The Melfi family - Dorio & Sheila, Julian & Sharon, Nigel and Tracey
This memorial website was created in memory of our father, Michael Green.
Michael's last illness and passing sadly took place during the Covid-19 pandemic and restrictions prevented many of us from visiting him and spending time with him as we, and he, would have wished. Michael was very sociable and loved entertaining and sharing conversation and jokes with his large extended family and his friends. We, his daughters, hope that you will join us in adding your memories and thoughts and wishes here on this website, to celebrate his life and the unforgettable memories he has left us all with, and to come together even if we can't all be at the funeral together. He'd have liked that very much.
Michael's funeral Mass will take place at St Dunstan's Catholic Church, Langport Road, Somerton TA11 6RS on Wednesday, June 2nd at 12:30pm, then afterwards at 2.30pm at Mendip Crematorium in Croscombe, near Wells: Old Wells Road, Croscombe, Wells, Somerset BA5 3RR. Refreshments and a celebration of Michael's life will be held afterwards, from about 3.15pm to 5pm, at The Barton Inn, Main Street, Barton St David TA11 6BZ. There will then be the option to move to Kathy's garden a few doors down from The Barton Inn.
The interment of Michael's ashes is scheduled to take place at 3pm on Thursday 3rd June at Somerton Cemetery.
Unfortunately numbers are limited due to Covid restrictions. Because of this we ask you to contact us if you hope to attend. The Mass will be broadcast over the web so we hope everyone will feel part of the ceremony. If you will be joining us in person, please consider taking a lateral flow test before attending.
This is the livestream links for the Mass.
https://www.icebox-media.co.uk/michaelgreen
The password is michaelgreen
The recording will be accessible after the service.
Click on this link to access the Order of Service:
https://uniofnottm-my.sharepoint.com/:b:/g/persona...
May he rest in peace. We will always remember him and carry him in our hearts.
The immediate family will provide the flowers for the casket, so we are not asking for flowers from other family and friends. We would welcome donations to St Margaret's Hospice who helped and supported Dad and the whole family through his illness. If you would like to make a donation to St Margaret's Hospice in Michael's name, please visit Michael's Tribute Fund page. If you feel that you would like to give flowers, we are using the following florist based in Somerton: https://www.bloominglinda.co.uk
Michael's last illness and passing sadly took place during the Covid-19 pandemic and restrictions prevented many of us from visiting him and spending time with him as we, and he, would have wished. Michael was very sociable and loved entertaining and sharing conversation and jokes with his large extended family and his friends. We, his daughters, hope that you will join us in adding your memories and thoughts and wishes here on this website, to celebrate his life and the unforgettable memories he has left us all with, and to come together even if we can't all be at the funeral together. He'd have liked that very much.
Michael's funeral Mass will take place at St Dunstan's Catholic Church, Langport Road, Somerton TA11 6RS on Wednesday, June 2nd at 12:30pm, then afterwards at 2.30pm at Mendip Crematorium in Croscombe, near Wells: Old Wells Road, Croscombe, Wells, Somerset BA5 3RR. Refreshments and a celebration of Michael's life will be held afterwards, from about 3.15pm to 5pm, at The Barton Inn, Main Street, Barton St David TA11 6BZ. There will then be the option to move to Kathy's garden a few doors down from The Barton Inn.
The interment of Michael's ashes is scheduled to take place at 3pm on Thursday 3rd June at Somerton Cemetery.
Unfortunately numbers are limited due to Covid restrictions. Because of this we ask you to contact us if you hope to attend. The Mass will be broadcast over the web so we hope everyone will feel part of the ceremony. If you will be joining us in person, please consider taking a lateral flow test before attending.
This is the livestream links for the Mass.
https://www.icebox-media.co.uk/michaelgreen
The password is michaelgreen
The recording will be accessible after the service.
Click on this link to access the Order of Service:
https://uniofnottm-my.sharepoint.com/:b:/g/persona...
May he rest in peace. We will always remember him and carry him in our hearts.
