It is with great sadness that we announce the peaceful passing of Dr Mei Ling Young this morning on 20 January 2021. A co-founder and board member of the International Medical University, Malaysia, her contributions to medicine and education are immeasurable. In 1992, together with Tan Sri Datuk Dr Kamal bin Salih and the late Dr Saidi Hashim, they had embarked on a mission – to establish an educational model that would allow more young Malaysians to pursue their ambitions to become doctors and other healthcare professionals through a globally recognised curriculum. Her determined and visionary leadership has been an example to us all for the near 30 years since our establishment.
For students and staff alike, Dr Young nurtured in us an unending thirst for knowledge. By her own example, she encouraged a humble but unyielding pursuit of excellence, and in her personal and professional life, she gave us the greatest gift of all: the dream of discovering new things for ourselves, and the ability to realise that dream.
Known for her charismatic, exuberant and caring nature, she will continue to touch countless lives - even as she passes on from this one. Her legacy will live on in IMU, through each student, staff and everyone else who have passed through IMU’s doors.
Please join us in a moment of silence and a prayer in your own way for Dr Young. May she rest in peace. Our deepest condolences go out to her family and friends, may they find solace and strength in their time of grief.
At the request of the family, please do not send any wreath. Instead, please make a donation in memory of the late Dr Mei Ling Young to Penang Hospice Society (CIMB Account Number 8003864144, Bank Swift Code: CIBBMYKL).
For students and staff alike, Dr Young nurtured in us an unending thirst for knowledge. By her own example, she encouraged a humble but unyielding pursuit of excellence, and in her personal and professional life, she gave us the greatest gift of all: the dream of discovering new things for ourselves, and the ability to realise that dream.
Known for her charismatic, exuberant and caring nature, she will continue to touch countless lives - even as she passes on from this one. Her legacy will live on in IMU, through each student, staff and everyone else who have passed through IMU’s doors.
Please join us in a moment of silence and a prayer in your own way for Dr Young. May she rest in peace. Our deepest condolences go out to her family and friends, may they find solace and strength in their time of grief.
At the request of the family, please do not send any wreath. Instead, please make a donation in memory of the late Dr Mei Ling Young to Penang Hospice Society (CIMB Account Number 8003864144, Bank Swift Code: CIBBMYKL).
No words can describe how wonderful you are, Dr. Mei Ling Young. In my memory you will always be the warmest and most beautiful personality I have met. In the midst of your gentleness I saw strength; in the midst of the unknown I saw courage and determination. The legacy you leave behind will be the emulation for all. I am glad I have known you, you will be an inspiration for me and for all. Rest in peace Dr. Mei Ling Young. Sincerely Lilian Tan
Dr. Mei Ling was always serious about teaching and supporting not only for students but also staff and faculty. All the ones who met her seemed impressed by such her educational spirit...I am one of them. I am proud of working experiences with her. May she rest in peace.
Dr. Mei Ling Young, an ever smiling face was a great humanitarian who was an inspiration to many of us. It is a great loss to the institution. Her contributions to the society and the field of education are tremendous. She was greatly loved and admired by all of us. Condolences to thefamily
My deepest condolences to Mark and family, and to Mei Ling's IMU family and diaspora all over the world, on the sad loss of dear Mei. Mei was a very special person whose warm presence, intelligence and passionate drive for excellence impressed everyone fortunate enough to have known her. Her legacy in bringing together leading medical universities from across the globe to offer a unique educational experience to so many healthcare students is a truly remarkable achievement. We could never say no to Mei as she was such a visionary leader and she was also very persuasive, but always with a beautiful smile on her face! We were blessed to have shared many happy meals with Mei and her beloved Mark over the years. In the final stage of her journey, Mei carried a heavy cross with such dignity. Her suffering has finally come to an end. Mei Ling was truly an example to us all and may IMU, with its partner medical and dental schools, honour her memory by working together and continuing to maintain the high standards which she set.
Ar dheis Dé go raibh a hanam dílis.
Ar dheis Dé go raibh a hanam dílis.
I was Prof Mei Ling Young's student in USM in the 1980s. I will always remember her as exuberant, lively, vivacious and with a lot of vigor. I always had this desire to emulate her as she left a very deep impact in me. I just read about her demise. Rest in peace Prof. The world has lost a beautiful soul.
