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Mary Lou carried joy and light into the lives of her family and friends each day. She will be dearly missed. Please share a tribute or story about this special woman or upload any great photos we all will enjoy.
Barbara Blum
March 25
March 25
Hello Marylou -
I wanted to wish you a happy birthday.
I remember how much you enjoyed Polly’s Pies here in Long Beach, and I wish we go together again!
Love you so much,
Barbara
Barbara J. Blum
January 6
January 6
Dearest Mary Lou -
I think of you often and miss you so much.
Whenever I am at my dresser drawer, I see the beautiful pair of earrings that you had given me. They are so lovely and a great reflection of your generosity and kindness.
I want to thank you again.
Love,
Barbara
July 24, 2023
July 24, 2023
I just found out about your passing Mrs Enockson. You were my first teacher at York Elementary after having transferred from another school. I have fond memories of those few 4th grade months in your class. I remember also when you talked about your daughter Gretchen. I think she may have even paid a visit. time or two while I was there. I, as ieveryone who knew you, am blessed to have had you as a role model and presence in our young lives. You gave me my 1st acting and voiceover gig in a class project. I remember the commercial I worked on for "Grandma's Cookies." May you rest in peace Mrs Enockson, thank you. ❤️
March 25, 2023
March 25, 2023
Mary Lou was the best sister in law anyone could have. When I had first met her, Iwas thrilled when she let me ride her beautiful horse. It is a wonderful memory of her sparkling, ebullient spirit.She is always in my heart.
March 25, 2023
March 25, 2023
Remembering you, dear pal, on your heavenly birthday. Always recalling your memory with great joy. You bring a smile to our hearts!
Kathy and John Moawad
March 25, 2023
March 25, 2023
Dear Mary Lou, we miss you so much! We always had fun on your birthday  things will never be the same without your laugh and smiling face Love you always
Diane and Wally
January 6, 2023
January 6, 2023
Dear Mary Lou,
You've been gone 2 years now, but I think of you so often and miss you chucking a roll on the cruise, or surprising me with a cake on my birthday, or chuckling loudly over something funny. You were an awesome friend! You would be so proud of how your grandchildren are flourishing. I miss you, kid!
Love,
Kathy Moawad
January 6, 2023
January 6, 2023
I continue to miss Mary Lou! I think of her every time I pass her house, expecting to see her driving out of her driveway, stopping to chat with me and planning to meet for our next lunch together. I think of how she loved her family and would be so proud of each of them and their accomplishments. I feel so fortunate to have had her as a friend. Love, Emy Brown
March 25, 2022
March 25, 2022
I miss our many times we had coffee and conversation.
She was full of life and love. I remember her as a little girl and a whirlwind of a energy and I feel privileged to have known her.
I miss her very much.
January 6, 2022
January 6, 2022
There isn't a day that goes by where I don't think about my Aunt Mary Lou and her warmth. Her laugh was so contagious. She is missed dearly! Up in the air junior birdmen!

Love,
Miles
January 6, 2022
January 6, 2022
I think of Mary Lou every day. Her laugh and wonderful sense of humor.
I think of her every day because we talked almost every day.
She was a bright light in my life for some 40 years and will not be
forgotten.
March 25, 2021
March 25, 2021

Dear Mary Lou,
When I walk down Laurel past your house I remember when you would be
driving out of your garage and stopping to wave and ask how I was. We
would have a quick chat as you drove on and I continued walking, feeling warmed by your sweet smile and your thoughtful interest in my well being.
I miss you! Happy Birthday Dear Friend. Love, Emy
March 14, 2021
March 14, 2021
I have been dreading having to have to visit this site, because it only means that it is true and quite honestly I was not ready to believe it. Out love story started with you THROWING a dinner roll across a fancy resturant table at me PURPOSELY ! Like a a professional baseball pitcher in the Big Leagues ! Our relastionship was FAST and SHORT but it certainly left a mark in my heart which I will never forget. When I was in your presents , I had some of my best and hardest laughs ever. I hate that we never were able to have that Thanksgiving or Christmas Dinner that I know you wanted us to be at. I can promise that I will think of you especially on those days fondly.
I love you Mary Lou xoxo
Always Eric Amorosi
January 24, 2021
January 24, 2021
I was so sorry to hear about Mary Lou's passing. She was an amazing woman who loved people and was loved by all who were fortunate enough to know her. She left us far too soon, and I feel very lucky to have known her as my friend.

