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Although a year has slipped by since the peaceful passing of Dr Mei Ling Young on 20 January 2021, her memory remains as strong and as precious in our hearts. It only seems like yesterday that we were warmed by her nurturing care and ‘can do’ attitude; her mischievous wit, bonhomie, intelligence, boldness and shear love for life.

As a wife, mother, colleague, sister, aunt, mentor or friend she continues to inspire us to excel in all aspects of our lives but to be as humble and grounded as the example she set in her own lifetime.

Taken before her life’s work was complete, she nevertheless left a solid foundation for the continuation of her dreams by those she guided and inspired.

To mark this one-year anniversary, please feel free to share your stories and memories, photos, videos, wishes and prayers in the tribute section below, stories tab or gallery in this site.

January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
My abiding memory of Mei Ling will be how keen she was to ensure that everyone had a wonderful time when they visited Malaysia. She was always so warm, kind and generous, and welcomed the IMU partners to her home as if we were long-lost family.

She was also an inspirational academic leader, forging her own path where many others followed, and always keen to identify and develop others, pushing for collaboration wherever she could see an opportunity (and sometimes even where she could not!) 

I'm so happy to have met and shared some fun times together, and to have been able to welcome her to Liverpool, where the highlight was showing her the tiling in the male toilets at the Philharmonic... a very special lady, she will be sadly missed.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Our sincere condolences to Mark. Mei Lin was a giant in medical education. We will miss her. Thank you.

