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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Matthew Bailey . We will always remember him.  Some will remember him for his no nonsense attitude.  Some for being the best Big Brother.  Some will remember how he always made you feel like he has known you all your life upon first meeting you.  But we will ALL remember his LAUGH! Matt lived life on HIS TERMS.  He enjoyed his life, his kids, and grandkids...he enjoyed his FAMILY.  He looked forward to every phone call, which was surprising, because in his younger days, you couldn't catch him on the phone.  Matt was always aware of his surroundings, and with him just being close, you always felt protected.  He had a huge heart, and would run through a wall for you.  But don't cross him!  We can go on here for days.  Matt was a lot of things to a lot of people.  That is why we decided to put this memorial together...to give YOU an opportunity to describe who Matt was to YOU.  Please feel free to post photos, notes, message, stories, and even videos of your memories with Matt aka Mac aka MAC-A-Do aka Pops aka Dad aka Big Matt!  Let us A CELEBRATE HIS LIFE.
June 15, 2020
June 15, 2020
My uncle from the first time I met you it was always good vibes and uplifting conversations. It was always a pleasure to see you and I'm definitely going to miss you from the bottom of my heart. I remember when we had our family reunions in Atlanta and we were talkin, you said niece I love your style I said unk I love yours too we some cool cats lol ❤❤❤
June 14, 2020
June 14, 2020
You will be Truly missed Mr. Mat I've known you since a child and you was always getting it posted up on front of 2111 always having beautiful energy and your unforgettable laughter will be missed. Your work is done all friend you take your rest until we meet again. ✌
June 14, 2020
June 14, 2020
You are truly going to be missed. From the Williams family, we offer our condolences. I remember playing music in his and brothers club and it was a joy watching him converse, offer advise and always be himself. He was straight to the point. Heaven has gained a pistol but a good one. RIP.
June 13, 2020
June 13, 2020
RIP my dearest brother:
Your calls and conversations will truly be missed.
             


     
June 11, 2020
June 11, 2020
My Big Brother Matt. Life began near Alabama State University Montgomery,Alabama 1944.
How ironic that it ended in New York City near the Empire State Building May 7, 2020. That's the kind of guy Matt was He had to go out in "Style".
You are truly going to be missed.
One of the happiest days for me was when I located Patrick Matt oldest son and he showed up at our first Family Reunion in Alabama.
Oh what a surprise. "We serve an Awesome God".
I want you to make yourself familiar with the Angels and behold them frequently in spirit; for without being seen they are present with you. "Stay On The Good Foot" I am going to miss you.

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June 15, 2020
June 15, 2020
My uncle from the first time I met you it was always good vibes and uplifting conversations. It was always a pleasure to see you and I'm definitely going to miss you from the bottom of my heart. I remember when we had our family reunions in Atlanta and we were talkin, you said niece I love your style I said unk I love yours too we some cool cats lol ❤❤❤
June 14, 2020
June 14, 2020
You will be Truly missed Mr. Mat I've known you since a child and you was always getting it posted up on front of 2111 always having beautiful energy and your unforgettable laughter will be missed. Your work is done all friend you take your rest until we meet again. ✌
His Life

