ForeverMissed
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Mike UTSAHA, 53 years old, born on May 5, 1969, and passed away on March 14, 2023. We will remember him forever.
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March 24
March 24
Mike, I cannot believe I have to write this because someone as full of life as you has left us. Ever since we first met at the small CDD office in Abuja nearly twenty years ago, you have been a wonderful and dependable friend. You opened up your life & your home to me on so many occasions, and we travelled together to investigate conflict and suffering of others because a sense of justice was always at the heart of who you were and will always be, alongside your good humour, resilience & dependability. Through you I met your family and so many other wonderful people who will all miss you hugely. Man, it was fun too. I wish you hadn’t gone. Rest well.
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March 24
March 24
I post this with a heavy heart. Eighteen years ago we studied together at the Central European University in Hungary . U were the big brother of the group of ten. With your infectious laugh. This is a great loss. But God knows best!
Heartfelt condolences to your family.
Rest well brother and may Light Perpetual shine on.
Open Society Justice Initiative Fellows class of 2005 and the Central European University, Legal Studies Department 2005 send their condolences to the family and say Rest In Peace .
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March 23
March 23
I come here every evening to see if anything has changed. But everyday I see a new tribute from one of your numerous friends and I pinch myself to be sure I'm still conscious.Your best friend asked after you today, I don't know what to tell him because he probably won't understand. I've never been lost for words like I am these days. Kai Mike, you do me strong thing!!! Rest my dearest friend, rest.
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March 23
March 23
I was very shocked to learn about Mike’s passing! We during the early days of The KUKAH Centre! A gentleman to the core. A true Catholic whose faith influence his actions…. No one is perfect, but Mike tried! May God receive his gentle soul and console his family.
Nigeria has lost a great patriot!
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March 23
My Brother u Nonso..Still hard to believe you've gone.!!!
You will surely be missed. Thank God, our paths crossed many many years ago. And l don't regret knowing you...Mike Utsaha,so vibrant and full of life..May the heavens receive your soul till we meet on the resurrection morning.Za Bem Bem Ooo....
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March 23
Mike Our last Meeting was at Joy Iweka's Book Signing in Sam and Ngunan Addingi's Residence in Makurdi...You Were so easy to talk to, and I did talk to you that Night, We were to Continue that Conversation Over Lunch, a Date We Failed to Agree On...... Typical of We Humans, We Probably thought Theres Still Time ..Now I am Still Shell Shocked at How Transient Time and Life is ...You are Gone Just like That....No More Banters On Facebook From You to Mchivir Biam and Andy Ayabam or You Looking for Nguemo Kpete's Trouble with your Posts....No more analytical intellectual discuss on Life,Law and Politics...You were Brilliant And Great Indeed......Kai... Mike, You are Gone too Soon..
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March 23
March 23
Dear Mike, all I can honestly say is my condolence goes out to friends and family youvr left behind. As for your deeds 23 years ago, I will leave them to the mercies of the Almighty and allow your memory to live on untarnished in the minds of those who remember you. Rest in peace..
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March 22
March 22
My dear brother and friend
It's still like a dream, I can't imagine you not here anymore.
Michael, Full of laughter, full of life...
Never holding a grudge...
Always willing to listen and advice...

Our childhood memories came flooding back. Too many...
You just left...
I tried to understand how, why....
I didn't see this coming but who am I to question our maker.

May your soul find rest my brother.♥️
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March 22
March 22
Even until this very moment, I still cannot believe that you’re no more. I find myself on the edge of my bed every night, lost in thought. I love you forever and a day more; were a father to me when I had none. How is it possible that you just left, just like that.