Yahya & Suraiya
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
It is a great honour to have known Dr Mei Ling Young since I started my career in IMU 22 years ago. Memories of your smile, words of encouragement and generous sharing of experience on numerous occasions, whether work or non-work related, are still vivid and will always remain so. Thank you for your leadership and friendship. You will be dearly missed. May your soul rest in peace.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
She was a role model for students and staff. Learnt a lot from her leadership. She was a dynamic lady with great values. Sincere condolences to family and friends. Om Shanthi!
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
I am always humble by Mei Ling's kind and appreciative words of thanking me for being in IMC/IMU even though I was just a part-timer. Each time we met she would hold my hands and asked about my children and how I was doing. That feeling of being care for and appreciated kept me in IMU till today. Mei Ling, we would continue carrying your torch of caring and running the extra mile for our students. Indeed it is my great blessings to have served under your leadership and a greater honour to have known you on a personal level. You will be greatly missed. RIP.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Dear Dr Mei Ling,
Your sweetest smile will always be with me forever.
You have done a lot. Just leave the rest to us.
We will meet again someday.
May you rest in peace.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Remember our frequent chat about your beautiful pearls? During the seriousness of education and healthcare meetings, those light-hearted conversations will always be treasured. And you will always be remembered. Those smiles too.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
You shall be ever remembered for your infectious smile and warmth that you bestow on anyone who comes across you. We shall miss your graciousness at all times. Hope you are in the Angels land , in peace. RIP
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
The lady who inspires me, forever in my memory. Always grateful for your kind words.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
For a moment in your life, I entered your life and had the chance to ease your pain to make you a little happier and feel better. I know now, you are in the arms of the angel, fly away from here. I know you are in good hands now. You will be dearly missed, but always remembered for your kindness and passion. Rest in peace, Dr Mei Ling Young
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Thank you Mei Ling for all your support, guidance and inspiration, we are "standing on the shoulders of giants". 
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Our sincere condolences to the family of Dr Young. Thank you, Dr Mei Ling for everything that you have given us, coached us, led us and persuaded us with your gentle touch, beautiful smiles and sparkling eyes. You will remain in our hearts forever and will be deeply missed. May your soul rest in peace.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Dr.Mei Ling Young was always known as a visionary leader at IMU.I have known her since a decade and she has left a everlasting impression on me. A very humble and approachable person with a sweet and loving smile at all times.Though time flies fast and life continues at it's own pace, memories of you can never be erased and forgotten.You will always remain in my memories.Rest in peace.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
You always being perceived by many a visionary leader who will put relationship first then the task. There was someone asked me before, what type of leader you want to become and without hesitation, my answer was, "A leader like Dr May Ling, who always care about others". Thanks for all the great memories you have given to us. Thanks for all the great lessons you have taught us. You will always be remembered.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
I am honored and blessed to have known Dr. Mei Ling. She was truly a blessing in my life and I will miss her. A mentor and guide from the time I first joined IMU in 2000. My condolences goes out to her family and to all her friends. You will always remain in my memory.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
This is really sad news, especially for those who loved and knew her and she has now left behind. But it is also release for her from her physical pain that she bore so cheerfully and courageously. I pray for her and for those of us who will miss her. Mei was a great friend and distance and the lack of communication never dimmed our friendship. Heartfelt condolences to Mark and Wui Leng. Anyone who lives in the hearts of others never really dies.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
How lucky I am to have known Mei-Ling and Mark - my many visits to IMU all have a focal point in my memory which is Mei-Ling. Discussing academic matters and medical education revealed her sharp mind, always open to new ideas. Her hospitality was world-famous, combining as it did sumptuous provisions and warm informality. We so enjoyed holiday time with her in Normandy and a memorable trip to Penang. There is no other like her and she has left her mark on this world. With sincere condolences to the family.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Thank you Dr Mei Ling, for everything you have taught us, showed us, led us in your own unique way. Humble, Gentle, Unyielding, and a remarkably Persevering leader. You will be deeply missed. May your soul rest in peace.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Dr. Mei Ling was an inspiring figure to all, and those of us who worked with her knew of her compassion and lighthearted spirit. Although she has passed on to embark on the eternal journey, the candles of her contributions will always burn bright :)
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Mei Ling was the President of the Malaysian Association of Private Colleges and Universities (MAPCU) when I first met her. My last conversation with her in March 2019, she asked that we keep MAPCU's name flying. She was dedicated to the education industry, an inspiration to me personally, an amazing role model as a woman. Humble, warm and I describe her as motherly. My deepest condolences to her family. You will be missed. RIP Mei Ling.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Dr. ML Young, you will always be loved and remembered by all who have crossed paths with you. You lived an exemplary life, ( especially in IMU) fought a good fight and finished the race well. The beautiful memories of you will linger on. May you rest eternally now and forever
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Someone as special as Dr.Mei Ling Young will never be forgotten. She will remain in our hearts forever. FOREVER REMEMBERED, FOREVER MISSED. RIP❤️
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Dear Dr Mei Lin Young, it was a priviledge to know you and work with you. We first met in 1997 when you were trying to find a site for the IMU clinical block (campus) in the vicinity of Hospital Tuanku Jaafar Seremban. Your genuine smile and the warmth in your eyes was always so uplifting. Thank you for the leadership and your pursuit of excellence in developing IMU. You will be missed...
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
My deepest condolences to Mark and family, and to Mei Ling's IMU family and diaspora all over the world, on the sad loss of dear Mei. Mei was a very special person whose warm presence, intelligence and passionate drive for excellence impressed everyone fortunate enough to have known her. Her legacy in bringing together leading medical universities from across the globe to offer a unique educational experience to so many healthcare students is a truly remarkable achievement. We could never say no to Mei as she was such a visionary leader and she was also very persuasive, but always with a beautiful smile on her face! We were blessed to have shared many happy meals with Mei and her beloved Mark over the years. In the final stage of her journey, Mei carried a heavy cross with such dignity. Her suffering has finally come to an end. Mei Ling was truly an example to us all and may IMU, with its partner medical and dental schools, honour her memory by working together and continuing to maintain the high standards which she set.
                   Ar dheis Dé go raibh a hanam dílis.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
A great, strong yet humble and caring woman, who will be solely missed by many...
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
DR Mei Ling Yang was a visionary. I am a recipient of her contribution to IMU. I am always and eternally grateful. Condolences to the family.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Mei Ling was one of the persons who greeted me when I joined IMU 23 years ago. Her smile was so genuine and made you feel you are one of the family members of IMU. I will sure miss you for the foot print you have left in my life. I am glad to know that now you are resting in the loving arms of our Heavenly Father.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
When I first met Mei Ling 20 years ago I was struck by her warmth, her passion for education, her ability to challenge constructively and her determination to see a task completed. My experiences since then have reinforced those initial impressions. She was also great fun to be with and, with Mark, wonderfully hospitable.