It was always a pleasure to spend time with her, her positive attitude and wonderful sense of humor made everyone feel welcomed and appreciated.

She had an incredible gift for bringing everyone together, often arranging lunch dates to gather old and new friends.

My sincere condolences go out to Leif, Gretchen, Rich, Matt, Emma, Will, and all the family. I know they have many beautiful memories of their very special times together. We will all miss her terribly.

Love,
Emy Brown
January 24, 2021
January 24, 2021
Oh, this is not easy to write, as if writing this was the finality of saying goodbye. I know that is not true because Mary Lou visits me a lot recently. Just yesterday as I went to set up my design lab for the beginning of the semester, awaiting students, I think on the times I went with Gretchen to Mary Lou’s classroom in September and I watched as she added posters to the walls. This was my first inkling that being a teacher was something I could do. Mary Lou was many things, she was vibrant most of all, and she taught me a lot of things. She taught me how to be a friend, how to dance when I might not feel like dancing, and how to enter a room in the warmest way possible. Will I ever be able to forget the way she said, “yep, yep” and then patted my shoulder, or will I every forget the one-time she scolded me and Gretchen for taking a wrong turn on our walk home from school… I will never forget that. And I don’t want to. Her smile and care-taking is forever in my bones. I am so deeply lucky to have had her in my life for so many years. And I am forever grateful for the friend that she was to my mom. Those are things that you can’t shake. I know that her spirit is still very present. And in that spirit she is still talking about her grandkids and glowing.
January 23, 2021
January 23, 2021
A wonderful neighbor, our street will never feel the same without Mary Lou. It was impossible to pass her house and not stop for a quick catch up on her grandkids and mine. My heart goes out to Leif, Gretchen, Rich and the kids. I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that our family share your sadness and wish you comfort during this time. With love, Donna
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
I was very sorry to hear about Mary-Lou's passing. What an impression she left on people - most of my memories of her were in passing from childhood days spent at playdates with Gretchen but they are as clear as can be. She, she was always so bubbly, fun, and sweet. I remember her humming and tapping along to the beat of the 50's music in the car radio on the drop-off rides home after those fun playdates or sleepovers (with hot chocolate and cinnamon toast! being another fun highlight that sticks out to me even now some 40 years later). Thinking of you and your family during this difficult time and keeping you all in our prayers.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
I am so very sorry to hear about the passing and loss of such a kind, welcoming, loving and enthusiastic woman who I will always have a special place in my heart for. Marylou always made me feel loved and I will always appreciate her for that. I have taken comfort in all the great memories of gathering with family, friends, parties and celebrations that I was fortunate to experience with her and the Enockson extended family. I send big love and hugs to Leif, Gretchen, Rich, Emma, Matthew and Will and may her wonderful and precious memories be a comfort to all of you. Rest in Peace.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Great Aunt Mary Lou,

You were truly the most positive and loving person each and every day. You brightened up every room and made everyone feel welcome. I miss you dearly and my heart breaks to write this. I can't tell you how much you meant to our family and to me. Remember when we went to June Lake and played gin rummy? What about listening to Fleetwood Mac on the drive to lake arrowhead? Thank you for always giving me the best kisses and hugs on Christmas Eve dinners. Thank you for having us watch A Christmas Story downstairs and making the best scalloped potatoes while you warmed up the hot tub for us. You were so fun to be around and truly a pleasure to talk to. From me to you, thank you for all your love over the years and your warmth. I will always miss you and cherish the memories we had together. I know you are in a better place and I will never forget you.

