This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Marjorie Gaskell . We will remember her forever.
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Leave a tributeTake care & rest in peace.
Hardly a day goes by that I don' think of the parties, dinners etc. that you & Ken were a part of. I wish we could turn the clock back a few years.
You are definitely missed grand lady.
It is spring, and we are in a pandemic. Because we are still in CA instead of PA, my daily walk takes me passed the home you shared with Ken. I always loved being invited there and enjoying a special dinner with you. You were such a gracious hostess, and I miss your lovely smile.
Ken invited us to his new home and spoiled us with a special bottle of wine. You would be proud of his neighborly hospitality. It is a challenge to stay home during this covid 19 crisis. Hopefully, we will be able to invite Ken to visit soon, and we will toast to you, my friend.
Missing you, Pat
I celebrated an October birthday too. We are back from our time in Pennsylvania,and it will be lonely here without seeing your friendly face.
It is curious that the other day I was thinking about you telling us about the English Christmas Cracker tradition. Your animated expression convinced me that it was a great idea to do with our grandchildren. So, my friend, as we adopt this UK tradition this year, we will be thinking of you.
Love, Pat and Tom
I have struggled for weeks to write something to you. I have gone back and forth in my head and always come to the conclusion that no words will ever be able to encompass how much you have impacted me and my life. You, Poppa and mom are my three biggest role models in life, and the people I strive to be more like every single day.
Some of my earliest memories are with you and poppa, going over to the house in southern California to swim, or holidays at the house in Asheville, or the hours and hours spent playing any and all types of board games. I will never forget the one time we were playing Cranium and you had to act out Tarzan so you beat your chest and yelled at the top of your lungs, only to find out that you weren't allowed to make any sound. I don't think I have laughed harder than I did that day. Christmas at your house was always an EVENT and I am so happy that we have those memories of times together. I think it will never truly feel like Christmas to me until everyone is sitting around the table eating way too much food and wearing paper crowns from the Christmas crackers.
Every major milestone in my life you have been a part of and have influenced. Your ability to always try and find the good in people, or the positive in a situation is something I try to do more and more every day. I will be lucky if when I'm a grandmother of my own I am even half of the grandmother you have been to me. You have influenced me in more ways than you could possibly even begin to know and I will forever be grateful for you. I can never thank you enough for everything you have done for me, Meghan, Kenny and mom. You are one of the people I have always and will always look up to. You are one of the bravest, smartest, strongest, kindest and funniest people I have ever known. I am proud to say I am your granddaughter and could not imagine anyone having a better grandmother than me. I am so glad that we are as close as we are as a family, I know that no matter what you and Poppa will ALWAYS be there for me. Even when I mess up and make mistakes, you tell me of course, but you are always there to support me. I am graduating college because of you and your constant support. I have done most of the things in my life because of you and your constant support, I would not be anywhere close to where I am today if it was not for you. You have taught me so much throughout my life; how to never take anything TOO seriously, how to golf (even though I am truly terrible), how to play every board/card/domino game, manners (even if I forget them on occasion), how to be an amazing role model, but most importantly how to be a strong person. Your consistent strength and resilience through everything amazes me. I am so grateful for the time that we have gotten to spend together throughout the years. I love you so much Nana, words will never be enough to truly explain everything you have done for me as a person.
We just got back from church and asked God to look after you on this Blessed Day of the Season. Happy Easter and know that God will give you strength to face your challenges and embrace your blessings.
Love and friendship,
Tom and Pat
We would like you to know our daily loving thoughts and Prayers continue for you and your family throughout this difficult time and you have a place in our hearts forever.
Your friends,
Judith and Barbara
Who would have believed that a chance meeting in Sefton Park in the Spring of 1955 would turn out to be the 64 year long journey that we have the good fortune to look back on. I do remember our early dates where it was not
unusual for you to be an hour late, and of course, I would still be waiting for you. Amazing what you will do for love. Our wedding on October 26th, 1957 was followed by the "huge" reception for 15 people, because that was all we could afford. Our immediate move from Liverpool to Shrewsbury directly after the reception to move into Hilda & Harry's Bed & Breakfast for about three weeks, and then into our small rented house in Brougham Square.
