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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one,

MARVIN BARNFIELD, 70,

born on January 21, 1942

and passed away on January 27, 2012

. We will remember him forever. He was the best man i ever knew.

we were so impossibly lucky to have him in our lives.  everyone of

us owe him thanks for trying to teach us how to be good men. he

led us by example...thank you dad,,,for who you were..

January 31, 2022
January 31, 2022
Kendra,

I am so very sorry for your loss. May God be with you and your family in your time of need, may he watch over you and comfort you.

Please accept my deepest sympathy.
November 11, 2021
November 11, 2021
i miss you so much its been a long time but im still here and i will you allways you are with god now so erery thing is good love you allways BRO. MR.BILL  
January 27, 2021
January 27, 2021
I think about you almost everyday. You left an impression on me that will last a lifetime! I miss you so much Daddy Marvin that it hurts. I love you more than you will ever know. When you died you took a part of my heart with you, the part only meant for you... Dad and Vicky did the same they took it with them when they died. I can't believe it's been 9 years since you died. My only solace is we will see each other again. I love you
January 31, 2018
January 31, 2018
Six years have passed since last I saw your face..I miss you and need you to know...I loved you big bastard....still do..
January 26, 2016
January 26, 2016
He is my dad my best friend and one of the most important person in my life I love that man with all my heart and miss him every day of my life
August 7, 2015
August 7, 2015
Grandpa told the best and most inappropriate jokes and didn't give half a rat's ass if somebody didn't like him. But it didn't matter because everybody loved him. I didn't see him enough. I never see any of you enough, and it wasn't really my fault but it is now.
I love you Grandpa.
January 21, 2014
January 21, 2014
still hanging in there Dad, just bearley .=] I Love You. =]
January 29, 2013
January 29, 2013
Happy Late Birthday Dad. =] I Love You... Some things just don't change. =]
February 26, 2012
February 26, 2012
TOMORROW WILL BE A MONTH. ONE THING I WAS SURE OF. WAS I'D BE OUT OF TEARS BY NOW. NOT EVEN CLOSE. I LOVED DAD MORE THAN I CAN EVER EXPRESS IN WORDS. WHICH IS KINDA NEW FOR ME. I USUALLY HAVE LITTLE PROBLEM GETTING THE WORDS OUT..... HARD TO TALK OR TYPE AROUND A BIG LUMP I CAN'T SWALLOW
February 25, 2012
February 25, 2012
I love u papa I miss u so much. An I wish u was here right now today has been a hard day. I kno ur watching me from above so it makes it a little easy but I live u an miss u
February 21, 2012
February 21, 2012
"HEAVENLY FATHER, MY MOTHER MRS. MAXINE BARNFIELD, WAS RECENTLY STRICKEN ILL. I HUMBLY ASK FOR HER RETURN TO HEALTH. SHE IS ONE OF YOUR FINEST CREATIONS. IF BY SOME UNLIKELY CHANCE I HAVE EARNED ANY GRACE.IN THIS LIFE. I ASK IT BE GIVEN TO HER..GIVE HER THE STRENGTH TO OVERCOME. THIS AFFLICTION. THIS I PRAY IN JESUS' HOLY NAME AMEN....
February 21, 2012
February 21, 2012
THEY SAY THAT GOD DOESN'T GIVE US MORE OF A BURDEN THAN HE THINKS WE CAN BEAR.... I HAVE OF LATE BEEN WONDERING IF HE JUST MIGHT TRUST ME JUST A LITTLE TOO MUCH..
February 6, 2012
February 6, 2012
Marvin truly was a great man. Im gonna miss calling and chatting with him, laughing with him on the phone. I always looked forward to our weekly conversations about whatever he wanted to talk about. Being able to get his granddaughter there to see him, see the joy he took in that, is a memory that will remain in my heart forever. You'll always be alive in my heart.
February 5, 2012
February 5, 2012
JUST ASKED MY BEAUTIFUL MOTHER IF SHE HAD ANY WORDS SHE FELT LIKE ADDING HERE....UNFORTUNATELY NOT QUITE READY AS OF YET.... EXCEPT THAT SHE WISHES ALL OF YOU OUT THERE A LONG HAPPY LIFE,,,LOVE AS STRONGLY AS YOU CAN.....
February 5, 2012
February 5, 2012
A COUPLE OF DAYS HAVE PASSED. DAD IS ON MY MIND TODAY..I MADE MYSELF A BIG GLASS OF ICED TEA AND SAT IN HIS CHAIR TODAY.(SOMETHING HE ALLOWED RARELY) AND WATCHED THE KIDS AND MOMMY COMING AND GOING. TRYING TO SEE THINGS THRU HIS EYES.JUST BEING AN AMUSED SPECTATOR TO THE DRAMA AND CRISISES...THEN LOOKED UP AND THE TELEVISION WAS ON "COPS" A SHOW HE DEARLY LOVED..I HATE THAT SHOW..I'M FINE
February 5, 2012
February 5, 2012
ANYONE WHO KNEW THE DYNAMIC BETWEEN MY FATHER AND I ...HE WOULD PUT ON "COPS" AND WATCH EVERY EPISODE OVER AND OVER...SOMETIMES THE SAME EXACT SHOWS BACK TO BACK..AND I HATED THAT SHOW...STILL DO..DON'T KNOW WHY IT WAS ON. OR WHO TURNED IT THERE..BUT DADDY IS MESSIN WITH ME I'M THINKIN....I'M WAITING FOR HIM TO COME THRU THE DOOR AND BOOT ME OUT OF HIS CHAIR.....I MISS THAT..I LOVE U DAD
February 3, 2012
February 3, 2012
He was a great man and grandfather ill never forgett you he tought me to never stop going and don't let the worst let you down make the best of it and I will I miss and love you grandpa thank you for everything you r and will always be my rock love you so so so much
February 3, 2012
February 3, 2012
I love u grandpa Marvin. I love u and will miss u.. I kno things will be okay because I kno u are watching me from up above.. u was a awesome grandpa and ill never forget u. I will always remember how u made me the girl I am today.. I love u grandpa so so much:) I will always miss u an carey u in my heart.. thank u for every thing u have done for me. We will all miss u very dearly
February 2, 2012
February 2, 2012
Grandpa I will never forget how loving and caring you were. You truly were an amazing man and will be missed by so many. I will forever love you and miss you!!! I love you!
February 1, 2012
February 1, 2012
