- 43 years old
- Date of birth: Sep 23, 1968
- Place of birth:
- Date of passing: Oct 25, 2011
- Place of passing:
|NUNC SCIO QUID SIT AMOR|
This memorial website was created in the memory of my beautiful wife, Michelle Hardy, 43, born on September 23, 1968 and passed away on October 25, 2011. Now i know what love is..
Nunc Scio Quid Sit Amor
"Hey Michelle I am off to see your boy next week! We will have fun and think of you as always never far from my thoughts. Thank you for being a friend and a wonderful wife to my best mate. xx"
"Thanks for making the sun shine so brightly all weekend, Christmas decs up for you soon!!! Happy Birthday wishes, love and miss you loads x x x"
"Happy Belated Birthday Michelle. You're never far from my thoughts. Xx"
"Thinking about you today. Love your laugh and your attitude to life xx"
"Happy birthday baby. I love you xxx"
"Happy birthday hun! Miss you loads still. Xx"
"My Condolences to the you, and Michelles family & friends. She was beautiful & by the photos also a beautiful soul. God Bless You
"Hi Sweetie, just thinking about you!! x x"
Got those decorations up yet??? Silly question!! Thinking of you, hugs to Mum and Dad x"
"Happy Birthday lovely. Still miss you loads and love you lots xxx"
"Lovely lady missed by us why do the nice people leave first Jock & Aly xx"
"There's not many people I think about every day only the ones I miss Happy Birthday......xxxx"
"You would have been 47 today - it's so sad that you're not here to celebrate with your friends and family. I hope you're partying hard with the angels instead! Happy Birthday Michelle. Xx"
"Happy Birthday Sweet Heart, bet your smiling down on us ... Big hugs to you, Mum and Dad..
Your beautiful smile and sunny nature is so missed xx"
"Happy birthday Michelle, I was just thinking about you yesterday, Still cant believe you have been taken away from us and miss your smiling face I will raise a glass for you later xxx"
"Heavens going to be pumping tonight!
Happy birthday sweetheart!
Your always in our thoughts and forever in our hearts.....
"Thinking of you today Michelle Lovely lady xxx"
"Happy Birthday Princess, thinking of you today and always. Hope you're having a good time with the rest of the crazy clan, which unfortunately seems to keep growing these days, but, at least we know your altogether!! Miss you loads, so much we could chat about, miss those phone calls!! Love you girlie x x x x x x"
"Hey baby, happy birthday sweetheart. Wish we could spend it together like we always did. Such fun. I am SOOO proud of you and the 6700 visitors to this site proves how much you were loved by so many.... Please visit soon xxxxx"
"I knew Michelle and Lee from their days at The Nags Head where I was an almost resident dj for many years.
We continued to work at the pub until 2012, but will lever forget Michelle, as so many people have said she was an amazing person, especially enjoying the Christmas period.
I have a few memories of making Michelle smile by driving Santa to a kids Christmas party on Christmas Eve in a fire engine. :-)
I am still a full time dj and can't play some tracks like paradise by the dashboard light without thinking of her amazing laughter and smile."
"Remember going to Vegas via New York last night chatting to my dad. Still miss your laugh and the fun we all used to have. Xx"
"3 years ago today, we all lost the most beautiful soul, i lost you along with a large piece of my heart. Nunc Scio Quid Sit Amor. I love you my darling xxxx"
"Happy anniversary darling... 19 years today. Miss you so much xxxx"
"Thinking about you a lot this week. Miss you honey xxx"
"You often pop into my thoughts and conversations. I hope you are finally relaxing up there, but on this day I hope you are partying! Happy Birthday Michelle. Xx"
"Happy birthday young lady I will raise a glass xxx"
"Still miss you hope. Always will."
"Happy birthday nana michelle, wish u could see how laiton has grown into such an amazing gorgeous boy. Lots of love from all of us xx"
"Never had time to get to know you properly, but you were a treat to be with! Lovely smiley girl! So full of fun - could teach a lesson to many! You didn't deserve to be taken like you did. Shocking, even now!"