I am forever grateful that my role at the Australian National University (ANU) meant that I began the connection between the the ANU and IMU and through that came to know Dr Mei Ling Young. She is among the most remarkable people I have ever had the honour to know. Her intellect, drive, strategic, bold, and innovative thinking, was matched with deep humanity, compassion and hospitality. To talk with her was always enriching, encouraging and uplifting. To be with her was engaging professionally and always fun. I am glad she was a friend and am blessed by that. She will be sorely missed. May she Rest In Peace. To Mark and all the family, and to all the IMU community, Jennie and I offer our deepest condolences.
My memories of you will forever be cherished. You left us too soon.May your kind Soul rest in peace always.
Chandramani.
Chandramani.
To family of Mei Long
This warm ever smiling person will always be remembered for her contribution to medical education and for founding the first private medical school in Malaysia.
Our family extends our condolences. Her battle is over and she is at peace. Thank you .
Dato Dr Prof Sivalingam IMU
This warm ever smiling person will always be remembered for her contribution to medical education and for founding the first private medical school in Malaysia.
Our family extends our condolences. Her battle is over and she is at peace. Thank you .
Dato Dr Prof Sivalingam IMU
There's no words can describe the LEGACY you leave behind. You will be forever missed. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and my deepest sympathies to your family. May you rest in peace... Thank you so much
When I first met Mei Ling 20 years ago I was struck by her warmth, her passion for education, her ability to challenge constructively and her determination to see a task completed. My experiences since then have reinforced those initial impressions. She was also great fun to be with and, with Mark, wonderfully hospitable.
Mei Ling was an extraordinary person. She leaves an immense legacy which extends far beyond IMU. I count myself privileged to have known her, to have worked with her and to count her as a friend. I extend my sincere condolences to Mark and family and to my many friends at IMU.
May she rest in peace and rise in glory.
Mei Ling was an extraordinary person. She leaves an immense legacy which extends far beyond IMU. I count myself privileged to have known her, to have worked with her and to count her as a friend. I extend my sincere condolences to Mark and family and to my many friends at IMU.
May she rest in peace and rise in glory.
Dear Dr Mei Ling. Thank you so much for your guidance, your advice, your charming smile whenever you talk. I will be missing the time I received messages from you asking me to translate some Japanese things. You are so friendly despite your position, honestly. So approachable and so charismatic. Will be really missing you.
Gone is an Angel from Earth, so fair
With a stunning smile and ethereal silver hair
How is it that life is so unfair
That we, your IMU family, are left to despair?
In her, a charming personality and eloquence thrived
She knew all by name and touched our lives
She was the reason why her comrades strived
For excellence but with empathy - a reason to be alive!
As chapters of her life unfold
In heartfelt tributes and stories told
As the dust settles and the tears grow cold
Your legacy, forever in our hearts we shall hold.
With a stunning smile and ethereal silver hair
How is it that life is so unfair
That we, your IMU family, are left to despair?
In her, a charming personality and eloquence thrived
She knew all by name and touched our lives
She was the reason why her comrades strived
For excellence but with empathy - a reason to be alive!
As chapters of her life unfold
In heartfelt tributes and stories told
As the dust settles and the tears grow cold
Your legacy, forever in our hearts we shall hold.
Dear Dr Mei Ling, thank you showing me how to be a kind, caring and graceful person. I will always remember your smile and for always making me feel that my views and opinions are important for you to hear. Will always remember all the sweet, meaningful interactions with you and your constant support for what we do in N&D in IMU. You are dearly missed. May You Rest in Peace.
"She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all."
Dr Mei Ling, we are, who we are today, because we were changed by you. We will dearly miss you.
she can laugh at the days to come.
She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all."
Dr Mei Ling, we are, who we are today, because we were changed by you. We will dearly miss you.
Dr Mei Ling, rest in peace in the arms of your saviour. Thank you for your warm and friendly support, friendship, greetings and hugs. My memory is just like our draft returned by you...... with colourful circles, arrows, lines and scribbles..... that's the warm and beautiful picture you have left in my heart. Till we meet.......
Dr. Mei Ling, together with an amazing team of pioneers, had an amazing incredible vision that enabled students like me to pursue medicine during those days in which there were not many options and for that, I am very grateful.
She had a unique way of connecting with people; a humble, warm and graceful aura that made me feel at awe and yet instantly at home. I am honored to have crossed path(s) with you. I am proud to graduate from IMU.
