, her THIRD major stroke. She LOST her voice, her ability to eat, n complete paralysis on her entire right side of her body. She would now be completely confined to bed 24/7. From that day on… mom was never the same. Her life changed tremendously n so did mine!
Dr’s said she needed intense physical n speech therapy n that a rehab facility was the best choice for her recovery. But unfortunately, and to our complete devastation, just after a few weeks of rehab...on DEC. 3, 2009.  Mom had a MAJOR relapse...we were faced with the most difficult n heart wrenching decision of our lives…to put mom on life support machine, which she became totally dependent on for the next 30 DAYS.

We continued to spend days n nites at the hospital! Just sitting by mom’s side, hoping and praying for her life, yet at the same praying for her to be at peace. All we could do was leave it in God’s hands.

Then exactly 30 days later on JAN 3, 2010 @ 3:00 pm, moms life support machine was about to be removed. We all gathered in mom’s room. We were told by all the Dr’s that mom had become completely dependent on this machine n it was the only thing giving her life. Although we never lost our faith n hope, we surrendered to Our Lord n we painfully n sadly said our goodbyes to Mom. But against all odds, after moms life support machine was removed, mom miraculously took a breath, her own breath of life! We were astonished, yet rejoicing n praising n thanking God. for we just witnessed the utmost amazing MIRACLE right before our very eyes.
 
After 3 STROKES AND 30 DAYS on life support, our Miraculous Mother was still with us and breathing on her own! What a true Miracle. A day we will never forget. Our prayers were answered. It wasn’t moms time yet. BUT, it was her time to go home! She still had works to do. God still had a plan for Mom.
 
TWO days later, on JAN 5, 2010 we took Mom home. We finally said goodbye to the hospital...after spending all the holidays there…Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s, we were finally able to take our mom home!

We thanked our good Lord for the blessing that he gave us to be able to take mom home after all that she had endured. But each day we were faced with many different struggles n challenges. Mom now needed 24/7 care. Vanessa, one of moms closest granddaughters, chose out of her own heart to move in and help me take care of Mom. Mom was now 100% completely dependent on me and Vanessa.
 
People often would often say what a sacrifice it was to take care of my mom, and I understood what they meant, but I never viewed it that way. I was taking care of my Mom...she needed me. Just as we take care of our children...it’s not a sacrifice...we do it out of Love. All I knew was my mom needed me n I wanted to be there for her. For all the love and sacrifice she gave to me and to all of us…it was what I felt instantly in my heart that I needed to do. I felt like it was my purpose in life, just as I had taken care of my dad. But even though I took care of Mom, there wouldn’t be enough I could ever do to repay or show mom my thanks and appreciation for all that she had done and sacrificed for me and for all of us.
 
Although the roles were different, I was now taking care of my Mom...as she did for me when I was a Baby… “Changing and Feeding her, Bathing and Turning her and Nurturing, Protecting and Comforting her”. BUT she WASN’T my baby…I “WAS her baby” n she “was my MOTHER”.  Nothing changed that. She still DESERVED all the respect as she always did.
 
Losing moms voice to me was one of the most difficult things for me to bear or understand. It was very hard to accept. I MISSED her deeply…hearing those words come out of her mouth n tell me "I love u mija". I longed n was so desperate to hear her voice. Only in my dreams, would I hear her.
 
Although she lost her voice, it was her beautiful, gracious, angelic, sweet smile that would speak a thousand words. N those beautiful eyes… how they gazed at me as we intimately connected with each other. Her smile melted my heart n her beautiful glow mesmerized me. N her tight grip with her left hand as she held my hand so tightly. I knew it was her way of telling me she loved me! N never did a day go by that I didn’t tell mom I love her.
 
We cherished each day with Mom and each and every occasion was very special. Her smile n happiness was everything and all that mattered to me. All I wanted was to make mom happy. And thru it all…all that mom endured she still had her sweet n beautiful smile…it was her way of offering u comfort. She didn’t want anyone to feel sorrow for her. She wanted us to be happy.