My Daddy is now and always will be my rock. He was always there for me no matter what. He was always the first to give and the last to ask for anything back. I don't know where I'd be now without his Love and understanding.Thank you for teaching me to be a man. I Love You Daddy.=]
February 1, 2012
February 1, 2012
I REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME I MEET HIM AT THE GAS STATION ON UNION AVE. HE WATCHED ME FOR A DAY-- THEN CALLED MOMMA AND TOLD HER HE WAS BRINGING ME HOME---i WAS A WILD KID BACK THEN,THEY HELPED ME TO GROW UP, WE HAD DIFFERENCES FROM TIME TO TIME, BUT WHEN THINGS WERE GOING WRONG IN MY LIFE DAD ALWAYS LET ME COME HOME.  i KNOW HE IS IN A BETTER PLACE NOW --NO PAIN NO REGRETS... I LOVE YOU
February 1, 2012
February 1, 2012
Michelle,Kendra & family..i am sincerely sorry for your loss.I know how it feels..i just recently lost my mother. Your family is in my prayers.
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
He is survived by his wife Mrs,Maxine Barnfield. daughter Janice Kay,daughter Dedra m Mcentire,son Kenneth E. Mcentire son,Darren G,Mcentire son.Robert e. Porter,son Timothy R,L, Porter. adopted daughter Mary Messerli.countless grandchildren... he is one of thirteen kids. one sister Dessie and four remaining brothers.Larry,Bruce,Larry,Elgie ...Barnfield....we love you daddy
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
the greatest friend and the best dad i've ever known,,i hope someday to be even half the man.....he didn't have to be. thank you daddy for being who you were,,,
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
My father was liked and respected by everyone,., tough as old boot leather, then he'd show his tender hearted side.. he held my uncles's hand as he lay dyeing, stood by his bed holding his hands for fourteen days. untill uncle Donny breathed his last breath. he could be loud and course. or tender. He taught me to be a man.how to think like a man,i love you daddy....Darren
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
Dad you were tough on us when we needed it and tender when we needed your shoulder to cry on. Thank you for being my DAD!!! You made me the person i am today. I miss you and love you! You were always there for me even when you were upset with me...REST IN PEACE POPPA.... You will be forever in my heart and on my mind.. Love you dad
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
Daddy Marvin was one of a kind! When I thought I had no one he was there. He was always smiling no matter what! There is countless memories that i have but the one that stand out the most is when i got my Associates degree, i told him it is to hard and that i dont think i can finish.. he replied with one of his famous sayings "Rats a@@ you can do anything you put your heart to" he was one
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
he was one of the reasons that i am going after my Bachelors degree and i am dedicating this degree to him because i know he will be proud when i get it! i love you daddy Marvin and you will foralways be in my heart! Rest in Peace!
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
in life it takes a special person to have taken care of as many kids as dad did, he helped all of us to be who we are today, i love u daddy and miss u so very much
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
My Grandpa Marvin was an amazing man, he was always there for me when i needed him. He never judged me and never condemned me. I met this man when i was 7 years old. I broke my arm and he came to my side as soon as it happend.. He taught me how to shuffle cards. He showed me magic tricks and blessed me with many memories. The last thing i told this wonderful man was that i loved him...
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
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and that id see him soon. And i will Grandpa. Keep watching me from the window up above and i will make you proud. You blessed me with something that i can never forget and will never lose my big brown eyes. i get that from you grandpa.
Rest in Paradise. I Love You Grandpa.
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
Dad, i will miss you so much for the rest of my life. I can close my eyes and still see you with your amazing smile. I can listen very closely and hear your contagious laugh. No matter what happened in my life you could always make me laugh. You have blessed me with all those good memories throughout my entire life, that will be with me forever. But the greateet gift you could have blessed
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
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me with is the honor of looking into the mirror and seeing a piece of you everyday.
I Love You Dad.
ALWAYS, Janice Kay.
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
He was very special to alot of people we all loved and cherished him. He was there for all of us in our time of need I can truly say he will be missed but i will keep in my heart forever I love you daddy Marvin!! <3 <3 <3
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
I couldnt have been born into a better family and as far back as I can remember if my daddy couldnt be there for my Uncle Marvin and Aunt Maxine was. There have been a lot of trials and tribulations in my life and when I needed someone Uncle Marvin and Aunt Maxine were there. For this Im am so deeply grateful I wouldnt have known what to do without them there to help me.
January 31, 2012
January 31, 2012
I have always loved and respected both of them like a father and mother. Aunt Maxine was like the mother I always wanted not that I didnt love my own mother but she actually payed attention to me. And Uncle Marvin the same. I didnt say it enough before and I should have and I hope its not too late. I love you.

