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This memorial website was created in memory of our sister, Melissa Pellerin. She will always be right there with us in our hearts and in our minds. We invite anyone who would like to share Melissa stories, pictures, or videos to feel free to post on this site, too. Join us in celebrating our awesome sister. We are adding to this when the hurt eases enough to let us. Please visit again in the future. We intend to keep building this site for a long, long time.

As remembrance services are held throughout the world, we invite those involved to please share recordings of those services in the video section of this site for others to view and appreciate.

At Melissa's request, there will be no funeral. In lieu of flowers, we prefer that expressions of sympathy made in Melissa's name go to:

Guysborough Memorial Hospital  (https://www.doctorswelcome.org/take-action
or your local palliative care centers.

Guysborough Memorial Hospital's palliative care unit did an outstanding job making Melissa's last days comfortable. The nurses and doctors were caring, patient, respectful and professional. They allowed us to surround Melissa with family, love, music and laughter around the clock for over a week. 


March 23
March 23
Happy Birthday Melissa. I love you. Miss you still. You are still such a significant part of my heart.
March 23
Happy Birthday, Dear Friend! Today I think about all those students who were able to learn and be inspired by you - my two sons among many! Thank you on behalf of them. You were an amazing teacher.
August 8, 2023
August 8, 2023
I have so much to tell you! It has been a very busy year and you were missed greatly. You would have been so proud or your sons. Love you, sis ❤️❤️❤️
August 8, 2022
August 8, 2022
My dearest friend, how is it three years you have been gone? I miss you so much! ❤️❤️❤️
March 23, 2022
March 23, 2022
Happy birthday, friend. Your light, passion for learning, and joy are living in all the students you taught and inspired... you will never be truly gone.
March 23, 2022
March 23, 2022
Thinking of you my dearest friend on your birthday. I miss you and love you so much! ❤️❤️❤️
March 23, 2022
March 23, 2022
Thinking of you on your heavenly birthday, Melissa. Keeping your sweet and intelligent spirit and your beautiful children in the front of my mind today.
March 24, 2021
March 24, 2021
Happy, Happy Birthday Melissa. Wishing I could walk across the hall and toast you. Your smile, laughter, and love for life are missed. Hugs, Maureen
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Last night as I watched the 22nd become the 23rd, I thought of Melissa. Not that I need her birthday to remember her. I remember her always. I miss you so much dear, dear friend.....
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Happy birthday, Melissa! There is still a Melissa-sized space that I am holding for you. Only you. Everyday I talk to you. Everyday I hear your voice.

March 23, 2020
March 23, 2020
I have thought about Melissa so many times. All lovely bittersweet memories that still bring a smile to my face and a bit of joy to my heart. My thoughts and prayers are with Melissa’s family and all those she loved so dearly and who still miss her so much. I am grateful for my friendship with Melissa and the fun, laughter and tears we shared. I raise my glass to her today.
March 23, 2020
March 23, 2020
Melissa would have absolutely loved participating in the virtual singalong that Chicago held over the weekend. She would have liked something like that for her birthday.