Christmas 1960 when we were in Liverpool for Christmas and our meeting with Ann and A.C. Brown and then the trip to London with them for a few days. When Ann and A.C. offered to sponsor us so we could move to the United States. After much discussion and research, we decided we would try it for two years and that has now turned into 58 years. We arrived in Victoria on July 3rd, 1961 with $242 and no jobs. We moved in with Ann and A.C. for about 17 days.
From there, due to job transfers we lived in Irving and Houston, Texas and then Fullerton, Dublin, Thousand Oaks, CA. during which time we had our
great three children. Through all of this you were incredible in your attitude and devotion to family. The fact our children are all successful today, is due
to you.
Our children were blessed to have the mother they have and I was blessed to have you for my wife and for your support in my working career. Without
you I would not have had the success I did have.
Thank you for being who you are and what you are. BEYOND BELIEF!!
You've been in our lives for not quite 2 years, but what an impression you have made on our hearts in that short time. You have the most beautiful smile and sparkling eyes and you have always been so warm and welcoming to us both. We just love listening to you and Ken talk about the many experiences you've shared throughout your years together and where life has led you. We know too how much your children and grandchildren mean to you both. You have so many friends here at the Oasis and we all think of you often and hold you tightly in our prayers. In this difficult time when we don't understand "why?" and can make no sense of things, we're told to lean not on our own understanding ... but remember that He is faithful to all His promises. We love you dear friend and we will continue to pray for you and for Ken ... Always, Bette & Brad Boulware
What a smile!! Every time I think of you, it's your smile that brings me such joy! Bob and I will treasure all the times we've spent together golfing, Hand & Foot and for me, going to dinner and the theater. We always had so much fun! We've shared a laugh or two (raccoon, if you get my drift) at all the events which brought us into each other's path. After reading some of the messages to you, which reflected how so many were touched by you in this life, I can only add that I too am among those many. Much LOVE to you!
Barbara and I LOVE enjoying time with you and Ken on the golf course or playing Hand & Foot, although you better us at both, your direct English sense of humor and lovely giggle delights and brightens any room. I’ve had the pleasure of snapping photos of you and Ken at many Oasis Events, sharing these beautiful photos with your family and friends in the Gallery from the Evening of Elegance, Wine Club and Golf Group is a joy. I have always told you…”You look like a movie star”, these photos prove it. Thank you for sharing your life and memories with us. Our heart filled Prayers are with you, Ken, and your family.
Forever friends,
Judith & Barbara
I read the following words when I was 16 years old, and you are one of the people who exemplified them so well. " We have never too much time to gladden the hearts of those who are traveling the journey with us. Oh, be swift to love, make haste to be kind."
,May Gods grace and peace be with you.
With love,
Charlene and Walter
You were so much fun when we went to the College of Commerce. A.C. and I were so proud to sponsor you and Ken and so thrilled you came to join us in Texas. In fact, we were so excited we ordered Hurricane Carla as a welcome gift. We'll always be thankful you guys were with us as we rode out Hurricane Carla.
Thinking of you!!
I hope that you and Ken will reach out if there is ANY thing that you need. Shopping, meals, etc. I hate to bring food as I'm sure that is difficult for you, but let me know if there is anything you or Ken need. I am so glad you were able to attend our Anniversary party. With love and caring. Lurlyn and George
You will be in our thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. We Care!!!!
I just took a walk past your house and decided to try leaving you another little message. I accidentally did my last post under stories, so I hope you read that note from us. Since St. Patrick's Day is coming soon, I decided to send you a little Irish blessing.
"May God grant you always...
A sunbeam to warm you, a moonbeam to charm you, a sheltering Angel so nothing can harm you.
Laughter to cheer you.
Faithful friends near you.
And whenever you pray,
Heaven to hear you."
Since I am a block away, please feel free to reach out anytime you or Ken need anything. You know we shop the same places. Also if you ever feel like talking, let me know. You are in my daily thoughts and prayers.
Love and hugs, Pat
I am saddened to hear of this news. I have such great memories of the mom and daughters trip to Vegas. I had always known of you but didn't really get to spend time with you until that trip. And what a time it was! Your laugh and the conversations and fun we all had I will cherish forever. I am praying for you, Ken, Steve, Sharon and Sandy. May you find comfort in each other and the love of so many at this very difficult time
I am stunned by this sad news and wish it wasn't true.
So many wonderful memories... Your trips back to Dublin always meant we were going out for fish & chips. I hated the fish back then but loved that you were visiting!
