Memorial services for Mary Eichelberger age 57 of Beemer, NE will be on Friday, September 9, 2011 at 11:00 a.m. at the Beemer Mennonite Church in Beemer, NE. Memorial visitation will be on Thursday from 3 to 8 p.m., with the family present from 6 to 8 p.m., at the Minnick Funeral Home in Beemer and will continue on Friday from 9 a.m. till service time at the church. Relatives and friends can leave online condolences on Mary’s Book of Memories at www.kuzelka-minnickfuneralhomes.com.
Mary passed away on Tuesday, September 6, 2011 at the St. Francis Memorial Hospital in West Point, NE.
Mary Denise Murphy was born June 20, 1954 in West Point, NE to Eugene and Darleen (Greteman) Murphy. She went to school at Guardian Angels and Beemer Schools and graduated from Beemer High School. On May 18, 1973, she married Roy Eichelberger. Mary’s first and most important job was being a Mother. She attended Joseph’s College of Beauty in Norfolk and graduated in 1987. Mary worked at Indian Trails Country Club in the kitchen for several years. She worked as a beautician at Carolyn’s Hair Studio for several years. For the last nine years she worked at Northstar Services.
Mary loved to sew, make cards and bags with her clients, and was a great baker. She was always up for a game of Pitch or a game of Scrabble. She loved spending time with her children and grandchildren.
Mary is survived by:
Her husband of 38 years-Roy Eichelberger of Beemer, NE
Son- Ryan and Heidi Eichelberger of Beemer, NE
Daughters-
Holli Dale of Beemer and family
Allison, Abbey & Ethan
Alexis and Jon Martin of Pawling, NY and family
Zachary, Elsie & Emma
Cortney and Adam Hass of Kearney, NE and family
Aidan and Isaac
Sadie Eichelberger of Beemer and family
Jaxon
Mother- Darleen Murphy of Beemer, NE
Sister-Jane Murphy of Beemer, NE
Brothers- Gary and Connie Murphy of Fremont, NE and family
Joe and Donna Murphy of Olathe, KS and family
Many Nieces, Nephews, Aunts and Uncles also survive her.
She was preceded in death by her father-Eugene in 1973, brother-Brian, and favorite Grandmother-Teresa (Bobbie) Greteman in 2001.
Tributes
Leave a tributeMiss you and I wish I could have one more birthday with you to show you how incredible you are and how much we love you. Enjoy your day up there, we miss you like crazy down here! I love you.
We are all missing you so much everyday, but especially today. You were an amazing mom and Grandma and we miss you. It is raining here today and I can't help but know that if you were still here you would be baking up a storm. I miss hearing your voice and all the gossip I have missed. I miss my biggest fan who was always on my side! Thank you for making our family what it is today. I know you are watching out for all of us and that gives me peace.
Sadie, Jax & Stanley
It's been 2 years, it doesn't seem real. It seems like it just happened but also like it's been an eternity. I could really use a good talk right now followed by one of your famous hugs! I still can't believe you're gone, my mom is gone. It's crazy to even think about! You were the best mom! We miss you so much!
Love,
Your baby =)
=). I can't believe you've been gone for almost 10 months. Someday we'll see each other again, I love you so much!
I'm really missing you today. Last night Abbey had a softball game and it made me realize that you won't be able to see any of Jaxons sport events & it really made me sad because you were always our biggest(and loudest =) ) fan in the stands. I think about you all the time & I miss you like crazy. Love you so much! your baby, Sadie
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Miss you and I wish I could have one more birthday with you to show you how incredible you are and how much we love you. Enjoy your day up there, we miss you like crazy down here! I love you.









Tonight
Hey Mom, I'm having a tough night tonight without you. So much is going on right now that I just wish I could tell you about and get an answer and your input! I was listening to my ipod and this song came on and it always makes me think of you and it's comforting in some way to know that when I miss you I can look in the sky and know the stars are holding you tonight. Ilove you mom and I miss you so much!
Tonight by FM Static
I remember the times we spent together all those drives, we had a million questions all about our lives and when we got to New York everything felt right I wish you were here with me, Tonight
I remember the days we spent together, were not enough, it used to feel like dreaming except we always woke up, never thought not having you here now Would hurt so much
Tonight I've fallen and I can't get up I need your loving hands to come and pick me up and every night I miss you I can just look up and know the stars are holding you, holding you, holding you Tonight
I remember the time you told me about when you were eight and all those things you said that night that just couldn't wait I remember the car you were last seen in and the games we would play all the times we spilled our coffees and stayed out way too late
I remember the time you sat and told me about your Jesus, and how not to look back Eeven if no one believes us when it hurts so bad, sometimes not having you here
I sing tonight I've fallen and I can't get up I need your loving hands to come and pick me up and every night I miss you I can just look up and know the stars are holding you, holding you, holding you Tonight
Prom
Zach went to his Junior Prom on Friday. It's very different out here or maybe it's just that going through it from the boy's perspective is different. I don't know. It just made me think of you - taking me to look for dresses, doing my hair, ordering the flowers, taking pictures, helping make the windsor loins with cherry sauce for the banquet, and coordinating stuff for the Post Prom Party. I wish you were here. It's hard not being able to have a conversation with you about these big moments.
Thanksgiving 2012
Today I am most thankful for DREAMS -
Where I still get to hear your laugh, smell your perfume, feel your hugs, and have just one more conversation. Where I still have hope that I can somehow fix it and find a way to make it untrue.
I love you, Mom!
Lexi