I had Melissa dreams this past Friday and Saturday night. They were the first ones (that I can remember) since she died. They were oddly joyful, yet calmly routine. I woke from them serene and happy that I got to see my sis.
March 23, 2020
March 23, 2020
Happy Birthday in heaven hope it’s Been a Safe, Blessed, and Wonderful One . We all missing you and your beautiful smile 
March 22, 2020
March 22, 2020
I have been thinking about Melissa even more in the past few days, because tomorrow, March 23, is her birthday. I was chuckling, thinking about what she would have done to celebrate the day. Melissa was not the type to brush off the importance of her birthday but would instead have wanted to mark the day with some type of fun. What do you think she would have done? Of course the prevalence of coronavirus today would have altered the opportunities, but she always enjoyed time at home, working a puzzle, munching on a baguette and cheese, sipping something fruity, or crocheting in the last year, so I have no doubt that she would have still made an event of it. I was imagining that she may have embraced the virtual happy hour or gathering! 
December 26, 2019
December 26, 2019
Having a quiet moment of reflection after a typically chaotic and beautiful Christmas day. Managed to stay awake through the post Christmas excess and spent a lovely couple of hours finishing A Gentleman in Moscow, having learned it was Mel's favourite book. I found it in an English section in a store in Moscow just before flying home for Christmas. I can see why she loved it. The beauty of dignity and kindness despite circumstance it depicted reminded me instantly of Mel. Sending love to everyone, especially her family, today.
December 3, 2019
December 3, 2019
We have all been blessed to know and love Melissa. There are many bits of Melissa that I will carry with me - her love of others, commitment to her students, and her unyielding positive perspective on life. Thank you, Melissa for making life a better for place for every person that you touched. xxoo
November 14, 2019
November 14, 2019
Melissa and I would troll through craft exhibits and quilt shows in Moscow. Our favorite was going to the yarn factory and then for Ethiopian food. I have a wonderful picture of her hamming it up by this crazy quilt at one of the shows. I wish I could paste it in here because it is the quintessential Melissa. 
Ah yes. I will miss her always.
September 8, 2019
September 8, 2019
Melissa, Pierre and Duncan were our neighbors in Moscow; our apartments were adjacent and we shared a wall, though you had to go down, out and around to get to each other's front door. However, we did have connecting balconies and I would often cut through their apartment when Melissa and I were going to another friend, Donna's, apartment for Ladies Nights and parties. My children were really just babies when we arrived in Moscow and though I'm sure Melissa must have heard them crying at night through the wall she was always too gracious to say so. :) I had tremendous professional respect for her, as I think everyone who worked with her did. But more than that, I just found her easy to be with and to talk to and she was so friendly and welcoming. She was the kind of person who made you feel you had already known each other a long time even though it might have been just a few weeks. Their apartment is empty now and I often wish I could go knock on the window to come in for a cup of tea and good conversation. I think of her often and miss her quite a lot.
September 2, 2019
September 2, 2019
My favourite memory of Mel took place about four years ago when I was a new, nervous and overwhelmed member of staff at AAS. I was supporting math classes teaching the curriculum in a way I hadn't seen before and didn't have a clue how to teach myself. Mel took me to the pub and sat teaching me how to teach dividing fractions using a tape diagram over a nice IPA (me) and a cider (her). As I got to know her and her style, it became clear that this was her way with everyone she came across - kid and adult (although no IPA for the kids). No judgement or criticism - just constant unwavering patience and a passion for helping people understand. It was an honour and an education to work with Mel and even more so being her friend. Mel's attitude to life inspired me and will continue to do so. Every time I use the handmade dish cloth she wanted feedback on to try to make her designs better, every time I walk through the forest in the snow, every time I see an adult 'playing' and appreciating their life so fully, and every time I teach.. especially fractions.
August 17, 2019
August 17, 2019
Melissa oozed competence and authenticity in everything she did. She was a true hub of every community she shared herself with. Anyone who ever work with her knows of her keen professionalism and deep respect for the people she worked with, taught, and build communities with. She was a loving mother and wife, and our families truly enjoyed spending time together. She was wise and compassionate enough to know when to share her wisdom and how to do so with maximum impact and minimum damage. She walked her talk and honestly made the world a better place.
August 17, 2019
August 17, 2019
She was an amazing friend I had at South Dearborn High School. We grew apart as adults. You will be missed greatly by many. Rest High On That Mountain Beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️
August 16, 2019
August 16, 2019
Melissa Pellerin was my fifth grade teacher in 2015/16, at AAS in Moscow, Russia. She taught me so much, from how much fun learning can be, to friendship, to my presentation skills. One of the first things we did in her class is we had a partner and we had to create a poster and presentation, I was terrified but looking at Ms. Pellerin’s big warming smile made me feel so much better. That’s one of many amazing things that Ms. Pellerin did for me. She will be forever loved.
August 16, 2019
August 16, 2019
Melissa was a very enthusiastic and inspiring woman. She was always full of energy and so warm. Melissa was a smart and dedicated teacher. I always admired and thought she could never stop thinking and working all the time like she would never get exhausted.
As a colleague and a teacher of her son, Duncan when he was in first grade, many times she would always like to have a personal conversation about life in and outside the school in a way that I felt she was a caring and considerate friend. I believe she has touched many people personally during her life wherever she was.
May you rest in peace dear Melissa. I will always cherish you in my heart. Your spirit and eternal love will always inspired me.
My prayers and thought are always with you Treh, Duncan and Pierre.
August 15, 2019
August 15, 2019
I had the pleasure of working with Melissa in Beirut at ACS. She had such a wonderful and kind energy about her - Duncan was still small and nursing and Treigh was a loving son and big brother. They were such a fun family to be around. Melissa will surely be missed in the world as she made a positive and lasting impression in every life she met, all over the world. May you rest in peace Melissa and I hope that her loved ones are celebrating her life and not missing her too much.
August 14, 2019
August 14, 2019
Melissa and Treh were the first people I met on the way to teach in Kuwait. We sat together at the gate in Frankfurt Airport, playing with Treh and swapping what we'd heard about the post. She was warm, curious, gentle, kind, and I particularly remember her fearlessness and powerful energy. I was a little in awe of her, that's for sure.

She and Treh carved out a space in my heart in those moments and it was always a joy to see them while we worked together, and to reconnect later on social media. Her passing is a loss, but what a beautiful legacy she leaves behind in Treh and Duncan.