Mei Ling was an extraordinary person. She leaves an immense legacy which extends far beyond IMU. I count myself privileged to have known her, to have worked with her and to count her as a friend. I extend my sincere condolences to Mark and family and to my many friends at IMU.

May she rest in peace and rise in glory.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
RIP, Dr Mei Ling – a great mentor to generations of students, scholars, and educators in medicine and health sciences. You’ll be sorely missed and fondly remembered.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Mei Ling was a remarkable woman – a true visionary, full of energy and enthusiasm. She was charismatic, generous and brilliant. When you spoke with her, she made you feel like you were the only other person in the room. She will be sorely missed, but her legacy lives on in IMU. My deepest condolences to Mark and her family at this most difficult time. My thoughts are with you.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Dr. Mei will be missed on every occasion at IMU. An impressive leader and a passionate person with her profession. You will always be remembered and spoken for generations to come.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
I will bring along her spirit through out the journey in this life. A very humble and warm person. Rest in peace Dr Young. You will be missed.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Even though our paths crossed briefly, had the opportunity in exchanging some light conversations with you. You shared your passion and values, as well as your expectations of excellence. Forever with your infectious smile and a humble personality, one would never imagine you are our co-founder when you dropped by in education fairs or open days. You would approach unexpected visitors and speak to them. How I miss having you around our fairs! It's so different without you. Is a very sad day when heard that you had passed on. And those who are closer to you will feel your loss even more. But knowing that you are now in a better place, it comforts me. You have left a piece of you in my heart, and I'm honoured to have known you. God bless your soul, Dr Mei Ling. ❤️
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Will always remember you for your beautiful smile and "there must be a way to get it done" attitude and support and encouragement that you gave. IMU was so much part of you. Rest in peace. You will always be remembered fondly.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Dr Mei Ling has touched all of us in more saya tuan we can inagine. Get leadership has allowed us to thrive as students and continue to grow when we start our careers. Thank you from the bottom of our hearts.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Dear Mei Ling,

Thank you for welcoming me into the IMU family 2 decades ago when you called to offer me a position in IMU. Thank you for seeing potential in people like me and others, even when we are too blinded to realize for ourselves. Your phone call changed not just my life, but all who are dependent on me, for the better.
Thank you for standing by me, even when no one else would, when I wanted to acquire higher skills and qualifications. The many "don't give up"s you told me helped me see there is always a solution to every problem. The many times you asked "how can we do this better?" has helped me think outside the box.
Thank you for the mentoring, the gentle chiding, the always welcoming smile, and the warm feeling you give to everyone you meet. You made every person feel appreciated and valued. If I could be just a fraction of who you are, I would count myself greatly blessed.
I am very grateful for all you have been and done for us. You will be greatly missed. You will always have a special place in our hearts.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
I'm so sad to see the obituary in the newspaper today.
I was a Standardize Patients and my daughter was previously a student in IMU.
Deepest Condolences to your family . Rest In Peace.
Done with the donation to Hospice Society in memory of Dr Mei Ling Young
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Dr Mei Ling, when you continue to give so many advices when you were battling sickness, I realised the importance of being there for the people around you. Thank you for being a great mentor and friend. Thank you for making the effort every single time. We will miss you.

January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
I met Mei when she, the-then Dean of the International Medical College (IMC) David Riches and others interviewed me in April 1999, just 7 years after the founding of IMC, a shared dream-come-true of Datuk Kamal Sallih, Dr. Saidi Hashim, Mei, and Prof.Ong Kok Hai.That was the beginning of a long and enriching association with Mei, the Provost of IMU (to which IMC was upgraded after the Clinical School was founded in Seremban ).