With eternal love,
Miles
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
Marilou was such a bright spot in my life. I could always count on her to be positive and uplifting and to think of something fun to do. She always had a plan B up her sleeve, and I can still hear her wonderful chuckle. We dined, we cruised, we swam, and We had martinis. She touched so many lives. John and I miss you, dear friend. We send our love and condolences to LEIF, Gretchen, Emma, will and Matt
January 17, 2021
January 17, 2021
I was deeply saddened when I heard of Mary Lou’s passing. She was a big part of my life growing up in Manhattan Beach. The Enockson's were one of the first families my parents met after we moved to Manhattan Beach in the early 1970’s. I was 18 months old. My brother and sister were not born yet.My mom had taken me to Steven’s Bootery in MB for new shoes. Mary Lou was there buying shoes for Erik who apparently was being uncooperative in the endeavor. I don’t remember this meeting because I was too young. But my mother has told me the story over the years. There really isn’t much to the story. It’s quite simple yet humorous. But it’s an example of how happenstance, a chance meeting, brings people into our lives. In this case a new friend to my mother, a young first-time mom with a new son, recently moved to a new city where she didn’t know anybody. And then by extension to me, my father and, later, my brother and sister. Friendships that would last a lifetime. I don’t remember that first chance meeting. What I do remember is Mary Lou’s laugh, her smile, her desire to always have fun, and most of all, her warm open heart and desire to bring people around her along for the fun. Mary Lou enjoyed life and wanted the people in her life to enjoy it with her.I’d like to raise my glass (of Fireball maybe?) in a toast to Mary Lou. We will miss you.​
-Brad Henkle for the Henkle Family - Diane, Wally, Stephen, and Corey.
January 17, 2021
January 17, 2021
We were lucky enough to live across the street from Mary Lou and Leif (and share their cat Mai Tai!). She was the most loving and positive person. Always smiling and saying hello. Laurel Avenue and the Diazes will miss you Mary Lou. Our condolences to the Enockson family.
January 17, 2021
January 17, 2021
Ralph and I are so devastated at the loss of Dear Mary Lou ! We had so many special times together. Our trips to Death Valley,train ride to Capistrano and many great lunches and dinners to name a few ! We always loved that she called everyone baby and gave such great hugs and kisses!! She will be dearly missed but will remain in our hearts forever ! ❤️❤️
January 16, 2021
January 16, 2021
I was very sad to hear of the passing of dear Mary Lou. I had the pleasure of teaching with her at York School in Hawthorne. Being her classroom neighbor, I enjoyed working and learning from her. Her energy and kind spirit always inspired me.
My heartfelt condolences to Gretchen and the entire Enockson family. May Mary Lou rest in heavenly peace.
January 16, 2021
January 16, 2021
Sending my condolences Gretchen to you and your family. 
January 15, 2021
January 15, 2021
My heart aches at the loss of our kind and warm-hearted Mary Lou. I will always remember her as someone who was so loving, generous and welcoming, a truly kind soul.

There are so many stories to tell, but for me, the “Pete who?” story is my personal favorite. The Enockson‘s were so generous to bring my son Miles and I to a USC game; at one moment, Marylou leaned over and mentioned “Pete” to me, and I responded with “Pete who?” (Insert facepalm emoji). Of course, now I am aware of who the beloved coach Pete Carroll is, but I am a music guy, not a sports guy, so I was oblivious! Well, since that day, evey time I’d see Mary Lou, she’d start giggling, mention Pete who, apologize for laughing at me, and then laugh even harder. Seriously, every time! I’m glad that I could bring her such joy, even at my own expense.

She was such a positive person, I am honored to have known her, and she was a wonderful influence upon me. I will miss her, and will always love her!
January 11, 2021
January 11, 2021
I am so saddened by the passing of Mary Lou, and sending love and prayers to all her family. When I think of Mary Lou, I realize that I can't remember any time in my life when she wasn't there - one of my Mom's closest and dearest friends, and Mom to our early schoolmates Erik and Gretchen. And when she was there - she was THERE. Her presence, laughter, loyalty, generosity, and LOVE are qualities she exuded during every interaction. In recent years, Mary Lou has been a bedrock and support for my Mom and, by extension, our family. She's been there through thick and thin, never withholding her care and concern. Reaching out periodically via text to celebrate something special, and always reminding me that she was there for us no matter what. As I see all these photos of Mary Lou over the years, her spirit and zest, and her abiding love and affection for those she loved, is simply palpable. She will be greatly missed, but the imprint she had on me and my family will be felt for life. I am so very grateful to have witnessed what true unconditional love and friendship looks like, because that is what she offered my Mom every day.
January 11, 2021
January 11, 2021
We were so saddened to hear of Mary Lou’s passing. I could always count on a text filled with emojis and genuineness. Thanks for sharing in your enthusiasm. Your love and dedication for your family and friends was apparent in everything you did and said. I will not forget our numerous laughs and the renewal of our vows on the Love Boat last year. Rest in eternal peace my friend!
January 11, 2021
January 11, 2021
Dear Mary Lou,

What a lovely surprise for those people around you now.
Little do they know that you will soon be organizing get-togethers. 
That you will be spreading friendship to all those around you. 
Little do they know that your deep laugh ad sense of humor will draw
everyone to you. They cant know that whenever sadness hits, you will
be the first to call or drop off a meal. Little do they know that no matter
how sad you might feel, you never let it show. They will soon find out
that your loyalty as a friend never ends.