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January 31, 2022
January 31, 2022
Kendra,

I am so very sorry for your loss. May God be with you and your family in your time of need, may he watch over you and comfort you.

Please accept my deepest sympathy.
November 11, 2021
November 11, 2021
i miss you so much its been a long time but im still here and i will you allways you are with god now so erery thing is good love you allways BRO. MR.BILL  
January 27, 2021
January 27, 2021
I think about you almost everyday. You left an impression on me that will last a lifetime! I miss you so much Daddy Marvin that it hurts. I love you more than you will ever know. When you died you took a part of my heart with you, the part only meant for you... Dad and Vicky did the same they took it with them when they died. I can't believe it's been 9 years since you died. My only solace is we will see each other again. I love you
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Almost seven years have passed since I saw your face. I need you right now so much pop.

September 17, 2018

Daddy,. Thank you for helping to clear up the mess last month..a check arrived right when mom needed it most..saved the day you did...further proof that you are watching over mom and us...and always have been.  Without that money she would have been in a bad way financially. It came out of the blue when she needed.it most...thank you pops..still watching her I can feel it...see you soon big bastard....this place has worn me out...  But knowing what to do was your thing...and I sure enough need some of that right now...I love you Pop...sleep well...see you soon old man...I miss you. Darren

Missing my Dad.

September 14, 2017

Well it's been 5yrs. now & not a day goes by that I don't think about you dad. Mom's having a bad time without you, she doesn't try to do any of the things you might remember her doing for you or with you. She nolonger talks to anyone her depression is very high. I told you I would always be there for mom, i made you a promise on the night before you left us, you and I had a long talk, I told you I would always take care of her, I'm doing my best at keeping that promise, we miss you every day of every week of every year. There's days I wonder if I'm going to be able to keep my word. Then I relieze that my word is all I have now. No matter how bad it gets I will always take care of mom like you asked me to. I think I miss you more today than yesterday. You will always be in my heart, and in my mind... I  love you Dad and I miss you so much.

January 26, 2016

I loved Uncle Marvin with all my heart. He lived with me before he went in the service, and after he got out. We had a special couch for him and my mother Sylvia was one of his older sisters that had looked out for him. I have so many stories of Marvin from his very first mariage, to him leaving with Maxine to California to live a life I am so proud to know he lived and now to know how loved he was also there. 

Marvin when younger, could go into a kitchen that everyone just went and trolled for something to eat and found nothing and could come out with a plate of food that would make everyone scratch their heads, and wonder, where did he find all that food.

I think my Mom had a great deal to do with Marvins morals and being raised. She whooped him with a belt bent over her kitchen counter one time because of a wrong he did. She tore his but up. I have a video of my mom, telling when she did it.....

I have so many stories, I will at times log back in....and post another......

love all.... 

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