I met Mark through Paula, as she played music every night while I worked at Vail Ranch Steakhouse. Naturally, being a musician, I bonded with both Paula and Mark. He would come in just to sit and listen to his wife play. He always listened to me talk...because, for most of my life, this was a way to hide all the other battles I was personally having. Somehow, I think Mark always knew that. This past year has been traumatic for everyone, but even as I would come to their house for piano lessons, Mark was wasting away...and yet, he still listened with enthusiasm. I could see him getting weaker, and I could see it weighing on Paula. It was in the last conversation I had with him that I realized, I talk too much. Here was a guy that was literally fading away, could barely stand, and still, he was there for ME. In all this, I was growing in ways no one could know. But I watched Paula...and her boys...always smiling, always finding joy even while I could see their hearts before me, breaking as he faded. Mark was kind, and brilliant, and he had a generous spirit that embraced broken people in the humblest of ways. Paula and Mark were a team, I could see that. My prayers go up for Paula and their boys as they dicover their path without Mark. He would've held anyone up, and I'm sure he did for all his family. I believe with all my heart we are never given more than we can handle. It was a blessing and an honor to have met him, called him friend, and had him to lean on...even if just to listen. He will.neber know how much I cherished his offering of profound wisdom and encouragement. May we meet again, brother. You will be missed, but certainly, not forgotten.