She had a unique way of connecting with people; a humble, warm and graceful aura that made me feel at awe and yet instantly at home. I am honored to have crossed path(s) with you. I am proud to graduate from IMU.
A true legacy and a significant well respected icon in Medical Education Industry in Malaysia. I am honoured and blessed to have crossed path with Mei Ling in a few occasions. One of the memorable ones was during the IMU entrepreneurship forum she was present during my keynote session and she was very supportive and encouraging in our healthtech startup and proactively offered to help to link us up with some other industry players via her network. She was such a well-liked figure in the campus and anyone who knows her will agree with me that she was one of the most genuine, caring and humble leaders I know thus far.
RIP Dr. Mei Ling Young. You will be missed
RIP Dr. Mei Ling Young. You will be missed
Dr Young Mei Ling played an important role in the development of higher education in the country. She helped establish the International Medical University (IMU) which provided a new and much-needed avenue for Malaysians who were interested in studying to become doctors. I knew her through my association with MAPCU - Mei Ling was once President of that association. She was an unassuming, kind and gentle person who treated everyone with great respect. Her presence and wise counsel will be deeply missed by all.
Dr. Young will be remembered by many of us as a genuine and caring person, an inspirational leader and a visionary. She was a down to earth person with a warm smile and encouraging words for all. She would spend time getting to know everyone and we have all experienced her acts of care and kindness. Learnt a lot from her. Rest in peace Dr. Young. You will be solely missed.
I have the greatest respect and admiration for our beloved Mei Ling, my ex-boss & friend. She was an inspirational leader, down to earth with no airs, and with a good heart. Her passion has always been IMU. At times she can never let go but we know her intention is for the good of the University. I will miss her dearly and pray that God will grant her perpetual peace. My deepest condolences to Mark & family. Take care.
Though I've heard of Mei Ling since the inception of IMU, I only get to know her as members of BOG, IMU over the last couple of years. I found her full of energy and she was always involved intensely in the academic discussions. Nevertheless, at the few social events that we attended, I felt she was a person full of love and kindness. Surely, you'll be missed Mei Ling, even by a new colleague like me. RIP.
Your smile was always so charming and comforting. Your passion for education was like fire, your friendliness was so contagious! Dr Mei Ling, I will miss you deeply, we never say goodbye but see you again! <3
Mei Ling's passing has left a vacuum difficult to fill. Her generosity, cheerfulness, and passion for excellence in IMU have greatly benefitted both colleagues and students.
You will always be in our hearts.
Rest in Peace Mei Ling.
You will always be in our hearts.
Rest in Peace Mei Ling.
I first met Mei Ling about 20 years ago. I was immediately impressed by her intellect, passion and understanding of people. Since then we have had many enjoyable discussions. Direct, challenging but always warm and positive. A wonderfully creative person and one of the most engaging in international medical education who has left a magnificent legacy in IMU. Above all a really nice person, kind and generous and clearly devoted to her family. She will be missed. Mark and family, we share your sadness. I trust that we will meet again when international travel allows.
I remember the first time I met Dr Mei Ling Young was in an auditorium , hearing her speech just gave me the best inspiration and encouragement.
You light up every single soul that you met and it was indeed a blessing to know you. May you rest in peace Dr Young.
Regards, Eugene from Perth, Australia.
You light up every single soul that you met and it was indeed a blessing to know you. May you rest in peace Dr Young.
Regards, Eugene from Perth, Australia.
Dear Mei,
You are always loved and never forgotten. Close to our hearts you will stay. Forever loved and remembered.
I am blessed to have worked for Dr Mei Ling since 1994 as a pioneer staff in IMC. Her passion to make IMC the premier private medical university in Malaysia was infectious. Always caring for the wellbeing of her staff, she went out of her way to make us feel like a family in the pioneer years of IMC. Memories of those time will always live on in my heart.
Rest in peace, dear Dr Mei Ling.
You are always loved and never forgotten. Close to our hearts you will stay. Forever loved and remembered.
I am blessed to have worked for Dr Mei Ling since 1994 as a pioneer staff in IMC. Her passion to make IMC the premier private medical university in Malaysia was infectious. Always caring for the wellbeing of her staff, she went out of her way to make us feel like a family in the pioneer years of IMC. Memories of those time will always live on in my heart.
Rest in peace, dear Dr Mei Ling.
Our sincere condolences to Mark. Mei Lin was a giant in medical education. We will miss her. Thank you.
