Merlinda was born in the Pasay City in the Philippines on June 25, 1955 as the eldest of three living children to Ereneo Esto Esq. and Dr. Julita Abordo. She developed a passion for music at a very early age, in fact so early, teachers were apprehensive to give an insistent 3-year old her lessons. It wasn’t until she was 6 before a teacher agreed to give her piano lessons. Little did they know that her love for music was such that throughout her lifetime, she would also learned to play the guitar, harp, clarinet, melodica, accordion, banduria, ukulele, mandolin, organ, xylophone, marimba, and angklung. However, her first love will always be the piano.
     Diligent and studious, Merlinda remained at the top of her class from elementary all the way through high school, and remained in the top 10 of her class through medical school. On April 20, 1977, She married Filemon (Pat) Patacxil. Inspired by her love for children, she set up a practice specializing in pediatrics in her hometown of Daet in the province of Camarines Norte in the Philippines. A year later, Philemon (Vann) was born in Manila.
     After Pat and Merlinda emigrated to the U.S. in 1984, she traded her stethoscope to take on the full time job of being a mother raising her children. Wyzscx Merfil was born on September 6, 1985 in Loma Linda, California. Since then, the family made several homes throughout the U.S. including Wagner, South Dakota for two years, and eventually to Virginia Beach, Virginia. It was there that fate allowed her to stumble upon an old set of instruments from Indonesia called the Angklung. After arranging a few melodies in a sequence that allowed even non-musicians to be able to read music, it did not take long before her passion for music was rekindled with new fire, and her first Angklung group was created.
     Finally, the family moved and made Tallahassee Florida their current home since 1991 and there, Czyril Johann (CJ) was born on December 28. While continuing to raise all three of her children, Merlinda stayed active with her community. She consistently gave of herself from simply accompanying people at church to arranging and conducting the Angklung Group. Later on, she decided to continue her education into computer science, eventually leading her as the office manager for the family business.
     Aside from amassing a large shoe collection, playing Sudoku, she enjoyed spending time with her husband whether it was working together or traveling abroad. Merlinda was a great mother, a dedicated wife, and one of the most giving and caring friends anyone could ever have.  And though she is no longer with us, she leaves behind precious memories, a tune in our hearts, and a legacy of love that we all will cherish forever more.

Merlinda Esto Patacxil, 56, of Tallahassee, Florida passed away on April 27, 2012 in Gainesville, Florida from complications of a stroke. Born June 25, 1955 in Pasay City, Philippines, she graduated valedictorian of her high school class, attended Philippine Union College, and continued on to pursue a medical degree at Manila Central University.   She then served as a pediatrician before moving to the U.S. in 1985. A resident of Tallahassee since 1991, she was an active member of the Tallahassee First SDA Church and shared her musical talent with the church as well as the local Filipino community. She most recently served the community as office manager for her husband's medical offices in Tallahassee and Madison. 

Merlinda is an independent and vibrant lady.  As a woman of many talents, she and her husband served their community as a doctor and businesswoman; avidly contributes her musicianship to her church and family; and is a dedicated wife and a proud mother of 3 boys.

On the morning of Friday, April 13th, "Merlynne" suffered a stroke that resulted in her being admitted to NeuroIntensive Care at Shands hospital in Gainesville Florida. 

Her many talents, dedication to her family and friends, and love of music will be missed by all who know and love her.

She is survived by her husband of 35 years, Filemon Patacxil, her 3 sons, Vann, Merfil, and CJ, and countless friends around the world. A celebration of Merlinda's was held on May 27, 2012 at 3 PM at the Tallahassee First SDA Church. 

Published in Tallahassee Democrat from May 25 to May 27, 2012 and www.caringbridge.org/visit/merlindapatacxil

Written Apr 21, 2012 1:16am

To the Patacxil family,
Praying for you and your health team continuously. Will direct church members to this site today to allow you rest from calls. May God bless you!
Ruth

Ruth Swan

Written Apr 21, 2012 9:44am

Dear Merlynne,

Sa pagmamahal sa iyo ni Pat and Vann, they created this site for you. I feel like I'm there and talking to you. We're continuing to pray for you of course. We love you lots and lots.

Pagaling ka, ha. Walang makakapasan sa iyo sa cruise. So kailangan at least puede kang umupo.

Happy Sabbath,
Nette

Written Apr 21, 2012 10:15am

I am so saddened by this news, Merl. I wish I can be there to give you and Pat a hug. May you rest knowing that God is the Healer and we are all praying for your recovery.

lors pimentel spicher

Written Apr 21, 2012 10:32am

Merlinda and Dr. Pat,

I am praying for your family and that the Lord strenghten and encourage you. I know that the Lord's hands are on Merlinda and I will continue to pray for healing. We serve a great God and he is there with you all.

Blessings and prayers,

Luana Greulich

Written Apr 21, 2012 10:42am

Dearest Merlinda,
This has been such a great shock to us considering that I was in your office on Thursday night talking about your plans for Costa Rica.
You have been such a wonderful friend since you moved to Tallahassee
many years ago. You are such a dynamic,vibrant and energetic person so it is very difficult to imagine you under these circumstances.
We are praying for your quick recovery. Hurry up so you can enjoy Costa Rica and the Mediterranean cruise you planned. Meanwhile, may God be with you every step of the way. We love you.
Rocky, Lara, Leovi, and Marissa send their love too

Melody and Jun Agbunag

Written Apr 21, 2012 10:47am

Dear Dr. Pat,

I continue to pray for your entire family. Merlina is such a strong lady and I know she will try and fight her way through this with the strength the Lord gives her! Try and rest when you can. Please know that the entire Madison County Memorial Hospital family are here for you! God is in control!!!

Tammy Stevens

Written Apr 21, 2012 10:57am

Dear Merlyne, Pat and the Boys,

Happy anniversary to both of you! Just want to let you guys know that you are in our prayers and pleading with the Great Healer for her speedy recovery. May we continue to be drawn to the overflowing favor of God-His Grace as we continue to rely on His will for us.

Pagaling ka Merlyn--maghihintay ang "bangka" sa atin sa July!

Kafred and Lou

Written Apr 21, 2012 12:13pm

Hi Ate Merlynne, happy anniversary to you and kuya. We look forward to see you soon as you recover. We are praying for you everyday knowing that the God of heaven and the Healer of all knows and loves you. Praying that His spirit will continue to guide you through and to give you strength and light in your way to healing. We love you and can't wait to see you. Kisses and hugs to you and the family.

