Sometimes you will never know the value of a moment until it becomes a memory. Mrs Odogwu was the truest, dearest, wonderful mother and mother in law. The first time we have a close mother and son discussion was when she came over for Oluwajomiloju's naming ceremony. She felt so bad that she could not do much,age factor, therefore she  left early not wanting to be an extra burden to us. You advised me not to give up on my dreams and persevered no matter how hard the storm may be. It is so painful that the last time we saw was the time she came for her medical check up in Ibadan. There are some who brings a light so great to the world that even after they have gone the light remains. You are such a lovely and peaceful mother. Death takes the body. God takes the soul. Our mind holds the memories. Our heart keeps the love. Our faith lets us know we will meet again. Mamaa! As I used to call you, we will forever miss you. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.

Love you grandma – You truly were a special, special woman! You may have passed on, but your memories would always live on within us. Thank you for your sacrifices, your care and concern, your love and everything that you have done for me. Wherever you are, I know you are in a much better place. I will be forever grateful and thankful that you are my ‘grandmother’. 

TRIBUTE

By Anne Nwayinbunwa ILUGBO nee Odogwu

Mama, it's true that you need rest. You deserve the rest. Rest is very sweet after Labour and indeed you laboured to enter into this rest of the Lord. It's painful seeing you go, so soon ! If it lies within my own power, then I'd love to keep you for more years, to enjoy more dividends for your hard labour. But, alas, mama, you have gone away from us. Sleep on, Maria Odogwu (nee Sualimm). Thank you for being our mother and our Children.  Thank you for unwavering support and unceasing prayer for my hope when my hope is lost.  Mama Baby, Rest in peace.

You are such a wonderful, caring, understanding and friendly mother. As I fondly call you (Wunye Odogwu) meaning, Odogwu's wife. My Korean woman, I will always miss you. Rest in the Lord, MAMA. Adieu! Nne babie. Francisca Achi.

Mortal being have no answer to God's supremacy! Since we don't have the lucus to question God, we humble say " our God is good, all the time". Mama, you were the Cedar Wood of Lebanon, Strong and Smart. You were the oak tree in the wilderness, a shelter for birds and a shade for terrestrial animals, many found food under you.

"Oli"!,that was how you used to call me what a good mother with a great legacy. We shall surely see on the ressurection morning where we will meet at Jesus feet to part no more. Nkechi ASHOGBON.

You are a wonderful aunt ,

     One who never really grew old;

With smile  made of 

                              .           Sunshine,

             And a heart made of a solid gold."

I was aware my late mum ,your senior  sister has  a younger sister called Nwawukpo but ,never mate her , until in the early 80' when I happen to be in the ancient city of Ibadan.On knowing her till death she has been  a wonderful mother  and big anty to me by checking and asking after me, which I appreciated  her so much  in my life for that.

Oh,  what ashame!  death is inevitable .When I saw you in December 2018,  little  did I know that  It  will be  the last I will set my eyes on  you again. The shocking news came and blow like a wind but what can we do nor say for the owner who is our creator have take what he created.  We  were just   hoping that since you are that only surviving child of  our late  maternal grandfather Obi Sualim ,  that you  we live with us more than you have done.  Who are we now  to question God .We only have to glorify him for he knows the best answer in every situation.

Mama we missed you but God knows the best .Rest in peace until we meet to part no more.

 Adieu !Adieu! Adieu Ma.

.Mrs E Ejoh (nee  Okonne)

3 April 2019 Adieu 

Nnebaby Adieu I can still hear my Mama Theresa Ndep fondly call out, Nnebaby - the sound of having missed her since the last visit, the sound of, thank God you're here now, there is an errand you must get done. It was the voice of welcome- so once she was in sight, we knew for the next few hours, we could do as we pleased! I can still hear the sudden movement of feet in response to the greeting of welcome. Then the uproar and hilarious shouts of glee and joyful laughter that would ensue through out the house at her arrival. Her husband Brother Odogwu, as my Papa, William Oga Ndep, would fondly call out with outstretched hands and reaching out, a firm, warm and gripping handshake. That was the effect Brother Odogwu & Nnebaby had on the Ndep household, they were an intrinsic part! What more can I say. I remember returning home one evening from boarding school (I must have been 14 or 15 years old) for the holidays, as I walked in there she was on the varanda feeding her little babies. She looked up, taking time to welcome me home, exchanging pleasantries, happy, the delight on her face that I was home. Nnebaby didn't use too many words, she was nonetheless, undeniably outspoken; bold & blunt; how you square that I don’t know! Since her demise I have had time to consider what it was about her that commanded our love & attention. Her undeniably great, big heart, her capacity to love. An unquestioning love for those around her. I don't think she had expectations, it was unconditional love. Her unwavering love, care and respect for my parents and as a consequence we felt loved and appreciated. Nnebaby took the challenges of life in her stride. A confidence in her God & His assurances in her life were more than enough for her. I met her again after 30 years, she still had that loving generosity, her disposition had not changed! When we heard she had quietly exited this realm, we were saddened, knowing we would miss her immensely. Today we join the family and friends of a much beloved woman, Nnebaby, to pay our last respects at her Celebratory 'Home going'! Mama Adieu Rev. Theodora Osat Ndep

We crossed path in 1987 as a young constable in Ibadan through the Odogwu's first blood too. Mama was a strict disciplinarian and want the best for her children. I'm part of this noble family for ever.  Mama rest in peace. God bless your soul and grant us the fortitude to bear this great loss.  Amen