The hardest part of Love...is to see the ones u love go thru hurt n pain...but the greatest part of Love is “love itself”.
I never knew n felt a love so strong...there's no words that could express my love for my mom.  She was my every Breath. She was “My Love, My Life n My Everything”!

There's nothing that can compare to the love between a Mother n Child. It’s the closest n strongest love n bond ever imaginable. Connected by the womb within inside of u n still connected throughout your life. A Mother is like no other. Always Love, Honor and Respect your Mother, for she is one of a kind, irreplaceable & uncompareable to anyone or anything. The one who will always love u unconditionally.
 
Through each tear n each struggle that we faced, it’s the hope and inspiration that she has passed on to us that will carry us thru life. And whatever we may face or endure we know we can make it thru it. Mom gave me strength I thought I never had or could bear. She has given us all the necessary tools...n all we need to do is apply it in our lives. I know I will, and I hope u can too. Cuz if Mom could do it… so could u!

On JULY 2, 2011, mom had her FOURTH stroke….18 DAYS later on JULY 20, 2011, in the comfort of our own home and with all her children surrounded by her, mom finally went to rest. Finally at peace, no more pain, no more suffering… finally time to unite with Our Lord, Our Dad and all Our Loved Ones. Mom has taught us and showed us so much, it was definitely a life changing experience for all of us…especially both me n Vanessa!
 
Her presence here was her tool... her gift. She was truly an instrument of God doing her works. N for those that may have not believed in Miracles...for those that may have questioned Our Lord...and for those that didn’t have Faith or Trust our lord…NOW believed in Him.

That's the story of Our Amazing, Beloved, and Blessed Miracle Mother...

And we will pass her legacy on to our children and they will pass it on to their children...and so on and so on…and that is what we call the “CASTRO LEGACY”.
 
No matter what we may face in life, it’s the hope and inspiration that mom has instilled in us and that will carry us thru life. For her memory will live within each and every one of us...forever! and of course her words and sayings that we’ve all heard throughout our life and will be engraved in our mind and in our hearts….forever!
"With God All Things Are Possible"
"Let Go, Let God"
"If there’s A Will, There’s A Way"
"Miracles Happen"
"Love One Another Always"
"Forgive and Forget"
"Surrender and Offer Up To Our Lord""
"If One Door Closes, One Door Opens"
"If You Don't Succeed, Try and Try Again"
"It's Blessed To Give Than To Receive"
"If It's Meant To Be, It Will Be" 
“Always Have Faith and Trust in Our Lord”
“ A Family That Prays Together…Stays Together!!”
 
And… “ I Love You Very, Very Much Mija”

THANK YOU MOM, for ALL your Love, Sacrifices and Devotion to all of us, and for all the beautiful memories that we will cherish forever.
I LOVE U WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL.
Also, Thank You to Vanessa who was always right by my side from the very beginning. From Moms breath of life when we took her home from the hospital…to her very “last breath” on JULY 20, 2011, as we both stood right beside her. We’ve shared a lot of tears, A LOT of tears…but also a lot of joy and laughter as we shared them together with gm. I couln’t have made it without u. U were my strength and backbone.
 
It was a difficult, yet rewarding and unforgettable life changing, yet glorius experience for the both of us, but thru it all, it was all worth it and it will make us who we are today and continue to be. It will give us strength to endure anything. I know grandma will always watch over and protect us all. Grandma has taught and showed us so much; it was definitely a life changing experience.
 
I’d also like to say thank you my family and my very best friend Suzie, and  my Auntie Baby, My Very Best Auntie and Best Sister to My Mom. I loved the way u loved and cared for her. U loved mom soo much. Thank You to all of you for being there for me and mom. We shared a lot of joy, a lot of tears and a lot of beautiful memories that will live within us forever and will always cherish.
 
And again, THANK YOU MOM, for all your love, sacrifices and devotion to ALL of us. I will MISS U DEEPLY, I LOVE U WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL.
 
With Love “Your Baby”

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