Melanie Hayes

Written Apr 21, 2012 2:25pm

Get well soon Merlinda!
We are continually praying for your speedy recovery.
Dr. Pat and the boys, be strong, Merlinda will be well soon.

Sol Francisco

Written Apr 21, 2012 2:37pm

Get well soon! You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love phillip

phillip patacsil

Written Apr 21, 2012 3:05pm

My precious Merlinda, so very concerned about you and praying for your return to good health. We so appreciate Dr. Pat keeping us informed through this website. All during church I kept thinking of you and how beautifully you play the piano. You have added so much to our church and anxious for your speedy return to us.

Ola Joyce

Written Apr 21, 2012 3:20pm

Dear Tita Merlinda-We continue to pray for healing toward your journey to recovery. Keeping you, Dr. Pat, Vann, Merfil, and C.J. in our thoughts during this difficult time. I will miss chatting with you when I'm in Madison this week.

Love, hugs, and prayers.

Theresa Estrera

Written Apr 21, 2012 3:49pm

My thoughts are with you. I think of you and pray that God will lay his healing hand on you.

Julia Hermdon

Written Apr 21, 2012 3:52pm

Just wanted you to know, we serve a
Mighty God who plan is already lay out in his glory. My mother and I will continue in prayer for the family. Thanks you both for caring for mother in her time of need. May the holy spirit comfort the family in these times .

Gary Middleton

Written Apr 21, 2012 5:25pm

Merlynne, I have been praying earnestly for you daily since last Friday. God knows the best and will never leave you. Get better soon so we can have a joyous reunion. Also, I'm hoping to see you some at Loma Linda medical campus for the 2012 school year.

Ellie

Eleanor Stephens

Written Apr 21, 2012 5:26pm

Mama and I are praying for your speedy recovery. God is good and He is with you through and through.

Leila Harris

Written Apr 21, 2012 6:49pm

I am currently in the Philippines and read your recent hospitalization thru BBFAA. I will pray for your speedy and complete recovery. will see you in Tallahassee when I get back.

God bless!

Lydia Domondon and family

Written Apr 21, 2012 7:00pm

Praying for your quick recovery! If there's anything I can do please let me know.

Hugs,

Maribel Ramos

Written Apr 21, 2012 8:24pm

My dearest Merlinda,

You are in our prayers,and am pleading for a miraculous healing.. and a speedy one. You are so loved and needed, especially by your family and church.

I will never forget your thoughtfulness and generosity, hospitality and caring spirit- inviting my son to your place to enjoy the company of your family when he was a student in Boca Raton. My older son, said he got to visit you too. Thank you, so much for the memories and your love..

You are such a gifted person- a hard worker and so full of life! You have blessed a lot of people.. May you be strong enough for your coming class cruise. Love you much.

Ate Cora
Cora Coo

Written Apr 21, 2012 8:25pm

Merle, you surprised me with your phone call 1-2 weeks ago and we had a long chat. You were planning for your summer vacation and at the same time, your 40th Wedding Anniversary. With that said, you need to get better and recover soon! May God Bless You, Pat, Merfil, CJ, Van, and all the health professionals that are involved in your care for a successful treatment and recovery.
With love & prayer,

Necy & Jack Cardenas and family

Written Apr 21, 2012 9:04pm

Praying for you.

Wynnie Jaurigue

Written Apr 21, 2012 9:27pm

We are praying for your quick recovery and praying that we will see you up and about soon. You are loved by all! I pray for God's miracle to come to your life just like she did to our Charlene.
Pat, keep up your courage and your faith in God. He will carry you through these very trying time in your life. Take care

Praying for your family,
Rhubeeh and Israel Rada

Written Apr 21, 2012 9:29pm

You are in our thoughts and prayers. We are all rooting for you to get better soon.

Milagros Pescador

Written Apr 22, 2012 12:30am

Wishing you speedy recovery- you have to fight and be strong.
The Hansen family

aurora hansen

Written Apr 22, 2012 5:24am

Hi Merlynne,

I was so saddened with the news shared by Nenette regarding your health condition. I have been praying for you since then and I know that God in His mercy will help you pull through this. God is our Greatest Physician and He will heal you completely. Magpagaling ka at magpalakas as you have to be ready for our class reunion cruise this July. Hindi makakaalis ang barko kung wala kayo ni Pat! And our classmates are counting on you kasi ikaw ang taga bigay ng buhay sa mga get-together natin. And, you still have another appointment with the PI group next year at AUP. We are excited to meet you and Pat!

Pat, take care too. Thank you for taking good care of Merlynne. You and the boys are in my prayers too.

much love,

Elsie dela Cruz

Written Apr 22, 2012 9:18am

Wishing Merlinda a speedy recovery and may God put her under HIS care as well as the family.

lorna roman

Written Apr 22, 2012 10:14am

It's a good morning Merlynne and it'll be a much better morning when you come back and restart posting your FB updates:) Prayers for your continued and successful recovery are being offered from far and near. I pray that the good Lord finds that you still have great things to do, in the context of making a difference in other peoples' lives, in his Name. I remember in HS, you always wanted to ace our tests, and with God's will and help, you will Ace this too. May Jesus' love, grace and strength continue to sustain You, Pat and your children.

Manny Layson

Written Apr 22, 2012 11:19am

Hi Merlinda,
I miss you so much, I pray that you get better, better sooner and start with your rehab so you can join us in July, our cruise won't be the same without you, I can not imagine how it will be without you. You are the one who inspire me to join and was able to convince to join. Please please get better. Take care and my prayers are with you and your family.

concepcion alcala

Sunday, April 22, 11:54am:

Morning, Merlynne! Em and I are on the phone talking about the good times we've all shared. We're laughing and crying at the same time. We miss you so much!!!! Hurry back....

Nenette Rugless

Written Apr 22, 2012 12:07pm

As Nette and I speak, Puede ba get up and we have so many things to do and talk about. We are all waiting for you. We love you so very much.

I can't wait for to hear you laugh again at 2 AM your time. So many jokes for me to tell you, love you girlfriend.