They will soon learn that you are the tie that binds us all together, and the
phone may ring with a plan, an idea for a trip or a dinner. Once again,
we will join together with laughter, hope and love.

Thank you, Mary Lou, for being in our life and showing what it means
to be a friend.

Love, Pat
January 11, 2021
January 11, 2021
MaryLou was always a joy to meet Sundays after the 8:00 message at Journey of Faith Church. She was so excited about that which she had heard and seen that she often returned for the 11:00 service that same morning. She exuded enthusiasm! She and Leif made everyone they ran into happier and more enthusiastic. She left this world a better place and her spirit will genuinely be missed by all!
January 11, 2021
January 11, 2021
Anyone who knew Mary Lou for more than 5 minutes loved her!
One of my fondest memories of Mary Lou, is her leading us in a riotous game of 100. She said she always carried dice in her purse, in case she had to break out a game
Our hearts are broken for you Gretchen, and Leif, and Richard! And especially for Emma, Matt, and Will who have lost their Party Grandma ❤️
January 10, 2021
January 10, 2021
We are so very sorry for you loss. Mary Lou was such a good friend to both Albert and I. She was everything you would want for a friend: loyal, kind, and most of all fun. For the past 40 years Mary Lou gave us so many memories that will always be in our hearts. We love you Leif and Gretchen and your family. Cathy and Albert Lugo

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Barbara Blum
March 25
March 25
Hello Marylou -
I wanted to wish you a happy birthday.
I remember how much you enjoyed Polly’s Pies here in Long Beach, and I wish we go together again!
Love you so much,
Barbara
Barbara J. Blum
January 6
January 6
Dearest Mary Lou -
I think of you often and miss you so much.
Whenever I am at my dresser drawer, I see the beautiful pair of earrings that you had given me. They are so lovely and a great reflection of your generosity and kindness.
I want to thank you again.
Love,
Barbara
July 24, 2023
July 24, 2023
I just found out about your passing Mrs Enockson. You were my first teacher at York Elementary after having transferred from another school. I have fond memories of those few 4th grade months in your class. I remember also when you talked about your daughter Gretchen. I think she may have even paid a visit. time or two while I was there. I, as ieveryone who knew you, am blessed to have had you as a role model and presence in our young lives. You gave me my 1st acting and voiceover gig in a class project. I remember the commercial I worked on for "Grandma's Cookies." May you rest in peace Mrs Enockson, thank you. ❤️
Her Life
January 8, 2021
Mary Lou was born on March 25, 1943 to Emil Joseph and Nadine Elizabeth (Storm) Blum at St. Bernadine Hospital in San Bernardino, CA. She enjoyed a childhood in the mountains, being raised in Wrightwood, CA. She attended a three-room school house until eighth grade. When the high school years rolled around, Mary Lou was bussed one hour each way to Victor Valley High School (Jackrabbits) in Victorville.

While growing up in Wrightwood, Mary Lou became a horse enthusiast. She was pleased to be able to pass this passion on to her granddaughter, Emma. Her first horse was Pawnee and her second was Cimarron. She moved them each year to Apple Valley during the Wrightwood winter.

After graduation from Victor Valley High School in 1961, Mary Lou moved to Manhattan Beach to live with her brother Richard, his wife Barbara and her beloved niece Lorraine and nephew Eric. She briefly attended UCLA, then El Camino and eventually CSULB. She graduated in 1966, becoming the first member of her family to earn a college degree. She earned her Bachelor’s degree and a Lifetime Teaching Credential from the State of California.

In 1964, she met the love of her life, Leif Enockson, at a Pi Kappa Alpha party in El Segundo. Leif graduated in 1966 from the USC School of Pharmacy and was inducted into the U.S. Army in December 1966. They maintained a long-distance relationship until they were married on December 29, 1967 with the wedding officiated by one of Leif’s fraternity brothers, Rev. Warren Nyback. Warren also conducted the marriage of their daughter, Gretchen, to Richard Janson in 1998. After their wedding, Leif flew back to Fort Knox, Kentucky and Mary Lou soon followed. The Army then ordered Leif to Korea in May of 1968. For their first anniversary, Mary Lou flew to Tokyo for Christmas and the New Year and Leif flew from Seoul to meet her. They stayed at the Tokyo Hilton and took the Bullet Train to Kyoto. Mary Lou then accompanied Leif back to Seoul, In-Chon and ASCOM City for a week. She then returned back to Hawthorne to be close to Leif’s parents for the remainder of his tour.

