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Leave a tributeI hope you somehow know how right you were, how much we miss you, and that it's amazing wherever you and your father are...see you again someday.
I had the pleasure and privilege of sharing Matt's time on this earth; we played golf together, we hoisted a few brews, he shared the warm hospitality of his home with me when I visited him and Beth during July 2015. Alice & I showed him a little bit of New England during Feb. 2016. Truly a gentleman, a professional, a patriot (let me clarify, not the NE Patriots, always the SeaHawks fan), who willingly served his Country & a warm, loving, humble human being. Matt was "Salt of the Earth." A little bird whispered in my ear the other day that Matt and David Bowie are jamming on Mars! Check out this link, Matt's playin' lead guitar in this video:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VMZ0-nJ0Ipo
Lastly, Matt is the Man, the Myth, the Legend, he walked on water, and was the best thing since sliced bread in our eyes! Just sayin'!
"May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind always be at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face,
and rains fall soft upon your fields.
And until we meet again,
May God hold you in the palm of His hand."
My heart aches for all of you. My prayers go out to all of you ~
Matt struck me as a funny, kind guy who was just the type of performer you want in a group like that - he was talented but humble, and would gladly take on silly roles that might make other performers uncomfortable. You could tell he did a lot of improv, and knew how to take care of his fellow performers on stage.
A couple months before he passed away, I ran into him at a show and he told me about Wayward Knitting Club. He told me that doing the workshop with me had inspired him and a few friends to start their own sketch group and perform. The fact that he sought me out and wanted to tell me that meant the world to me. I've been running the workshop for 4 years, and that was the nicest thing anyone has ever said to me in relation to it.
So long, man. Even though we didn't get to spend a lot of time together, I could tell you were one-of-a-kind. And I'm not sure if I grabbed you after the show or not, but I saw your Wayward Knitting Club show and you were hilarious :)
What sadness is felt at the loss of a loved one. I remember Matt break dancing at a formal ceremony to the delight of all in attendance. What a great personality he had. May the Lord's spirit bring you comfort during these grieving times. Love and prayers - The Bright's
"Gotta go out to my truck to get my tools"
"I didn't know we were going on a picnic or I would have brought some sandwiches."
I think my favorite was when he would pretend to be a barista at Starbucks and call out the most complicated drink orders. What I would give to have him call out one of those right now.
We would tease each other to the point of pissing each other off but Matt always knew when he went too far and he would apologize. We also had several serious conversations about life and sometimes he would ask for advice on situations that were challenging for him and I always appreciated the serious side of Matt. I loved hearing about his latest hobbies. He was always trying something new which I thought was awesome. He never seemed worried about whether he would be good at it, he would just go for it! Matt was also so friendly and social. He always made it a point to make new people at work feel welcome and even invited folks out for fun after work.
Honestly it feels so weird to write about him in past tense. I guess when someone brings as much laughter to the world as Matt has, It is hard to not think of him as still being around.
My heart goes out to his friends and family. He was truly a unique person that will be greatly missed but I know I am grateful for the time I had with him.
I'm so very sorry to learn of Matt's passing. It's been many years since our families were residing north of Helena and remember lots of fun involving Firtzsimmons' kids. Holding your family in my heart and thoughts.
Thank you so much for the tremendous outpouring of love and support for Matt. His passing was a shock to all of us and we feel the incredible loss of our son/brother/uncle. Knowing that not everyone does facebook, we created this site as a hub of remembrance for Matt that will live on in perpetuity. Even though you posted on facebook, please repost it here as my parents don't do facebook and it would mean the world to them to see the photos and experience your memories.
We take comfort in knowing Matt was an organ donor and his gift will help over a 100 people with his donation. We are going to do a private ceremony for Matt in the summer to celebrate his life. But if you are doing one in your community, please feel free to share it here and on facebook.
We are profoundly grateful for your presence in Matt's life. It's really clear that he was loved and cherished by so many.
With love,
The Fitzsimmmons Family
Matt and I shared a sense of humor that often others didn't understand - and that was so funny to us. A night with Matt meant a sore stomach in the morning from laughing so hard. I went to the Sasquatch Festival last year and had a great time with Matt. We were planning the Pemberton Festival this year and he was going to stay with us in the condo - I was looking forward to it a lot. He was 13 years younger than me and often felt he was like a little brother. Going downtown won't be the same without him.
One of the stories I love about Matt...