This is really hard to accept. This is really, really hard to accept.
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March 21
March 21
Mike, it’s truly painful that you had to leave this way. After our days at SBS Makurdi in 1987, I never got the privilege of seeing you again until I got this heart rendering news about your call to glory. I cherished our friendship then and still do till date. May your soul rest in peace with the Lord, till we meet to part no more.
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March 21
March 21
You will be missed.
May the Good Lord show you mercy and grant your soul eternal rest in His bosom, Amen!
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March 20
March 20
Mike, your passing has taught me many lessons, just like you always offered me advice and guidance. I will not see you again, but the memories of you, I will always treasure. Sleep peacefully, Mike.
March 19
March 19
To live in the hearts of those you love they say is not to die.
Dear Mike, you are not dead because you live in my heart.
I miss the physical friendship but I will keep the fire burning.
I'm not going to cry, I promise
March 19
March 19
Tarnongo Utsaha Kpash! Ku kuma sha awe ga cii, tuna ngee gande.

My cheerleader. You believed in me, much more than I could possibly believe in myself. Always ready and asking how you could help. How I wish I knew what you were going through, to listen, to tell you it is well.

Someday I may make sense of your death, like i am trying to make sense of Carol, Justin and your namesake Tarnongo Geebe.
Good night my friend. You will be missed.
March 19
March 19
Tarnongo Utsaha Kpash! Ku kuma sha awe ga cii, tuna ngee gande.

My cheerleader. You believed in me, much more than I could possibly believe in myself. Always ready and asking how you could help. How I wish I knew what you were going through, to listen, to tell you it is well.

Someday I may make sense of your death, like i am trying to make sense of Carol, Justin and your namesake Tarnongo Geebe.
Good night my friend. You will be missed.
March 19
March 19
I am still in shock over the news of your death. All of us at Concerned Women International Development Initiative (CWIDI) were eagerly waiting for you to get well so we don't have to look for another barrister to anchor our human rights trainings again. Your sessions were so full of life such that, there was no need for ice breakers because you already carried fire and life into each session. I worked with you just briefly but the mark you left in my life and our organization can never be forgotten. You have left a vacuum that will be difficult to fill but God knows best. Rest in peace.
March 19
March 19
Mike; that there is only one life to live would ever remain one of the most painful realizations; else we would have wished you come back to us, we however take solace in the fact that where you are resting with the Lord, we shall meet never to part anymore. Adieu.
March 19
March 19
Tarnongo, I loved our fights, philosophical and legal arguments. Above all I loved it when we talked about our childhood and our parents long lasting friendship. I teased you a lot about being everyone’s sweetheart. I saw you as my kid brother which you never wanted mentioned. As a kid you were everywhere with your dad who was always proud to show you off. You’ve dealt all of us a blow below the belt. It hursts so much to say goodbye. You served God genuinely and with a passion you defended the church. May all your good works and faith take you to Our Lord Jesus Christ where you’ll live forever and ever amen.
March 19
March 19
Still trying to comprehend.... Our regular meeting joint used to be Sahad stores and you will always pay for my goods. My Big Bros, My Caus. Just like that? Rest in perfect peace.
March 19
March 19
Mike, it's so hard to believe you are no more. From when we met in the famous Lagos B4 in SBS right through the university of Jos, you're a jolly good friend. There never was a dull moment with you. May God comfort your family and all of us who knew and loved you. Greet Taryann, Mark T, Terhemba and Koach who left before you.
March 18
March 18
May the road rise up to meet you.
May the wind be always at your back.
May the sun shine warm upon your face;
the rains fall soft upon your fields and until we meet again,may God hold you in the palm of His hand. Rest In Peace Miko
March 18
March 18
Beyond crying I am speechless!
I am numb! Haba my Uncle Mike!
You were my Big Brother I never had!
Then you left me stranded
May your soul rest in perfect peace, AMEN 

