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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Michael Seeley, 67 years old, born on December 29, 1952, and passed away on October 12, 2020. We will remember him forever.
October 28, 2020
October 28, 2020
   Uncle Chuck once told us a story about Mike in Gym Class. They had been doing golfing, and were driving plastic golf balls into a net. Mike must have been cutting up with his friends, because the teacher says "OK, Seeley!" then walks over to the net. "If you think you're so good, if you hit my hand, I'll give you an "A" for this!" Mike teed up, swung, and whap! right into the teacher's hand....
October 23, 2020
October 23, 2020
Cousin Mike was one of those rare people who always left you in a better mood. At family gatherings, his wonderful sense of humor kept us in stitches. He really knew how to tell a story! 
The last time I saw him was in 2018. I had just returned to Michigan after over 45 years away. He told us a story about fishing and good times with friends. He clearly enjoyed the outdoors, friends, and sports.
I was hoping to have many years of good times together. It’s so sad he was taken so young.
October 23, 2020
October 23, 2020
My nephew Mike was so handsome and charming. You can't think
of Mike but appreciate his great sense of humor. He could be
thoughtful as well, as seen at his father's memorial service. His
comments displayed deep affection for Chuck and his whole family.
Mike brightened any gathering.

Elizabeth Seeley Robinson
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
It was an honor to know you. Thank You for everything that you have done for our community and your friendship.
You wil be missed.
Dan and Kathy Carter
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
I truly do not know what to say.

First I will say to Pat his sister, I am sorry for your loss, but I thank you for being able to share your family with the world. Your brother was among the greatest human beings I knew. There was never a day or night that if I needed him he wasn’t there. I mourn the loss of his friendship and his guidance. For over 20 years he was a friend and an family member.

Now to Mike.... I don’t even know what to say. You were a friend, a brother. You gave me the best advice and the worst advice. You were there through every up and down, you even saved me from a few.... You predicted every bad choice I was making, but only laughed when it came time to admit you were right. You were proud of me, but you made sure to know I was still an idiot for many of my choices. You taught me perceptive in the situations that life will bring us... Michael Seeley I will see again my friend.

You were always there.
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
Mike was a year ahead of me growing up in our East Lansing neighborhood on Linden St. We lived 1 house apart from each other from late elementary thru high school. We spent countless hours passing/kicking a football in the street & playing catch with a baseball or softball. We were also high school varsity teammates in football & baseball. Mike was a varsity punter, but really loved baseball & playing catch with his dad in their backyard. To say the least, Mike was a character & prankster & loved to make folks laugh. I have fond memories of Mike imitating famous singing croners of the day & horsing around in the neighborhood. We often shared Sunday evenings back & forth with each others family watching Ed Sullivan & other TV shows eating popcorn & chocolate fudge. What fun times we had, including his embarrassing attempts to hook me up with his older sister Pat, which drove both Pat & me crazy. Mike was a friend to my entire family & really hit it off with my dad who had a similar unique sense of humor. I can't imagine what our neighborhood would have been like without Mike's antics & friendship. May Mike RIP. 
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
David King, Michael Seeley, Daniel Cermak, Michael Prince, Michael McManus, Brenda Morrill, Jay Newcomb, F. Joseph Kelly, Michael Catalino and Paul Malewski. We were the original 10 ERPD officers.. We started on December 14th, 1981. We built the department inside of the Eaton Rapids Fire Department. We built counter tops, hung cupboards, assembled forms, cleaned gear and became a family. Nobody was an Eaton Rapids native. We had to learn the streets, the people and each other. Some were veterans, some were fresh faced rookies and some of us were in between. Michael was the glue. Always quick with his wit, a smile or some piece of obscure knowledge that I was always marveled with. Who knows" I will take 14th century French poets for $1,000.00 Alex." And he would get it right.

Through the years, officers would come and go but Mike was always the constant. Teaching, mentoring, cajoling or kicking a little "blue butt." We got the job done.

He served his community with honor, dignity and, above all, with friendship.
He will be missed by many and I'm sure I will hear the stories for years to come.

I am diminished with his passing,
Paul
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
I was with ERPD for about a year and a half before moving on to another agency and was one of the original ten officers. Mike was “Sarge” to us and He and I were both single and spent time hanging out after hours, grabbing dinner at Casa Novas, pranking the other officers and generally having a great time with the rest of the group. Mike was like a big brother to us younger guys who were trying to mature and find our way. We would have fun, argue, laugh, it was a great time and I will never forget those times and the fun we all had. RIP Sarge.
October 21, 2020
October 21, 2020
I worked with Mike for 6 years at ERPD as one of the original 10 officers. Mike was always fun to work with and even more
Fun to mess with. My house was considered the substation and everyone was always welcome to hang out and have a meal with us. Mike was a great friend and very generous when our youngest son had some serious medical issues. He was always accommodating with my work schedule when time off was needed for my son. It was obvious that Mike cared for everyone at ERPD and it was an honor to work with him. He will be missed. Sgt. Dan Cermak
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
I was the first “replacement “ after the departure of one of the original 10 officers.

