It's been a year since Michael left us and I think of him almost every day as I think of Sally every day as well. It's been a tough year for all of us who knew and loved Michael and not just because of his loss, but also because COVID-19 only added to our pain and anguish with the restrictions and fears this pandemic has caused. I wrote to Sally in a card I sent her for Michael's anniversary and she told me how well I described Michael and how much my words and feelings and support have meant to her. She then emailed me after typing up what I wrote so that I might post it here on Michael's Memorial website. I loved Michael even though I met him years after he and Sally met and came together, and the visits I had with both of them at their house were too short, but very, very sweet, fun, and cheerful. So, in the spirit of sharing, here is what I wrote to Sally:
"Since the coming days this month will bring with them turbulent emotional swings, I wanted to assure you that I am here to support you in whatever way you need.
I am thinking of you all the time and also remembering with love and fondness Michael, his quirky sense of humor, his generosity of spirit, his kindness, and his caring personality and while I am sure he had his faults as we all do, I know how much you miss him.
Please take advantage of my shoulder and ears any time, day or night. My phone is always on.
I miss him too, every time I think of you, he is there behind you.
I wish I had known him better and for longer, but what I do know is how easy he was to like, get along with, and have fun with.
Hugs and love go flying to you every day. I am always with you.
Your loving sister, Stacie.
June 2021"
And so I say now: I love you, Michael! I see you there behind Sally every time I think of you and every time I talk with or spend time with Sally. Thank you for the laughter, the tears, the good and bad times and everything you shared with Sally, and with all of us. We have been truly blessed to have know such a real human being as you!