ForeverMissed
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Marjie passed away on Sunday, December 13th.  She died peacefully and quickly at home under hospice care with Rod, son Derek, and sister Jan by her side.  As you know, she had been dealing with cancer for the past year and a half.     Fortunately, she was able to see and hear from many of you in the past few weeks.  Her desire is to be cremated and have her ashes placed on the top of Neahkahnie mountain overlooking Manzanita.  Last May, she was able to hike to the top of Neahkahnie for the last time with Rod and good friends on a beautiful spring day.   In lieu of a funeral or memorial service, Marjie asked that we set up this memorial website where you are invited to share your memories, stories, photos, and thoughts for Rod, Derek, Sunita, Izzyie and all of you to see.  We have shared some photos of Marjie in the Gallery section of the website. 

We know Marjie will be dearly missed by family and friends.

With love,

Rod, Derek and Sunita 
December 13, 2023
December 13, 2023
I miss you so much, mom. I wish you could see Izzyie thriving, but I am grateful for the 10 years that you had together. Love you!
December 13, 2023
December 13, 2023
Dear Marjie, Hard to believe it's been 8 years since you passed from this world into the beyond. Your spirit is very much alive and with all of us. I have been playing the piano, learning to read music and theory. I wish you were still here~ And I find deep comfort knowing you will hear me playing wherever you are.
I miss and love you.
June 7, 2023
June 7, 2023
Marjie, I just opened an email you sent to me on October 17, 2015. One I had saved as a precious memory. I'll share a portion here.
" I mentioned to Rod that we saw 24 people last week., so many a pilgrim has earned stars in her crown by visiting the afflicted, or a least inviting the afflicted to parties...that counts, I should think, or inviting themselves to Rod's cabin overnight , which two couples did. I made them do all the work. My sister and I are off to Portland Playhouse at 1 pm tomorrow to enjoy a play about hip-hop with a bunch of blue-hairs like Jan and me. What must the poor cast be thinking. I should do Qigong and take a nap before I head out for my playdate", so better sign off." 
Marjie, your joy of life, the wit of your words, and the way you continued being Marjie to the last breath, is a continued inspiration to all of us who love you.
January 11, 2023
January 11, 2023
Dear Marjie, what can I'say, still missed you so much, even if I' don't write so often you are always in my mind, I' remember the trips to Mexico and such a fun we have, love you forever my dear friend.
December 20, 2022
December 20, 2022
Marjie, I've heard it said, not remembering when or where, that life on this earth is not over until no one remembers your name. So, Marjie, my dear friend, you will continue to have a very long life in the hearts of those who were privileged to know and be loved by you. Your warmth, love and influence shows up with every tribute. I'm so thankful for the memories of our times together and think of you so very often. 
December 13, 2022
December 13, 2022
Marjie ~ Missing your grounding presence, kindness, and unconditional love. Grateful for your bright spirit and light that still shine in our lives. Thank you for illuminating a path towards truth and wisdom in love.
June 6, 2022
June 6, 2022
Margie, I think of you so often and miss you always. Yours was a life well lived and the world misses your light.
June 5, 2022
June 5, 2022
I think of you often and look at your photo with such sweet thoughts and memories. Especially the day we went for hair cuts and lunch. I love this photo (posted on the site) I took of you immediately after your cut. You were so happy and proud of your new look. You told me how much Rod liked it too. Love and miss you. Neen
December 14, 2021
December 14, 2021
Dear Margie, you always in my mind, for me you still at your house, sometimes I' even dream of you, Love you forever Margie.
June 5, 2021
June 5, 2021
Thinking of you on your Birthday, mom. We miss you so much. Love, Derek
December 13, 2020
December 13, 2020
I awoke this morning with my dear friend, Marjie on my mind. Reflecting on treasured experiences from our youthful college days through the last conversation we shared just before Thanksgiving of 2015. Memories of our searching conversations, our latest reads, family stories and the laughter and fun covering our friendship of 50 years. I miss you, Marjie. You hold such a precious place in my heart.
December 13, 2020
December 13, 2020
When Marjie passed I refused to accept it, the pain of losing the gentle loving neighbor who cared for me and offered incredible lasting friendship to my mother for 12 years was too much to swallow at the time. I didn’t know how to grieve, and I honestly still don’t. I’ve had several conversations with her in my head, asking her to forgive me for not knowing how to sit with her loss, how to do anything other than deny it. Her illness and passing was too unfair, too illogical to understand. I’m learning as the years go by to let go of the injustice, and honor the admirable and lovely person she was and the impact she and had on me over the years. But it’s hard. Marjie you are so missed, I really wish you were still here <3
December 13, 2020
December 13, 2020
I still hug a tree for Marjie on every hike. Her can-do spirit still inspires me in teaching, looking for the most realistic ways to help students learn English. (We were co-teachers in Costa Rica and had a blast.) Much love from Michele.
December 13, 2020
December 13, 2020