Last year at sasquatch festival we volunteered to help set up the festival in exchange for some “special access” passes. We were assigned the job of putting up the letters on the pond that spelled Sasquatch, each letter floating on its own. At the end we realized we missed the first S and it merely said “asquatch” – doh (I posted this picture in the gallery). Then they asked us to put fliers up around the venue, Matt promptly asked if we could have a golf cart since it was so much to carry and cover the whole venue…they were like uhhh, sure…and we were off. We quickly learned only the “important people” got to use the golf carts, hence, everyone was asking us questions. For example – the merchants would say things like “how do we get paid” or “who do we talk to about wifi connections”…at first we were like uh, we are just volunteers….but then we/he decided to have fun with it. Matt would tell people things like – “you need to talk to Tina in accounting”, who I am pretty sure didn’t exist. By the end of the day we knew everyone behind the scenes and chatted with those same people as bought beers and food throughout the weekend. Each person laughing when the saw us and realized we were just 2 guys having fun!
Every time I think about Matt, I simply laugh and smile. We had so much fun together, I will always remember him as my partner in crime, my buddy, and my brother from another mother.
RIP Mathew – you were a special breed, and will forever be remembered by those who you touched in life.
I've got nothing but fond memories with Matt. Some of my favorites are the time we quit skiing around noon at Whistler and went to the bar. After several rounds Matt struck up a conversation with some ladies who were sitting next to us. He was joking around and being his usual funny self. He was playing Coindozer on my phone and when he handed it back to me I realized he sold my prize bears. I punched him in the arm which caused him to knock over a bunch of full beer glasses that ended up all over the ladies' jackets and shirts. The ladies gave Matt dirty looks and scurried off, even though it was my fault. I totally ruined his mojo with the ladies, by accident. We joked about it for several more rounds before heading back to the condo. For at least a year after that episode he really enjoyed teasing me about how upset I got that he sold the prize bears. He was right, I certainly overreacted. :-)
Another time we were out in downtown Seattle. First Matt took us to a place where you could order crickets or some other bug like that as an appetizer. We ordered it and I tried one and said no more! Tim ended up going to the bathroom and purging the one he ate. Our buddy Chris from China didn't like them too much either. Matt looked like a little kid as he grinned at us while we tried to eat them. He thought it was hilarious! He was eating them like the were M&Ms! After that, Matt recommended we go to some night club behind the restaurant so we all followed him in. He said it was the coolest spot in town and we were all gonna love it. It didn't take long until we realized it was a bar for gay men only and we decided to go elsewhere where we fit in better and we not being groped. We prolly gave Matt a hard time about that for a year or so as well. I still don't know to this day if he did that as a joke or had no idea. I wouldn't put it past him to do it as a joke, he was funny like that.
Matt would text me and tell me about new games to play on the Android phone regularly. I'd try the games out and we'd chat about them. My son (Chase) asked me where I found the games I have on my phone and I told him Matt recommended them. One day Chase came up to me and said Dad, can you call Matt and ask him to tell us what game to get next? :-) Matt got a kick out of that.
I could go on...lots of good memories inside and outside of work.
I send my deepest condolences to all Matt's family and friends.
I miss you buddy and I am so sad to see you go so soon. I'm looking forward to that jam session when I join you someday!
Matt was extremely intelligent, fun and curious, always picking up new hobbies. I admired his creativity and willingness to have immersed himself in Japanese culture and learned the language quite well. We met in college, I of course was crazy about him and made a huge mark on my life that I'll forever be grateful for. He encouraged me and challenged me in countless ways. He was goofy and ridiculous, but at the same time extremely intelligent, both mentally and emotionally. I can't believe you're gone, Matt. I hope you got to fly through Japan one last time before your unfortunate exit. My deepest condolences to his family who I know he much he adored, and I loved hearing his stories about his little nieces and nephews- he lit up anytime talking about them. Big hugs and lots of love, Coral. I'll always remember you on August 13th
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I hope you somehow know how right you were, how much we miss you, and that it's amazing wherever you and your father are...see you again someday.
Please be patient.
Japan Snowboarding Trip
Hey Matt,
I heard of your passing at an improv practice. You were a good man and a genuine soul...a true northwesterner whose humility, love of life and open heart always brought a smile to my face. We met enjoying the spirit of creativity in improv, and many times on stage I saw you happy and brimming with stoke and good vibes, so me and a few of your fellow players decided to end practice with a set in your honor. You would have enjoyed it. We will miss you, and remember, rap brother.