February 4, 2023
February 4, 2023
Matt was a history buff & I have an open order @ a___._kom for a book about the Flying Tigers - if you want a copy (and this will be my 1st read) let me know and I'll add another copy to my order.
update: 02/02/2023 w/ love to the people whose lives were made bright & better.
This website was created in the memory of our deeply loved one, Matthew Ihle, only 40 years old, who was born on February 2, 1971 and passed away on August 24, 2011.
Matt was a life-long resident of Marin County, California; he attended Marin Catholic High School and graduated from San Diego State University with degrees in Political Science and Economics.
He is survived by his beloved wife, Andrea, whom he married on September 16, 2006, a resident of Ignacio, California; by his Father and Stepmother, Norm and Barbara Ihle, residents of Hayward, California; by his Mother and Stepfather, Sam and Jay Jackson, residents of Fairfax, California. He also leaves behind four-legged Casey, a survivor of Hurricane Katrina.
Matt was a true free spirit and gourmand / gourmet; he is already sorely missed by the "Boat People" of the 5-2-0 and words alone cannot desribe the the emptiness left by his passing.
Matt has gone ahead to a place where everyone must go someday and his sudden departure is shocking for us who don't get to see him until then.
We will remember him forever: his boundless generosity, his effusive laugh, a special fondness for all forms of gastronomy and above all his ultra-gregarious fellowship.
Matt, your journey takes you away from the place where we can see and touch you; yet each day we see you in the start of a bright day and at the close of a gentle night when everything is good and right in the world. We miss you, Matt, but not all tears are a sadness; we had you in our lives and we are better people for that.
RES IPSA LOQUITUR
This website was created in the memory of our deeply loved one, Matthew Ihle, only 40 years old, who was born on February 2, 1971 and passed away on August 24, 2011.
Matt was a life-long resident of Marin County, California; he attended Marin Catholic High School and graduated from San Diego State University with degrees in Political Science and Economics.
He is survived by his beloved wife, Andrea, whom he married on September 16, 2006, a resident of Ignacio, California; by his Father and Stepmother, Norm and Barbara Ihle, residents of Hayward, California; by his Mother and Stepfather, Sam and Jay Jackson, residents of Fairfax, California. He also leaves behind four-legged Casey, a survivor of Hurricane Katrina.
Matt was a true free spirit and gourmand / gourmet; he is already sorely missed by the "Boat People" of the 5-2-0 and words alone cannot desribe the the emptiness left by his passing.
Matt has gone ahead to a place where everyone must go someday and his sudden departure is shocking for us who don't get to see him until then.
We will remember him forever: his boundless generosity, his effusive laugh, a special fondness for all forms of gastronomy and above all his ultra-gregarious fellowship.
Matt, your journey takes you away from the place where we can see and touch you; yet each day we see you in the start of a bright day and at the close of a gentle night when everything is good and right in the world. We miss you, Matt, but not all tears are a sadness; we had you in our lives and we are better people for that.
RES IPSA LOQUITUR
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February 4, 2023
February 4, 2023
I remember sitting @ Ducroix restaurant with Matt (both of us with our backs against the wall) and he told me about raking lake grass from his cabin up @ the Lake.
to Barb & Norm:
Years have come and gone, there used to be a restaurant at the bottom of the parking garage @ UCSF and the slowest series of elevators known to mankind. I really don't like the Parnasus campus and there is a waiting area with views across the City toward the GGB and way up to Marin. Every year on his b-day I make my way up the passage from Judah Avenue - up to the student union (the worst smelling onion soup on earth) up another endless flight of stairs, across to the hospital and (yep, another slow elevator) to leave a Costco-sized bag of white cheddar "cheese" flavored snacks. I so totally know that Matt was grinning like a fool.
I remember the gathering @ Deer Park Villa as if it was just yesterday.
So much has changed over the years and I will remember Matt for the man he was: he brought us all together.
Res ipsa loqitur
to Barb & Norm:
Years have come and gone, there used to be a restaurant at the bottom of the parking garage @ UCSF and the slowest series of elevators known to mankind. I really don't like the Parnasus campus and there is a waiting area with views across the City toward the GGB and way up to Marin. Every year on his b-day I make my way up the passage from Judah Avenue - up to the student union (the worst smelling onion soup on earth) up another endless flight of stairs, across to the hospital and (yep, another slow elevator) to leave a Costco-sized bag of white cheddar "cheese" flavored snacks. I so totally know that Matt was grinning like a fool.
I remember the gathering @ Deer Park Villa as if it was just yesterday.
So much has changed over the years and I will remember Matt for the man he was: he brought us all together.
Res ipsa loqitur
February 2, 2023
February 2, 2023
In my thoughts mate…..you will be with Steve Termecz at the Heavenly Pub I expect…..
