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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Maria Odogwu Odogwu, 72 years old, born on November 1, 1946, and passed away on February 22, 2019. We will remember her forever.
June 12, 2019
June 12, 2019
"K'azi Nne Baby? Je g'akpolu mu Nne baby!" (Translation: Where is Mama Baby? Go and call Mama Baby for me!) Those familiar words were spoken by our Mama ibadan ,(my beloved mother, of blessed memory) so many times over the 30plus years that I knew our beloved Aunty, Mrs Maria Odogwu. "Nne Baby" as she was fondly called, was one of Mama Ibadan's most trusted relatives and helpers. She was always there for, and with Mama and they understood themselves perfectly well. They shared a special bond. I have fond memories of her always being around, right from my very first day as a new wife and mother in Mama and Papa Ndep's household in Bodija. She had such a peaceful and calm spirit and there was always a harmonious relationship between her and everyonein the household. To me, she was always loving and caring - a true mother figure indeed. 
Nne Baby, the last time I saw you was at Mama's 90th Birthday celebration in 2017 when you paid a surprise visit to rejoice with Mama. We were all so happy to see you! Sadly, less than two months after that occassion, Mama passed on to eternity. Without a doubt, I know that you felt Mama's departure so badly.You were both so close!
Now , you too have also left us, Nne Baby! We are so sad that you are gone from this realm, but what can we do but accept that the Lord has called you back to be with Him? It may be a dream but I do imagine you and your beloved Mama and Papa, Mama Lagos, Nne Joy and others who went ahead all being together again! What a beautiful dream indeed!
Adeiu Aunty, "Nne Baby" anyi! We miss you greatly but we are happy that you are at peace with the Lord who you believed in and served so diligently. Rest in peace until we meet again one day , in His presence. Your memory will always remain with me.
Mrs Ebele Ndep ("Nwunye Peter")
June 11, 2019
June 11, 2019
My dear Nnebaby your death has left a great vacuum of a generation of the great Odogwu family I know you are at peace with the Lord. Rest on gentle soul.
Adeiu Nnebaby.
Ngozi & Theresa Odogwu.
June 10, 2019
June 10, 2019
Mama you were the truest,dearest,you were more than a mother to me. I could perfectly recall our first meeting, I called you Nne and you gave me the most precious smile in return. I barely believed how fast you accepted and called me yours, you became part of my life in no time. You touched my heart in so many ways, you would always say thank you to every single thing I help you with. Your strength and smile even in the dark days made me realise I had an angel beside me. Nne you heard God whispering to you to come home,you gave God your hand and slipped away quietly without telling me bye. With great grief and a heavy heart I say goodbye to you ma.
Farida
June 10, 2019
June 10, 2019
Grandma I thank God for your life. May you continue to rest in peace. I will really really miss you.
Isaac Ajaere
June 10, 2019
June 10, 2019
My beloved grandma I will really miss you for all your words of encouragement and discipline. I never knew you will passed on so soon. You have always be my bank that I often borrowed money from that I have never paid back. I thank you for everything. May you continue to rest in peace.
Ethel Ajaere
June 10, 2019
June 10, 2019
My beloved mother I thank you for all your 
Support to me and my children. I thank God for you, you will always be in my mind. I will really miss you. May you continue to rest in peace.
Mrs Francisca Ajaere (Nee Odogwu)
June 10, 2019
June 10, 2019
My internal mentor, it really hurt me knowing u are no more  in this sinful world, I have a lot to tell u but it pains me am saying it now when u are no more, just want u to know I love u so much and thanks for watching me grow and teaching me how to go in life u are the real definition of motherhood u bring Joy to my heart when all hope is lost u are a great fighter of truth u are d best among uncomfortable grannies, love u granny till will me again and never depart no more.
Chidima Ajaere
June 9, 2019
June 9, 2019
It's been nice getting to know you grandma the times we spent together ma I will never take it for granted your words are inspiring and motivating you have been more than a grandma to me I didn't spend much time with you Grandma but you have always wanted the best for your children and your grandchildren my mum use to tell me stories about you how you have been a supportive and caring mother I Know wherever you may be you are watching your children and your grandchildren do great things and we will never disappoint you ma rest on grandma in peace
Your grandson: Sylvester Daniel ovie
June 9, 2019
June 9, 2019