Yahya & Suraiya
Yahya & Suraiya
It is a great honour to have known Dr Mei Ling Young since I started my career in IMU 22 years ago. Memories of your smile, words of encouragement and generous sharing of experience on numerous occasions, whether work or non-work related, are still vivid and will always remain so. Thank you for your leadership and friendship. You will be dearly missed. May your soul rest in peace.
She was a role model for students and staff. Learnt a lot from her leadership. She was a dynamic lady with great values. Sincere condolences to family and friends. Om Shanthi!
I am always humble by Mei Ling's kind and appreciative words of thanking me for being in IMC/IMU even though I was just a part-timer. Each time we met she would hold my hands and asked about my children and how I was doing. That feeling of being care for and appreciated kept me in IMU till today. Mei Ling, we would continue carrying your torch of caring and running the extra mile for our students. Indeed it is my great blessings to have served under your leadership and a greater honour to have known you on a personal level. You will be greatly missed. RIP.
Dear Dr Mei Ling,
Your sweetest smile will always be with me forever.
You have done a lot. Just leave the rest to us.
We will meet again someday.
May you rest in peace.
Your sweetest smile will always be with me forever.
You have done a lot. Just leave the rest to us.
We will meet again someday.
May you rest in peace.
Remember our frequent chat about your beautiful pearls? During the seriousness of education and healthcare meetings, those light-hearted conversations will always be treasured. And you will always be remembered. Those smiles too.
I read with great sadness that MLY (as I used to refer to her when I was her PA in IMC) has journeyed on. She was and still is the best person I have ever worked for. I met her at a very difficult point in my life. MLY has nurtured me and shown me such magnitude of kindness. I have always remember her with gratitude. I can't stop crying as I am writing this. Your legacy will live on. My condolences to Mr Heng and Wui Leng. Love and hugs from Australia, Effie Cheng.
You shall be ever remembered for your infectious smile and warmth that you bestow on anyone who comes across you. We shall miss your graciousness at all times. Hope you are in the Angels land , in peace. RIP
For a moment in your life, I entered your life and had the chance to ease your pain to make you a little happier and feel better. I know now, you are in the arms of the angel, fly away from here. I know you are in good hands now. You will be dearly missed, but always remembered for your kindness and passion. Rest in peace, Dr Mei Ling Young
Thank you Mei Ling for all your support, guidance and inspiration, we are "standing on the shoulders of giants".
Our sincere condolences to the family of Dr Young. Thank you, Dr Mei Ling for everything that you have given us, coached us, led us and persuaded us with your gentle touch, beautiful smiles and sparkling eyes. You will remain in our hearts forever and will be deeply missed. May your soul rest in peace.
Dr.Mei Ling Young was always known as a visionary leader at IMU.I have known her since a decade and she has left a everlasting impression on me. A very humble and approachable person with a sweet and loving smile at all times.Though time flies fast and life continues at it's own pace, memories of you can never be erased and forgotten.You will always remain in my memories.Rest in peace.
You always being perceived by many a visionary leader who will put relationship first then the task. There was someone asked me before, what type of leader you want to become and without hesitation, my answer was, "A leader like Dr May Ling, who always care about others". Thanks for all the great memories you have given to us. Thanks for all the great lessons you have taught us. You will always be remembered.
I am honored and blessed to have known Dr. Mei Ling. She was truly a blessing in my life and I will miss her. A mentor and guide from the time I first joined IMU in 2000. My condolences goes out to her family and to all her friends. You will always remain in my memory.
This is really sad news, especially for those who loved and knew her and she has now left behind. But it is also release for her from her physical pain that she bore so cheerfully and courageously. I pray for her and for those of us who will miss her. Mei was a great friend and distance and the lack of communication never dimmed our friendship. Heartfelt condolences to Mark and Wui Leng. Anyone who lives in the hearts of others never really dies.
Thank you Dr Mei Ling, for everything you have taught us, showed us, led us in your own unique way. Humble, Gentle, Unyielding, and a remarkably Persevering leader. You will be deeply missed. May your soul rest in peace.
Mei Ling was the President of the Malaysian Association of Private Colleges and Universities (MAPCU) when I first met her. My last conversation with her in March 2019, she asked that we keep MAPCU's name flying. She was dedicated to the education industry, an inspiration to me personally, an amazing role model as a woman. Humble, warm and I describe her as motherly. My deepest condolences to her family. You will be missed. RIP Mei Ling.
