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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Michael Vickery, 67 years old, born on January 14, 1953, and passed away on November 9, 2020. We will remember him forever.
January 14
January 14
Happy Birthday Mike! You are once again, two years older than me! Till we meet again and ever after, your sister with love
November 9, 2023
November 9, 2023
Mike, Always remembered, but today I'm remembering you as this date is when you stepped into life with the Angels. You are Loved with all my heart. Your sister forever and ever, Carol
August 24, 2023
August 24, 2023
Today, I am feeling more lonely than usual. I read a verse the other day that resonated with me: " Two things that I will never forget: The way you looked at me the for the first time and ..... the last time". The way you looked desperately at me to understand what was happening to you that morning will never leave me. The last words you said were " I don't know what's happening to me". And then you were gone. I guess you did not feel pain as bewilderment seemed to be your concern. I did not realize what was happening either. It all seemed so surreal - I kept thinking you would awaken but you did not. I will always thank God for those wonderful peaceful 3 days before you passed that we were able to enjoy each other's company for our last week together. I miss you dearly and you will forever be in my heart.
May 15, 2023
May 15, 2023
You are in my thoughts and my heart more than usual today as it would have been out 40th wedding anniversary. I wish you were here with me to celebrate our very full life we shared. You ARE with me spiritually. You are forever in my heart my true love.
April 16, 2023
April 16, 2023
It is not some special occasion but just a day that you are heavily on my mind. There was a new article about the Natural Bridge( remember the jazz fusion band we liked called Natural Bridge? perhaps it was leading us to WV in a way we did not yet know) in Looneyville and it showed the sign you carved directing the trail to it. I was reminded of our time there & the many times we partied with the landowners Janey & Tommy. Janey then showed me a sign she still had that I had forgotten you even made for her. She has it in he living room by Tommy's chair where his hat hangs. Tommy passed on last year and she has a tribute to both of you in her home. It was touching and sad all at the same time. It makes me long for the days when we could visit friends together and how we had so much in common. Nobody is left that knew me the way you did. There was always comfort in knowing that there was one person that really knew & understood who I really am and now you are gone. It just triggered sadness in me. I miss you so very very much.
November 9, 2022
November 9, 2022
  Michael, when you left this world, you forever changed my world. My life will never be the same again. All will be measured in "before" or "after" you passed away.
   Because we shared such a full life together, every day brings multiple memories of you and of us. I miss YOU and I miss US with all my heart.
Forever in my heart Michael.
November 9, 2022
November 9, 2022
Mike,
Time stopped mattering when you passed.
You are just as near and dear to my heart now as ever. Yesterday, today, or tomorrow --or years from this day,
Nothing in this earthly realm can diminish the
bright light of the love we share. Love is eternal!
Our spirits are forever wrapped in the lasting glow
of this Love.

