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Dr. Michael D. Cole, 71, of Harrington Park, passed away on Wednesday, August 9, 2017 in Lyon, France. Beloved husband of Marion (nee Ihnat). Loving father of Michael R. Cole and wife Karin of Verona and John B. Cole of London and Harrington Park. Adored grandfather of twins, James and Sydney. Dearest brother of Jane and brother-in-law of Nancy Ihnat.
Michael was a US Army veteran of Vietnam. After leaving the Army, he became one of the youngest general managers at Con Edison. He went to become a senior executive at Citibank, Cahners, and Columbia University Teacher College Innovation. In 2004, at almost 60 years old, he decided to reinvent himself completed his doctoral degree at Pace University and became a business school professor at New Jersey City University. His life is full of colors, adventures, challenges, and triumphs.
Recently in Summer of 2015, he fought hard and won for the rights of the disabled New Jerseyans for the right to stay in their current care facilities, culminating in meeting Governor Chris Christie. He cared deeply about this issue, and to continue his legacy, please consider making a contribution at Riverbrook (https://riverbrook.org/).
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Visitation: Friday, August 25, 2017 at 2-4 & 7-9 PM at Pizzi Funeral Home, 120 Paris Ave., Northvale, NJ (201-767-3050). www.pizzifuneralhome.com
Funeral Service: Saturday, August 26, 2017 at 10 AM at Our Lady of the Sacred Heart RC Church, Tappan, NY
Interment: Saturday, August 26, 2017, following the service at George Washington Memorial Park, 234 Paramus Rd, Paramus, NJ (201) 652-4300
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Rest in well deserved peace.
Your keen insights on life and ironic humor are sorely missed . Rest in peace dear friend.
Missing you and your input on so many things. Your wisdom and voice of reason showed us the best path many times ... I guess we have to figure some things out on our own now ...
As you look down on the program we're trying to pull together, any sign from Heaven you'd be willing to send would be greatly appreciated
JL
Rest in peace.
Miss you ... you'd likely be pleased to know that we are starting to put together a Doctorate in the School of Business. Of course the upshot of it all is that we would not be in a position to be able to do this without all you did to bring us to where we are. Our success will be a tribute to your guidance ... our endurance to your fraternity ...
JL
Joe Branciforte, BC ‘64
I then worked with him for several years as an IT professional at NJCU. From a staff's perspective, I always found him to be an appreciative person, and a very professional teacher. He still showed me the same kindness, and also encouraged me to not stop my academic progress.
He was a great loss to the NJCU community, and will always be remembered by his students, friends, and coworkers as a selfless human being.
JL
Joe Branciforte and the Bergen Catholic Class of 1964.
May he rest in peace.
Mike was a big man in the best and most liberal sense of the word. He was a strong man but never a "tough guy". He was confident and self assured but never arrogant. He was proud but without conceit and he was smart and well informed without being condescending. He was also damn funny--sometimes outrageously so and could make both his Marion and my Marion laugh at will.
Mike had that rare quality we find in a few special people--to be able to make those he touched feel better, stronger, more confident. He could make you feel affirmed with a sincere expression of interest, a wry smile, an unexpected act of kindness or an arm around your shoulder.
As strong men do, Mike counted his blessings and accepted his trials. He had immense love and devotion to his family - the foundation and ultimate expression of the good life he lived. As for trials--they were to be challenged, overcome, moved past--keep on driving.
I readily acknowledge that I loved the man and I will miss him terribly--but I'll try to be, like Mike, a counter of blessings and be forever grateful to have had this extraordinary man as a friend.
Sail on Mike--see you on the other side
Mike, May the road rise up to meet you
May the wind be always at your back
May soft rains fall upon your face and
Until we meet again, May God hold you
In the palm of his hands.
We both worked in corporate America and through the many years since we always stayed close, getting together as often as our schedules permitted. Often just the two of us just got together to share a meal and discuss how to best approach those common issues we all had: relationships, career and work/life balancing, and, of course, parenting
If I were asked to share what I felt were his his best qualities, first among many would definitely be his integrity, followed by dedication to family and his strong determination and grit to see the projects he was passionate about through to the end. He spoke to me often of his teaching experiences, and it seemed nothing gave him more satisfaction than to help unsure students to develop confidence in their abilities and to guide them in finding the best path to their career goals. Dr. Michael often told me that he considered that part of the work experience to be the most satisfying for him..
Let's also never forget his incredible sense humor, which always seemed to pierce through even the darkest of situations to make you smile.
I will miss him dearly and remember him always.
May he rest in peace.
In addition to his devotion to the students, Professor Cole was always so proud to talk about those he loved most; his wife, children, and grandchildren. My prayers and warm thoughts go out to you at this difficult time.
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Rest in well deserved peace.
A good man
Mike came from the "School of Hard Knocks." While he did not discuss his previous experience much, you can tell from his stories. For most other people, these challenging experiences transform them to be harder and edgier. In Mike's case, he became more determined but also gentler and wiser. He became a force for the better: improving business operations, driving innovation, or his final work on making the higher education more accountable to the students, not some system.
I have the honor of knowing Mike in the final 15 years of his life, and during this period, I witness the transformation of Mike from a hard-nosed business executive to a talented teacher and academic. In some ways, I took the same journey, lagging behind him by a few years. And in my journal, Mike was my best mentor and a dear friend.
When we first met back in 2002, he just entered the education industry wanting to improve higher education. He worked tirelessly to transform the curriculum, the teaching delivery platform, and how teachers interaction with students. He spent endless hours visiting some of the most depressed neighborhoods around New York to learn what works and what did not. When he decided to pursue his doctoral at Pace in around 2004, he threw himself in it completely. As Noel mentioned, he became the "mayor" of our cohort and drove our group together. Shortly after he finished, he started his 4th? or 5th? career as a professor at NJCU where he became the Marketing Chairperson. In his new role as a professor, he worked with companies in the NYC area and introduced his students to them - often pushing the NJCU students to find jobs and achieve higher goals. He became the champion of all those who needed his help. Like the story in Vietnam that Dan mentioned, which was so much like Mike, no one asked. He just performed.
I miss him so much: miss our regular gathering at the Park Ridge Diner; miss his emails of encouragement pushing me to finish my doctoral; miss his smile always so full of life and knowing; miss the sound of his voice telling me the latest inequities in life or sharing his latest ideas; miss his stories - how he loves his family, how his son John won another swim competition, how he was so proud of his son Mike and the two wonderful grand kids... The world just lost a really good man, but his goodness will be remembered by those he touched. He will be missed by many.
How He Won The Bronze Star In Viet Nam
Many people are surprised to learn Mike was awarded the Bronze Star for bravery in action in Viet Nam. He never talked about it much. It was so typical of Mike's devotion to good and right causes, of which there were many people did not know about. I learned about this story in a casual conversation. Being a second lieutenant in the U.S. Army is a lot responsibility without much glory. I know from my own two years in the U.S. Army. Mike tells this story as though it were a casual decision to run a necessary shopping errant. He learned that a group were isolated in battle area about to be overrun by the Viet Cong but all communications were down. Mike said, somebody had to go out there and get those guys out of there. No one ordered him to do it. He just did it. He came close to not returning with those men out of harm's way--but he managed it. That was Mike. Something that was right had to be done--so he just did it. There are many other stories that parallel this kind of bravery and selfless action. This is who Mike was. A big guy with a big heart--and a very big brain. I so miss him.
Dan Spink