Nancy Katsina-Alu.
March 18
March 18
I received the unfortunate news of your death with great shock. We met recently and you didn't appear as someone that will leave us soon. As President of the CMO, I invited you as a guest speaker for our CMO week. You came and gave us a wonderful talk that was centered on God's mercy. You took time after the occasion to praise and encourage me. We had another talk on Prostate Cancer and you still came, you again took out time to encourage me. I still hear your kind words of encouragement. May God look at your soul with mercy and grant you eternal rest. Rest in peace, big bro.
Dr. Stephen Akuma
President CMO
Catholic Youth Center Parish.
March 18
March 18
Dera Micheal Tarnongo Bokon Utsaha,
You were truly a good friend.
Andrew Ayabam, Charles Erukaa, Jack Gberkon and I were younger but you took us all in as friends.
We fought, made up, fought made up, fought and made up but the bond of friendship grew stronger.
May the wise one allocate you one of dem mansions he spoke about in John 14:2
Yav Dedoo SAA kper Tarnongo wangom.
March 18
Dear Mike, I am speechless and can 't really comprehend your passing on. May the angels welcome you home and God grant you eternal rest and your family comfort.
March 18
March 18
Michael you were different things to everyone, but you were everything to me, I have experienced painful deaths recently, but the pain of your death is unfathomable to me, I have searched in the deepest to understand why you will leave now, you shared plenty of dreams, you had so much unfinished, maybe that's my human understanding, you most probably had finished all that the Lord had set for you to do here, all I ask of him is to make you an angel over us your loved ones.
You thought me so much and I promise I will put all to use, I will make sure not to fail you.
I love and cherish every moment of our friendship.
Rest in peace my forever Friend.
March 18
March 18
Uncle Mike, you left us at a time we needed you most. You always encouraged me to the best I can always be and I should never forget about my roots and people I grew up with.

May God rest your soul and give us Peace. It is well. Rest with the lord.
March 18
Rest in perfect peace Mike Utsaha. It's hard to believe you are no more but God knows best. Till we meet at the lord's feet.
March 18
March 18
Mike, I am struggling to type this because I can't stop weeping. How could I have known that 2020 would be the last time we will see, talk, laugh, and hear you say "TT de daan", followed by your signature hearty laugh when I say something funny or otrageous. You promised to take me to eat luam u shin tine kon whenever I visited, that will never be the case. My darling brother, you were genuine, selfless, humble, and caring, I will miss these attributes. Two weeks ago, it occured to me that I didn't get a message from you, very unusual of you, and you were also silent on social media. I was going to call but I procrastinated, then came the earth shattering news that you had left us. Like several other friends of yours, I feel I failed you at a time you really needed me, I wish I knew what you were going through. I have so much to say but I will leave it right here. I love you, I will miss you, but you will live in my heart forever. Goodnight, and may your sleep be sweet and peaceful.
March 18
Chairman as I fondly called you. Can't still believe you are gone Sir. You were an inspiration to me. You made me confident and made me love reading the more. I remember when I read all your John Grisham books on your book shelve. You encouraged me and always told me to believe in myself. Although you gone but I know you are in heaven smiling down at us. Rest on Sir . May God grant the family the fortitude to bear this irreplaceable loss. Love you and you would forever be in my mind.

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March 24
March 24
Mike, I cannot believe I have to write this because someone as full of life as you has left us. Ever since we first met at the small CDD office in Abuja nearly twenty years ago, you have been a wonderful and dependable friend. You opened up your life & your home to me on so many occasions, and we travelled together to investigate conflict and suffering of others because a sense of justice was always at the heart of who you were and will always be, alongside your good humour, resilience & dependability. Through you I met your family and so many other wonderful people who will all miss you hugely. Man, it was fun too. I wish you hadn’t gone. Rest well.
New
March 24
March 24
I post this with a heavy heart. Eighteen years ago we studied together at the Central European University in Hungary . U were the big brother of the group of ten. With your infectious laugh. This is a great loss. But God knows best!
Heartfelt condolences to your family.
Rest well brother and may Light Perpetual shine on.
Open Society Justice Initiative Fellows class of 2005 and the Central European University, Legal Studies Department 2005 send their condolences to the family and say Rest In Peace .
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March 23
March 23
I come here every evening to see if anything has changed. But everyday I see a new tribute from one of your numerous friends and I pinch myself to be sure I'm still conscious.Your best friend asked after you today, I don't know what to tell him because he probably won't understand. I've never been lost for words like I am these days. Kai Mike, you do me strong thing!!! Rest my dearest friend, rest.
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