My thoughts are with you, Pierre, Treh, and Duncan, and with her friends and family.
August 14, 2019
August 14, 2019
Melissa was one those students that stood out early in my educational career. She was quick to help other students succeed. If she had a less than great day, it did not show -- she was always very positive. 
August 14, 2019
August 14, 2019
Melissa made a profound difference where ever she was. She was an exquisite professional, providing the best of our knowledge with compassion and caring for each little student. Her impact on colleagues as well was immeasurable. 
She was an exquisite human being, touching all of us with her grace, generosity and humor. It is no surprise that she faced death as she lived. (From ACS, Beirut)

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March 23
March 23
Happy Birthday Melissa. I love you. Miss you still. You are still such a significant part of my heart.
March 23
Happy Birthday, Dear Friend! Today I think about all those students who were able to learn and be inspired by you - my two sons among many! Thank you on behalf of them. You were an amazing teacher.
August 8, 2023
August 8, 2023
I have so much to tell you! It has been a very busy year and you were missed greatly. You would have been so proud or your sons. Love you, sis ❤️❤️❤️
Her Life
August 19, 2019
Melissa Ann Macdonald Pellerin was born on March 23, 1968, in Jasper, Indiana.  She was the second of four daughters born to Patricia and John Macdonald.  The family moved to a small ranch house in Aurora, Indiana in 1970.  As a child, Melissa loved to play softball, football and badminton with her family and friends, ride bikes, swim and go hiking and camping.  Melissa went to Dillsboro Elementary and Middle Schools before going to South Dearborn High School.  She was active in many clubs and loved to participate in everything musical, including band, musical performances, variety shows, and the Swing Choir.  Melissa attended Purdue University, where she planned to study Math, but when she discovered that she was interested in working with kids, she switched to studying Education.  While attending Purdue, Melissa met her first husband, Huntley Manhertz.  They married after graduation and in 1994 had their beautiful son Treh.  Melissa's family and Huntley's family still keep in touch.  Melissa taught in Jamaica for one year before returning to Indiana to attend graduate school at Indiana University in Bloomington where she focused on multi-cultural education.  Feeling that she needed practical experience, Melissa accepted a position at an international school, and she and Treh moved to Ifran, Morocco in 1998.  After living in Morocco for several years, Melissa took a new position at a school in Kuwait.  Here, Melissa fell in love with and married fellow teacher Pierre Pellerin.  Pierre and Melissa’s son Duncan was born during their years in Kuwait, before the family moved to new teaching positions, first in Lebanon, and then to Surabaya, Indonesia, where they lived for many years.  After Treh graduated from High School and left to attend college at Vassar, the Pellerin family moved to Moscow, Russia where Melissa and Pierre taught for six years at the Anglo-American School.  The family traveled through Asia and Europe, as well as Africa, during their more than two decades living overseas.  The family returned regularly to visit family in the United States and Canada, and Melissa and Pierre bought their own house in Pierre’s hometown of Larry’s River, Nova Scotia, where they enjoyed returning for summers and December holidays to work on the house. 

Melissa was full of love and positive energy.  She loved spending time with Pierre and her sons, Treh and Duncan, who could rival anyone in Harry Potter knowledge.  Melissa always had a book that she was either reading or listening to, and she loved to play games and work various types of puzzles.  She also enjoyed walking through the woods close to her school in Moscow, kayaking at her home in Larry’s River and in Maine, and had recently begun crocheting numerous blankets and other items to give as gifts.  Anyone who spent time with Melissa knows that she adored being with people and going to all types of restaurants, as well as attending musical performances and other events.  Melissa also cherished her moments alone, drinking coffee and watching the sunrise from her deck in Larry’s River.     


Recent stories

Birthday memories

March 25, 2020
So Stacey, me (Andrea), and Melissa formed the SAM club. And we never actually celebrated our birthdays when they were as somehow, they were always at a break time (winter, spring, summer). So it became our custom to celebrate at odd times. It worked so well, they were able to give me a crazy surprise 30th birthday, as the party was 3 months after my birthday! I was truly surprised! Miss you Melis, on your birthday and every other unbirthday. 

MP STRONG

October 6, 2019
October is breast cancer awareness month. AAS is doing so much to honor Melissa and raise awareness. T-shirts have been made and every Wednesday staff and students wear them (or pink) to show their support. Money raised from the sales of the shirts goes to breast cancer research. In addition, MP (Melissa Pellerin) STRONG bracelets were distributed to students and staff. The middle school and high school had an assembly where a former student of Melissas read Melissa's poem, I am a Teacher, and the poem was written on a book mark with Melissa's picture and handed out to all. She continues to be with us each day.

26 years ago

September 8, 2019
I met Melissa 26 years ago....It was Fall, 1993 and she, Stacey, and I were part of the team of grad students who were to teach Multicultural Education to the undergrad teacher ed students. Not sure why, but the three of us really clicked, forming the SAM club. We had regular meetings, almost always including food. About a month later. Melissa was pregnant (planned it to coincide with health insurance kicking in). She was so excited, she somehow got the heath center to do a blood test and she knew she was pregnant probably 5 days in. She was not one of those people who kept that kind of thing to herself, so we knew she was pregnant seconds after she did and given that she was so overdue, it seemed like she was pregnant for a year
Today, it’s exactly one month since she passed away and I can barely stand it. She was one of those people who was so full of life and I cannot believe she is no longer part of this world. I keep wanting to write stories about her, but it’s just too hard right now. 
Melissa (I know, she always introduced herself as Mel, but I just could never call her that), I miss you so, so much. I cannot believe I will never get to talk with you again, hear your voice, your laugh. You are so missed and I will love you for always.

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