Emi lyn

Written Apr 22, 2012 1:22pm

Hi Merlynne and Pat, Vann, Merfil and CJ,
I first heard the shocking news from Cresing and Fely Ann. The news made me sad and cry. Merlynne, you are a person full of life, love and hope.I know you will get out of this crises. I Remember, in 3rd year high school, you and Merlita were staying with my family at the Laysons, you were full of energy and always looking at the positive side. These traits of yours will help you go through this experience.God will help you to heal your body and spirit.
You are all in my prayers.I thank God for giving you a wonderful, caring family which will help you with your recovery.
God bless you all. Remember,, Merlynne you are a MIRACLE in action.
Love from,
Myje and family

Myje Barizo-Dona

Written Apr 22, 2012 1:56pm

Dear Merlinda,

I'm sorry to hear about your condition now, but I praise the Lord that I can pray for you! I wish I can visit you and personally touch you to let you know that I care.

I know that God is watching over you and I pray that you will feel His touch and His Presence. Get well soon!

Love,

Ate Meds (Ma'am Reyes)
Meds Reyes Ver Steeg

Written Apr 22, 2012 5:16pm

Dear Merlinda,

Shirley and I were indeed distressed to hear of your health situation and we have put you in our daily prayers for your speedy recovery. You and your family are very precious to us. We have together made many wonderful musical memories. No one has played the piano for me with such passion and enthusiasm. We join all the many others who love you and pray that you will be fully restored to your family and your music ministry. Dr. Pat and boys, keep looking up!

Love,

Norm and Shirley Wilson

Written Apr 22, 2012 7:14pm

Hi, guys. I fondly recall how excited Merlinda was when planning their 25th wedding Anniversary months in advance. She will now have a recovey goal 35th Anniversary trip to focus on.

The three of us are praying for the Lord to be Merlinda's doctor and for the Lord to be her nurse. And are S-O thankful that it was possible to perform the angioplasty as we continue too pray she will progress well.

Come quickly, Lord Jesus!

Tony, Charlene & Katie

Charlene Krivoshein

Written Apr 22, 2012 8:05pm

Hey Merlyn...wake up now!

I know that the woods are lovely, dark and deep
but we all know...you have promises to keep
and miles and years before you go to sleep...

Talk to you later.
Etoy Bautista

Written Apr 22, 2012 8:45pm

Happy Anniversary, Pat & Merl. Your celebration is just a little bit delayed.

lors pimentel spicher

Written Apr 22, 2012 10:17pm

Dear Merlinda,

May God Bless you on your recovery, our prayers and thoughts are with you always.

Phil & Crispina Shoemaker

Written Apr 22, 2012 10:38pm

Merlinda,

May God keep you and your family in His loving care.

Josephine Kershaw and family

Written Apr 23, 2012 2:27am

Hi Merlinda!

Good morning and warm greetings from Nairobi, Kenya!

Just would like you to know that we lifted you up in prayer during our staff worship this morning. May God grant you speedy and full recovery for His glory!

Meds Reyes Ver Steeg

Written Apr 23, 2012 2:31am

Hi, guys!

Looks like the most awesome Christian Wife and Mom - ever - is right on target for a much anticipated wake up call.

We three Noles don't want to come over there and find you guys wearing - Gator colors! LOL

Neat picture of your loving family on the website. You are an inspiration in how you are supporting one another and keeping up with your work and studies.

He who has promised, "I will not leave you, I will come to you," will continue to care for Merlinda and each one of you.

Charlene Krivoshein

Written Apr 23, 2012 6:54am

Awesome to read how God is answering prayer!

Ruth Swan

Written Apr 23, 2012 8:54am

Morning, Merlynne! This is one of my duties now in the morning when I turn on the computer. I come to CaringBridge to check the latest and greatest! Naku, eh malapit ka na sigurong gumising. Exciting! Pero take your time. We want you to be well rested and almost yourself pag gising mo.

Salamat kay Pat and Vann for posting on Caring Bridge. Since we cannot be right by your side (kasi masyado kang na-eexcited) we feel we're definitely connected.

Pag malapit ng mag cruise, punta kayo dito at mag shopping tayo ng mga dadalhin natin from the Outlets here in Orlando, ha?

Praying each moment that I can. We love you!!!!

Nenette Rugless

Written Apr 23, 2012 8:55am

Please extend our sincerest and empathizing support to Pat and Merlynne and to the rest of her family. We will include them, especially Merlynne, in our coming midweek prayer meeting and this coming Sabbath in church. We pray for her continued recovery without any complication and we will see each other in the cruise, God-willing.

Regards to everyone.

Pearl and Gerry Bandola

Written Apr 23, 2012 8:57am

Merlynne,

I am not kin on what the surgery was all about but I thank God that it's over and you're doing well. Nothing surprises us anymore for this body is mortal and corrupt. It's so comforting to know that when we get home God will change everything. Imagine a perfect me without scoliosis and ostopenia.

Alleluia! God is really good. I'm praying for her and her family. She's really blessed with a loving husband and good children.

Vicky Paragas

Written Apr 23, 2012 8:58am

Sorry to hear of this news! We will include her in our prayers! May the good LORD touch her and heal her completely! <3

Nenette & Jack Moreno

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:00am

Dear Friends

Prayers ascended to heaven from our home for Merlynne and her family. Be brave, Sir Pat, she is in God's hands, the Great Physician.
Jo and family Belonio

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:01am

Hi Merlynne,

Just wanted to let you know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Love,

Ones and Kimi Malit

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:07am

God is truly a loving God. He answered our prayers and worked a miracle for Merlynne. Wishing you well and continue to get better. Take care and regards.

Beth Gamboa Yalung

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:07am

Praise the Lord! Thank you for the update and for sharing the good news. Will keep them in my prayers. I pray for Merlinda's speedy recovery and for the Holy Spirit continuing abiding in their lives.

God bless,

Sim Pamintuan Adajar

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:07am

Merle, you are a fighter and I know you will be out of that bed in a couple of days. And with enough rest, you will be ready for the reunion cruise in July. I love you and I am praying for your speedy recovery.

Thanks a lot for the updates. I appreciate them

Love you much and I look forward to seeing you and our other classmates next year here in Pinas.

Elsie Sulapas

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:09am

Merlynne,

I know you're going to make it! German and I had been praying for you every night in our worship. You know when Ellie called me last Friday bigla syang nakapag tagalog ng dire-direcho sa kanerbiosan. Wala na kaming masabi pareho kundi "ano ba ya?"...."ano ba yan?" "Oh God please save her". Imagine magkausap lang tayo mga two weeks ago when you asked me Emy's seat no. Anyway, please take care and fight it like Pacquiao, ok??