A wonderful spouse, mother and grandmother is forever missed. Marjie was all that and more. Memories of her are still vivid for me even though our family encounters were brief. So personable, humorous and easy to be with, bringing warmth to any gathering. ❤️
June 5, 2020
June 5, 2020
I had the pleasure to meet Marjie and Rod the first time, in my country, Costa Rica. When they participated as members of Partners of the Americas, in an adult interchange of one month, visiting different parts of my country, living and sharing with different families. They were my guests during the last week in San José.
She was very kindness, sweet, polite and interesting not only in the Spanish language but also in Costarrican culture.
They returned to Oregon but the friendship and communication continuous. Some years later in November 2013, my husband, Eleutimio Acuña and me had the opportunity to visit them in Portland, they were very special hosts with us.
The friendship increased, She came back to Costa Rica alone in July/ August 2013. I love this time we shared and knew each other more and more, we had plan a travel to Alaska, but she got sick and passed away before.
I send my love and kisses to the heaven to this special and wonderful woman in her 75 Birthday.
Hugs to Rod and family
December 15, 2019
December 15, 2019
I think of you often, Marjie, and how much you loved to travel and be in nature. Each memory of you brings me joy and inspiration. On Friday, I heard that Paul Simon song & I swear you were behind it playing at that moment :)
My love always*
December 13, 2019
December 13, 2019
Dear Marjie, I, never found the words to say how much I, missed you, but you always in my heart and my mind, I, have such a good memories of you, love you very much, and is wright you will be, "forever missed".
December 13, 2019
December 13, 2019
Having undergone open-heart surgery last year in Portland and a long slog through cardiac rehab in Bend has given me a new understanding of suffering and mortality. I will always remember and now fully appreciate how Margie endured the pain of her cancer and accepted her mortality with grace. Thank you, Margie, for being an inspiration.
December 13, 2019
December 13, 2019
Climbing Neahkahnie tomorrow, "Granny"!
June 5, 2019
June 5, 2019
Miss you every day, mom. We think of you all the time, especially when we are in Manzanita. Love you.
June 5, 2019
June 5, 2019
Sweet Marjie-
We are thinking fondly of you today...
you being you, still makes us smile.
Thanks for being a part of our lives.
Love you always,
Clint and Marian
June 5, 2019
June 5, 2019
I still have trouble believing Marjie is no longer with us. She had such a wonderful smile and sense of humor. Sandy and I always enjoyed whatever we were doing more when Marjie was our companion. 
Don Kunz, 6/5/19
June 5, 2019
June 5, 2019
Always think of you in springtime Marjie enjoying a sunshine sparkling boat ride on the Lake with Rod... flowers are blooming and your beautiful smile is radiant. I think on our last boat ride you were wearing all pink - so pretty and such a bright spot on this earth.
June 5, 2019
June 5, 2019
Marjie, my friend, I think of you and miss you so often, especially when I recall the wonderful trips we had with you and Rod. You were truly a light in this world and the world has been diminished by your passing.
February 24, 2019
February 24, 2019
When I think of Marjie through a memory or a conversation, I realize that I am keeping her spirit alive; In fact, we all carry her spirit with us each time we tell a story, or share our memories, about her with someone else.
When I practice Qi Gong and imagine becoming like water, or practice loving kindness meditation, I think of Marjie's mindfulness and her attraction to Qi Gong so that she could focus on positive energy and healing.
I am so grateful for knowing her, and for being able to spreading the love, light, and peace that she radiated.
December 15, 2018
December 15, 2018
A lovely and humorous memory that I have took place during this season in the years when Marjie and Rod opened their home for holiday gatherings. At one of these events Marjie had baked loaves of pumpkin bread for everyone to take home. However, she forgot to pass them out. As I was one of the last who left, she loaded me up with arm loads of carefully wrapped yummy breads that I then shared with my family. Marjie, sweet memories of you arrive all the time and I'm so blessed to have them. Miss you, Love, Judy
December 14, 2018
December 14, 2018
Dear Margie, I, always wit till the last minute, maybe because is hard for me to realize that you are gone, but I, miss you so much, and you always in my hearth and mind, I, don't have more words, except that I, love you very much.
December 13, 2018
December 13, 2018
Thinking lovingly of Marjie today, and how much I miss her. Rod & I took a walk today in her honor, sharing stories of how extraordinarily wonderful she was, and how much she taught us.
Thank you, Marjie, for being such a bright, inspiring, & encouraging presence in my life. You are sunlight during the day, and a guiding star in the night sky.
December 13, 2018
December 13, 2018
Miss you Marjie!!! Love, Your Big Sister Jan
December 13, 2018
December 13, 2018
How wonderful to be remembered for joy and embracing life fully! I am still touching old growth trees and sending you light, Margie. You were the best travel and teaching companion, but so much more!
Abrazos siempre,
Michele
December 13, 2018
December 13, 2018
Memories of Marjie bring a big smile with a tinge of regret, of course, that loved ones can’t see her face-to-face anymore. Her 70 years were exceedingly special. Her love of life and the people around her has endeared her to so many. She will continue to be missed.