When I noticed that you had your last breath in my absence without giving me a word of farewell, I felt so bad. I wondered where the wrinkles had gone. Within a couple of minutes, a thought within overwhelmed me,awareness of God's visitation for the good and mercy of my beloved mother's soul but I felt the petting of your hands soothing and
admonishing me not to grief.
  I am still watching in despair. You have left me in this sinful world where people are neither loved nor valued.
   I so much appreciate the efforts and contributions you made to ensure that everyone increases in value in Odogwu's family
   May God rest your soul and give us the courage to conduct ourselves peacefully in the family. Adiu mama
                     Odogwu Ikechukwu
June 9, 2019
June 9, 2019
Mama, it's true that you need rest. You deserve the rest. Rest is very sweet after Labour and indeed you laboured to enter into this rest of the Lord. It's painful seeing you go, so soon ! If it lies within my own power, then I'd love to keep you for more years, to enjoy more dividends for your hard labour. But, alas, mama, you have gone away from us. Sleep on, Maria Odogwu (new Sualim). Thank you for being our mother and our Children grandma. Thank you for unwavering support and unceasing prayer for my hope when my hope is lost. Mama Baby, Rest in peace.
From Vivian Odogwu
June 8, 2019
June 8, 2019
To a very good grandmother who was able to help me demystify somany things in life. Continue to rest in the bossom of the Lord. Good bye..
Mr P A U Akpoilih
June 8, 2019
June 8, 2019
SWEET MAMA, I NEVER NEW U WILL LEAVE US SO SOON. U HAVE LIVE A GOOD LIFE. MAMA WE WILL MISS U SO MUCH. I PRAY TO HAVE A MOTHER LIKE U IN MY NEXT WORLD. BYE BYE MAMA UNTILL WE WITH MEET AGAIN.
Azuka Joseph Odogwu .
June 8, 2019
June 8, 2019
My beloved mother I will always miss u rest in peace Odogwu jude.
June 8, 2019
June 8, 2019
My Darling Grandma, as you enter your new heavenly home, may you rest in peace which you deserve . For you will be truly remembered and missed for your love and honor in which I will preserve, I love you always forever and may God be with you.
Nnena Onyonobie (Nee Ajaere)
June 5, 2019
June 5, 2019
My heart overflows with a theme that reaches hot into the middle of my inner being.
I recite the songs of my heart’s breakage concerning the one I heap my love.
My tongue is the pen of a ready writer which scripts the mystery of what future refuses to reveal to me. How I wished I knew death would truly fulfill its promise so sudden, so soon. How I wished I could guess that the pains would hurt so intense and so fervent. At the entire end Mama, our joy has defeated our agony, death is the loser and heaven is the winner. For, in my mind’s eye, I could see you resting in Christ’s own blossom. Even admix Angels of immaculate minds and fair souls, I could see that your comfort is not compromised. Whereas you leaved on earth amongst the good and the odd, you are fairer than the sons of men. Grace is poured upon Your lips. Therefore God has blessed you with melodious songs forever, just as He has favored us with your memories till we see again on that day.
I will always remember my last word
with you as we all know that you are not a person of many words,you just smiled at me.
Remain in Peace mama.
Edith Martha Odogwu
April 21, 2019
April 21, 2019
You are a mother of all .,but a no nonsense one at that , who is hard working. She try all her best to make sure all is working in accordance with everyone.
It was a shock to me that the last words from you was, "the election has been postponed "my reply was are you going to vote and you smiled and kept quiet, not knowing that that will be our last conversation . We will all miss you if nothing but your words of cautions to all .
   Oh mama may your soul rest in perfect peace .
April 7, 2019
April 7, 2019
It all came like a bombshell. I still remember our last discussion together, never knew it would be the last . Mama, you were and still is a great and wonderful mother-in-law who made sure Cee (as you fondly call me) was okay in all ramification. I am forever grateful to you for allowing me into your family with open hands and I promise not to fail you. I will miss all the wonderful memories, your care, attention and love. Sleep on Mama till we meet again on the resurrection morning. Adieu!!!
March 31, 2019
March 31, 2019
Mama Odogwu. Its been a most pleasant experience having g you as a Mother-in-law. You are too wonderful to have. Losing you to the cold hand of death is just too painful. One would wish you'll live forever.
When we saw you in December, I promised to come and take you to Ibadan for Easter. You nodded and smiled not knowing you were laughing at my ignorance. Easter is coming g soon but you are gone. Now I understand.
Sleep well mama. You really deserve the rest. No pain anymore4e, no drug, no worries. Just rest on, sweet Mama!