Matthew Bailey Jr aka Matt

June 8, 2020
Born on May, 7, 1944 to proud parents Matthew Bailey Sr. and Marion Young Bailey, Matthew was the oldest of 11 children; Vonzell, Alberta, Janette, Marion, James, Ronnie-Ronald, Elzie, Sidney, Emma, Doley-Elnora, and Wayne-Dwayne.  Matt grew up on 907 Asa St. in Montgomery, Alabama.  Matt Loved to entertain.  He talked loud, danced, sang and anything for attention. Matt was also an excellent story teller.  He absolutely LOVED JAMES BROWN!  And he would tell you that as many times as you could hear it.  He also loved to tell  the story of how he shined Martin Luther King Jr's shoes one time back in Alabama.  It almost sounded like the same story from "Coming to America".   As a youth, Matt would hang out at Gordon's Patio, a local spot for entertainment.  On the weekends, Gordon's Patio would hold Dance Contest, but everyone already knew who would be the winner....MATT.  Occasionally, on Sunday's, instead of going to church, Matt would pay someone who looked like him, to sit in his seat in the front of the church, so he could sneak out to the local Juke Joint and dance for quarters.  It was a great idea until one day, his mother found out!  One Sunday, she surprised him at the Juke Joint and started to tear his butt up, but some of the patrons intervened.  They explained that he was a good kid, just entertaining them for money.  After Mrs. Bailey saw how much money he had, she took the quarters and told him, "You better be home by supper!"   And an entertainer was born!   At a young age, Matt fathered his first child, Patrick Lumpkin with Ms. Marsha Broadnax.  Soon after Patrick was born, he relocated to the Big City - New York, NY.  Matt shared the story of how one of his friends rolled up on him as he was walking in town.  Matt asked him where he was going,  and his friend said, "New York City!  You wanna come?"  Matt said, "YEAH!".  He went home, and told his father his plans, where he was going, and what he wanted to do.   The next day, he left Montgomery with $20 that his father gave him, and a 7th grade education.   He was around 18 years old.   A year and a half later Matt returned to Montgomery with intentions to bring his brother, girlfriend, and son back with him to New York.  Unfortunately, Marsha's mother was not having it!  She didn't think Matt was ready to be a provider for his young son and girlfriend.  As Patrick recalls, "she didn't want them to be living in the ghetto in New York.  They just got out of the ghetto!."    Matt's mom, Mrs. Bailey, did allow Matt to take his brother Vonzell aka Bonnie with him back to NY.   The only reason she agreed is because she had a friend in NY who had a boarding house, and she knew that her sons would have a place to stay.   As most people know, Matt and Bonnie were stuck together like glue.   They owned several successful businesses together, lived together for a while and celebrate life together!  They were together so much, they almost had the same laugh.   Matt's first job was washing cabs for a cab company.  From there he moved on to restaurant work, doing odd jobs for local businessmen, until finally settling in with his brother Bonnie as Bar Manager/ Co-owner of several bars/clubs in New York City....always the entertainer.  Two of their more successful establishments were well known throughout the city.  "Sassy's" in the Bronx, New York and "The St. Nicks Pub", in Harlem. Not only was  Matt a great dancer, he was an excellent host, and he was known for being very aware of his appearance.  Matt had a closet full of custom made suits by legendary tailor, A.J. LESTER on Harlem's 125st.  Matt once shared that he never owned a pair of jeans!  He also wore the most unique jewelry.  Chains, bracelets, and of course pinky rings, and he never left the house without his nails being manicured and polished with a clear coat of nail hardener.  Matt  was FLY!   You could tell by his walk. and he knew it too.  Every now and then, he'd catch some young lady's attention.  Always the ladies man, he stayed in trouble!  Luckily for US, there were a few that were special to him; Estelle, who gave him his only daughter Keisha Bailey,  Alescia, who gave him his second son Corey Washington Bailey (Grand children Azia Washington & Jeff Washington, great grandson Corey Isaiah Washington),  and Beryl who gave him the gift of two sons, Matthew Bailey III (Grand Children Mario Bailey, Maison Bailey and Azzi - Rose Bailey), and Terrance Bailey.   Matthew Bailey Jr. was very respected.  For those of you who ever had a conversation with him in the street, you couldn't go 5 minutes without hearing, "AYE - MATT!"  Someone, everyone knew Big Matt or Mac-A-Do!  They'd just want to come over to him and shake his hand or "Holler at him for a minute."  He always shot straight. He was a man of great pride, and he had a code.  You might call it old school, but he had a code that he lived by and he made sure to pass it down to  his sons.  In his latter years, Matt could have run for mayor of his neighborhood.  The young G's seeked him out for council.  The old G's always got their respect from him. He was also, very respectful to all of the young women and children who would come across his path.  "Hey Miss Lady", was his official greeting to all young girls and women alike.  They could tell that it was genuine.  It gave them a sense of pride and self awareness.  They brightened up when they saw him.  "Hi Mr. Matt" was the usual response.  That type of energy was infectious.  That OTHER type of energy was infectious too!  He meant what he said, and if it was met with any disrespect, or opposition, he was always prepared for it to go the other way.  Have you ever seen a 70 year old man, with a cane in his left hand, a limp, and a razor in his right hand, hidden behind his back???? YEP....that was MATT!   Matt never proclaimed to be a hero.  He was just doing what he could to make sure his children had an education and were successful in this life.  He wanted them to be HAPPY.   There are numerous stories that can be shared in this writing, but that would not be fair to YOU.  We chose this platform so that you would be able to share YOUR experiences with Matt.  Who was He to YOU?  Lastly, if he were writing this, he'd be sure to add that he loved GOD, he loved his FAMILY, and he loved his CHILDREN!   His name is Matt Bailey and he is from NEW YORK CITY!
Recent stories

What up Big Dog!

May 19, 2021
Good morning Pops.  It has been a year and it still hurts.  It's weird to me, but i remembered today like it was your birthday.  I knew it was coming..I saw it coming...tried to prepare for it to come, and now its here.  And to tell you the truth, I am numb.  If I take 5 minutes to just sit quietly, I am sure i will let out a whole bunch of emotions, but I am too distracted with work, planning a trip to NY and my 50th birthday party.  so, I don't wanna really take the 5 minutes out and FEEL.  I just want to stay numb.  There is so much stuff I wanted to talk to you about.  I was telling a friend how you came with me to church.  That was perhaps top 3 of the greatest days of my life.  That was the best time of my life. I'd like you to know that the boys and I, will all get on a  call today and talk about you!  Make sure we are keeping in touch.  Patrick is reaching out more, Matthew is as well.  Terrance is traveling the world.  He is a big man now....LOL  I can tell that Matthew is on the cusp of doing something GREAT for his children. I see the passion in him to be better and do more.  He remembers EVERYTHING.    Patrick is a born leader.  I listen to big bro.  Terrrance is cool as a fan man.  Looks EXACTLY LIKE YOU!   I have not been to NY inyears, and I am feeling kinda funny about going up there and you aren't outside in the park.  Imma stop by the house though, you know I have to do that.  I am rambling.  Just wanted to say that I mlove you and I miss you and you are not forgotten.  I remember the last conversation we had and I am actively working on it!  