Whilst Datuk provided the Vision, Mei was the driving force behind IMU's success ,involving herself in all its affairs, ensuring perfection in everything, making everybody feel important & indispensable, always showing she cared ( even the many "unknown" participants who came for IMU's many events & looked isolated!) . Both my husband and I worked with IMU, I for 16 years and my husband (Dr.Htin Aung) for seven. Our son went through the IMU's credit transfer programme, graduating from the National University of Ireland, Galway , after which he quickly progressed to MRCS and MCh in Orthopaedics; thanks to the firm grounding IMU had provided. Incidentally, he was the first of employees' children to benefit from a discounted tuition fee.

Mei was a cheerful , vibrant person & charismatic leader who walked the talk and lived the "IMU Cares" motto. She will always be remembered by the many who worked with her & the thousands of IMU graduates ( medical, Pharmacy, Nursing, Chiropractic, Psychology, Traditional Chinese Medicine, Biomedical Sciences, Nutrition & Dietetics, etc ) .

"To live on in heats we leave behind is not to die"
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
Gone too soon Mei. You will be forever in our hearts. You were an inspiration to us all.You have fought the good fight. Thank you for all what you have done for us. Rest in eternal peace.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
We are going to miss her dearly.

I was saddened by the news of her passing this morning. She had put up a courageous fight with cancer for more than a year. Even though she was on chemotherapy, we maintained communications via instant messenging. I regretted that I didn't manage to find a suitable opportunity to visit her during Pandemic Lockdown because she was just so clinically vulnerable.

Mei Ling has been a very important source of inspiration and support for me during the formative years of my medical career. I knew her since 1993 as a freshy of the pioneer batch of medical students. She co-founded IMU and served as the Provost/Deputy Vice Chancellor and some other leadership positions of the university. She was the pioneer of private medical education in the 90s. She was instrumental in developing IMU's global partner universities network and I admired her skills and ability to engage and charm the deans from UK, Ireland and North America. She made me realised the value of EQ.
She was charismatic, energetic and very engaging with students. She was a motherly figure in the campus. Always interested to know how we were doing in our career and life (eg work, marriage, kids etc) even decades after graduation.

She constantly encouraged me to take bold moves in my career and to venture out of my "comfort zone". She always know how to galvanise us to try out new stuff. She supported our effort to publish IMU's first Convocation Magazine. I remembered she was rooting for our publication proposal in front of Prof John Beck and Sir Patrick Forrest. 
She prompted me and a few alumnus to establish the IMU Alumni Association and convinced me to serve as its first President.
She emboldened me to explore alternative career path in Clinical Informatics and Entrepreneurship.
She always know how to channel her energy and passion by catalysing new ideas we have.
I hope she knew how profound she had impacted us.

I am forever grateful and indebted to her nurturing love for us. She was one of the reason why I still maintain intimate connections with the Alma Mater after over 2 decades.

Your legacy will live on in us.
RIP Mei Ling.