Mike was a sergeant at the time and later became Chief before I left after 4 years of service.

We had a very close knit group of officers, often getting together for card parties, or going out to movies, bowling, etc. It was a fun hard working group of people who truly cared about each other. 

We all loved to prank each other and Mike was no exception. Being young and single I was cautioned by Mike to be careful about dating local girls being such a small town to avoid controversy. 

He warned me not to date a certain young lady whose family were long-time business owners. I went out with her once and Mike found out. He called me at home and gave me heck, reminding me of his prior warning. He then told me I was fired and hung up the phone on me. I was so shocked by the call that I immediately drove to his apartment to talk with him. After carrying on and yelling at me for several minutes he started laughing at me for taking the bait. Boy was I relieved!

I got even with him more than once though.

Mike was deathly afraid of snakes. It did not matter how big or small. I remember putting a rubber snake outside his front door and ringing the doorbell and watching him come out.  It scared him so bad he almost soiled himself.

There are many many more stories and great memories that I will always cherish.

Great bunch of professionals that I worked with.

Rest in peace my friend.

Tim Gill
Badge #8
Nov 1982 - Jan 1986
October 20, 2020
October 20, 2020
Mike was like family to us. Especially to my son Erik whom Mike was like a mentor and older brother. I miss the many times Mike and I sat and had "worldly discussions" over breakfast together at Darb's. We did not just lose a good friend, we lost a family member. Rest in peace Mike, God bless.
October 19, 2020
October 19, 2020
Eaton Rapids was my second Police job. It’s funny that my first job was in Yale, a neighbor of Capac, where Mike grew up.
I worked in ER the very first year it was formed. I was only there for 12 months yet I still relish the memories we all created together. It’s 38 years ago now but I still have a very vivid snapshot of everyone before I left for a 25 years stint in Garden City, Mi.
God bless you Mike.
Sincerely, Jay.
October 18, 2020
October 18, 2020
Obituary

Michael C. Seeley, 67, passed away Monday, October 12th at home in Eaton Rapids, MI. Born to Edna and Charles F. Seeley, Jr. on December 29, 1952, Mike spent all but his early childhood years in the Lansing area. After graduating from East Lansing High School and earning a degree from Alma College he began work with the City of East Lansing, eventually becoming a dispatcher for the Police Department, which led him to the Mid-Michigan Police Academy where he completed his training in November, 1980.

Mike’s career in Law Enforcement spanned thirty-some years spent almost entirely with the Eaton Rapids Police Department of which he was a founding member. In addition to his tenure as Chief (1984-1996) he also served variously as a School Resource Officer, Acting Chief, and Patrol Officer before retiring from the force in the community he loved (2013).

In retirement Mike kept abreast of current events and sports, certainly enjoying the latter more than the former. Through the years his great love of the outdoors was spent with friends hunting, camping, and skiing and more recently, attempting to conquer most, if not all area golf courses with his golfing buddies. Renowned for an acerbic wit, his consuming interest in American history served him well during weekly Trivia challenges with teams in both Eaton Rapids and Holt.

A “friend to all” and bachelor throughout, Mike is survived by his sister Patricia (Richard) Aslin, nephews Chris (Rachel Goldwasser) and Tim Aslin; grandniece and nephew Chana and Henry Goldwasser; Aunt Elizabeth Robinson; and numerous cousins. The family will most certainly miss his remarkable sense of humor and running commentary on the politics of the day. 

Due to COVID-19 there will be no traditional memorial service. Given his druthers, Mike would no doubt prefer that friends and colleagues gather at their usual haunts to regale each other with tales of days past. Family, friends, and colleagues are also invited to share memorable moments spent with Mike at https://www.forevermissed.com/michael-c-seeley/.

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October 28, 2020
October 28, 2020
   Uncle Chuck once told us a story about Mike in Gym Class. They had been doing golfing, and were driving plastic golf balls into a net. Mike must have been cutting up with his friends, because the teacher says "OK, Seeley!" then walks over to the net. "If you think you're so good, if you hit my hand, I'll give you an "A" for this!" Mike teed up, swung, and whap! right into the teacher's hand....
October 23, 2020
October 23, 2020
Cousin Mike was one of those rare people who always left you in a better mood. At family gatherings, his wonderful sense of humor kept us in stitches. He really knew how to tell a story! 
The last time I saw him was in 2018. I had just returned to Michigan after over 45 years away. He told us a story about fishing and good times with friends. He clearly enjoyed the outdoors, friends, and sports.
I was hoping to have many years of good times together. It’s so sad he was taken so young.
October 23, 2020
October 23, 2020
My nephew Mike was so handsome and charming. You can't think
of Mike but appreciate his great sense of humor. He could be
thoughtful as well, as seen at his father's memorial service. His
comments displayed deep affection for Chuck and his whole family.
Mike brightened any gathering.