"Happy birthday hun! Hope there's plenty of pink fizz up there for ya"
"Happy birthday gorgeous lady - hope you're having one awesome party up there"
"Time to get that pink fizz out Hun Bun, thinking of you on your special day and always x x x miss you x x x"
"Hi my Darling
Should have seen Tim and Donna at their wedding, simply gorgeous and such a smile on that boy's face! So happy for them x miss you so much x x x"
"Hi,was in Banbury today and drove past the pub where we all got together who would have thought that would have been the last time we were all together always in my thoughts xxxx"
"Hey Michelle thought of you today and what great times we had, still think of you xx"
"Michelle god bless, so, so sad to hear you're gone. You were one of life's sparkling diamonds as I'm sure you are wherever you are now. Much love Jac and Steve xxxxx"
"Hi Michelle, thought of you today and some happy times in the pool at the belagio hotel listening to a Beth Ditto chatting with Claire rest well my dear friend x"
"Hey Michelle, been thinking a lot about you today, two year already without that beautiful smile. I still find myself talking about you telling people about you and how lovely you are. Hope your having a ball up there, until the next time xx"
"Hey beautiful lady, been thinking about you a lot today. I hope it is good up there as only the best get taken from us. Lots of pink fizz xxx"
"It was 2 years ago today when we all said goodbye to you and your amazing personality, your beautiful smiling eyes, your cheeky grin and your dirty laugh. God how i miss you as do all your friends. Wish you were here. Love you forever. xxxx"
"Had a day with my Cyprus family today. Engaged in a glass of pink fizz in your memory. Took some photos of the glasses with a green laser pointing through and a spooky thing happenend in the photo. You'll know what happened! I got the message.. Love you my baby. Sleep tight xxxx"
"Sweetie - always in our thoughts forever in my heart - thanks for being you and making so many people happy with your magic touch x"
""Shine bright like a diamond" tonight my sweetheart, there are many of us who will be looking up at you tonight with a wee drink in hand to celebrate your life and to thank you for the happiness you gave to sooo many!! Xxxxx"
"Never forgotten, Geoff and Claire"
"Happy birthday darling, been thinking of you all day today. It's been a tough day. I love you baby as do so many others here. I have read many birthday wishes on facebook and on here. It's comforting to know you'll not be forgotten xxxx"
"Happy Birthday lovely. We toasted you at Hewi-Gregor and we knew you were with us. Sending a double rainbow, that was genius x"
"Hey Michelle, thinking of you today xx"
"Hi Gorgeous Girl
Happy Birthday Sweetheart - hope the party goes with a swing!!!
Hugs and love to you all!
Miss you Sweet Cheeks x"
"Happy birthday sweet lady, we will raise a glass to you tonight so be watching and "shine like a diamond" xxxx"
"Hey ' Chelle!
I'm over in Cyprus at the moment visiting your lovely Lee, but I guess you knew that anyway! I just wanted to tell you that he is well and has lots of good friends around him to look after him! I'm sure you're ears have been burning cos we have talked about you lots! Luv ya xxx"
"Hey Hun, it's my 50th today but i don't have you here to help me celebrate. Have had lots of birthday wishes but all i need is you back. Not having you in my life is killing me. Love you more than ever. xxxx"
"Thinking of you altogether - the sun is out today as the lights must be on up there for the party!!!!! Hugs to Mum and Dad and a big one for you loli x x x x"
"Michelle a sign is what Lee needs right now to know you are always by his side........ A feather from the sky, a warmth on his arm a visit in his dreams or a bloody big SPIDER! Anything to give him a bit of comfort, things I feel are too much for him right now Hun .......love to you and your Mum xxxxxxxxx"
Now you have Mum to look after you too - miss you both so much x
Hugs and love as always x"
"It's been a while since I wrote on here Hun, your never far from our thoughts and seeing Lee nearly everyday means your so much closer as you live on through him, his eyes, his heart his smile and yes even the tattoos scream love for you Hun!! I'm sorry for your family about losing your Mum but it was obviously time you were together again ! Love to you all up there xxxxxxxx"
"Hi Michelle. Hope you don't mind me bothering you my love, but I think Lee could do with a little help right now, so can you wrap your arms around him whilst he is sleeping and give him a great big hug in his dreams? x"
"Hi Michelle, sorry its been a while thought I would just say hi and to let you know your in my thoughts a lot ,especially over Xmas. Still can't believe your gone with that lovely smile of yours. Till the next time .............xx"
"Thought of you yesterday Michelle and raised a glass or two to you, maybe one too many! Merry Christmas, I hope the Champagne bar in the sky was well stocked! Lots of love x"
"Hi sweetheart we had champagne at breakfast with Lee today, our thoughts of you were strong and for my Dad, so I hope you are sharing yours with him, just not too much as he gets a bit squiffy..... Xxxx until we meet again xxxxxxx"
"Hey Michelle, pink or white? Or is that a silly question? We're all still thinking of you, of course, so have a great day."
