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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Margaret Tandap, 67 years old, born on November 3, 1951, and passed away on February 10, 2019. We will remember her forever.

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Obituary

March 11, 2019

Margaret Nangsinla Tandap was born in Ndu on the 03rd of November 1951 to Reverend Solomon S. and Mrs. Helina Museng Baah. She was the first child of the family. And her father was called to Belo Baptist Church. She attended Saker Baptist College and later moved to Saint Bede’s College where she finished her secondary education.

During one weekend while she was at Saker young Lucas Tata Tandap met and fell in love with her and the process for eventual marriage was engaged. When she left Saint Bede’s College they got married shortly after in1973 when Dr. Tandap was Lecturer at the University of Yaoundé 1. In 1979 her husband who is now an Associate Professor of Geography, received a job as an Environment Program Officer with the United Nations Economic Commission for Africa in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia. It was at this point, the family relocated from Yaoundé to Ethiopia, into the community of international civil servants. During this time, she remained busy as a stay at home mom, and also as an entrepreneur. Her entrepreneurial endeavors included her sewing and design business, which was a success and highly solicited within international circles. With her husband’s career he often traveled, and she spent much of her time caring for the family. 

The location of Addis Ababa, Ethiopia, which hosted the Organization of African Unity (OAU), now known as the African Union, as well as several diplomatic missions of all its member States, reflected a diverse community, and also helped her to leverage her design business. As a member of the diplomatic community as well as a designer, she enveloped very close relations with the Ambassadors’ wives and during the summits of Heads of States her home was often visited by First Ladies, who saw her designs on Ambassadors wives and wanted similar patterns. The name Mme Tandap became a household name among them. Her presence was further enhanced when the Cameroon Embassy moved the hosting of New Year’s Eve to her home. This increased her interaction with the African diplomatic community and their friends. Some of her friends even became First Ladies of nations, which was the case of the late President of Malawi, to whose wife’s funeral she was invited. She and her husband were also invited to the late President of Malawi wedding.

Her husband was transferred to head the Environment Program of the ECA Multinational Programming and Operational Center’s (MULPOC) in Niamey, Niger. During her stay in Addis Ababa and Niamey she belonged to the United Nations women’s groups which resulted in a lot of volunteer and charity work. She was also very active in the Baptist Church. 

Since their retirement in 2000, she remained very active with work in the Nkwen Baptist Church and was very instrumental in the finishing of the frontage of the building and the brick cladding, that can be seen till date. She also decorated the church with the flowers she grew in her compound since she did not succeed in having the church premises landscaped to grow those flowers. She was also a member of Emmanuel Choir, the National Combined English Choir (NACOMEC), Deacon Board and Women’s Fellowship Nkwen CBC. In a manner of historical reference, her father was one of the founding members of the church, and also served as the church’s pastor for 10 years. This church was an integral part of her young days, and it is for this reason that she saw helping in the development of the church as a way to thank God for his goodness. 

As a loving mother she raised her children to have Christian values, and often visited them while they studied in England. She was also a supportive wife, sister, and daughter, who did her best to support loved ones in her family and community. She leaves behind three children and two grandchildren.

Recent stories

Mary Longla

March 13, 2019

My beautiful sister friend! What an abrupt shock! What a blow!

Maggi and I were childhood friends who grew up in the Baptist Mission, then our different lives’ journeys separated us. We were reunited again some years again and just like the old days when we were two young girls, we were inseparable.  She very quickly joined all the groups I belonged to and we would car-share to our various meetings. We leaned on each other for everything and our friendship thrived. We would sit together for hours chatting about anything and everything! I always joked that she worked for MTN and got unlimited free minutes because our phone calls would last hours on end. Maggi was kind, loyal, generous and dependable. She was there if you needed her for anything, no matter how small or how big! She was fun-loving, enjoyed life to the fullest and made the best out of any situation. Her bubbly and happy disposition was infectious and one couldn’t help smiling as soon as they saw her. She was funny and had the best jokes. She would make you laugh until your ribs ache. Nothing was too much trouble for her. Over the last few weeks when she started feeling unwell, she still made the effort to attend events she had planned! That was just Maggi - never wanting to let anyone down. We connected deeply and now I understand that grief is another name for love!
My friend! My sister! What happened! The days before your passing, you told me you were not feeling your best but you gave me no indication of the severity! When I got the dreaded phone call that morning, I still had hope that you were recovering in a hospital! My pain and anger knows no bounds! I hurt! I miss you! I wasn’t ready to lose you! I wasn’t ready to be separated from you! How do I carry on! Tell me how! 
After all said and done, I promise to keep the faith, I promise to continue to cherish our friendship until we meet again in the bosom of the Lord. Sleep tight sister friend, pain-free at last.