Carol
July 8, 2022
July 8, 2022
I miss you so MUCH Michael! We always spent so time talking with each other and I miss being able to share all my thoughts with you. SO much has happened in the world since you left and I just wish I could talk with you about all sorts of things. I write to you in a journal but in my heart I know you do not read it yet somehow it helps a very tiny bit. You will forever be in my heart & thoughts. I miss you & love you so very very much. We would have been together 41 years this month. I am as always still with YOU!
January 14, 2022
January 14, 2022
Thinking of you, with heartfelt love on this your Birthday anniversary dear Mike! Happy Birthday!!!! You're my Big brother always. 
January 13, 2022
January 13, 2022
My darling Michael, I cannot express how very much I miss you. Although I am always with family and often a lot of family, I feel so lonely without you at my side. I often even hold my hands together in our "special" handhold trying to imagine you holding my hand. A couple months into the second year since you left this earth, I feel more alone than the first year you were gone. Was I in a constant fog? Was I in denial? I don't really know the answers but it seems the grief is every bit as strong as the first weeks & months were. I stay in constant contact with God for guidance as I feel pretty lost. When ever I get the chance to go back to our property, I am reminded of how difficult it would be to live there alone. So, I feel like I not only lost you but all that was part of our life together except the memories. For now I still have our pets ( Echo,Dub & Buddy) and I think I cling to them more than is healthy as they are all that is left of our life that we all shared together. I hope you somehow know how MUCH I miss you and love you. You are always and forever in my heart.
December 29, 2021
December 29, 2021
Michael, as the second Christmas season without you comes to an end, I feel more lost than ever. I miss you so much my best friend, companion and love of my life. I pray daily for direction as to how to move forward in life without you.
November 9, 2021
November 9, 2021
With the one year anniversary since Michael's passing I am adding an excerpt from a book my nephew Jeremy Vickery is putting together. It says so much to me.
"On November 9th, 2020, the hills of West Virginia were more silent than usual. The chirp of birds parted, to make way for the labored cry of a widow, so there was nothing to slow down the sound from reaching the ears of God.
   A great man, a complex man - Mike Vickery - had drawn his final breath, and his spirit left his body. I would have said "it left this world" or "ascended to heaven" ... but in the time I have spent reflecting on the event, the more I realize that Uncle Mike's spirit has not left this world. While he may have a presence in the afterlife, I firmly believe he is now among the scarce collection of those that can be in multiple places at-once."
  My Michael is in my heart and thoughts every day. Rest in peace my sweetheart.
November 9, 2021
November 9, 2021
Mike,
You're my Big Brother. I love you.
-- From your Little Sister
August 15, 2021
August 15, 2021
Mike was a true Renaissance Man. There was nothing he couldn't do if he wanted to. Once he decided he wanted to do something, he did it with perfection and seemingly effortlessly. In fact he may have been one of the last Renaissance Men left - he was certainly among an elite group and I have not known any before or since meeting Mike. 
August 14, 2021
August 14, 2021
You are in my thoughts and in my heart every day. You will never be forgotten.
May 13, 2021
May 13, 2021
Missing my big brother....not a day goes by that his memory doesn’t pop up in my mind. We had many differences between us, but bottom line was that we both chose our path in life. I am far better person inside than would be had we not been brothers, friends and confidants. I’ll never forget you brother.
May 2, 2021
May 2, 2021
Do Not Go Where The Path May Lead, Go Instead Where There Is No Path And Leave A Trail ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson
   This is how Mike lived his life.
April 26, 2021
April 26, 2021
So many wonderful memories I can't possibly list them all! One of my favorites that immediately come to mind are his visits to see us in KC, including the time he came out to help us pack up and move home to MD. Mike drove the moving truck with Jeremy by his side, and all was great until we reached that dastardly town Wheeling, WV! We pulled in to the Best Western off the interstate, but the turn came up suddenly and had a small, very tight entrance so Mike went around the corner thinking there would be another entrance on the other side, one big enough for a truck to fit into. Wrong! The road was a small side street that led to a small bridge that didn't have the weight allowance to hold the truck. Mike wasn't going to risk crossing the bridge and have the truck with him, all of our stuff and his nephew inside, to plummet into the river below so he had to think fast. There was no easy way to turn around because it was a narrow street with cars coming the other direction that were backed up along the road and across the bridge. He got out of the truck and managed to get cars to pull ahead and leave a gap so he could do what must have been an 80 point turn to get the truck going back the way it came. Once into the parking lot he parked and got out, just in time to help David sneak our dog Sam into the hotel. We specifically chose Best Western because they allowed pets, at least at the one in Missouri. Not the one in Wheeling! So Mike held one of the larger suitcases along side Sam while David held another and we walked Sam between them, through the lobby, up the elevator and down the hall to our room. Fortunately Sam was a good boy and stayed nice and quiet all night so no one was the wiser. Another time Mike and Teri came out to visit and we all went to Rocky Mountain National Park to see Pike's Peak and the beautiful mountains of Colorado. On the way across Kansas we drove into a strong storm that spawned a tornado (of course! it's Kansas!!) We had to pitch our tent in the strong winds of that storm that night, in the dark, but we did it! So many fun adventures with Mike by our side! We love him and will truly miss him forever!!
April 23, 2021
April 23, 2021
Lovely website Teri! Well done and well written story of how you and Mike spent your first date. Precious memories! Love, Carol
April 23, 2021
April 23, 2021
the Moody Blues, one of our favorite groups, say it perfectly with:
"Like the sunrise over the mountainside
Like the bird that has to be free
There's a part of you that will always be
Part of me"
from Bless the Wings