November 5, 2018
November 5, 2018
Hi Marjie,
I am here in Oregon for my yearly visit, both in Portland and on the coast.
I have been staying with Rod and we talk about you all the time. Your spirit is alive and well - we miss you terribly and wish you were here. Every night we light a candle in your honor and remember you. The autumn colors are unusually beautiful this year.
On Halloween night, there were over 30 kids; The neighborhood has really changed. They came to the door wearing all sorts of cute costumes. Rod was dressed up as a one cool cowboy and I was an evil witch scaring them.
On October 30th, a beautiful fall day, we hiked up to Neahkahnie Mountain to spend some time with you. We were lucky with the weather, which meant sunshine and spectacular views. I can only imagine that you had something to do with it :)
Sending you much love & warm hugs,
Allison
June 6, 2018
June 6, 2018
I, still missed you so much, and love you forever, my dear "sister"
June 5, 2018
June 5, 2018
Happy Birthday, Marjie. I love you and miss you. Jan
December 13, 2017
December 13, 2017
Dearest Marjie,
I can't believe it's been two years! I was going through old boxes from my parents home in Portland and came across all your lovely cards you mailed me while I was in college. Many made me laugh out loud. You were always a ray of light - so warm, authentic, positive, so funny, and so curious and thoughtful. Your friendship is/was one I will FOREVER hold dear to my heart - and I now know and completely understand the love you have for Derek as I have my own child. I wish I could laugh with you over a cup of tea. Derek has always been a wonderful person - you left your legacy in him. We are all better for having known you even if only for a short while. Sending you love. I can still see your sparkling eyes.
December 13, 2017
December 13, 2017
I spoke to Rod this morning. He and Derek were preparing to climb  Neahkahnie Mountain as I knew they would be. What a wonderful way to celebrate Marjie's life. We'll toast her soon at the cabin.
December 13, 2017
December 13, 2017
Thinking of dear Margie today, and the loved ones who are still adjusting to life without her. She left a huge hole. All our love!!
December 13, 2017
December 13, 2017
Love you Mom, dad and I are hiking up Neahkanie Mountain today to celebrate your life. Miss you, D
December 13, 2017
December 13, 2017
Such a perfect title for a website, “forevermissed” because that is what you are, missed forever. I cherish my memory of the last time I saw you. We both had our hair cut at my barber shop, then went to lunch. You couldn’t wait for Rod to see your new look. You were just beaming with your sassy new short hair. So glad I took the photo that day. Every time I look at it I remember the look on your sweet face. I am proud this is the photo on your site. You are beautiful from the inside out. Miss you dear friend. Neen
June 7, 2017
June 7, 2017
Dear Margie, you are and will be, forever in my heart, my dear sister, and really true: Forever missed! always Love you.
June 6, 2017
June 6, 2017
My wife Sandy and I enjoyed the companionship of Marjie and Rod on many trips: Costs Rica, Umbria, Moab, Equador. We think of that often especially when we are travelling and all the fun we had together. We surely miss those days.
June 5, 2017
June 5, 2017
I spent Memorial weekend at my cabin in Cannon Beach. It was a chilly, misty weekend but a good book and a warm fire is just what I needed. In the beach house journal I began writing down the names of family members and friends who I hold close to my heart and have left a trail of memories here in this small abode. Marjie, among them, of course...our beach walks and long philosophical talks on just about every subject, spiced with Marjie's witty comments and timely interpretations. And, I remember that it was Rod who helped me design the front deck, years ago, and made a list of materials I would need to order for my contractor to build it. Somewhere packed away in boxes I have photos of Marjie, Rod and Derek, age 5, with others enjoying smores in the backyard fire pit. Marjie, I miss you and feel such gratitude for the friendship that we shared over a time span of 50 years. I think of you often. Love, Judy
June 5, 2017
June 5, 2017
While I don't need a tickler to remember dear, sweet Marjie, this is certainly a wonderful way to deliver a smile to all who loved her. I hope you can take comfort in knowing we all miss her and get constant reminders of her laughter, friendship and insights. Love to you all. Keith and Lynnda
December 15, 2016
December 15, 2016
I think of my dear friend Marjie almost every day and miss her sense of humor, wisdom and friendship.
December 15, 2016
December 15, 2016
I have the great fortune to hike regularly. When I knew of Marjie's health struggles I began looking for the most old soul, old growth tree on each hike to hold my palm to it and send Marjie good energy. Since her passing I continue to do so because I feel it is a way I can still connect with her strong spirit. I feel blessed to have known Marjie and shared teaching with her in Costa Rica.
Muchos abrazos de
Michele
December 14, 2016
December 14, 2016
I am most grateful for the array of experiences Marjie & I shared during our 30+ year friendship. I feel her presence. Blessings to all her family.
December 14, 2016
December 14, 2016
Miss you Mom, Dad and I were up on NeahKanie today. It was a gorgeous sunny day and we felt your presence. Love, Derek
December 13, 2016
December 13, 2016
Merry Christmas, Izzie.
Please tell Sunita and Derek and Grandpa Rod you love them. Feel free to tell them as often as you please.
Again, Merry Christmas and have fun in New Orleans.