Love you,

Myrna Magnaye Calderon

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:10am

To Merlynne,

I’m just one of the many that are praying for you. God is good and merciful and He knows what’s best. Imagine if this happened during your anniversary trip to Costa Rica.

I’m wishing for your quick recovery because I know that there are things ahead that you’re looking forward to. But once you have recovered, please take things a little bit slower and enjoy the time that God has given.

In this crazy world that we live in, somehow it seems that the earth’s rotation has gone a little faster or maybe we just got older. I’m also praying for Pat and your children because I know what they’re going through because I’ve been there. God listens to one earnest prayer but when there’s a multitude of earnest prayers, He notices how important the person is that’s being prayed for. You are a very important person that’s why we are all praying for you.

One of your favorite classmates,
Bernie Ileto

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:11am

So sad and shocked to hear about Merlynne's condition..I am fervently praying for her and I'm asking our Church Pastor and members to include her in their Prayers.."Merlynne, be STRONG" GOD BLESS YOU AND HEAL YOU. HAVE FAITH...

Shirley Cautivar Ramel

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:12am

To Merlyne, Pat and family:

With God as our Great Physician, our Lord, our King, and our gracious Heavenly Father, every day is a day to hope for the very best. His everlasting arms are beneath you. He who gives strength for today will give strength for tomorrow, and He has promised to bear our heavy burdens, and answer our prayers. His healing power is already at work in you, and may you "Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for Him." You'll continue to be in our hearts, thoughts, and prayers.

Take care and God's blessings be upon you and all our friends and their families.

With love and prayers,

Julie Chiaratanasen Ng

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:14am

Please forward my best wishes and prayers to Merlynne and Pat.

Billy Salvador

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:14am

Hello Merlinda,

Here's to my former study partner years and years ago. Just like the challenges you always overcame, like the high school tests you always aced just because you wanted to - this challenge too, you will overcome and you'll come out better and stronger. Your former classmates, your friends, your family are all praying and pulling for you. Stay strong, stay resilient and think GOD and then, think MED! Lol... Get well quick and don't stay in that hospital one day more than necessary...Facebook's missing you and's been asking about you :). Cheers!

All the Best,

Manny Layson

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:16am

Please send our "get well wishes" to Merlynne and Pat.

Thanks,

Jaime and Gigs Jimenez

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:17am

Dear Classmates,

This is another challenge as we fervently pray and ask God for healing and prayers of hope and success to be answered... A reminder or popularly-termed “wake up call” for each one of us!

Thank God for every minute of blessings and being by our side as we lift up our beloved sister Merlynne and her family, for mercy, and that our wishes be fulfilled.
Lhitz Banaag Alimurong

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:18am

It is so devastating to know of Merlynne's condition. I feel for Pat and the boys. They are all in my prayers. I just wish Jesus would come now so all our heart aches, pain and suffering will be over. We will have a grand reunion in heaven. But for now, we leave it all to God. He knows what is best for us. We cannot understand why this has to happen but I know He will make it clear to us one day soon.

I hope and pray for a MIRACLE to happen. My love goes to Merlynne, Pat, and family. Best regards to the family. Take care.

Myje Barizo Dona

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:20am

It sounds hopeful that Merlynne is recovering well. I will pray for her continuous recovery without complications. Hope we can cross paths one of these days!

Take care,

Eva Fauni Gluck

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:21am

Our thoughts and earnest prayers are with Merlynne and Pat, and the family.
Jape and RJ Diaz

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:22am

I have been keeping myself posted on the development of Merlinda while I
still have the Internet access where I am now. The internet access
here is very scarce and erractic at the same time. Anyway, I do feel
what Mr. Patacsil and his children are going through. I trust the
Lord-that He will be with them as they face this crisis in their lives.
I believe God is in control and will always do the best for the
children He loves very much. I hope the Patacsils will always hang-on
to His promises whatever happens. We are all hoping and praying for Merlynne's recovery, and let's hang on to that. I am assured that God
is in control over this matter and He will show us things that will make
our faith in Him even stronger. Let us praise Him! His healing is on
the way!

Ishmael Siapco

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:27am

Mahal kong merlynne,
Masyado akong nalungkot ng mabalitaan ko ang nangyari sa iyo pero patuloy ang akong dumadalangin sa ating mahal na Panginoon malagpasan mo lahat ang mga pagsubok sa iyong buhay. Laban at huwag kang mawawalan ng pagasa, Tandaan mo pupunta pa tayo sa 40th reunion natin sa Barcelona. Mahal ka naming lahat na iyong mga kaklase at patuloy ka naming idadalangin sa maaga mong paggaling. Pagpalain ka ng Panginoon pati na ang iyong buong pamilya.
Yeng Ignacio Espineli

Written Apr 23, 2012 10:19am

You are in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.

Lynn Frias-Hild

Lynn Hild

Written Apr 23, 2012 10:45am

only God knows what is ahead of us,all what we know is that He is good all the time and knows what is best for us. our family is praying that Gods healing hands touch you and speed your recovery. i love you my friend,my confidant and my little sister.to Pat and the boys,keep strong and keep the faiths in your hearts. we care for you.

jessie david

Written Apr 23, 2012 11:43am

Thoughts and prayers are with all the Patacxil family.much love Tena

Tena Stallings

Written Apr 23, 2012 12:57pm

To our dearest Merlynn,
We are praying for your soon recovery, LOVE and PRAYERS for Pat, Vann and Wyzyx, May God continue to comfort us.
Love,
Mommy Zeny, Myrtle, and Hazelmae Portugal-Lucrida

Written Apr 23, 2012 1:19pm

Good morning girlfriend!

Today is a special day for me it reminds me of so many beautiful things and I want to remember this with you, on your way to recovery.

All my funny stories are piling up for you. Pero paggaling ka muna bago tayo magtawanan ulit. Nette is right we are still hoping and praying na makasama ka alam ko na super excited ka sa trip na ito.

This coming weekend most of our california classmates will come here to Vegas and Join hands to pray for you. Of course kakain kami ng Turon para sa iyo. Pag galing mo kahit ilang dozens dadalan ka namin. Love you Merlynne!

God Bless Pat, Vann, Merfil and CJ

Emi Lyn

Written Apr 23, 2012 1:45pm

DEAR CLASSMATES!

TODAY MARKS THE CLASS '72 4OTH ANNIVERSARY.

HAPPY GRADUATION DAY TO ALL!!!