Someone as special as Dr.Mei Ling Young will never be forgotten. She will remain in our hearts forever. FOREVER REMEMBERED, FOREVER MISSED. RIP❤️
Dear Dr Mei Lin Young, it was a priviledge to know you and work with you. We first met in 1997 when you were trying to find a site for the IMU clinical block (campus) in the vicinity of Hospital Tuanku Jaafar Seremban. Your genuine smile and the warmth in your eyes was always so uplifting. Thank you for the leadership and your pursuit of excellence in developing IMU. You will be missed...
DR Mei Ling Yang was a visionary. I am a recipient of her contribution to IMU. I am always and eternally grateful. Condolences to the family.
Mei Ling was one of the persons who greeted me when I joined IMU 23 years ago. Her smile was so genuine and made you feel you are one of the family members of IMU. I will sure miss you for the foot print you have left in my life. I am glad to know that now you are resting in the loving arms of our Heavenly Father.
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How limited words are when we try to describe some 24 years of life-changing friendship with the wonderful Mei Ling and Mark. How so much more precious these years have been through the privilege and richness of counting them among our most special friends.
Nobody else could have built IMU to what it is today. I remember so well how she negotiated those stormy early AC meetings at IMC and the relationships that she negotiated and nurtured would have come to nothing without her unique combination of determination, warmth and hospitality beyond all human measure. At her wake, Susan described the Vice Chancellor of Strathclyde saying he had been, ‘Mei-Linged’. I too am so very grateful for having been ‘Mei-Linged’.
At Mei Ling’s wake Susan so powerfully listed the words that described Mei; how could we add to those? What we can do is express just how enormously grateful we are to have known such an amazing, and as the young would say, totally awesome person.
John and Anne
Nobody else could have built IMU to what it is today. I remember so well how she negotiated those stormy early AC meetings at IMC and the relationships that she negotiated and nurtured would have come to nothing without her unique combination of determination, warmth and hospitality beyond all human measure. At her wake, Susan described the Vice Chancellor of Strathclyde saying he had been, ‘Mei-Linged’. I too am so very grateful for having been ‘Mei-Linged’.
At Mei Ling’s wake Susan so powerfully listed the words that described Mei; how could we add to those? What we can do is express just how enormously grateful we are to have known such an amazing, and as the young would say, totally awesome person.
John and Anne
Aunty Mei was so central to my life. She filled my life with such warmth, joy and an abundance of love. She stepped into my life after my father Prof John Bosco died and opened a different window that allowed light to enter again. She had worked closely with him in establishing the clinical school of IMU. I still remember seeing her at the door the day my father had died. I was 17 and had never experienced grief at such magnitude before. Her smile and gentleness reminded me of my dad and I clearly remember feeling less scared. In the absence of my dad, over the many years, Aunty Mei became a tower of support and love. She gave me endless strength, advice, guidance, laughter, all with that famous twinkle in her eyes. She, Uncle Mark and Wui Leng were always present with their support and company. Their family and extended family shined with warmth. Uncle Mark would always have some of the best life insights, being an anchor in times of uncertainty, and being a champion to celebrate when joys appeared. I used to go for lunch with her lovely late father, discuss history, explore his library, realising her warmth, curiosity for knowledge and understanding of this world was also influenced by him. I was able to spend time with her mother, who was beautiful, wise, and strong- i saw her strength in Aunty Mei too. Her son, Wui Leng, who carries her wisdom, humility, kindness and contentment with him, has also been a great friend to me. His wife Zhou too reflects this genuine kindness and steadfastness.
Aunty Mei encouraged me in my journey of being a doctor. She always saw the best in me whilst giving advice in overcoming challenges. Her passion in finding solutions, the ability to cut through the noise and rise against any setbacks whilst still exuding joy was unmatched. For an anxious young person at that time, this was something I treasured so deeply. This steady reassurance was not only evident in her but also her and Uncle Mark's family. Aunty Susan, Aunty Liap, Uncle Kour and many others also carried this similar radiance. She and Uncle Mark has always cared for my mum. Since 1999, they have been present, supporting my mum through the good and happy occasions, keeping her company and providing a shoulder to lean on in difficult times. Going for meals with Aunty Mei and Uncle Mark and Wui Leng , seeing Aunty Ah ying in their home, were comforting - these times shining like bright stars in my life. Aunty Mei was only a phone call or a conversation away despite how busy they both were.