Steve (Rod's log cabin co-builder)
December 13, 2016
December 13, 2016
You are in our hearts all year round, but we'll especially remember you at Christmas and drink a toast to our beautiful piano player! I have saved so many of your witty cards and enjoy reading them from time to time. They bring your joy and zest for life into mine. Best to your loving family.
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December 13, 2023
December 13, 2023
I miss you so much, mom. I wish you could see Izzyie thriving, but I am grateful for the 10 years that you had together. Love you!
December 13, 2023
December 13, 2023
Dear Marjie, Hard to believe it's been 8 years since you passed from this world into the beyond. Your spirit is very much alive and with all of us. I have been playing the piano, learning to read music and theory. I wish you were still here~ And I find deep comfort knowing you will hear me playing wherever you are.
I miss and love you.
June 7, 2023
June 7, 2023
Marjie, I just opened an email you sent to me on October 17, 2015. One I had saved as a precious memory. I'll share a portion here.
" I mentioned to Rod that we saw 24 people last week., so many a pilgrim has earned stars in her crown by visiting the afflicted, or a least inviting the afflicted to parties...that counts, I should think, or inviting themselves to Rod's cabin overnight , which two couples did. I made them do all the work. My sister and I are off to Portland Playhouse at 1 pm tomorrow to enjoy a play about hip-hop with a bunch of blue-hairs like Jan and me. What must the poor cast be thinking. I should do Qigong and take a nap before I head out for my playdate", so better sign off." 
Marjie, your joy of life, the wit of your words, and the way you continued being Marjie to the last breath, is a continued inspiration to all of us who love you.
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opening doors