The immediate family will provide the flowers for the casket, so we are not asking for flowers from other family and friends. We would welcome donations to St Margaret's Hospice who helped and supported Dad and the whole family through his illness. If you would like to make a donation to St Margaret's Hospice in Michael's name, please visit Michael's Tribute Fund page. If you feel that you would like to give flowers, we are using the following florist based in Somerton: https://www.bloominglinda.co.uk
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June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
With all our love and heartfelt condolences to all the family. Michael will be greatly missed. Always full of life and fun.
The Melfi family - Dorio & Sheila, Julian & Sharon, Nigel and Tracey
The Melfi family - Dorio & Sheila, Julian & Sharon, Nigel and Tracey
June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
Uncle Mike was such a presence throughout my life and took a genuine loving interest in everything I did as a child, young person and adult. He showed the same care in following the many twists and turns in the lives of all the family, always remembering what the kids were up to. He sent lovely cards and letters over the years, always taking the trouble to write a personal message - and one from Josette too. These and time spent in happy and relaxed conversation - often with glass in hand! - helped to fill the gaps in my knowledge of family history, particularly about my father John. He was such a central person in our family and helping to keep us connected to the Green clan, and I have a great many fond memories of family gatherings at 'Red Tiles' with Mike as the perfect host, and of many hours in conversation and debate with him. We didn't agree on everything(!) but it didn't matter - the mark of a strong family relationship. Rest in peace dear uncle, you are so missed, Anne-Marie xxx
June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
Grandpa was born on the 18th November. I was born at 12.15am on the 19th November - in Spain, where the time zone is one hour ahead. Grandpa always said I was born on the same day as him, and that we were twins.
This month I lost my twin. I love you Grandpa, you will be missed.
This month I lost my twin. I love you Grandpa, you will be missed.
May 30, 2021
May 30, 2021
Upon learning that Michael was educated by the Jesuits it became clear that this Ignatian Spirituality contributed to the full life he led. He radiated wonder and gratefulness and allowed his imagination and emotions and intellect to perform so well.
I felt affirmed as he listened attentively and then conversed so easily. He blended so well with Josette and my first and abiding impression of Red Tiles is a superbly hospitable couple with a slightly balding gentleman who would draw himself to full height and with arms akimbo would deliver a humorous quip or change into comical pose. He endeared himself to us and to many-I'm sure . May Josette and your family be comforted. Chris and Hilary. I have included a picture of Duncan Abraham who was married to Sonny's eldest sibling Sybil , was a photographer during WW2 and lived in South Africa and was possibly the person who photographed Denis Compton's wedding as narrated to his grandson ! Duncan filmed our wedding in his latter days !
I felt affirmed as he listened attentively and then conversed so easily. He blended so well with Josette and my first and abiding impression of Red Tiles is a superbly hospitable couple with a slightly balding gentleman who would draw himself to full height and with arms akimbo would deliver a humorous quip or change into comical pose. He endeared himself to us and to many-I'm sure . May Josette and your family be comforted. Chris and Hilary. I have included a picture of Duncan Abraham who was married to Sonny's eldest sibling Sybil , was a photographer during WW2 and lived in South Africa and was possibly the person who photographed Denis Compton's wedding as narrated to his grandson ! Duncan filmed our wedding in his latter days !
May 28, 2021
May 28, 2021
Michael and Josette brought enormous good cheer and joy to our small cul de sac in Street these past five years. Chris and I miss them very much. Tales of Compton and Edrich, and Mike’s reminiscing on the halcyon days of Middlesex C.C., will accompany all future visits to Lords. And he played no mean innings himself. Appreciative applause from around the ground.
May 28, 2021
May 28, 2021
We were all so very sad to hear of Mike's passing. Our deepest sympathy and warmest thoughts go to Josette and the girls. Such a sad time, intensified by the Covid pandemic. We will always remember Mike with a smile and a chuckle. He was a special being for many, including my mum and aunt (Jean & Pam). Mike was a frequent visitor to their home back in the day. The fun and shenanigans with his cousins and our younger grandparents made for very entertaining tales. Many involving nan's wheelchair . Our grandparents were Cecilia (child 6 of the 16) and Albert Raymont. Sending much love and warmest hugs to Josette xx
May 26, 2021
May 26, 2021
From the very first time I went to Red Tiles with Kathy many years ago, Mike always seemed delighted to see me and he always made me feel extremely welcome and at ease. Billy admired how well he coped being the only
man in a house full of slightly mad women!