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June 12, 2019
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"K'azi Nne Baby? Je g'akpolu mu Nne baby!" (Translation: Where is Mama Baby? Go and call Mama Baby for me!) Those familiar words were spoken by our Mama ibadan ,(my beloved mother, of blessed memory) so many times over the 30plus years that I knew our beloved Aunty, Mrs Maria Odogwu. "Nne Baby" as she was fondly called, was one of Mama Ibadan's most trusted relatives and helpers. She was always there for, and with Mama and they understood themselves perfectly well. They shared a special bond. I have fond memories of her always being around, right from my very first day as a new wife and mother in Mama and Papa Ndep's household in Bodija. She had such a peaceful and calm spirit and there was always a harmonious relationship between her and everyonein the household. To me, she was always loving and caring - a true mother figure indeed. 
Nne Baby, the last time I saw you was at Mama's 90th Birthday celebration in 2017 when you paid a surprise visit to rejoice with Mama. We were all so happy to see you! Sadly, less than two months after that occassion, Mama passed on to eternity. Without a doubt, I know that you felt Mama's departure so badly.You were both so close!
Now , you too have also left us, Nne Baby! We are so sad that you are gone from this realm, but what can we do but accept that the Lord has called you back to be with Him? It may be a dream but I do imagine you and your beloved Mama and Papa, Mama Lagos, Nne Joy and others who went ahead all being together again! What a beautiful dream indeed!
Adeiu Aunty, "Nne Baby" anyi! We miss you greatly but we are happy that you are at peace with the Lord who you believed in and served so diligently. Rest in peace until we meet again one day , in His presence. Your memory will always remain with me.
Mrs Ebele Ndep ("Nwunye Peter")
June 11, 2019
June 11, 2019
My dear Nnebaby your death has left a great vacuum of a generation of the great Odogwu family I know you are at peace with the Lord. Rest on gentle soul.
Adeiu Nnebaby.
Ngozi & Theresa Odogwu.
June 10, 2019
June 10, 2019
Mama you were the truest,dearest,you were more than a mother to me. I could perfectly recall our first meeting, I called you Nne and you gave me the most precious smile in return. I barely believed how fast you accepted and called me yours, you became part of my life in no time. You touched my heart in so many ways, you would always say thank you to every single thing I help you with. Your strength and smile even in the dark days made me realise I had an angel beside me. Nne you heard God whispering to you to come home,you gave God your hand and slipped away quietly without telling me bye. With great grief and a heavy heart I say goodbye to you ma.
Farida
Her Life