Hsien Ming (M1/93)
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
I am forever grateful for all your guidance, support and cheers, Dr. Mei Ling Young. You will be missed dearly. Rest in peace.
January 21, 2021
January 21, 2021
I met her in 1994 during my interview along with Sir Patrick Forrest,and Prof Beck.She told me " Welcome to IMC.It is always a pleasure to be in the group of pioneers." She was so charismatic,full of positivity,and vibrant personality that affect anyone positively.She was also a very passionate, receptive and understanding individual.She will be missed by all of us very very badly.
She will forever be a part of IMU.
May her soul rest in peace.
My heartfelt condolence to her family.
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
I am very sad to hear the news. My sincere condolences to Dr. Mei Ling Young family. She is a very vibrant, inspirational and charismatic leader.It’s very difficult to believe that she is no more. She will live on in our memories forever. May her soul rest in peace.
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
In 1994 I met Mei Ling during my interview with Sir Patrick Forest and Prof John Bligh. She so kind to give me a place to stay at the apartment at the IMC campus on Jalan Selangor as she appreciated the juggling role of one being a mother and a career woman. I remember meeting her dad at her home and he spent sometime showing me the gardening that she was very fond of as a hobby. Years later she gave me my first German Shepherd puppy Beauty. A few months ago she wrote to me to ask how were my children doing. I just wished she was able to see the opening of our new IMU hospital ... Rest in peace dear Mei Ling
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
Truly sad to hear this. My deepest condolences.She was an inspiration to many indeed. Memories of her life will never leave me. Dr Mei Ling Young, you'd never be forgotten, rest in peace.
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
A true legacy and a significant well respected icon in Medical Education Industry in Malaysia. I am honoured and blessed to have crossed path with Mei Ling in a few occasions. One of the memorable ones was during the IMU entrepreneurship forum she was present during my keynote session and she was very supportive and encouraging in our healthtech startup and proactively offered to help to link us up with some other industry players via her network. She was such a well-liked figure in the campus and anyone who knows her will agree with me that she was one of the most genuine, caring and humble leaders I know thus far.
RIP Dr. Mei Ling Young. You will be missed
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
You are the heart and soul of IMU. You demand excellence and IMU is now one of Malaysia’s top universities thanks to you. We will miss your presence but you will always be in our thoughts and action. The legacy you leave behind will never be forgotten.
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
Thank you Mei Ling for giving many of us the opportunity to pursue our dreams and passions in the field of medicine...You have seen me grown from a student all the way to where I am now. Rest in peace. You will be missed
January 20, 2021
January 20, 2021
You may be gone but you will be in our hearts forever...
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July 7, 2022
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Happy birthday Mei Ling. Still a guiding light. You will always be my role model
July 6, 2022
July 6, 2022
Remembering Mei today, 6th July on what should have been her 73rd birthday. I remember her for the wonderful and foresighted person that she was and for all that she did for Malaysia and education. All with such warm open heartedness and friendship. We were so lucky to have her in our lives. I still miss her so much.
January 31, 2022
January 31, 2022
I have thought many times about Mei over the last year and how I would like to have been able to talk with her about an issue where I would have valued her opinion. No one can replace Mei and I continue to miss her and the golden moments we had together.

When you miss someone as I do Mei it means you really care about the person and you value them.
Her Life
January 20, 2021
A charismatic, exuberant and passionate social scientist, Dr Mei Ling Young, was one of the three founders of the International Medical College (IMC), Malaysia’s first private medical college in 1992. Together with Tan Sri Datuk Dr Kamal bin Salih and the late Dr Saidi Hashim, they had embarked on a mission – to establish an educational model that would allow more young Malaysians to pursue their ambitions to become doctors and other healthcare professionals through a globally recognised curriculum. With the help of two established professors of medical education, Ron Harden and Ian Hart, they devised a simple, brilliant but daring model and the only one of its kind in the world where all students who achieved the required standard, the outcomes, can be transferred in their clinical years to initially, five, and later, to nearly 33 renowned medical schools throughout the English-speaking world. 

Mei Ling was born in Seremban, Malaysia in 1949. She obtained her BA (Geography) from the University of Auckland in 1971 and was awarded a Senior Scholarship during her studies. She continued with her postgraduate studies at the same university and in 1974 was awarded the MA (First Class Honours) and concurrently offered a New Zealand Postgraduate Scholarship and the Australian National University (ANU) scholarships for Geography or Demography. She took up the latter offer and completed her PhD thesis after her return to Malaysia.

In 1979 she joined Universiti Sains Malaysia (USM) in Penang as a lecturer in Development Studies at the School of Social Sciences. Because of a keen interest in research, in 1987, Mei Ling joined Kamal Salih as a foundation associate research fellow and helped establish the Malaysian Institute of Economic Research (MIER), the first independent, non-profit think-tank in Malaysia.