"Morning Hun, your favourite day has arrived. Happy Christmas my love. The second one without you. It still hasn't got any easier but all the memories keep me going. I love you xxxx"
"Hi Michelle, thinking of you at your favourite time. Miss you and thought I would tell you you still bring a smile to my face as I have so many wonderful memories of you. Xx"
"I still feel sad when I think of you...sad that you're not here, that we won't see you again, sad that we didn't have enough time with you. Fly high Michelle. Xxx"
Missing you badly - hope you liked the flowers x"
"Dear Michelle, it's so sad that you're not with us anymore. I remember you as a wonderful, open and loving person. Hope you are alright, wherever you are now. All my thoughts are with Lee today. We're all missing you! Love, Tanja"
"Its been a year and we all still miss you. I have a smile on my face today as I remember you with great fondness thank you for being a friend. xx"
"A year has passed, a crazy forgettable year that has given me time to reflect and think of past memories that were so great.
No Xmas roadshow to go to this year but at least I can reflect on years gone by. Miss you Hun, take care, I will be having a few drinks tonight and talking about you, give lee a message and help him through today xx"
"Can’t believe the time past and the emotion is still as raw
But in the murkiness of life the one thing I am sure
I am still not getting used to this Michelle shaped space
As I continue to dry the warm tears rolling down my face
So much to have happened in just a year
...As the song say ‘wish you were here’
I thank my awesome friends who have helped me through
But to be honest the one tha"
"A year on since you went away. We only met when fizz & laughter was on the agenda; I wouldn't change that for anything. We didn't have a HewiGregor this year but remembered our last. Such a great night, wonderful memories.
Tomorrow is going to be so hard for Lee & your nearest & dearest. Rest assured a bottle of pink will be sunk in Hewitson Heights. xx"
"Happy Birthday sweetheart - hope the pink fizz is flying! X x x x x x
Bet your ears were burning today! X still have your last text, can't believe it was a year ago, still makes me laugh to read it - well you always managed to put a smile on everyone's face x x miss you Hun x"
"Happy birthday Michelle - so very sadly missed. Hope you're having a wonderful celebration with the Angels xxx"
"Happy Birthday Huni! Still so greatly missed but never ever forgotten! X Watch over us all especially Lee and your family! Xxxxxx"
"Happy birthday Michelle , thinking of you as are all your friends and loved ones . I know today will be hard for lee but I know you are looking out for him and helping him with his decisions . Always in our thoughts and hearts forever xxx"
"Happy birthday, wish you were here. " ain't no sunshine when she's gone. " Xxxx"
"Hi Michelle, remembering you today as will all of your loved ones. It's not a happy time today especially for Lee and your family, so I am wishing for them happy memories of your past birthday celebrations and hope this will give them strength they need for the loss they are feeling today. Sprinkle some happy dust on your loved ones Michelle be close and they will feel it too xxxxxxxxx"
"Hi Michelle, I never met you but I know how much you meant to Lee. You lit up Lee's world and reading other tributes you brought light to many others. This tribute page only signifies a small percentage of people who felt your warmth and I'm sure you are missed every day by those who knew you best."
"Love and miss you"
"Hello sweetheart. I thought it was time I left a message. I only really knew you from Millhouse Meetings at the Nags Head and in Ruislip. You always made the place come alive. Especially Christmas meetings. I bet you've made heaven all sparkly. I can't believe it's been nearly a year. I know you are keeping your eye on everyone.
