An Amazing Friend
August 6, 2021
by Erik Rolstad
There is a cadre of us who became friends with Matt during our college years and early 20's.
We maintained close ties, despite some significant gaps in time and major geographical distances, largely due to Matt's talent for staying in touch and keeping tabs on everyone via the occasional phone call, email, or text.
Whenever in town, we made sure to get together with him and Ross Anderson (who, along with Matt, has called Seattle home since they originally moved out Washington State in the late 80's). The goal was to have a nice meal together and get caught up.
And, over the decades, several of us old buddies had a handful (in every sense of the word) of epic and awesomely fun outdoor adventures with Matt via bike, raft, kayak, backpack, and/or skis.
We maintained close ties, despite some significant gaps in time and major geographical distances, largely due to Matt's talent for staying in touch and keeping tabs on everyone via the occasional phone call, email, or text.
Whenever in town, we made sure to get together with him and Ross Anderson (who, along with Matt, has called Seattle home since they originally moved out Washington State in the late 80's). The goal was to have a nice meal together and get caught up.
And, over the decades, several of us old buddies had a handful (in every sense of the word) of epic and awesomely fun outdoor adventures with Matt via bike, raft, kayak, backpack, and/or skis.
In many ways, Mat was the glue that bound us. Matt's open, friendly personality, dedication to family, friends, and colleagues, and his unique combination of abilities exerted a special kind of gravity that drew people together in a positive way.
I love the way Matt laughed... chewed... smiled... provided encouragement... genuinely asked how you were doing... and generously shared the warmth and confident force of his personality.
Here are some of the words that I use to describe Matt, especially in the context of special visits to Seattle and outdoor adventures together:
Strong body
Open heart
Bright spirit
Decisive leader
Exemplary educator
Skilled artesian
Infectious laugh
Competitive streak
Family man
Trickster
Fun hog
Friend
We miss you buddy (a.k.a. "You big punk!"). You remain true and strong in our hearts. You forever bind us together.