Hello my name is Josephine and I’m the youngest daughter…Mom’s Baby.
I’d like to say thank you to all of our family and friends that are here today. I know each and every one of you hold a very special place in our mom’s heart.
There's one thing we all knew about mom...her strong and deep devotion and faith in Our Lord and her sacrificial love for her family. Mom loved life and loved people. She always told us to love on another. She appreciated the simple things in life and just to be surrounded by her family and friends was enough to make her happy. She showed us how to have strength n perseverance and never ending prayer.
When we lost Hope…mom showed us how to have Faith
When we felt Weak…mom showed us Strength
When we had Tears…mom showed us how to Smile
When we lost Faith…mom showed us Proof
Mom believed in Miracles….and so do we!!
I’d like to share our Mothers story with u… it is a truly amazing, yet heart breaking story that has touched and impacted our lives forever. We witnessed miracles right in front of our eyes. We believed in the power of prayer and that “With God All Things Are Possible”
Mom has endured so much in the past couple years. She had a total of 4 strokes, 3 seizures and numerous hospital visits. And thru it all.. thru all her pain and suffering, she never gave up. A true definition of sacrificial love and devotion to her family and constant faith in Our Lord.
And this is the story of Our Miracle Mother….
Two Years ago on JULY 10, 2009 mom had her FIRST stroke, it was a mild stroke however it still caused her some disabilities but she worked hard to overcome them.
Then exactly, 6 weeks later on AUGUST 21, 2009 mom suffered her SECOND stroke. A severe bleeding stroke in her brain that caused more disabilities. She was now very weak. She started to slow down more n more...she now needed to use a walker and wheelchair. Her speech was slurred n her memory just wasn't the same. From the vivacious, outgoing, loving, vibrant, social person who loved life…she lost so much. But mom was a fighter, she never gave up, she didn’t want to let anything hold her down. She still wanted to continue living life to the fullest. She wanted to conquer this stroke! N even though she felt exhausted n weak she pushed herself and continued to go to Church. She was truly devoted to Our Lord. Always in constant prayer.
As mom tried her best to live a normal life…a couple months later on NOV. 7, 2009...Mom suffered yet another stroke, her THIRD major stroke. She LOST her voice, her ability to eat, n complete paralysis on her entire right side of her body. She would now be completely confined to bed 24/7. From that day on… mom was never the same. Her life changed tremendously n so did mine!
Dr’s said she needed intense physical n speech therapy n that a rehab facility was the best choice for her recovery. But unfortunately, and to our complete devastation, just after a few weeks of rehab...on DEC. 3, 2009. Mom had a MAJOR relapse...we were faced with the most difficult n heart wrenching decision of our lives…to put mom on life support machine, which she became totally dependent on for the next 30 DAYS.
We continued to spend days n nites at the hospital! Just sitting by mom’s side, hoping and praying for her life, yet at the same praying for her to be at peace. All we could do was leave it in God’s hands.
Then exactly 30 days later on JAN 3, 2010 @ 3:00 pm, moms life support machine was about to be removed. We all gathered in mom’s room. We were told by all the Dr’s that mom had become completely dependent on this machine n it was the only thing giving her life. Although we never lost our faith n hope, we surrendered to Our Lord n we painfully n sadly said our goodbyes to Mom. But against all odds, after moms life support machine was removed, mom miraculously took a breath, her own breath of life! We were astonished, yet rejoicing n praising n thanking God. for we just witnessed the utmost amazing MIRACLE right before our very eyes.
After 3 STROKES AND 30 DAYS on life support, our Miraculous Mother was still with us and breathing on her own! What a true Miracle. A day we will never forget. Our prayers were answered. It wasn’t moms time yet. BUT, it was her time to go home! She still had works to do. God still had a plan for Mom.
TWO days later, on JAN 5, 2010 we took Mom home. We finally said goodbye to the hospital...after spending all the holidays there…Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s, we were finally able to take our mom home!
We thanked our good Lord for the blessing that he gave us to be able to take mom home after all that she had endured. But each day we were faced with many different struggles n challenges. Mom now needed 24/7 care. Vanessa, one of moms closest granddaughters, chose out of her own heart to move in and help me take care of Mom. Mom was now 100% completely dependent on me and Vanessa.
People often would often say what a sacrifice it was to take care of my mom, and I understood what they meant, but I never viewed it that way. I was taking care of my Mom...she needed me. Just as we take care of our children...it’s not a sacrifice...we do it out of Love. All I knew was my mom needed me n I wanted to be there for her. For all the love and sacrifice she gave to me and to all of us…it was what I felt instantly in my heart that I needed to do. I felt like it was my purpose in life, just as I had taken care of my dad. But even though I took care of Mom, there wouldn’t be enough I could ever do to repay or show mom my thanks and appreciation for all that she had done and sacrificed for me and for all of us.
Although the roles were different, I was now taking care of my Mom...as she did for me when I was a Baby… “Changing and Feeding her, Bathing and Turning her and Nurturing, Protecting and Comforting her”. BUT she WASN’T my baby…I “WAS her baby” n she “was my MOTHER”. Nothing changed that. She still DESERVED all the respect as she always did.
