It's taken me a while to write this because I did not know how or where to start. My cousin, Big Nnamdi (my younger brother was Small Nnamdi) was my first object of hero worship and I hung around him and his sister, Ngozi, any chance I could. He was just a few years older than I, but he looked and acted decades older. Growing up, I was what could be charitably described as an irrepressible tomboy, while he was always (well, mostly always) calm and unflappable. I tried unsuccessfully to imitate him because he never seemed to get into trouble in spite of some the pranks he pulled, and I did. Frequently.
Both of us loved to read, and he would give me books that he thought I would enjoy. We also had this game where we would try and one-up each other with the most ridiculous words we could find in that big Oxford dictionary in the house. The most memorable exchange was me saying that he was doing a "boondoggle" and he responding that I was talking "hornswoggle." I was under 7 or 8 years old at the time. This memory never fails to make me smile.
When I transferred to FGC Lagos, he was just about to leave, and hanging out was really not an option. However, he found time to help me understand mathematics and how to break down and solve maths problems. I know that he earned mega points with Jesus just for this as he never became annoyed or impatient with me as he had to explain over and over and over again.
We lost touch when he moved to the US, but thanks to Facebook and Whatsapp, we talked, albeit infrequently, and it struck me that he was the same sensible, funny, kind person that I knew and loved as a child. It is one of my few regrets that I never told him how much of an impact on me, how much I looked up to him, and what an awesome, all-round great guy he was.
I'm sure St. Peter's schedule has seriously opened up as Big Nnamdi has taken over the heavenly books and has become best buds with his namesake, the archangel Michael.
To those who loved him the most; his mom, his siblings and his wife, the Lord is your strength. He will give you comfort in this time and keep you all under His wing. Rest in perfect peace, coz.