Over the years, she has penned over 70 papers on migration and employment, urbanization, industrialization and socio-economic issues and has spoken at numerous seminars and conferences at both national and international levels.

Mei Ling’s contributions and achievement is largely seen in the establishment of the International Medical College (IMC). Throughout her journey in developing IMC, she had assumed the position of Executive Director, and Registrar of the college. Holding both positions, she was able to balance and make decisions for both corporate and academic matters to ensure the smooth implementation of the college project.

During that period, education and health have always been regarded as the government’s responsibility and there was no precedence where a private medical school used government clinics and hospitals to train doctors.

Mei Ling played a pivotal role in persuading and convincing the Malaysian ministries of education and health to support the vision and mission of the college.

She also played an important role in managing two very eminent retired medical professors, Prof John Beck who was appointed as the first IMC’s Foundation Dean, and Sir Patrick Forrest who later joined as the Associate Dean. The management of the international faculty and the negotiation with some of the world’s best medical schools to be part of the unique collaborative education model - the Partner Medical School (PMS) was no easy task.

In 1998, the Asian Financial Crisis resulted in the depreciation of the ringgit and made all overseas education prohibitively expensive. This was especially true for medical education. Responding to this challenge, Mei Ling immediately negotiated for students in UK to transfer to less expensive PMS in New Zealand and Canada. More importantly, she fast tracked the establishment of an IMU Clinical School in order to provide students the opportunity to complete the entire medical programme locally. Within nine months the clinical campus adjacent to the Tuanku Ja’afar Hospital was built and the development of the clinical curriculum completed, with faculty on board. The IMC was awarded university status in 1999, becoming the International Medical University (IMU), the first private university in the country.

Expanding its plan to be an integrated healthcare provider, IMU took the bold step to provide healthcare services to the public. In 2010, IMU Healthcare was formed with the establishment of its oral healthcare centre, chiropractic centre, medical clinic and Chinese medicine centre. Mei Ling was the major driving force in this ambitious undertaking, adding the development of an IMU hospital, scheduled to open its door to the public by 2022.

She was the Advisor and Board Member of the IMU Group. Mei Ling previously held the positions of Provost (1999-2015) and Deputy Vice-Chancellor, International and Engagement (2016-17) at the International Medical University.

Actively contributing to the private education landscape, Mei Ling also held the positions of Deputy Secretary- General and later the President of the Malaysian Association of Private Colleges & Universities (MAPCU) from 2005-06 and 2015-17, respectively. During this period, private education flourished in Malaysia, making it equal to government providers. MAPCU worked closely with the government to ensure quality and to change the mind-set where instead of being competitors, private and government providers work together for the common good of the country.

Internationally recognised for her contributions in medical education, she was awarded the honorary degree of Doctor of Science from the University of Strathclyde in 2013 and the honorary degree of Doctor of Laws honoris causa from the University of Dundee in 2014. Mei Ling was also the first Asian to be awarded the prestigious Association for the Study of Medical Education (ASME) Gold Medal in 2017.

Striving for perfection is Mei Ling’s greatest strength. She was always able, by a combination of diplomacy, gentle persuasion and tenacity to motivate her peers and subordinates to doing their very best. And it has been largely through her efforts that the university has managed to achieve and maintain its premier position in Malaysia.



Reflections of Mei - Eulogy by Dr Susan YuLing Young

January 25, 2021
Mei was born in Seremban in 1949. Mum's family were very close and she was brought up with grandparents, cousins, uncles and aunts very much part of her daily life. This gave her an incredibly strong sense of family unity, which stayed with her throughout her life. From our father she developed her love of books and learning and like him was a walking encyclopaedia. For me, who came along some 13 years later, she was my beloved older sister who I both adored and have looked up to my entire life. She has taught me so much and was akin to a second mother to me. 