Aunty Mei always reminded me of leading a purpose driven life and encouraged me in my service to patients and their families. She recognised my heart beat and continued to support me in that calling. She always felt great joy when IMU students continued to carry the flag where they worked, contributing to others and the greater plan of healthcare.
Healthcare and medical education was something so integral to her. Her compassion for others found its way into the core of IMU where she gave of herself. Her mind focused on the ability of this instituition to continue to give back to Malaysia and offer opportunities for young people from around the world to work in health care. She was always enthusiastic, her eyes would light up when she spoke about the people she worked with in IMU, the various teachers, students , and the growth of the uni - the joy she felt was so palpable. Her founding values are evident in IMU , where most students who attended it still describe their years there as some of the best in their lives and a place where some of the best friendships were found.
There is a massive gap where Aunty Mei used to stand. Waking up to a world that she is not physically in, is incredibly painful. I give thanks to God for her life. I am so grateful that I met her and her family, and was able to feel all the love and joy she carried for life. I am grateful for the time that I got to spend with her over the years and even when she was sick. I am grateful that she had the ability to keep working and doing all that she loved. Even in her illness, she continued to shine with her deep love of life. Her quiet moments, reflecting her desire to still be of service.
She was so loved and cherished by thousands of people because of her genuine compassion. She gave of herself. I keep imagining visiting her house when I return to KL and am still not prepared to not see her come down the stairs to greet me with a big hug.
She is a mother, wife, aunt, sister, sister in law, friend and colleague. She still had dreams of doing more for people and healthcare in Malaysia and her legacy of kindness lives on.
Love springs eternal, and when I think of love I think of my Aunty Mei Ling. The last few sentences she said to me was "love you too! We have a lot to talk about." I guess I will just have to pick up that conversation in heaven. I love you too Aunty Mei. You are in my heart forevermore.
Aunty Mei encouraged me in my journey of being a doctor. She always saw the best in me whilst giving advice in overcoming challenges. Her passion in finding solutions, the ability to cut through the noise and rise against any setbacks whilst still exuding joy was unmatched. For an anxious young person at that time, this was something I treasured so deeply. This steady reassurance was not only evident in her but also her and Uncle Mark's family. Aunty Susan, Aunty Liap, Uncle Kour and many others also carried this similar radiance. She and Uncle Mark has always cared for my mum. Since 1999, they have been present, supporting my mum through the good and happy occasions, keeping her company and providing a shoulder to lean on in difficult times. Going for meals with Aunty Mei and Uncle Mark and Wui Leng , seeing Aunty Ah ying in their home, were comforting - these times shining like bright stars in my life. Aunty Mei was only a phone call or a conversation away despite how busy they both were.
Aunty Mei always reminded me of leading a purpose driven life and encouraged me in my service to patients and their families. She recognised my heart beat and continued to support me in that calling. She always felt great joy when IMU students continued to carry the flag where they worked, contributing to others and the greater plan of healthcare.
Healthcare and medical education was something so integral to her. Her compassion for others found its way into the core of IMU where she gave of herself. Her mind focused on the ability of this instituition to continue to give back to Malaysia and offer opportunities for young people from around the world to work in health care. She was always enthusiastic, her eyes would light up when she spoke about the people she worked with in IMU, the various teachers, students , and the growth of the uni - the joy she felt was so palpable. Her founding values are evident in IMU , where most students who attended it still describe their years there as some of the best in their lives and a place where some of the best friendships were found.
There is a massive gap where Aunty Mei used to stand. Waking up to a world that she is not physically in, is incredibly painful. I give thanks to God for her life. I am so grateful that I met her and her family, and was able to feel all the love and joy she carried for life. I am grateful for the time that I got to spend with her over the years and even when she was sick. I am grateful that she had the ability to keep working and doing all that she loved. Even in her illness, she continued to shine with her deep love of life. Her quiet moments, reflecting her desire to still be of service.
She was so loved and cherished by thousands of people because of her genuine compassion. She gave of herself. I keep imagining visiting her house when I return to KL and am still not prepared to not see her come down the stairs to greet me with a big hug.
She is a mother, wife, aunt, sister, sister in law, friend and colleague. She still had dreams of doing more for people and healthcare in Malaysia and her legacy of kindness lives on.