February 2, 2022
February 2, 2022
Well, another birthday is upon us and I get reminded from this site and my Outlook reminder each year. Happy Birthday Matt in Heaven! At least you have a new buddy there this year with Steve Bickford. I am sure there will be some reminiscing and laughter. During his recent sickness and ultimately, death, your name was brought up many times. We all sure do miss you down here but understand that you are constantly smiling up there. I will be tipping a glass of good whiskey tonight after work and cheering in my backyard - Matt, Matt, Matt!! Rest in peace and laughter!
February 2, 2019
February 2, 2019
Matt,
Happy Birthday Son.
I miss and love you. I will be seeing you again........ but not just yet.
I hope you are having fun where ever you may be.
Dad
Happy Birthday Son.
I miss and love you. I will be seeing you again........ but not just yet.
I hope you are having fun where ever you may be.
Dad
February 2, 2019
February 2, 2019
Sharing our love for Matt on his birthday...His light still shines because I think of him so often, whether it is walking by Tadich's where we had so many fun lunches, or ordeing Henry Hunan's meat pie! His smile, his laughter, they are missed but not forgotten. Love to Andrea, Norm and all of Matt's friends and family!
February 2, 2018
February 2, 2018
Although we are all sad on this day, each February 2nd, his vibrant memory lives on in all of us. His laugh, his smile, and his wild sense of humor will never be forgotten. Many a day and night were spent at Normsville in Lakeport making memories. We just all have to remember those memories and keep them in our hearts and minds. So, Brotha Matt, "here" is to you on your birthday, as I raise my beer from my office at work, and wish you Happy Birthday. You are in a much better place, although we all wished that you were here with us. Nomistay...... Matt. Love, Dave
August 24, 2016
August 24, 2016
well this is a sad day
my love first and foremost to his beloved wife and to his parents
to all of you who remember the timbre of his laugh...you were blessed
You who are on the road / Must have a code that you can live by / And so become yourself / Because the past is just a good-bye
my love first and foremost to his beloved wife and to his parents
to all of you who remember the timbre of his laugh...you were blessed
You who are on the road / Must have a code that you can live by / And so become yourself / Because the past is just a good-bye
August 24, 2015
August 24, 2015
Matt,
Not a day goes by that I do not think of you. Life here goes on and it slowly gets easier. I hold on to the fact that I will see you again one of these days.
You were the best Son any Father could ask for.
I love you,
Dad
Not a day goes by that I do not think of you. Life here goes on and it slowly gets easier. I hold on to the fact that I will see you again one of these days.
You were the best Son any Father could ask for.
I love you,
Dad
August 24, 2015
August 24, 2015
4 years have passed. My friend Matt is missed everyday. But his legacy lives on and inspires us all when we laugh, play horseshoes, crack jokes, love our families, and live our lives. He has taught us that life should not be that serious and to have fun as much as we can. We all hope that we can inspire each other in humor and love in your honor, and especially today, after 4 years have passed. Love you Brother Matt.
May 15, 2013
May 15, 2013
I met Matt under a full moon on the ferry coming back from the city. His culinary skills turned me from what he termed "eats water and anything containing water" (vegetarian) into a steak loving life-living fool. :) He taught me how to use email. He was kind to my children Tatiana and Marissa and played Daffy Duck cartoons for them. A beautiful soul. A great man.
January 29, 2013
January 29, 2013
You are here and warm
But I could look away and you'd be gone...
But I could look away and you'd be gone...
September 13, 2011
September 13, 2011
It was always a pleasure to see Matt on the boat and I must have heard the story of his engagement to Andrea on the back of the boat at least 100 times. And, I enjoyed it every time. Matt, you really made an impression on us all and we will really miss you.
September 12, 2011
September 12, 2011
Rest In Peace Brother Ihle. We will miss you. Yours in the bond, Brother Graham Lockhart Bond #15, California Pi, Phi Delta Theta, San Diego State University.
August 31, 2011
August 31, 2011
Wow...I am taken aback with this news. I will cherish the deep conversations Matt an I would have.
Matt, thanks for always caring, thanks for always being one of the good guys, thanks for being a friend.
Matt, thanks for always caring, thanks for always being one of the good guys, thanks for being a friend.
August 30, 2011
August 30, 2011
Matt is my 1st cousin. There are so many memories that it is hard to pick just one. Seeing my very first ballet at the age of 8 with him and his mom. It was one of the most special nights of my life that I will never forget. I love and miss you VERY much.
August 29, 2011
August 29, 2011
Matt touched so many lives in so many different ways. We all have fond, funny, special and LOTS of hillarious moments we can remember. He'll be forever missed and always in our hearts.