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January 14
January 14
Happy Birthday Mike! You are once again, two years older than me! Till we meet again and ever after, your sister with love
November 9, 2023
November 9, 2023
Mike, Always remembered, but today I'm remembering you as this date is when you stepped into life with the Angels. You are Loved with all my heart. Your sister forever and ever, Carol
August 24, 2023
August 24, 2023
Today, I am feeling more lonely than usual. I read a verse the other day that resonated with me: " Two things that I will never forget: The way you looked at me the for the first time and ..... the last time". The way you looked desperately at me to understand what was happening to you that morning will never leave me. The last words you said were " I don't know what's happening to me". And then you were gone. I guess you did not feel pain as bewilderment seemed to be your concern. I did not realize what was happening either. It all seemed so surreal - I kept thinking you would awaken but you did not. I will always thank God for those wonderful peaceful 3 days before you passed that we were able to enjoy each other's company for our last week together. I miss you dearly and you will forever be in my heart.
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Reminiscing

January 31
I heard this song the other day and recalled how we had danced to it many years ago:
     Friday night it was late, I was walking you home
We got down to the gate, I was dreaming of the night
Would it turn out right?
How to tell you girl, I want to build my world around you
Wanna tell you that it's true
I wanna make you understand I'm talking about a lifetime plan
Well that's the way it began, we were hand-in-hand
Glen Miller's band was better than before
We yelled and screamed for more
And those Porter's tunes made us dance across the room
It ended all too soon
On the way back home I promised you'd never be alone
Hurry, don't be late
I can't hardly wait
I said to myself when we're old
We'll go dancing in the dark, walking through the park
And reminiscing
Friday night it was late, I was walking you home
We got down to the gate, I was dreaming of the night
Would it turn out right?
Now as the years roll on, each time we hear our favorite song
The memories come along
Older times we're missing, spending the hours reminiscing
Hurry, don't be late
I can't hardly wait
I said to myself when we're old
We'll go dancing in the dark, walking through the park
And reminiscing I also recall that even way back then the lyrics meant to us that we would be together long enough to reminisce in our later years. We did, in fact, reminisce over many things throughout our life together and now I am reminiscing on my own with my wonderful memories of you. You are always in my thoughts and it is difficult to think about creating any type of memories without you in them. I miss you and love you with all my heart.

Birthday 2024

January 10
My darling Michael, in a few  days it will be your birthday. You would have turned 71! My how the years flew by! On the 14th, I will be with family at Deep Creek lake where they have always gone on this weekend of yours & Jeremy's birthdays. Being MLK holiday weekend, it provides a long weekend. Because it is a landmark birthday for Jeremy, his 40th, I am reminded of the 40th birthday party we had for you. I cannot believe  it has been 31 years since that day! SO much life has occurred since then. I will forever cherish the life we built together. I MISS our life together and our home is so empty & lonesome without you there. I miss it so much but when I am there, I miss YOU even more! It is bittersweet being there now. On Sunday, Jan.14, 2024, I will be thinking of you more than usual. You are always in my heart and you are my forever love!

Three Years

November 9, 2023
Today marks three years since you parted this world. So much has changed and it just makes me miss you all the more. Our home just is not the same without you there. Although I try to find peace there, it does not exist without you. 
     I will forever cherish our years together and the last words you spoke will haunt me forever. Michael, you were and ARE the love of my life forever and always.
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Camping memories