December 13, 2016

Today, the first anniversary of Marjie's passing, Sandy and I are remembering the many adventures we shared with her and Rod in Oregon, Costa Rica, Utah, Umbria, and Ecuador.  The photo I have added to the gallery today of us pushing open an enormous door together in Umbria will always be symbolic for me as sharing a trip with Rod and Marjie always opened us up to new joyful experiences.  Rod was our navigator; Marjie was our shrewd observor and commentator.  They made every trip we took more fun.  We treasure those memories and only wish there could be more of them awaiting us.
Don 

For Marjie

February 15, 2016

Yesterday, on February 14th, I participated in the Los Angeles marathon and dedicated it to Marjie. She was with me from start to finish and I would not have been able to do it without her love and spirit present. I wore a t-shirt with this picture printed on the back, and the words "For Marjie, my inspiration and light," to honor her amidst the 25,000 runners gathered for the event. The marathon was a most moving and beautiful testimony of humanity coming together to support one another towards a common goal. I have never been witness to such a charismatic display of the kindness of strangers; I think Marjie would have really been moved by it as well. The race ended in Santa Monica, near the ocean, where I met Marjie as I gazed upon the sunshine glittering off of the water's surface. I am incredibly grateful for her presence in my life and in my heart. I miss her dearly.

Beach Stories

December 24, 2015

Summer of 1976, I rented a cabin in Cannon Beach, Oregon in order to take the Haystack Art Classes offered through Portland State.  Marjie, (this time I’ll spell your name correctly J)  and friend, Sandy, joined in for a time.  I was taking guitar and weaving classes.  Marjie and Sandy took calligraphy.  When we weren’t in class we hiked nearby trails, jogged on the beach, checked out the local pubs and built bonfires on the sand at sunset...singing and dancing into the night by firelight.  Many of our conversations that summer (and for years to come) were around the political issues of the day.  That summer I recall conversations about the ERA (Equal Rights Amendment) that passed both houses of congress but would later fail to be ratified by enough states.  Marjie had strong and informed political views and I always went away from our conversations with an expanded view of things.

 For several days after our classes, 3-year-old Derek joined the fun.  He was the first to wake in the morning, would sneak into my room and attempt to rouse me by crawling under the covers at the foot of the bed, giggling and rolling around until I recognized that it was time to start the day.  Although the cabin was about 50 feet from the beach, walking there with Derek was about a 45-minute stroll.  First, there was a small snail at the side of the road that needed attention.  Then, rocks to check out.  A ladybug who magically disappeared when he tried to hold it...  So many wonders in one block with time to investigate each one.  I remember the interest, patience and delight that Marjie found with her young son’s focus and her eagerness to join him in these discoveries.  Years later, she found the same joy spending time with her grandchild, Izzyie. 

 Although I enjoy bringing back these memories from the past, I can only think of Marjie in the present.  She still seems so very much with us.

 

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