WAKE UP MERLYNNE IT'S TIME TO CELEBRATE

(HEP HEP OUR CLASS VALEDICTORIAN)

Emi Lyn

Written Apr 23, 2012 1:47pm

Happy Graduation Day! Happiness and Energy!!!! Hurray for PUC Academy Class of '72.

Ay, 40 years ago pala yon! Pero para tayong nasa high school pa rin.

Gising na, Merlynne. May manggang hilaw kami.

Love you lots!!!!

Nenette Rugless

Written Apr 23, 2012 2:50pm

My Mom, Amparo Galang was Merlyn's first grade teacher at Sampaloc SDA Church Elementary School.I was then a first grader too at PUC Elem school. Many nights at the dinner table Mom would talk bout this very "bright" student that she has. She described her as very cute, the littlest girl in a small class.She said that she almost didn't have to teach her anything new as she knew everything that even a 3rd grader needed to know.When Mom was teaching other students their ABC's and 123's she was already reading the Reader's Digest and doing multiplications.I met Merlyn early on in one of their several school programs. Mom assigned her to memorize a loooong poem , "Between 2 Angels" and she memorized it to her the very the next day, then delivered it with actions and heart rending emotions in one of those school events.

Sampaloc SDA School had a very good Rondalla Group headed by Mr Ricafrente.She was the youngest member of the group.In one of their performances in one political rally, Merlyn sat at the very front looking only at the conductor as her nimble little fingers of her left hand flew across the frets of her banduria, a 14 stringed instrument. A revered political figure was in the audience, the Vice President of the Philippines, Vice President Pelaez who was only looking at the tiny girl in the very front. "Surely", he thought, "she is just pretending to play music, this piece is too fast for her to hit the notes right." So, he got up from his chair, approached the group playing and put his ears right next to Merlyns instument and discovered with delight that she was playing the lead and didn't stop until the rendition was over. What followed next was a thunderous applause and a photo op with the Vice President.Oh I would love to see that picture again. She knew how to play all the instuments in the rondalla. You name it, she knows how to play it, banduria,octavina,guitar, piccolo, even that gigantic base. But no, the Prof would not let her do it because she had to stand on a chair to play it. She later played the accordion at school events and camping trips. She would sit at the edge of the chair and sway her body to maneuver the heavy instument. She used exotic chords and she played in triads and octaves making the instrument sound like a symphony. She has perfect pitch, and truly a gifted gift from God.

Merlyn: always excelled in MUSIC, loved MEDICINE, and the greatest MOTHER to 3 lovely sons.

We love you dearly. God Bless you and all your loved ones.

your classmate and friend,

Jo Galang Belonio
Jocelyn Galang Belonio

Written Apr 23, 2012 3:11pm

Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

All we have at times like these are the love of our family and friends and our memories. Having Pat and your boys by your side is a blessing in keeping the strength of your faith and their love to get you through this difficult time. We are looking forward to the news that you will be feeling better soon!!

Lally and Bob Govans

Written Apr 23, 2012 3:46pm

miswa... 2-1/2 months nalang ang cruise natin... gagawa ka pa ng beef jerky, di ba? so speed up the healing process... marami pa tayo plano... :)
wuv yah...

joi cow1

Written Apr 23, 2012 4:28pm

Still hoping when the news for the day will be without buts and mights ... All we are waiting for is your sweet laughters to be heard again by us and your loving family ...lhitz banaag alimurung and family...

Lolita Banaag Alimurung

Written Apr 23, 2012 4:33pm

We are hoping for the "news of the day " will be everything went fine!

Lolita Banaag Alimurung

Written Apr 23, 2012 4:57pm

My prayers continue as do my hopes for a strong recovery. Merlynne always make me smile and her sense of humor is the best. She has always made me feel better when I am missing my own famiy.

Connie Walker

Written Apr 23, 2012 5:47pm

Praying for your speedy recovery. The good lord watching u always and ur family...keep on your fighting spirit.

ynah viajar

Written Apr 23, 2012 5:56pm

Alex and I have been praying for all of you especially for Merlinda's early and full recovery. God's loving care will see you through.

Amy Cardona

Written Apr 23, 2012 6:20pm

Merlinda, you are in our constant prayers. Sending much love and prayers your way!

Stacey and Brett Frakes (and girls)

Written Apr 23, 2012 6:36pm

Hoping Wednesday more answered prayers come your way! I know it must be difficult to wait and watch. Just know that many are praying for Merlina to recovery in God's time.

Tammy Stevens

Written Apr 23, 2012 6:44pm

My heart and prayers go out to you and your family Merlinda as you go through this difficult time.

Meredith Antushevich

Written Apr 23, 2012 7:39pm

I am so glad to read of todays progress. My continued thoughts and prayers are with you, Dr. Pat, Vann, Merfil, and CJ.

Donna Sullivan-Hill

Written Apr 23, 2012 7:48pm

Tony and I just read the latest posting with anxious anticipation.

Encouraging report! It has been what we neuro ICU nurses term a roller coaster ride but Merlinda is staying - right on target - for that much anticipated wake up call.

Please be sure you guys eat and get a bit of exercise in the cool fresh air, to keep your strength up and help with stress tolerance.

We continue to pray for Merlinda and each one of you.

Know Merlinda likes scarves so I am knitting her a really pretty one. What we knitters term a prayer scarf where the knitter prays for the recipient while knitting. Read between the lines - burning the midnight oil on this project.

Hugs!

Tony & Charlene Krivoshein
John 14

Written Apr 23, 2012 8:48pm

Merlynne,

What an encouraging news today. Slow but surely is the name of the game. God is leading so far, I'm sure about that. Rest all you want Merlynne but give us some progress each day. We love you gf.

Eleanor Stephens

Written Apr 23, 2012 9:57pm

Merlinda,

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Connie & TC Small

Written Apr 23, 2012 10:15pm

Hi Merlinda,
Here I am again still anxiously waiting for the big news that you are extubated and talking, but it's ok to sleep a little longer so you heal better. Rest coz when you make up you have a lot of catching up to do, just to read all these e-mails will take you days to read them. It becomes my daily ritual to read for updates of your condition. God bless you and your family, you are always in mind and prayers.

concepcion alcala

Written Apr 23, 2012 10:46pm

Just learned of your condition today and was saddened by the news.

