I was a no body, but he was my friend :)
I met Mike on a Tinnitus board. I was newly afflicted with Tinnitus and was looking for support and answers on how to cope with this. Ringing , noise, in the ears. We are all told by specialist, "just learn to live with it". Mike can attest to being told this too.
Mike was in the music industry for years and his ears where his career for the sound he had to hear to make him the genious he was in the music industry. Sadly this more then likely gave him extreme tinnitus. It is something very hard to cope with, although Mike was one who learned to live with it as we all do and drown it out to make the music he made sound so incredibly superior.
I was a no body from Ontario Canada. I was searching for help out of sheer fear of what was newly going on with me. At first I thought I was going to go crazy with it. Nothing can get rid of it and it takes a long time to get used to it. Peace is something us Tinnitus sufferers never ever get again. Mike was who he was, larger then life in who he was and what he did, and I was just someone in Canada who was a hair stylist. On the Tinnitus Board Mike replyed to many of my posts in genuine empathy toward what I was going through. He gave me answers and hope that I will learn to live with it. We formed a friendship over this Tinnitus through the board and I could tell what a great guy he was. Not only was music his passion but his concern over people even us no bodies ;)
In the early days, Mike helped me hang on and was an inspiration being in his industry and being able to over come the Tinnitus he had.
We were worlds apart however in the time I knew Mike, I was blessed by knowing him. It has sadden me beyond finding out recently of his passing. I am shocked, sadden, and wondering "why?"
Perhaps if I still was in contact with him, I too could have talked him into sticking around the way he did me years ago.
I wish I had answers as this is quite shocking and I am so removed from his circle of friends that I may never really know what happened.. I genuinly cared about him as the person he was. A kind soul.
If I could get some answers as to what he was going through or what demons he was fighting it sure would give me closure. Mike shared a lot with me in our conversations about Tinnitus and just life itself.I could tell he would be a true friend to anyone who knew him.
I can be reached at bethannekeep@yahoo.ca Should anyone be able to give me closure on this dear fellow.
Thank You and Mike, now you have total peace :)
Rest my friend.
Bethanne Keep