Sleep well Angel. Love Claire xxx"
"Have you seen what Lee has done Hun? The arsenal shirt is very special, just like you!! You will be so pleased!! Never will we forget you Hun, we just have to look at Lee and you shine through. Xxxxxxx"
""HEY Mechelle" i came to your home just one time and you made Brian and i so welcome ,you were a lovely young lady ,loved so very much by your family & friends i would love to have known you better ,very soon Lee and i will be living near to each other ,i think we all have days when things dont go so well for us ,but Lee will be fine in Cyprus he only has to say wen are their love Heather"
"Hey 'Chell!! Had one of those days today when I missed you not being on the end of the phone :( You see the trouble was, I went 'holiday shopping' and you and I both know what that means!!!!!
As I couldnt get your advise, I ended up getting nothing!!! Now that really will leave me in a whole heap of trouble when I'm chilling in Sharm El Sheikh :)"
"Michelle I only met you once but straight away I knew you were a lovely person and my cousin was do lucky to have had you in his life .
You were his world and I know he is struggling now you ate no longer in his life , but I know you will always be with lee in his heart and mind always snd will help him through the hard times"
"Hi Michelle thought of you today. I have been to the hop festival in faversham. You would have been the best landlady at this event in the town by far. Lee and I would have been very drunk and annoying but hey you would be the voice of reason as ever. Love you miss you too x"
"Hi Michelle, thought of you today, which means mixed emotions, first sad then a big fat smile follows because of the person I knew, what can I say not many people can do that, I think this tributesite Lee set up is a great thing. I read all the things people write, it shows you were very much loved. Till the next time xxx"
"Hey Michelle,sorry its been a while but im writting now, got myself a new job, I knew your were "driven" I would like to be half as good as you, its ok im not going to do a xmas in June or anything, well not this year anyway,only you can get away with that one. Still think of you alot, till the next time ...................xx"
"I miss you my Angel, more and more every day. This pain will get less with time? I don't believe it for one second. Love you Honey xxxxxx"
"Hi Michelle, been thinking about you and Lee a lot today, so thought I would let you know. It's going to be hard for him tomorrow, god love him........ xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"
Got round to getting the Charm to go on my Pandora bracelet to remind me of you - Lovely little handbag!! Shopping sprees, dancing round them at discos and your song. It has a little pink crystal on - for our "Pink Stink Club" Love you and miss you x x x"
"Hey 'Chell! had to chuckle last Thursday - got 'THAT' e-mail - you know the one...... it starts off with 'you are invited to attend the 2012 christmas launch'.!!!! Made me think of you and inspired me to ensure that Michelles Festive Madness lives on! The Harrow Cheam will be a giant christmas bauble in memory of you this year - I promise to do you proud! Miss ya kiddo :) xx"
"Hi Michelle, bumped into Ivor the other day & had a good old chat about you, all nice of course. You young lady will (rightly so) wont be forgotten.....................til the next time xxx"
Suzie and I are drinking a cuppa in her kitchen & discussing the good old days in Banbury at Muswells with you, Lee and the gang. We can't believe how many years have passed since then & that you're not with us anymore. We never did come to see you in Cheltenham & so badly wished we had. We miss you. There's one more angel now.B&S x"
"Wish you were here by my side, i am feeling very alone right now. Love you and miss you more and more every day. I wish i could wake from this nightmare. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"
"Hi Michelle, I bumped into Shelley at Tescos earlier (we go to all the good places) and chatted about you and said still cant believe your gone. I think about you alot and how very unfair life is. Love the new pictures of you Lee has put up one word.....beautiful, till the next time M xxx"
"Difficult to put words into what I think, but you were the ONLY person that could ever get me to dress up as a bloody angel and stand on a fricking bridge in the middle of Worcester and be abused for hours!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! XXX"
"it is nearly 150 days since i lost you. my heart breaks a little more each day. Every time i see your picture or a memory in the house i shed a tear. I literally hurt with grief. i miss your face so much, i miss your touch so much, i miss the sound of your voice so much. I love you so much.
NUNC SCIO QUID SIT AMOR"
"Not sure this is a tribute....... but I had to do my own fancy dress costume last night. I was supposed to be a saloon girl, lola, with an eye for the saloon owner cactus jack ( murder mystery) and I ended up looking more like britney spears gone wrong, However I did wear 'the' pink hat, the one with the missing sequins from the 1400 reason Pink night. Miss you social secretary xxxxxx"
"Wonderful Girl, friend to everyone joy to know you sadly missed..