I got to read your daily condition updates and will continue to pray for your recovery. God is bigger than any of our circumstances and let's allow Him to be in control. Our love to you and your family.
From us here in Las Vegas, Mel, James and Michael Koch
Mel Koch

Written Jun 25, 2012 from CaringBridge.org

Today marks Merlyn's birthday, born 57 years ago to the day. She should still be editing and posting pictures up on facebook of her smiling with dad, enjoying warm beaches and cool volcanic mountains of Costa Rica. She was so excited planning her wedding anniversary get away only two months ago, but sadly, it's not to be.

She should be celebrating with us, probably at The Olive Garden, kicking back and sipping on a glass of sweet Roscato, her one and only favorite red wine. Or she could have scheduled a long date, for just the her and dad, taking today off work so they could go out of town, perhaps a quiet weekend in the beautiful and fascinating mountains of Tennessee. It could have been another marker of their blissful 35 years of life together, a retreat away from this troubled world. Unfortunately, it can't and would not happen, ever again.

And after this week, I could imagine she would be so busy preparing for the Mediterranean cruise, making sure to bring all the "just in case" items. She had bought dad and herself a new camera. It would always be strapped around her neck anticipating any moment worth capturing. Travel guide books to Barcelona, Paris and Rome she had previously ordered are now arriving, even basic French and German tapes for dad! She was expecting him to learn and "minimize" miscommunication problems that might occur in places we would be visiting. Spanish and Italian are similar so she was confident that as long as dad was with her, it should not be a problem.

As dad said,"her memories continue to grip my soul with mixed joy and sorrow. Yes, we had a lot of spats, but each time the storm was over, our propinquity was even sweeter and closer as the years went by. Her music will always be a rhythm that vibrates within me, for she taught me to appreciate and learn more than what music I already had."......Reminiscing her short life full of music and laughter is a soothing balm for a grieving soul like mine."

Her memories will remain with us. God granted us almost 57 years of her life to be a blessing to those she had lived and associated with, and 35 years of which, she dedicated herself to be the best wife and a mother to three boys and sister of two siblings. And together she had carefully interwoven music with love in our whole being, of which we will cherish the rest of our lives

Written Jun 9, 2012 from CaringBridge.org

As I stepped out of the car, I'm greeted by beams of sunlight gently piercing through clouds as each ray brilliantly shimmers off the summer moisture in the air. Meanwhile, a somewhat tropical breeze smoothly caresses the trees next to the lofty church.  Today is the day. Today is HER day.  

We were at Tallahassee First SDA, the home church where Merlinda  was a pianist for over 20 years. The redbrick structure was adorned with luxuriant plants and beautifully arranged flowers. As the guests entered the lobby, they were welcomed by two cheerful ladies handing out the program for today's musical tribute.  Behind them were five enlarged pictures of Merlinda on which everyone (even guests from as far as Oregon, California, Nevada, and Virgina) autographed with endearing messages.  Next to them was a small display reverently showcasing Merlinda's mandolin, clarinet, and accordion of over 40 years. 

The beautiful and elegant urn rested on a table just below the stage.  To the left was an 18x24 picture of Merlyn smiling at the base of a beautiful Alaskan mountain range. Next to it, a delicately arranged vase of flowers.

At 3:15 p.m., the program started with a prayer, and proceeded with clips from the family video collection with musical renditions by Merlinda projected on the big screen.  Further tributes featured piano solos, a trumpet solo, and the Angklung choir by the Bamboo Chimes of Tallahassee. The eulogy and memoirs were eloquently and adoringly delivered to the audience's intense attention and delight. There were also slides showing Merlinda's photos with family and friends through the years. With beautiful mixtures of tears, joy, grief, sorrow, awe, and many laughs, the program had just about every dynamic of human emotion present.  

As one visitor commented, the day " was a touching, poignant family moment, not only for the immediate family, but for the extended family and friends.  If Merlyn could only hear and see, she would have been popping her buttons.  She would have been so proud at how her boys have turned out to be talented, smart, young men.  Pat, you are fortunate to have such help as you go into the later years of your life". (FAR)

Following the program, outside the church was the butterfly release...sponsored by Phillippine Union College Academy class of 1972, in which Merlyn was a member. Then a small reception was held at the Church Hall in which Filipino-American dishes were served and within the crowds further pleasantries were exchanged regarding Merlinda's life, as well as new acquaintances and friendship formed.

As the crowd started dispersing a few more friends and visitors hang around the church yard and continued to talk about the service and snapshots of old and new friends were taken: A few of them commented "It was the most beautiful and memorable memorial service we've ever attended!"

We'll never forget that day... April 27, It has been a month since mom's ascent. Now, the 27th of May, Memorial Day weekend, It was both somber and joyous, full of tears and laughter.  The last shimmering beams of sunlight slowly cascade down the distant horizon. We can all take a little breather now, but the hardest part, I'm afraid is still yet to come.  It's ok though, mom's urn is buckled into the seat, and the family's at the house. "Let's go back home mom, they're waiting on us :)"

Thank you again Fely Ann for creating a beautiful Smilebox slideshow.  You can click the following link to see it.
http://secure.smilebox.com/ecom/openTheBox?sendevent=4d7a45334f4463314d6a46384d7a4d324e4463774e7a593d0d0a&sb=1

For those who were unable to see the program due to some technical difficulties from the first broadcast, the new enhanced sound, corrected video, and extras can now be seen on www.ustream.tv/channel/patacxil  

We would like to extend our gratitude to all of you, our family, and our friends.  The burden of losing our beloved Merlinda is a very difficult weight to carry.  For the many shoulders we've cried on, the letters of sympathy, and for the thousands of ways you've shown us how much you cared, thank you.  

Written May 21, 2012 from CaringBridge.org by Filemon Patacxil

It's been three weeks since my beloved Merlyn is gone. I've been silent as she is.

My son Vann (Philemon) who has been the main writer and editor of the CaringBridge diary urged me to come out of my shell. In reality, I've not been in hiding because I found that in solitude there is not only peace but solace as well. I've been mulling over and looking for reason for my existence without my partner.

Adam was sad when he was alone in the garden of Eden. But God saw his sadness, and He gave him Eve to live with him for a long time. The difference is, He gave me Merlyn for a short time. Why?

But thanks, to Him, he has given me three musical boys (like their mom) who are my comfort and fortress especially at this time in my life.They have even become closer to me. Our Tallahassee home thus far is still their home.

I realize He has blessed us also with friends who understand our family's loss. Flood of cards, phone calls, emails, text messages, personal visits, still continue to come in and this alleviate the grief that we suffer. We feel His omnipresence and I feel His spirit move in us trying to tell me something why this had to happen.