August 26, 2011
August 26, 2011
Matt, I hope Frank and Sammy are singing to you right now :)
You will be missed.
ciao mio amico
You will be missed.
ciao mio amico
August 26, 2011
August 26, 2011
Matt certainly made his mark in this world and left it a richer place. He had a huge impact on all he met...that's for sure and for certain.Matt was a good cowboy,a great baker,a great friend and a damn fine individual.
August 26, 2011
August 26, 2011
I am grateful we had that drink last week at Trevor's Matt. We had a laugh and a hug and a beer. We had so many of those over the years but none as special as that. Love ya brother. I miss you.
August 26, 2011
August 26, 2011
Matt -- a Renaissance man! His reading choices involved historical pieces about war and peace! The cheesecake!! The meat pies! And in the magical world of the Larkspur Ferry, his marriage proposal to Andrea followed by an entirely spontaneous Play Misty for Me. We miss you!
August 25, 2011
August 25, 2011
Matt was a true Banker: usually on the 9:15 am boat and on the 4:25 pm boat home; he would enjoy "some" red wine at lunches at Ducroix and go back to the office to "work" in the server room. I got a chance to see him last Friday, for which I'm really glad. Bon Voyage, mon ami.
August 25, 2011
August 25, 2011
I am so bummed by the news about Matt. He was such a wonderful guy who was usually up to something fun with a mischievous glint in his eye. Definitely the life of the party. My heartfelt wishes of solace to Andrea and family.
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February 4, 2023
February 4, 2023
Matt was a history buff & I have an open order @ a___._kom for a book about the Flying Tigers - if you want a copy (and this will be my 1st read) let me know and I'll add another copy to my order.
February 4, 2023
February 4, 2023
I remember sitting @ Ducroix restaurant with Matt (both of us with our backs against the wall) and he told me about raking lake grass from his cabin up @ the Lake.
to Barb & Norm:
Years have come and gone, there used to be a restaurant at the bottom of the parking garage @ UCSF and the slowest series of elevators known to mankind. I really don't like the Parnasus campus and there is a waiting area with views across the City toward the GGB and way up to Marin. Every year on his b-day I make my way up the passage from Judah Avenue - up to the student union (the worst smelling onion soup on earth) up another endless flight of stairs, across to the hospital and (yep, another slow elevator) to leave a Costco-sized bag of white cheddar "cheese" flavored snacks. I so totally know that Matt was grinning like a fool.
I remember the gathering @ Deer Park Villa as if it was just yesterday.
So much has changed over the years and I will remember Matt for the man he was: he brought us all together.
Res ipsa loqitur
to Barb & Norm:
Years have come and gone, there used to be a restaurant at the bottom of the parking garage @ UCSF and the slowest series of elevators known to mankind. I really don't like the Parnasus campus and there is a waiting area with views across the City toward the GGB and way up to Marin. Every year on his b-day I make my way up the passage from Judah Avenue - up to the student union (the worst smelling onion soup on earth) up another endless flight of stairs, across to the hospital and (yep, another slow elevator) to leave a Costco-sized bag of white cheddar "cheese" flavored snacks. I so totally know that Matt was grinning like a fool.
I remember the gathering @ Deer Park Villa as if it was just yesterday.
So much has changed over the years and I will remember Matt for the man he was: he brought us all together.
Res ipsa loqitur
February 2, 2023
February 2, 2023
In my thoughts mate…..you will be with Steve Termecz at the Heavenly Pub I expect…..
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We'll Meet Again
August 24, 2016
We'll meet again
We'll meet again,
Don't know where,
Don't know when
But I know we'll meet again some sunny day
Keep smiling through,
Just like you always do
Till the blue skies drive the dark clouds far away
So will you please say "Hello"
To the folks that I know
Tell them I won't be long
They'll be happy to know
That as you saw me go
I was singing this song
We'll meet again,
Don't know where,
Don't know when
But I know we'll meet again some sunny day
We'll meet again,
Don't know where
Don't know when.
But I know we'll meet again some sunny day.
Keep smiling through
Just like you always do,
'Til the blue skies
Drive the dark clouds far away
So will you please say "Hello"
To the folks that I know.
Tell them I won't be long.
They'll be happy to know
That as you saw me go,
I was singin' this song.
We'll meet again,
Don't know where,
Don't know when
But I know we'll meet again some sunny day
BBQ
April 26, 2015
My wife, Tarey, and I had a BBQ last night with two dear friends from the Czech Republic that would have been equal to the side of cow Matt would have cooked at the lake on a weekend night in Spring.
Great wine, good Hawaiian music and a toast under the stars. Aloha nu'i Matt, we had a spirit glass with you.