In her precious life, Ma had but one true love. His name was Russell Cain (Bopm). They would have been married 50 years on October 6, 2011, but he passed away on September 14, 2011. Ma was never the same after that day. She used to have a laugh that was contageous. After he passed away, she laughed at things, but the laugh was never the same. She had a glow in her eyes when she looked at him, but after he passed away, that glow began to fade. And then on September 11, 2012 the glow went out. She fell asleep that day and never returned to us. She was still here, but gone. She had so much pain that it was unbearable to watch. She slept and slept until finally on September 22, 2012, she finally went to join Bopm again. I know that the light in her eyes is shining again. I just wish there was a way that I could see it again. I miss her laughter, and her sense of humor. But the humor was ignited by a flame that burned out when Bopm faded away.