Losing moms voice to me was one of the most difficult things for me to bear or understand. It was very hard to accept. I MISSED her deeply…hearing those words come out of her mouth n tell me "I love u mija". I longed n was so desperate to hear her voice. Only in my dreams, would I hear her.
Although she lost her voice, it was her beautiful, gracious, angelic, sweet smile that would speak a thousand words. N those beautiful eyes… how they gazed at me as we intimately connected with each other. Her smile melted my heart n her beautiful glow mesmerized me. N her tight grip with her left hand as she held my hand so tightly. I knew it was her way of telling me she loved me! N never did a day go by that I didn’t tell mom I love her.
We cherished each day with Mom and each and every occasion was very special. Her smile n happiness was everything and all that mattered to me. All I wanted was to make mom happy. And thru it all…all that mom endured she still had her sweet n beautiful smile…it was her way of offering u comfort. She didn’t want anyone to feel sorrow for her. She wanted us to be happy.
The hardest part of Love...is to see the ones u love go thru hurt n pain...but the greatest part of Love is “love itself”. I never knew n felt a love so strong...there's no words that could express my love for my mom. She was my every Breath. She was “My Love, My Life n My Everything”!
There's nothing that can compare to the love between a Mother n Child. It’s the closest n strongest love n bond ever imaginable. Connected by the womb within inside of u n still connected throughout your life. A Mother is like no other. Always Love, Honor and Respect your Mother, for she is one of a kind, irreplaceable & uncompareable to anyone or anything. The one who will always love u unconditionally.
Through each tear n each struggle that we faced, it’s the hope and inspiration that she has passed on to us that will carry us thru life. And whatever we may face or endure we know we can make it thru it. Mom gave me strength I thought I never had or could bear. She has given us all the necessary tools...n all we need to do is apply it in our lives. I know I will, and I hope u can too. Cuz if Mom could do it… so could u!
On JULY 2, 2011, mom had her FOURTH stroke….18 DAYS later on JULY 20, 2011, in the comfort of our own home and with all her children surrounded by her, mom finally went to rest. Finally at peace, no more pain, no more suffering… finally time to unite with Our Lord, Our Dad and all Our Loved Ones. Mom has taught us and showed us so much, it was definitely a life changing experience for all of us…especially both me n Vanessa!
Her presence here was her tool... her gift. She was truly an instrument of God doing her works. N for those that may have not believed in Miracles...for those that may have questioned Our Lord...and for those that didn’t have Faith or Trust our lord…NOW believed in Him.
That's the story of Our Amazing, Beloved, and Blessed Miracle Mother...
And we will pass her legacy on to our children and they will pass it on to their children...and so on and so on…and that is what we call the “CASTRO LEGACY”.
No matter what we may face in life, it’s the hope and inspiration that mom has instilled in us and that will carry us thru life. For her memory will live within each and every one of us...forever! and of course her words and sayings that we’ve all heard throughout our life and will be engraved in our mind and in our hearts….forever!
"With God All Things Are Possible"
"Let Go, Let God"
"If there’s A Will, There’s A Way"
"Miracles Happen"
"Love One Another Always"
"Forgive and Forget"
"Surrender and Offer Up To Our Lord""
"If One Door Closes, One Door Opens"
"If You Don't Succeed, Try and Try Again"
"It's Blessed To Give Than To Receive"
"If It's Meant To Be, It Will Be"
“Always Have Faith and Trust in Our Lord”
“ A Family That Prays Together…Stays Together!!”
And… “ I Love You Very, Very Much Mija”
THANK YOU MOM, for ALL your Love, Sacrifices and Devotion to all of us, and for all the beautiful memories that we will cherish forever.
I LOVE U WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL.
Also, Thank You to Vanessa who was always right by my side from the very beginning. From Moms breath of life when we took her home from the hospital…to her very “last breath” on JULY 20, 2011, as we both stood right beside her. We’ve shared a lot of tears, A LOT of tears…but also a lot of joy and laughter as we shared them together with gm. I couln’t have made it without u. U were my strength and backbone.
It was a difficult, yet rewarding and unforgettable life changing, yet glorius experience for the both of us, but thru it all, it was all worth it and it will make us who we are today and continue to be. It will give us strength to endure anything. I know grandma will always watch over and protect us all. Grandma has taught and showed us so much; it was definitely a life changing experience.
I’d also like to say thank you my family and my very best friend Suzie, and my Auntie Baby, My Very Best Auntie and Best Sister to My Mom. I loved the way u loved and cared for her. U loved mom soo much. Thank You to all of you for being there for me and mom. We shared a lot of joy, a lot of tears and a lot of beautiful memories that will live within us forever and will always cherish.
And again, THANK YOU MOM, for all your love, sacrifices and devotion to ALL of us. I will MISS U DEEPLY, I LOVE U WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL.
With Love “Your Baby”