July 11, 2022
  With it being peak camp season, I am reminded of some of mine & Mike's experiences while camping. We preferred back country camping with all our gear in backpacks but if time didn't allow, we would often throw our gear into the car and head to one of the nearby state parks for a quick escape from the city.  
     One of these state parks was Greenbriar State Park about 20 minutes from our home in Frederick, MD. We often went there as there was a swimming lake there too. We had not gone backpacking yet at the time but we camped in the park campsite and hiked to the section of the Appalachian Trail that passed thru the park. I noticed camp sites along the trail and asked Mike how anyone got back in there  to to camp and he explained backpacking to me and I immediately wanted to try it! It looked so peaceful & inviting.
    Another closer park was Gambrill SP where we were married at the Tea Room on the mountain top. There were campsites at the base of the mountain and although they were often crowded, it was only about 10 minutes from home. We had a family campout their once and it rained much of the time.
     We also had a family campout at Green Ridge state forest about 2 hours away in western MD. It was very primitive & private and that was the first time we experienced Whip-poor-wills all night long! We liked Green Ridge & went back several times.Once was with Mike's sister Linda & husband. It had rained most of the day but cleared off by dark. We had eaten and a campfire going so Mike & I decided to take a walk along the logging road within the forest. As we walked along with our flashlights, we each noticed a filmy vision to our left in the woods, it crossed over the road and into the woods on the other side. It was a transparent filmy rectangle shape that sort of wove in between the trees and disappeared. We never did figure what it was! We certainly had lots of interesting ideas of what it might have been!
       We did our first backpacking trip with a friend in the Shenandoah National Park. I was hooked after that trip. We were introduced by the same friend to the Dolly Sods Wilderness in WV and fell in love with it. We went many times before we decide to buy land in WV. One such time we had packed in about 7 miles and made camp in a designated area. We had finished our dinner & were just chatting & getting ready to turn in when a group of 3 younger(early 20s??) people came traipsing right thru out camp site. Mike stopped them and they said they were looking for some location we were unfamiliar with and suggested they continue on their way. That was the last we saw of them but about 5am some adults with flashlights wandered into our campsite and were looking for the youngsters that never came back to their camp.We told them the direction they had gone and never heard any more as to what happened but I was glad Mike always had a firearm with him because it was all suspicious especially in a remote wilderness.
    We spent a whole week in the Otter Creek Wilderness of WV one spring. It was dense forest and a good creek ran the length of it to meet the south fork of the Potomac. We had a baby deer sleep up next t our tent one night. Mike spotted a bear while getting water from the creek. As we hiked in to our main camp, we followed tracks of a bear tracking a deer - perhaps it found the mother of the fawn? There was a large bear presence in Otter creek  so at our main camp, MIke set up a perimeter "alarm" with twine & utensils attached. We took it down thru the night because deer & raccoons kept triggering it.We never had any bears come into our camp. It was at Otter Creek that we first heard the Wood Thrush's beautiful song. It is still my favorite song bird.
    Spending time in he wilderness areas inspired us to find our own bit of wilderness and we did find it in Roane county WV in 1995. We never regretted living back woods as we did. It was our "forever " home and a dream come true. Mike spent the rest of his life there and his ashes are scattered there.
     

Frank's Thoughts about Mike: A Most Unconventional Guy

February 4, 2022
(From Frank) Just a thought about Mike……a most unconventional guy:
When Marion took over Dennis Sr.’s house in Floral City, some ears ago, we came up with a plan. As many of the children as we could bring together would converge on the house at the same time.  We all walked into the house at the same time, and just said, "we're the family, and we live here now".  Marion was quite set back, and didn’t know just what to do.  Mike told her she didn’t belong here anyway.  At that point, I thought she must have done this before, and guessed she knew what she was going to be in for.  She said, “I do live here, my mail is delivered to this address”.  Well, while I’m thinking just what our next step might be……Mike walked in with the mail box, pole and all!  He threw it on the floor, and said, "not anymore you don’t”.  Right then and there, I had a brand new respect for Mike.
We worked on her nerves over the next couple of hours, not really making an obvious difference.  Until that is, Mike started going through the collection of Swarovski’s his mother had.  Turns out the boxes she kept, didn’t match the crystals that were left.  He called the police. We got lucky and got a sympathetic officer.  Where he could be heard by Marion, Mike started talking about checking with the local Pawn shops.  Well……what do you know, Marion with her son in tow took off, and didn’t come back.
All in one afternoon, it was a long shot…….but thanks to Mike, she was gone, I think in record time.     --memory from Frank

Ice Walking

January 30, 2022
As we are currently experiencing an especially frigid & icy winter, I am reminded of how Mike solved a problem for us on such years. Our driveway is scary to many when it is dry but when covered in thick ice it is nothing to be careless about.  The springs that make it damp throughout the year, continue to flow even in the coldest conditions. It becomes glacier like as the top water freezes while more is flowing from under the ground. It builds into a thick icy coating across the width of the drive and most of the length of the hill. In the early stages of this, you can see the water actually flowing beneath the thin layer of ice.  During long frigid periods, we would leave our vehicle at the bottom of our hill. Even 4WD cannot navigate 4 inch thick icy hillsides. So that we could venture out if the cold snap lasted too long, Mike created ice boots for us. He snipped the heads off of screws and backed them into the thicker part of a boot sole. He placed about a dozen on each boot with about 1/4" extending outward. We were actually able to walk at a steep decline on 4 -6 inch thick ice and not slide at all. It was a little "off putting" at first as it seemed like you should be slipping all over the place. We were able to use those for years until we just started waiting out the cold snap in the future and also had a 4 wheeler ATV to take us out the back way & around the property.

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