Love springs eternal, and when I think of love I think of my Aunty Mei Ling. The last few sentences she said to me was "love you too! We have a lot to talk about." I guess I will just have to pick up that conversation in heaven. I love you too Aunty Mei. You are in my heart forevermore.
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Dearest Mei Ling, It was an honour knowing you and having you as our friend. We will always cherish the memories of happy times spent together at our gatherings. Our ladies' dinner will not be the same without you. You will be dearly missed and fondly remembered. May your soul RIP. Foo Wang Leng
Whatever needs to be said is covered by Susan. I have lost a very close confidant and a traveling companion. Diana Tan
Dearest Mei Ling, a true friend, a fantastic travel companion, a good chef and much more. Till we meet in that beautiful shore... Bee Kee Yin
Dearest Mei Ling, what an honour to have met you. Will miss your gregarious personality at our dinners - certainly, would not be the same without you. Will cherish all the wonderful times and sharing...Rest In Peace! Josee Lee
Mei Ling had fought a good fight. She had finished the race. Linda Koh
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I've had the gift of knowing Aunty Mei since the day I was born. My earliest memories of her were from my single-digit years when she would invite us kids over for poolside fun, pasta lunches and to play with the rabbits. The Christmas seasons were never dull with spreads of food, arrays of ice cream flavours and gifts of toys. I still recall the thrill when she gifted Barbie as Swan Lake to me (circa 2004).
I could count on Aunty Mei to be there in my life's milestones or events. When I did well for exams, she would be there with a reward. When I had fallen sick with hospitalisation, she had porridge made. Even during the March lockdown, Aunty Mei made sure we were more than comfortable.
Visiting the pet shop with her one year, I remember when she picked up a live worm in her hand and examined it. I was so startled and she looked at me as if nothing out of the ordinary had happened. Again she never stopped to amaze me and show how extraordinary she is.
I am yet to meet someone as affable and endearing as Aunty Mei. She can carry any light-hearted conversation just as much as she can delve into a deep one. She is as well-read as she is well-loved. Her heart is generous and kind. I will always remember her and miss her greatly.
I could count on Aunty Mei to be there in my life's milestones or events. When I did well for exams, she would be there with a reward. When I had fallen sick with hospitalisation, she had porridge made. Even during the March lockdown, Aunty Mei made sure we were more than comfortable.
Visiting the pet shop with her one year, I remember when she picked up a live worm in her hand and examined it. I was so startled and she looked at me as if nothing out of the ordinary had happened. Again she never stopped to amaze me and show how extraordinary she is.
I am yet to meet someone as affable and endearing as Aunty Mei. She can carry any light-hearted conversation just as much as she can delve into a deep one. She is as well-read as she is well-loved. Her heart is generous and kind. I will always remember her and miss her greatly.
Twenty years ago
Her hair. The first thing I noticed about Dr Young was her white hair. It was year twenty years ago, and as a student, it didn’t take long to discover that she was the most outstanding person in the room – her charm and personality made everyone noticed her, not knowing yet who she was. And it’s just that – that we would sometimes wonder if we could ever have that level of charisma.
More than ten years later, I met her again – from a different perspective. She was determined, and she knew what she wanted from me as a faculty. Over the years, to me, she was strict, brutal but honest. Yet, she motivates. She was always the life of the discussion. She pushes you and she knew every aspect of the business.
And it isn’t fair that we couldn’t learn more from her now. And it’s not fair that our workplace will be without her passionate leadership. IMU and the network of alumni have lost a visionary and creative genius and the world has lost an amazing human being.
Dr Mei Ling, when you continue to give so many advices when you were battling sickness, I realised the importance of being there for the people around you. Thank you for being a great mentor and friend. Thank you for making the effort every single time.
We will miss you.
Love,
Erwin Khoo & Siew Houy
More than ten years later, I met her again – from a different perspective. She was determined, and she knew what she wanted from me as a faculty. Over the years, to me, she was strict, brutal but honest. Yet, she motivates. She was always the life of the discussion. She pushes you and she knew every aspect of the business.
And it isn’t fair that we couldn’t learn more from her now. And it’s not fair that our workplace will be without her passionate leadership. IMU and the network of alumni have lost a visionary and creative genius and the world has lost an amazing human being.
Dr Mei Ling, when you continue to give so many advices when you were battling sickness, I realised the importance of being there for the people around you. Thank you for being a great mentor and friend. Thank you for making the effort every single time.
We will miss you.
Love,
Erwin Khoo & Siew Houy