Adam was lonesome
And God gave him Eve..
He suddenly took my Merlyn,
Now I'm alone, I can't believe.

There has to be a reason
There has to be a rhyme,
I think I'll just write some verses,
I think He'll answer in due time..

Pat (Filemon)

Written May 14, 2012 from CaringBridge.org

Like Merlinda, some of us grew up in a small community. If you're one of them, well, then you'll know that when somebody is successful, we all take part, but you'd also know that in tragedy, we all pull closer together as a family...

This past Saturday, the Filipino-American Big Bend Association of Tallahassee, held a special mass at the Good Shepherd Catholic Church. Reverend Foley led the mass in ritualistic prayer in honor of her spirit transcending whilst offering words of comfort. Sitting at the the front pew was "Merlinda" accompanied by her family.

The gathering was overflowing with expressions of love, sympathy, and encouragment for one another. Everyone also had also the chance to touch Merlinda's urn.

Of course, no Filipino get-together is complete without food so the crowd went for a delicious brunch at the Village Inn. There the association reflected about Merlyn and her contribution to the Big Bend Asso. as an officer and musical exponent.

Afterwards, we took mom to Orlando for a mini-reunion with some of her high-school friends and classmates. Some even coming from as far away as California. Here, we come across another Filipino gathering, the host prepared, you'll never guess, a LOT of food aside from the several OTHER Filipino dishes brought in by the group, including some of Merlyn's favorites and it was delicious!

And as tradition goes, it was time for pictures! We had several poses with Merlyn, even one with a friend playing a grand piano with mom sitting on the bench next to her. As the sun set and the night deepened, the atmosphere turned nostalgic and lightened up as we watched some home videos.

It's been only two weeks since Merlyn departed from among us friends and loved ones. Though Mother's Day weekend began a bit somber, it was through fellowship and reverent prayer that helped lift some grief of loss, and it ended as another day to remember her and break bread together.

Written May 9, 2012 from CaringBridge.org

It's almost two weeks now since mom's departure, our family pet Morris the cat decided to join her today as well. At least she's got some fuzzy company for her spiritual journey into the cosmos.

Today, we were blessed with a token of her presence. CJ and I took a trip to Gainesville to pick up mom's urn and bring her back. We lovingly buckled the ornamental jar in the back seat for the ride... I guess like she did when we were kids. It took a while to get use to mom in her easily portable form, but we had a good two hour car ride to get reacquainted.

Dad greeted her with open arms as we welcomed her back into the home we all grew up in.

Written Apr 29, 2012 from CaringBridge.org

Merlinda's family would like to express their gratitude in the outpouring of support we've received since her hospitalization. We have been asked by many regarding services for Merlinda. Her wishes were to be cremated, so instead of a traditional funeral, we will be holding a service in celebration of her life. There are no specific details yet, but it will be held in the next 3-4 weeks in Tallahassee, Florida. Please check back on this website or on any of the Patacxil family member's facebook page for further details.

Once again, we graciously thank everyone for their generous support.

Written May 4, 2012 11:53pm by Wyzscx Patacxil

Hello everyone, we have scheduled a service to celebrate Merlinda's life, to be held on Sunday, May 27, tentatively at 3 PM, at the Tallahassee First SDA Church in Tallahassee, Florida. Please stay in touch for further details, and again we thank you for your continued support!

Written Apr 28, 2012 from CaringBridge.org

Throughout the evening while Merlyn continued further into her deep slumber, many candles burned, prayers never ceased, and emails incessantly arrived in hopes of some kind of miracle.

Her ICP (intracranial pressure) stayed over 100 (20 or less is considered normal), which is incompatible with life. After receiving another two units of packed red cells, her cheeks became rosier, and her lazy eyelids drooped even more beautifully. She has been a sleeping beauty for a couple of weeks since the beginning of her hospitalization.

She did not pass her neurological exam yesterday, and the final test today would either prove or disprove that result. The blink, corneal and caloric tests were negative. Both of her pupils were dilated and non-reactive. Finally, the apnea test was done. She registered a blood carbon dioxide level of over 70 (45 is considered normal). The doctor, who is the head of the Critical Care Team unit, had the difficult task of delivering the bad news. However, he instantly became our compassionate, consoler, adviser, and empathizer.

One of Merlyn's friends brought a pastor who talked about the mystery of life that we lose in this world, and the hope of redemption. After the short service, we gathered around Merlyn and at the request of her family, her life support was unplugged. Prayerfully, we sang Amazing Grace and witnessed as her mighty heartbeat began to slow down on the cardiac monitor. From then, every remaining beat echoed of her love as a wife, her devotion as a mother, and the music she carried in that heart that touched the lives of many in this world. At 6:26 pm. the last heart beat was seen, followed by a straight line. The sun was about to set and Merlyn has gone to rest.

Written Apr 26, 2012 from CaringBridge.org

Today, the world feels upside-down and the uneasy feeling of emptiness begins to set in; Knowing that Merlinda, devoted wife and mother of 3 boys, peacefully slumbers and may never wake up, at least in this lifetime. Her face reflects of a fruitful and content life with the spirit to take on challenges of the next greatest adventure.

The journey up to this point though was a tough and difficult one for everyone. But, if you know Merlynne, you’d know that she has a knack of making the difficult look easy, and the easy look beautiful; And that, she did, even though her ICP reached critical levels multiple times throughout the night. This afternoon, Merlynne was taken away to perform a cerebral blood flow study (an initial confirmatory test to determine the brain’s viability and the chances of a functional recovery). Final testing will follow when all trace of sedatives pass and all the electrolytes are in normal range so as to be sure the final results are conclusive without bias. Only a miracle can prove that human knowledge and technology can be wrong.

Despite the doctors bringing back the devastating results, the whole family showers her with nothing but love and adoration at her bedside. The I-pod plays a symphonic medley of her favorite music next to her ear as the caretaker removes her sedating medications one by one. She introduced all of her children to music by placing headphones on her belly before we were born in this world, it seems only fitting that we give her music as she quietly leaves and takes the cue for her curtain call.

Written Apr 25, 2012 from CaringBridge.org

This entry is by far one of the hardest ones to write. Medical science has only come so far. The doctors, working hard with their wisdom and diligence have reached the peak of medical and surgical intervention... After the craniectomy, she showed some signs of improvement. However, it was short lived. When the ICP started climbing, it somehow became intractable or resistant... even to maximum medication. Despairingly, her doctors gave us a very unsettling and grim prognosis, but we still cling to some hope like a miracle from above.