In 1970, Mary Lou and Leif bought a home in the tree section of Manhattan Beach and have lived there since that time meeting new neighbors and watching the neighborhood transform. They raised their two children in this same home.

Mary Lou jumped into her career as a teacher first with the Compton and Lennox School Districts. She then took a hiatus from teaching to raise her children. She returned to teaching in 1983 with the Hawthorne School District where she was loved by students and staff. She retired in 2002 to become a full-time grandma, but also continued supporting students part time at the Sylvan Learning Center and St. Joseph School in Hawthorne as a reading specialist.

Mary Lou dearly loved her children, Carl Erik and Gretchen Louise. She devoted much of her life to them and developed lifelong friendships with other Manhattan Beach parents. While she loved her kids, she was an even more devoted “Grammy” to Emma Louise, Matthew Allen and William Enockson Janson. She was a fixture at their dance recitals, sporting events, drama productions, rowing meets, and the annual MBUSD Scholar Quiz events. She was beloved by all and considered “Grandma” to many of their friends, teachers, neighbors and extended families. Mary Lou and Leif also made it a priority to travel with their grandchildren, taking them on a trip to a dude ranch or on a cruise every year, sometimes both. These family vacations have provided endless stories and memories.

Mary Lou became a rabid USC Trojan fan. She and Leif attended football, basketball, baseball, volleyball and track and field events. They regularly traveled with friends to San Francisco, South Bend and even Hawaii to follow their beloved Trojans. What Mary Lou most enjoyed at USC was watching her son graduate and also perform with the USC Marching Band (on the tuba) for four years. She was also very pleased to witness the graduation of her daughter from USC with her Ed.D degree in 2013.

In the last eight years, Mary Lou and Leif became members of the Journey of Faith Church in Manhattan Beach. She and Leif both enjoyed the spiritual boost that Journey has given them. Mary Lou belonged to a weekly bible study group and the thoroughly enjoyed the camaraderie and spirituality she experienced with that group.

Leif will miss her lively talk, natural laugh, love and the companionship she provided to their marriage for over 53 years. The same can be said for her daughter and grandchildren.

She was preceded in death by her parents, brothers Richard Blum and Christopher Blum, and her son Erik Enockson. Mary Lou is survived by her loving husband, Leif, daughter Gretchen (Rich) and grandchildren Emma, Matt, and Will. She is also survived by innumerable friends.

Due to the current medical conditions in our state, a celebration of Mary Lou’s life will be planned at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation to the Humane Society of Yuma, AZ.

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My best pal

March 25, 2022
Mary Lou, I miss you every day of my life.  You brought joy to so many and made us all laugh.  Not just a chuckle (though you had a great one!) but big wide open laughs.  It was always a party with you.  I cherish our water exercising, our lunches, especially our dinners and that martini, your uplifting words always, cruising, and your love for your grandchildren.  I look forward to the day when we can meet again and meantime, I'll hold your friendship dear.

Mary Lou’s Birthday is tomorrow and she will be celebrating with

March 24, 2021
her family. We said we would not exchange gifts since we have everything we need ,we’ll give to the kids. Somehow I find a colorful scarf, sparkling azure earrings,a necklace and even an advent calendar for my cat, Cupcake.  Thanks , Mary Lou . All my love and Happy Birthday.

Memories of DEAR Mary Lou ~

January 25, 2021
It is difficult to put into words the loss of such a dear, sweet friend.  I met Mary Lou at El Camino College in my sophomore year.  No one could ask for such a great friend during those college years.  Though it is heartbreaking to think of her passing, my fond memories of her life, a life enjoyed to the fullest, give me comfort. 

One memory comforted me this A.M. as I happened to stop to watch a particular horse race on T.V.  As I watched that race, a most beautiful DAPPLE GRAY led out of the gate.  I found myself cheering for that horse as he went "wire to wire" for a clean WIN!

... And than I was flooded with  fond memories with Mary Lou at the Hollywood Racetrack, where she told me she would always bet on the dapple gray ... in ANY race.  You see, they were her favorite horse!  You can imagine how much fun it was at a racetrack with Mary Lou ...winning ticket or not!  
Our prayers and thoughts are for Leif and Mary Lou's family.
Love,  Neva and Fernando Gallegos

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