I hold many memories of silly conversations and raised eyebrows! God bless you.
Donna x
man in a house full of slightly mad women!
I hold many memories of silly conversations and raised eyebrows! God bless you.
Donna x
May 25, 2021
May 25, 2021
A Mass is being offered on Sunday 30th May at 11 am in our Loughton Catholic Church for Michael, whom we dearly miss.
Arthur and Jenny xx
Arthur and Jenny xx
May 23, 2021
May 23, 2021
With love and so many very fond and humorous memories - your wit, your dinner conversations, your love of your family, your enjoyment of fine wines and beautiful meals late at night, then a drive back to Shoreham!!! Mike you have been so special to all our family since we left Africa in 1964 - I remember Josette chasing you around the bedroom as I was changing Alex, after his Christening, as she wanted the opportunity to have a son!!!! spontaneous and so suitable at the time - happy times, wonderful memories always RIP dearest MIke
May 18, 2021
May 18, 2021
I will always remember Mike’s natural, instinctive sense of fun and playfulness especially with the children of my late wife, Rose and I. Also, his generous spirit and keen, rapier like wit. He was the King of Quips!
I identified with his love of wine, culture and cricket and always felt that I could spend timeless hours listening to his wise words.
I identified with his love of wine, culture and cricket and always felt that I could spend timeless hours listening to his wise words.
May 17, 2021
May 17, 2021
I will treasure fond memories of Michael from our first meeting back in 1980, where we bonded over our mutual appreciation of Arsenal FC and Test Cricket to our last in 2019 when I was able to find and return a book he had lent me in 1981 ! Typical of the man he had not forgotten that and in the same way I will never forget him. RIP Michael, a life well lived.
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
Rest In Peace dearest Mike. You shall be very dearly missed with your quick witted humour. You always made me laugh.
May 13, 2021
May 13, 2021
Rest in peace. Strife and troubles have ceased.
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June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
With all our love and heartfelt condolences to all the family. Michael will be greatly missed. Always full of life and fun.
The Melfi family - Dorio & Sheila, Julian & Sharon, Nigel and Tracey
The Melfi family - Dorio & Sheila, Julian & Sharon, Nigel and Tracey
June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
Uncle Mike was such a presence throughout my life and took a genuine loving interest in everything I did as a child, young person and adult. He showed the same care in following the many twists and turns in the lives of all the family, always remembering what the kids were up to. He sent lovely cards and letters over the years, always taking the trouble to write a personal message - and one from Josette too. These and time spent in happy and relaxed conversation - often with glass in hand! - helped to fill the gaps in my knowledge of family history, particularly about my father John. He was such a central person in our family and helping to keep us connected to the Green clan, and I have a great many fond memories of family gatherings at 'Red Tiles' with Mike as the perfect host, and of many hours in conversation and debate with him. We didn't agree on everything(!) but it didn't matter - the mark of a strong family relationship. Rest in peace dear uncle, you are so missed, Anne-Marie xxx
June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
Grandpa was born on the 18th November. I was born at 12.15am on the 19th November - in Spain, where the time zone is one hour ahead. Grandpa always said I was born on the same day as him, and that we were twins.
This month I lost my twin. I love you Grandpa, you will be missed.
This month I lost my twin. I love you Grandpa, you will be missed.
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January 15, 2022
I first met Mike when he visited me in Paris at UNESCO on the easily remembered date of February 29th 1960. He was in the company of his associate and friend from Woods of Colchester Herbert Heinrich who was my brother Raymond's best friend. They were indulging in a little tourism and came to see where I was working. Michael was to be working in Paris and so we saw quite a bit of each other over time. On one occasion we went into the Bon Marché department store and in the lower floor were approached by a charming and beautiful young hostess who offered to help us and show us around. We were actually three persons as an old schoolfellow of mine Philip Berger an accountant also working in Paris accompanied us round. This was Milke's first meeting with the lady we all know as his wife, Josette. We were all smitten with her, but Mike was the one who persevered and won her love.