Mary Longla

Edith Nye Ngala

March 13, 2019

Tribute to Margaret Nangsila Bah Tandap.

Maggie! You were such a good small sister friend. Our friendship started in 1966 when you came and met me in Saker Baptist College Victoria (Limbe). After Saker, we met again in Ndu during you wedding in which I was your chief bridesmaid. You went to Addis Ababa, and you brought to me gifts from there. We finally met in BAMENDA where our togetherness was strengthened.
You were a brave,strong, straight spoken, neat and beautiful woman. You were the type of woman Proverbs describes as a "wife of noble character that is her husband's crown" and "the wise woman who builds her house".
We attended most of our Baptist Women Conferences and NACOMEC concerts together. You love singing so much. Any group you were, you taught a song. The Sakerettes remember you in" Fah we we ni me tem mkushi le ni we." In the Central African Baptist Women's Conference in Douala, you taught " Ah me na yo yu",it was translated from Limbum into English, French, Douala,Spinach,and Portuguese languages. The song went viral national and international. You were a beautiful alto singer in Immanuel Choir of Nkwen Baptist Church and NACOMEC.
You love beauty. Your compound is full with all kinds of plants and flowers. You are fondly remembered in Nkwen Baptist church for always decorating the church.
You were born a leader. You were the first child of late Pastor Solomon and mama Helena Bah(alive), president of many groups, ie the Sakerettes BAMENDA chapter, Immanuel Choir, Graffiti Women, Nkwen Baptist Women's Song leader. You had respect for all your elders.
My bosom friend, sleep well till tomorrow when we will meet at Jesus' feet and part no more.
Edith Nye Ngala.

Family and Friends Condolences

March 13, 2019

You gave me the fullness of life, the things we vowed to be to each other when we made the “I do” promise at the alter. You taught me how to take care of myself and the children even my way around the kitchen. Thanks for caring. God has taken you and our faith in Him tells me that He knows why and since I believe this, I know He will show me and the children the way forward. We still feel you around and that will always be.

Lucas, husband

You were a blessing to all who met you and I am so blessed to have had you as a mother. Your unconditional love, prayers, support and guidance have shaped every aspect of my life. It is hard to accept that you are gone but I know that you are watching over us and telling us in your usual quiet way that all is well and to trust in God's way.

Berri, daughter

I love you with every fiber of my being. You are my everything. Thank you for loving me, being there for me, encouraging me, for seeing who I truly am and being proud of me. You are God fearing, beautiful inside and out, intelligent, and I pray to continue in your essence. I thank God for giving me you.

Kiki, daughter  

MUM! Dès l'instant où j'ai frappé à ta porte, en plus de me l'ouvrir, tu m'as offert ton coeur. Tu as été un model de joie et de simplicité. De toi, j'ai appris a toujours garder l'espoir et de croire au meilleur, même dans les moments les plus difficiles. Comme tu me le disais toujours" tout ce que Dieu fait, c'est avec une bonne raison..." Puisse t'il t'accorder sa miséricorde et que sa lumière continue de briller sur toi sans déclin.

Charles Tchaya, son in law  

A bonafide EXSSAN, Sister Maggie was very committed and active in the Association both at chapter and national level. She participated in the faith project which is now a gigantic chapel that now ornaments the grounds of SBC. You exhibited our motto, LOVE UNITY and SISTERHOOD.

Exssa 

Aunty Maggie has been our hymn song leader for over 15 years, she compiled the CBC song book which we are using today. She was a committed fellowship member for 25 years and was recognized on Mother’s Day for her faithful service. One day we will meet with her in glory to part no more. Women’s Fellowship Nkwen CBC

She was an ebony black beauty with the voice of a nightingale, always well dressed, a woman of a few words but making vital contributions whenever necessary. She was a great cook, prayerful, cheerful and a pleasant personality. Our secretary for over 3 years. May your soul rest in perfect peace.

Mother of Gold 

It’s hard to come to terms with the reality that our mother, sister, friend and founding member of NACOMEC has joined the Heavenly Parade. Aunty Maggie as she was fondly called, was an epitome of discipline and an anchor for the Alto bench both at the zone and national level. She would go to any length when it had to do with NACOMEC. She was strict yet loving, always present and served the Lord diligently.

She lead a full an active life and was also part of the following social groups: Graffi Women - Ideal Sisters - Wimbum Women Group - Njangi 82 - Club 58

NACOMEC Bamenda zone


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