To a great extent, we were both brought up as only children - such was the age gap between us. Mei left home for university in Auckland when I was just 5. By the time she had completed both her Bachelor and Master degrees and was on her PhD journey we had decamped to the UK,  missing her return to Malaysia where she took up a post as a Social Science lecturer at the University Sains Malaysia in Penang. I remember summer holidays spent with her, hanging out at the university campus whilst she worked and have many happy memories of her friends and colleagues known affectionately as 'The Penang Gang'  

In 1981, she married Mark after a courtship that had lasted some 20 years! He has been her devoted, ardent and loyal supporter throughout their lives together. Her soul mate - and she so clearly his. They built a wonderful life together - and should have had many more happy years to look forward to. Mark... the wonderful memories will always remain.  

As Mei's career progressed, her interest in development issues eventually led her to become one of the principal co-founders of IMU in 1992. At the time, Malaysia had around 3,500 doctors for the entire population. Mei wanted to give more access and opportunity to more Malaysians to be able to have a medical education beyond the government quotas and with the limitations of expensive overseas training. She guided the IMC from its infancy working tirelessly nurturing and developing the people whom she worked with to make IMU the success it is today.  Her passion and obsession was for IMU to have its own hospital, and we grieve all the more that she will not be present when this hospital that she worked so tirelessly towards, is opened in 2022. 

Most important to Mei was her son Wui Leng. From the day he was born, the bond was exceptionally strong and I have been particularly impressed in how he has looked out for her over the last 2.5 years of her illness. Taking care of all the important background work - researching treatments, arranging appointments, sourcing medicine, supplements and finally hospital equipment so her wish to return home could be fulfilled. All these things unseen and easily overlooked by others. I have watched him comfort and soothe her. Massaging and stroking her limbs as she lay helpless in bed, trying to ease her discomfort and all this whilst working too.   

When Wui Leng introduced Zhou to the family, Mei, quickly welcomed her and integrated her into the family and over a short time I know Zhou came to mean a lot to Mei. When I was allowed out of quarantine to visit her briefly in hospital, she told me how she thought Zhou was very good for Wui Leng and how kind and caring Zhou had been with her - all this during my so short visit and Mei so short of breath. In her last years she was blessed with a devoted daughter as well as a wonderful son.

So, where and how do I begin to describe my sister Mei Ling when there are so many words that would fit the bill. 

Exciting, adventurous, mischievous, far sighted, positive, charismatic, persuasive, visionary, brave, bold, inclusive - it did not matter who you were, she could make you feel special and treasured. 

We, each one of us will recognise in her all of these descriptions and yet, I could still go on. 

Loving, generous, kind, thoughtful, joyous, loyal, a true and committed partner, parent, friend, sister, mentor and workmate. I could tell you a story about Mei Ling for each of these descriptions, but we would be here all evening. So, I will just share one or two with you. 

Sadly, both our parents were not alive to witness the 3 honorary doctorates or the ASME Gold Award for Medical Education that Mei was to receive for her outstanding contribution to medical education during her career. Norman and I represented them on all these occasions. As we proudly sat at the graduation ceremony awarding her the first of her honorary doctorates at Strathclyde University Institute of Pharmacy, I was amused to hear how Prof Brian Furman described how they had been "Mei Ling-ed"! Their intension had been to accept a handful of IMC students but found themselves accepting more than 100 such was her boldness, charm and persuasive powers. I know more than one of us will recognise having been Mei Ling-ed in the past.

Her sense of adventure led her, along with family and friends to all corners of the globe and her sense of adventure did not necessarily have to involve her taking part. Wui Leng found himself scaling Sydney Harbour Bridge, I found myself sampling bats in Luang Prabang. We had to try everything. 'Must Try' was one of her memorable phrases. 

As her fantastic PA Pearly puts it ... the world is less happening without her. Heaven is going to be a busy place with her now in it and we should take comfort in that 

Above all, we must give thanks for the life of a woman I am so proud to be able to call my sister and for her life that gave so much.  To quote her own words addressed to undergraduates:

“When you are young, you feel you have everything ahead of you. I felt the same. It’s natural. One never thinks it is going to end and even in a fleeting moment, if you think it may, it seems unreal. But life is fragile. So, whatever good you can do, do not delay it. The chance may not come up again. And if you need a perspective, whatever agitates you or upsets you, when you reflect on the big issue, the impermanence of life, all these things become small and inconsequential. And in the context of your work in healthcare, please remember, it is a privilege to serve. Service and to be useful and relevant can be a legacy.”