Lesson Learned!

June 23, 2020
I was about 18 years old.  I was working as a stock boy for a pharmacy downtown.  Every year, me and the crew (The Gators), would go on a boat ride, on the Circle Lines.  We always had a silent competition on who would dress the best.  I saw a pair of GREEN HIGH TIP, DOUBLE STRAPPED PUMAS I wanted for the boat ride.  I had my whole outfit in  my head. Blue and green Minnesota Timberwolves T shirt, white sweat pants, and those green pumas.   I needed to bet those pumas!  So I asked my dad to borrow $50 so I could get my kicks.  I told him I had a job and I would pay him back on Friday when I got paid.  He reluctantly agreed, but made sure to say to me, "Corey.  I am NOT giving you this $50, I am loaning you $50.  Have my money on Friday!"  I was so excited to get that $50 and get those sneakers, that I kinda brushed him off and ran to Fordham Road.  Friday came, and I got paid something like $87.  Once I bought tokens for the week, and got lunch, I had a little more than $50 to my name.  So I ducked him on Friday.  Saturday, about 6pm, we were all gathering on the corner to go to the boat ride.  I was FRESH!  got compliments and everything.  right before we pulled out, one of my friends said, ," yo Core...ain't that your pops?".   My heart sank!  I saw it was him, with his signature walk, strutting up E 181st.   I tried to hide, but he already saw me.   He called me, and I had to go over to him.  We were in front of my mothers building.  He had a very serious look on his face.  I tried to lighten him up, "HEY DAD!"  His response was COLD...."Where is my money man!"   I was shook!  I proceeded to tell him that I had spent some of it and only had $50 in my pocket, but I needed it to go out that night.  I would pay him on my next check.   that didn't go so well.  Pops went into my pockets and took my last $50!  Then proceeded to teach - "If you have to borrow money, don't EVER have to have somebody look for you to pay them back.  Be a man of your word.  If you can't pay, call them and be a man and tell them the truth.  You can get killed playing with people's money man!!!"  I kept nodding in agreement...hoping this would end quickly.. and it did.  He just turned and walked away from me.  I was standing there, looking FRESH, with NO MONEY in my pocket.   On top of that, my boys all were on the corner laughing at me, cause they could tell I was in some type of trouble.  I was broke and embarrassed, but I can tell you one thing.....LESSON LEARNED!  THANK YOU POPS.

COREY B

What A FRIEND I HAD IN BIG MATT

June 22, 2020
I Met Matt when he was the bouncer at the fair tree lounge on FAIRMOUNT PLACE. I THOUGHT HE WAS THE MEANEST MAN I HAD EVER SEEN. THATS BECAUSE HE WASNT LETTING YOU IN IF YOU DIDNT LOOK RIGHT DRESS RIGHT OR ACT RIGHT. HE WAS THE MAN IN CHARGE. LOL (BUT I WAS YOUNG ) LOL LOL BUT YEARS LATER WHEN I BECAME A CROSSING GUARD. ON MAPES AVE. I SAW HIM AND THOUGHT I KNEW HIM BUT COULDNT PUT IT TOGETHER .HE BECAME ONE OF MY BEST FRIENDS. A MAN OF CLASS. ONE DAY WE WERE TALKING AND THE FAIR TREE CAME UP. AND HE STARTED TELLING HOW HE RAN THE CLUB. I SAID OH SHOOT THAT WAS YOU? I THOUGHT YOU WERE THE MEANEST MAN IN THE WORLD.!! WE BOTH FELL OUT LAUGHING. I WAS STILL IN SHOW BUSINESS. AND HE WOULD COME TO MY SHOWS. AND COME BACK AND TELL EVERYONE THAT GIRL CAN SING. LOL WHEN I NEEDED TROPHYS FOR MY KIDS THAT I CROSSED HE WOULD ALWAYS TAKE ME. TO GET THEM. THEN RAIN OR SNOW HE WOULD KEEP ME COMPANY ON THAT CORNER AND KEEP ME IN STICHES. HE WOULD SAY QUEEN ITS COLD GIRL COME SIT IN THE CAR.PEOPLE DIDN'T UNDERSTAND OUR FRIENDSHIP BUT HE DIDN'T CARE WHAT PEOPLE SAID. HE WAS MY VERY GOOD FRIEND. I WILL MISS THAT CRAZY LAUGH AND THE FUNNY PHONE CALLS. I WISH I WAS ABLE TO SING ONE LAST SONG FOR MY FRIEND. LIKE HE ALWAYS SAID HE WANTED ME TO DO. THERE WILL NEVER BE ANOTHER MATT. SLEEP ON BROTHER AND TAKE YOUR REST. I KNOW YOU GOT THEM CRACKING UP UN GLORY. MS QUEENIE.
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