The best times were on the twin boats. So much fun & laughter. And crazy times - hospital runs, sunburns, Brits trying to figure out how much a burger actually cost, stuck rafts, etc. All of it also ended in laughter.
So happy for our mother/daughter Dublin reunion. We girls were lucky to be raised by the fabulous Dublin Moms, who are now our friends. Once again, laughter was the theme. Great friends, great meals and maybe a few twirls around a pole!
I wish you love and comfort in the days ahead. I thank you for sharing your sparkling eyes, mischievous grin and extraordinary personality.
Love you, Barb
Burt and I feel so lucky to have you and Ken as friends. Doing water aerobics and playing mahjong brought you into my life. I learned all about your kindness and sense of humor. Working with you on the KCC Board taught me how organized and responsible you are...plus, you are really good at editing!
(Please don't check this note for spelling or grammar!) I think of you often
when I am tempted to share a juicy bit of gossip...Then I remember....
"Is it true?...Is it kind?...Will it help?" What a wonderful piece of wisdom.
You have made a difference in my life and how I view the world. Thank you!
We are so sorry that your wonderful life has been shortened by this terrible
disease. Our love and thoughts are with you, Ken and your family.
It breaks my heart to think of you and Ken having to deal with this dreadful illness. I always loved golfing with you. I loved your competitive edge, especially when there was money on the line. I loved your sense of humor, your honesty, and of course your beautiful English accent! Kenmure hasn’t been the same since you left.
Be assured that you and your family will be in our thoughts and prayers. Love, Sue
You and your family are fabulous. With all you are going through to think of your friends and family who want to tell you how much they love you and create this great way of doing it. It is so great of you guys. You have my prayers that this time gives your family the time you want to be sure each of you know how much you mean to each other. As horrible as this is, this was the time I think my late husband and I were glad we had just to share whatever. Love to you and yours, Dee
I have been praying a lot for you and your family. I am asking God to give you what you need right now. You have such a nice smile , do things to make you smile. Sending a BIG hug.
Sue
Sad news for all. Please know that I, and other members of our family, will always know you as the sweet aunt with the pretty smile and laugh. You knew how to live a full, indeed, a rich life. Time and distance notwithstanding, you did have an positive influence on me. The entire Gaskell family is a real class act, across the board. You will be remembered by a lot of people for a long time. I will be thinking of you. Much love, Jeff
Thank you for letting us share our love and support ! There are no words that can even begin to say how we all feel about you Marge....but I will try ! Always a big smile, laughing, bright dancing eyes, a welcoming and warm personality, so much fun, smart, reliable, creative, and so generous ! Check out the photo of us trying to recruit new Mah Jongg players, it was a great day. Just know we are all here do what ever we can to help, so please feel free to call me anytime. Love you ! Vicky and Don
So shocked to hear this bad news.
Wanted you to know how much I cherished our friendship. We had so many good times at Sunset Hills, the golf, the dinners and dances. You always had that great smile. Also the golf trip we took to England and Ireland and played Royal County Downs. I still have my score card. I would never have gone there otherwise because Joe didn't like to travel. So glad we had that visit several months ago, had breakfast and reminisced about old times. I will treasure that. My prayers go out to the family.
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Wonderful memories !!!
Dearest Marge,
Barbara and I LOVE enjoying time with you and Ken on the golf course or playing Hand & Foot, although you better us at both, your direct English sense of humor and lovely giggle delights and brightens any room. I’ve had the pleasure of snapping photos of you and Ken at many Oasis Events, sharing these beautiful photos with your family and friends from the Evening of Elegance, Wine Club and Golf Group is a joy. I have always told you…”You look like a movie star”, these photos prove it. Thank you for sharing your life and memories with us. Our heart filled Prayers are with you, Ken, and your family.
Forever friends,
Judith & Barbara
I don’t know you well as others do. Other then the occasional dog park hello, I did get to spend time chatting with you at one of Dorrie’s parties. I left thinking what a charming, beautiful intelligent lady with such class and so unpretentious. Brains, beauty and elegance!! I wish I could have known you better Marge and am so very sorry to hear of this. You are blessed with Ken, your children and wonderful caring family. I remember your cute family reunion T-shirts, they all sound so very special and can see you hold a large spot in their hearts. I do hope you or your oncologist has contacted Hospice. They are kind and knowledgeable and can help you through this journey. What a sweet soul you are Marge. Blessings