Over the years since then I have kept in touch, visiting when possible and always exchanging greetings, right up to the time before they left Weymouth. I was told they were going to move to Street but I only ever received an email address, so I have not been able to contact them directly since then. I have only just received knowledge of Michael's passing and I wish to convey my sincerest condolences to dear Josette and the girls and their families. R.I,P.
Over the years since then I have kept in touch, visiting when possible and always exchanging greetings, right up to the time before they left Weymouth. I was told they were going to move to Street but I only ever received an email address, so I have not been able to contact them directly since then. I have only just received knowledge of Michael's passing and I wish to convey my sincerest condolences to dear Josette and the girls and their families. R.I,P.
Laoise's eulogy
June 2, 2021
Granddad, I miss you. I have missed you since December 2019, just before the pandemic reshaped our interactions from visits to remote phone calls. You were an undeniably strong man, born into Britain just before the Second World War, and you left us in a global pandemic. Your stories and life lessons from eighty-eight years on this earth have taught me morals and insights I will carry with me for the rest of my life. I will carry you with me for the rest of my life. We are connected through family ties, we share our struggles, memories, world views, emotions, thoughts, and the very DNA we are comprised of, each passed down generation to generation. Above all, we are connected by our humanity, and its inherent beauty and imperfection. Knowing you, and losing you has made me reflect on my life, and how I want to live each day I am given on this earth. I want to live in honour and loving memory of you, your strength and dignity exemplified by your battles with cancer. It broke my heart to know that you were suffering each day for so long, It broke my heart when I could not visit you one last time due to covid hospital regulations, it broke my heart when I realised I could not attend your funeral, and it breaks my heart to know that I will not be able to make new memories with you, but I will cherish the ones I have for the rest of my days. I will miss your wisdom, wit and intelligence, your strong sense of morality, and your love for the good things in life: French wine, good food, restaurants- especially a nice ‘ol fish and chips, often scampi if I remember correctly. I will miss your prolonged hello and goodbye hugs each time I visited. I will miss your smile that crept up from one side when you were amused. I will miss you calling me “little, or not-so-little one”. I will miss your stories that painted vivid pictures of the war, your life as a young man in the 50s and 60s, your adventures as an engineer, and life as a father. I will miss our weekly phone calls where, despite all of the pain you were in, I still was able to hear the sound of your voice, your sense of humour, even your advice on love and relationships. You were still you right until the end. This is how I will remember you granddad, thank you for everything.
Life is long and short all at the same time, and I hope to do good things with mine. I hope to exemplify the same strength, loyalty, dignity, morality, and intelligence as you did. I know that wherever life takes me, you will always live on in my memories, my heart, and the parts of me that you have shaped and inspired. I hope that in your passing you are relieved of all the pain you carried with you, so that you can now rest in peace. I love you, I miss you, and I will miss having you around for as long as I live.
Love,
Your Irish granddaughter, Laoise.
Life is long and short all at the same time, and I hope to do good things with mine. I hope to exemplify the same strength, loyalty, dignity, morality, and intelligence as you did. I know that wherever life takes me, you will always live on in my memories, my heart, and the parts of me that you have shaped and inspired. I hope that in your passing you are relieved of all the pain you carried with you, so that you can now rest in peace. I love you, I miss you, and I will miss having you around for as long as I live.
Love,
Your Irish granddaughter, Laoise.
Dorio and Sheila Melfi
June 1, 2021
by Julian Melfi
Although Michael and I were cousins, it was not until I was about sixteen that we became good friends. Most weeks I used to be invited by Aunt Stella to spend the weekends with them in Highgate. Michael and I used to belong to his local Church youth group where we spent many happy Saturday evenings. it was through these club evenings and dances that we both met Derek Kirner with whom I am still friends. Michael and I always kept in touch with each other even after we were married and I always looked forward to meeting at family gatherings and catching up with all the family news. Michael was a "one off", always happy and joking, he used to laugh and say he was the only male within the family - even the dog was a bitch!! lol... i don't know how he coped!!Until we meet up again, Sheila and I both send you our love.
God Bless, from Sheila and Dorio
God Bless, from Sheila and Dorio