Gave frendship without question, god
"From what I've heard other people say, Michelle was a truely inspirational person & was loved by so many.... She will be very deeply missed. I'm only sorry I missed the opportunity to get to know you better Michelle. Sleep well xxxx"
"Hi Michelle, been thinking of you today and still find it so hard to grasp your not here and even tho we didnt see each other for a few years, I do miss you and fell a part of me is missing. You touched so many people because you were you. I talk to my future wife about you and she said she would like to of met you. Till the next time M xx"
"Oh Sweetie - Can't find the right things to say. So, thank you for the second set of holes in my ears - even though I told you I would pass out and I did in the middle of Montague Street, (the bench you laid me on is still there). I always wear a glittery pair in them to remind me of your shinning personality and our lovely friendship - Special memories - very special Lady!! x x x x x"
"Thanks for the laughs, Michelle. Victor Meldrews like me need people like you in the world! Sadly missed. Dave xx"
"Michelle, your lovely hubby thinks that we will forget about you, never is what I say!! You left too many memories and touched too many people to be forgotten, its hard to put into words how I feel, I missed so much and left it too late, Im so sorry for that. I have learnt a hard lesson & will never let that happen again, I will always be looking out for Lee now, that I can do for you xxxx"
"I only got to meet you a few times, but I know how wonderful a friend you were to my Dad & Wendy, sharing an enormous amount of happy times together. I always enjoyed hearing the stories of you getting my Dad drunk on New Years! I am sure everyone who has been touched by you will miss you terribly, I hope you are in the happiest of places, you deserve nothing less. Sleep well Angel xxx"
"Michelle was a true gem...a rare and precious find in this world. The memory of her brilliance will shine on forever, like the diamond that she was.
Michelle Hardy - forever missed. Xxxxxxx"
"Hello Michelle... sorry I never realised what a clever unique girl you were. I didn't have enough time... I see I'm not the only one who has said this. But loved you were and still are - and always will be. God Bless you lovely girl."
"There are so few people in this world that are bright, bubbly and so full of happiness. I make it a ritual now of ensuring I buy a bottle of pink fizz every month just so that I can remember you by. You and lee were a close knit and knowing that you are a lover of football I just wish you could of come down to watch the cherries just like lee had to against tranmere' sorry lee!! Xxxx"
"Michelle you have touched so many peoples lives without realising, the smile, the energy, your personality. Every time i see something pink and a bottle of fizz you are in my thoughts.God bless Honey x"
"" MICHELLE" SUCH A LOVELY LADY,LOVED AND MISSED BY SO MANY ,I WISH I HAD, HAD THE PRIVALIGE OF KNOWING MORE ,
BUT THEN I ONLY HAD TO LISTEN TO YOUR LEE ,AND THE WORDS HE SPOKE OF YOU ,THEIR WAS NOTHING MORE TO KNOW,GOD BLESS YOU SWEETHEART,WE WILL ALWAYS BE THINKING ,AND SPEAKING YOUR NAME WITH LOVE ,HUGS AND KISSES AUNTIE HEATHER,SLEEP TIGHT XXX"
"Perhaps they are not the stars,
but rather openings in Heaven
where the love of our lost ones
pours through and shines down
upon us to let us know they are happy.xxxx"
"our world is a lot duller without you xxxxxxx"
"What can I say Michelle ? I still think about that photo you took of me with the dodgy perm, which im glad to say is safely tucked away somewhere under lock and key lol We had fab times as 15/16 year olds eh? I would love my 3 boys to have a friendship like ours. God I miss you, I chatt to Lee, good man there. xx"
"Miss you every day. Forever my best friend, forever in my heart. Xx"
"The wonderful wife of my best buddy Lee, a wonderful women in her own right who I was lucky enough to know for many years. Never down when I was. Never judging when others would. Always warm. Always a smile to light even the largest of rooms. Always the voice of reason when Lee and I were "miss behaving"!! Always remembered, with a smile in my heart."
"Michelle I wish I'd known you better, but even though it was mainly through banter with you on Facebook and listening to Lee and those who did, well I really wish I had! You meant so much and were loved and admired by so many! Truely someone to be admired xxxxxxx"
"It's Valentines day today sweetheart and one sure thing "you were loved by so many people" xx"
"My Best friend, My soulmate, My everything,
Nunc Scio Quid Sit Amor"
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