Elizabeth Seeley Robinson
His Life

A Sister's Perspective

October 18, 2020
Mike led a very full life committed to his community and his career in law enforcement, both of which mattered deeply to him.  It is quite the shock that we and those he cared for will not enjoy his company again.  

Mike and I were close during our early years in Capac, MI, spending most of our days outdoors playing with neighborhood children who invariably congregated in our yard.  We lived on the edge of the small farming community in a time when televisions were few and far between and kids had to devise their own games and activities; an era of ample opportunity to explore surrounding fields and the small woods nearby. I'm certain that is why he cherished the outdoors as an adult and shared that love with others.  

Those who knew him will not be surprised to learn he was the comic relief at home and at school as well as on any athletic field Mike ever frequented.  In grade school he was once sent to stand in the hall for having distracted classmates from the lesson to hand.  Our dad was Superintendent at the time and his Secretary happened to pass by, spotting the culprit and, unfortunately, reporting so back to dad.  That did not have a happy outcome but rest assured, it never happened again!

Because we were three years apart in school I was not around to personally enjoy Mike's prowess as a high school athlete, which he most certainly enjoyed far more than classwork.  He kicked and/or punted on the football team but his true joy was baseball/softball and he was a darn good player then as well as in later years when he also coached a kids' team.   Golf was always a passion, from the early days with our parents to the days just prior to his passing.

Through his adult years, especially his busy time with the ERPD, and because we lived out of state, the Aslin Family did not see much of Mike but when we did he certainly was entertaining.  In recent years he spent an inordinate amount of time shepherding our parents, particularly our dad, to an endless number of appointments.  The challenges mom and dad faced brought the two of us together with much greater frequency and we thoroughly enjoyed catching up and reminiscing about our younger days.  

Our parents passed away in September, 2018 and December, 2019.  This summer Mike finally bought the new car mom had been after him to get for years and we had hoped he would drive out Northeast for a visit once COVID subsided.  It was not meant to be.  Still, he, his antics, and his character live on in our hearts and minds.  May he rest in peace somewhere in the happy hunting grounds.
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Missing A Dear Friend

October 21, 2020
I have so many reasons to be thankful for knowing Mike that it's hard to remember them all. Firstly Mike was the Sergeant at ERPD and was instrumental in hiring me out of the 32nd Mid-Michigan Police Academy. There had been an issue in my past that he realized was inconsequential and that started my career in Law Enforcement.

I worked at ERPD for about 4 1/2 years shortly after the original group and as previously mentioned, it was a family. We all worked together, played together, spent family time and holidays with each other. Mike was the glue that bound us all together. We might not always agree with his decisions, and often failed to abide by them, but we always seemed to work things out. Eaton Rapids was a great community for us to learn and live.

As the years continued, Mike introduced me to one of his friends that he grew up with. We all  went on camping trips up north, hiking trips on the Appalachian Trail and in the Grand Tetons, ski trips to Colorado, rock climbing and shooting guns. It always bothered me that he could smoke a pack or two of cigarettes a day, and still keep up.

My wife (Mary) and I hiked up to "Charlie's Bunion" on the AT yesterday in his honor, as I had done with him and several others about 30 years ago. He didn't know it but we had put three cans of Fosters beer in his backpack, and thanked him when we arrived at camp for carrying them up for us.  

Mike will be missed by all that knew him or spent any time with him. He had a wealth of insignificant knowledge that made us appreciate him even more.

Rest in Peace Michael, I will cherish the memories !!!

Bruce Yelvington Badge #2.



October 20, 2020
Original 10 ERPD officers pose for pic from basketball game
October 19, 2020
I don't have any pictures to share although I do remember one that we have somewhere, of Mike wearing suspenders! Possibly at his graduation party?  When he worked at East Lansing Police Department, I was a student at MSU.  Of course, I locked my keys in my car at the Jacobson's parking ramp.  I went over to the police station and Mike was my hero and took me to unlock my car! Of course, he couldn't do it without giving me a hard time. He was a dear person.  I saw him about a year ago and he certainly hadn't lost his sense of humor. He kidded my granddaughter when we were visiting Aunt Edna. Words cannot express how sorry I am for his passing.  Pat, you and your family are in our prayers. 
Betsy

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