​BIOGRAPHY OF LATE MADAM MARIA NWAUKPO ODOGWU

June 11, 2019


BIRTH
Late Madam Maria Nwaukpo Odogwu was born into the families of Obi Sualim Adigwe of Idumu Obi, Umuodafe Isiuzo. Her mother Adaulor was from the stock of Late Isichie of Ogboli Quarters. Both parents were from Ibusa in Oshimili North Local Government area of Delta State. 
Late Maria Nwaukpo Odogwu was born on November 1 1946. She was a well pampered child being the only surviving child of her mother and the last born of her father. As a matter of fact her name Nwaukpo which means “My Consolation” is instructive of the circumstance of her birth and the value placed on her by her parents. She was precious and tender in their eyes.

EARLY EDUCATION
Driven by passion for a better life armed with basic education, her parents registered her for primary school education at Omu Girls Primary school Ezukwu, Ibusa. After her primary school education, she proceeded to acquire professional training in Typing and Shorthand at Nmejei Commercial School, Ibusa and wrote the City and Guild Certification examination. Later in life, after having her sixth child, in 1978, she returned to school at Institute of Continuing Education Centre Isiuzor, Umuodafe. There she earned her School Leaving Certificate.

MARRIAGE
As a precious daughter to a loving and aging parents, the young Maria Nwaukpo was sent to live with her Aunt, Mrs Nwanze popularly called Mummy Tina in Benin City. While she was there, a young Ibusa man named Peter Usobunandu Moha Odogwu of Idumuigba, Umuekea Quarters, a Nigerian Railway Locomotive Engine Driver came back home to Ibusa to take to himself a wife from his hometown. Promptly, he was informed of the adorable daughter of Obi Sualim Adigwe. Enquiries soon led to consultation and in no distant time resulted in their marriage on August 10 1965. Thus, the delectable young spinster, Maria Nwaukpo became the wife of Mr. Peter Moha Odogwu.

MOTHERHOOD
No sooner had she married, she conceived and delivered her first child, Francisca. That began the journey of motherhood, parenting and raising a family; a task she performed very well with grace throughout her lifetime. The other children included Edith, Anne. Paul (now late), Vivian, Nkechi and Jude. All her children were born and raised at Ibadan in the now Oyo State of Nigeria.

WORK LIFE
At some point in her life, Mama Odogwu took apprenticeship in tailoring. However, she spent more time teaching, first at Bishop Akinyele Secondary School, Ibadan and  later at Sacred Heart Primary School, Onireke, Ibadan. In 1995 she joined her husband who had  retired from the Nigerian Railway Corporation and was working at the Delta State University, Anwai Campus in the Works and Services Department. As God would have it, Mama also got employed in the same University whereafter she worked until 2015 when she resigned her appointment on the ground of ill-health.
 
LAST MOMENTS
Since the death of her husband in 2008, Mama have had to cope with living by herself however surrounded by her children and grandchildren. She practically lived her remaining years after the death of her husband with Jude her last born and Nnena her granddaughter while still working at the Delta State University, Anwai campus. Upon her resignation she relocated to her family house at Ibusa where she lived until her death.

ON FINAL NOTE
The story of the life of Mama Maria Nwaukpo Odogwu is one of submission to the will of God, obedience and sheer commitment to family values. Apart from her biological children, she was a Mother to many many others. She will be greatly missed by all for her peace-loving, simplistic and charitable lifestyle. She was highly tolerant, accommodating, and blessed with wisdom.

May her gentle soul continue to rest in perfect peace. Good night! Mama Odogwu!         
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June 12, 2019

Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory. Mrs Odogwu was the truest, dearest, wonderful mother and mother in law. The first time we have a close mother and son discussion was when she came over for Oluwajomiloju's naming ceremony. She felt so bad that she could not do much,age factor, therefore she  left early not wanting to be an extra burden to us. You advised me not to give up on my dreams and persevered no matter how hard the storm may be. It is so painful that the last time we saw was the time she came for her medical check up in Ibadan. There are some who brings a light so great to the world that even after they have gone the light remains. You are such a lovely and peaceful mother. Death takes the body. God takes the soul. Our mind holds the memories. Our heart keeps the love. Our faith lets us know we will meet again. Mamaa! As I used to call you, we will forever miss you. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

Adieu Mama!

June 12, 2019


Love you grandma – You truly were a special, special woman! You may have passed on, but your memories would always live on within us. Thank you for your sacrifices, your care and concern, your love and everything that you have done for me. Wherever you are, I know you are in a much better place. I will be forever grateful and thankful that you are my ‘grandmother’. 

Tribute to mama

June 9, 2019

TRIBUTE

As a child,
Is raining, is drizzling, 
Thanks to my
 mama,
Who sat and watched my infant head, 
I LOVE MAMA, 
As an ADULT, 
You raised me up to stand the mountains,
To walk on stormy sea, 
GREAT MAMA. 
To be a virtuous woman,You taught me, 
TRAINING up my children the Way they should go, YOU 
SHOWED ME.
Intricacies and details to live in life,
U are an example.
With my eyes FULL of TEARS my EARS hearing your advises AFRESH and my FEET walking in the right path of life you SHOWED me. MAMA words cannot express how DEEP your leaving means to me,your leaving now is not the best,but I believe we will meet one day to part no more. MAMA! MAMA! MAMA! Your departure /demise here is painful.
You will always be remembered for who u are,A woman with no complaints,no excuses,who LOVED and shared  love to all.
MAMA what more can I say, REST in the BOSOM of the LORD,till we meet to part no more.

By Anne Nwayinbunwa ILUGBO nee Odogwu

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