Written Apr 25, 2012 from CaringBridge.org

It's been over 12 hours since the decompressive craniectomy. Other than receiving 2 units of blood, most of the day has been rather quiet. She did have only a single bout with elevated ICP levels; a drastic improvement from the previous days. We hope she gets well rested this evening for tomorrow is another day. Hopefully then, enough of the sedatives will have passed through her system so we can work on her reflexes and sensitivities.

Written Apr 24, 2012 from CaringBridge.org

If it ever seems like you take a step forward and three back, last night would be the perfect example, and it was rough for Merlyn. She received more treatment than usual, because of elevating brain pressure (her ICP was more than twice the expected high normal). In comparing today’s CT scan from yesterdays, it has not very impressively gotten worse. She is obviously showing more adverse effects of her medications; Which could potentially create additional problems, including slowing down her natural healing process.  Once again, it was decided that surgical intervention was needed.   

A little before 9 am today, she was taken to the OR for an emergency decompressive craniectomy, (a neurosurgical procedure which a portion of the skull is removed to allow a swelling brain to expand without being squeezed). Its immediate advantages include: 1) quicker relief of intracranial pressure (ICP) without too much medications, hence fewer side effects 2) easier maintenance of normal ICP would enhance quicker brain healing from the strokes that she has had. This is a much simpler procedure than the previous one.  

Hopefully, if we don’t see any further complications, weaning her off some of the medications could start as early as tomorrow, as previously planned. Cases of strokes like Merlyn's show signs of improvement between 10-20 days. No one can predict so we watch over her continually day to day.   

We are fortunate that the trained Neuro-ICU nurses are very diligent and efficient in taking care of Merlyn and other seriously ill patients 24/7. They are very knowledgeable and able to answer most questions when the attending doctors are not readily available. 

Written Apr 23, 2012 from CaringBridge.org

It's been 11 days since Merlinda was admitted (10 days now since her surgery). Her neurosurgeon reviewed Friday's CT scan of the brain and her progress over the weekend. He said most of the brain swelling was around the initial site of stroke and appears to be dissipating slowly. The residual clots that were not accessible for removal during surgery contribute to the slow progress as well as causing the vasospasm/ constriction of the arteries (blood being an irritant when found outside the blood vessels). He ordered another scan today with contrast and another interventional angiography if needed. The result showed definite improvement so the angiography was NOT necessary. This is definitely a good progress AMEN to that!   He then recommended that she be continued with the sedatives and get checked again in two days.  Although there are long term adverse effects of these drugs (e.g.memory), discontinuing them prematurely would put her at risk for another potential stroke and greater brain damage.  We don't want either of them to happen but we need to do what is best in her interest. Natural healing is a indeed a slow process. She had quite a few bouts of elevated intracranial pressure  ( 5-8 times) daily for the past 4-5 days. She should maintain a normal intracranial pressure without bouncing up to where she could have another stroke. She gets treated by i.v. medication each time the brain pressure go up and she had been responding beautifully. It is expected that she will have less and less surge of intracranial pressure in the next few days.....perhaps Wednesday...we can't wait!  She still has some swelling on her right eye, and fluid retention on her 4 extremities which is expected due to her i.v. fluids and other medications.  We are hopeful, and glad to see progress towards her recovery.

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It has been relatively quiet for the past 24 hrs except for the few bumps. An increased intracranial pressure readily came down in minutes with medical intervention at bedside. A CT scan of the brain was stable with no further evidence of a new stroke or exacerbation of brain swelling. For this reason, no interventional radioangiography (IR) was planned for the day.

It was a relief to hear this kind of progress knowing how dangerous that procedure can be. She continues to be on the critical list for close watch. However, close monitoring came with a small price.  The amount of blood work required for her care has made her become quite pale and anemic. So she received two units of packed red cells and almost instantaneously, she turned pink.

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After her stabilization last night, Merlyn slept in the next 15 hrs occasionally awakened for neurological check.  However, around 3 am this morning, she became restless and coughed up her leaking endo-tracheal tube.  About 6 or 7 Intensive care unit personnel rushed in to attend to her. 

Since she was breathing on her own and maintaining other normal vital signs, she was left alone without replacing her ET tube, albeit, her oxygen was continued. At this point, her senses were returning, but still a bit confused. Though she did not know where she was, she knew who she was. 

By mid morning, her memory was steadily returning as recalled the date, and where she was, but was unsure how she got to Gainesville questioning how and why. She also remembered that she had a planned vacation to Costa Rica that following Tuesday for her wedding anniversary trip, and that she and her classmates will go for a reunion cruise in the Mediterranean in July.Anxiously, she also asked why she was going to have surgery and  repeatedly asked when it was going to be done so she could go home.

At noon, she was wheeled to the OR. Surgery started at around 1:15 PM, and after over 4 hours of nervous waiting, she was wheeled back to her room, intubated with a bandage around her head . She responded groggily to simple commands, moving her fingers and toes.   

Her bleeding aneurysm was located at the posterior inferior cerebellar artery on the right hemisphere of the brain. Her world renowned surgeon and his team of resident neurosurgeons clipped the artery to permanently stop the bleeding and prevent recurrence. Most of the clots were evacuated. However, they had warned of a potential complication, vasospasms, which could lead to (non-hemorrhagic) strokes.

Written Apr 13, 2012 from CaringBridge.org Friday started off less than normal as Merlynne, while still in bed, began her day noticing an unusual and progressive tingling on the right half of her face and body. Even at this state she asked 911 to be called, and was rushed to and received immediate medical attention at the Capital Regional Medical Center in Tallahassee. A CT scan of the brain, demonstrated a hemorrhagic stroke, and her ER doctor made an expeditious arrangement  for her immediate transfer to Shands Hospital in Gainesville.   At this point, she was in a comatose state and seriously needing intervention.  On arrival to William Shands hospital, after less than 50 minutes of flight, a shunt from the brain was immediately inserted to decompress intra-cranial pressure . The anticipated effect of the shunt placement would stabilize her in preparation for surgery the next day for brain aneurysm.  
On an neurological scale called a Glasgow, she scored a 3 (indicating deep unconsciousness). She was also intubated to assist in her brain oxygenation.  
Waiting for signs of improvement was agonizing for those who immediately came to see her at the NeuroIntensive Care Unit.