Little did we know then that those words would be prophetic. Even in her very last days she confided to me when we were alone, that she had not given enough. I asked her how she could possibly think that, and I am still baffled. Yet I know it's also rings true. Hers was a life cut short when she still had so much more to give and had wanted to give. 

The Hengs have lost the very heart of their family. The Youngs, Blacks, Chongs, Lims and Vongs that make up Mei's history and family have lost their brightest star and IMU a leader in the truest sense of the word. We are all united in our shared grief at our loss, but we must also remember that everyone of us grieving today has brought love and meaning to Mei's life and has helped her achieve all that she has done.

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Ladies Dinner Group

January 22, 2021
Dearest Mei Ling, It was an honour knowing you and having you as our friend. We will always cherish the memories of happy times spent together at our gatherings. Our ladies'  dinner will not be the same without you. You will be dearly  missed and fondly remembered. May your soul RIP.    Foo Wang Leng 
Whatever needs to be said is covered by Susan.  I have lost a very close confidant and a traveling companion.  Diana Tan
Dearest Mei Ling, a true friend, a fantastic travel companion, a good chef and much more. Till we meet in that beautiful shore...  Bee Kee Yin
Dearest Mei Ling,  what an honour to have met you.  Will miss your gregarious personality at our dinners - certainly, would not be the same without you.  Will cherish all the wonderful times and sharing...Rest In Peace!   Josee Lee
Mei Ling  had fought a good fight. She had finished the race.  Linda Koh 


Every milestone

January 21, 2021
I've had the gift of knowing Aunty Mei since the day I was born. My earliest memories of her were from my single-digit years when she would invite us kids over for poolside fun, pasta lunches and to play with the rabbits. The Christmas seasons were never dull with spreads of food, arrays of ice cream flavours and gifts of toys. I still recall the thrill when she gifted Barbie as Swan Lake to me (circa 2004). 

I could count on Aunty Mei to be there in my life's milestones or events. When I did well for exams, she would be there with a reward. When I had fallen sick with hospitalisation, she had porridge made. Even during the March lockdown, Aunty Mei made sure we were more than comfortable. 

Visiting the pet shop with her one year, I remember when she picked up a live worm in her hand and examined it. I was so startled and she looked at me as if nothing out of the ordinary had happened. Again she never stopped to amaze me and show how extraordinary she is. 

I am yet to meet someone as affable and endearing as Aunty Mei. She can carry any light-hearted conversation just as much as she can delve into a deep one. She is as well-read as she is well-loved. Her heart is generous and kind. I will always remember her and miss her greatly. 

Twenty years ago

January 21, 2021
Her hair. The first thing I noticed about Dr Young was her white hair. It was year twenty years ago, and as a student, it didn’t take long to discover that she was the most outstanding person in the room – her charm and personality made everyone noticed her, not knowing yet who she was. And it’s just that – that we would sometimes wonder if we could ever have that level of charisma.

More than ten years later, I met her again – from a different perspective. She was determined, and she knew what she wanted from me as a faculty. Over the years, to me, she was strict, brutal but honest. Yet, she motivates. She was always the life of the discussion. She pushes you and she knew every aspect of the business.

And it isn’t fair that we couldn’t learn more from her now. And it’s not fair that our workplace will be without her passionate leadership. IMU and the network of alumni have lost a visionary and creative genius and the world has lost an amazing human being.

Dr Mei Ling, when you continue to give so many advices when you were battling sickness, I realised the importance of being there for the people around you. Thank you for being a great mentor and friend. Thank you for making the effort every single time.

We will miss you.

Love,
Erwin Khoo & Siew Houy

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