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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Minor Tinsley, born on June 23, 1962, and passed away on February 28, 2021. We will remember him forever.
February 28
February 28
Uncle, your legacy is powerful! The last text you sent me was a funny video about dating red flags to watch out for. You knew where my thoughts were and you'd give your advice so willingly. I took it like a sponge. You're still teaching me and loving on me to this day. And I know it will always be like that between us until we meet again. You taught me to enjoy the moments of life while you're experiencing them. I watched you live that truth everytime I saw you. And although I will always miss you, I am constantly reminded of that lesson whenever I see, talk to, or even think of Auntie Esther, Tori, and Roli. You're such a blessing to all of us who knew you. Thank you for loving on us and reminding us that joy is as much of a choice as it is a gift. God's given it to us but it's up to us to use it to it's full potential. You did that so well Uncle! Love and miss you. Greatful to be one of your nephews and to be a torch-bearer, carrying on the legacy you left all of us.
June 23, 2023
June 23, 2023
Unforgettable! Forever in our hearts. Deeply missed. The memory of the righteous is blessed forever!
June 23, 2023
June 23, 2023
We miss you on this of reality but we are comforted that we shall all unite some day in His presence, and shall part no more.
June 23, 2023
June 23, 2023
Happy birthday Uncle Minor! Say hi to my grandma for me.
  
June 23, 2023
June 23, 2023
The memory of the righteous is blessed! Keep resting my dear uncle, joyous is the resurrection morning!
March 2, 2023
March 2, 2023
Continue to rest in peace. I have no doubt that you will rise in glory! Miss you terribly.
March 2, 2023
March 2, 2023
In Loving Memory of you, Minor. Thank you for being an awesome friend.
February 28, 2023
February 28, 2023
2 years, Uncle. I love you and miss you. It's amazing seeing you whenever I get the chance to be around your daughters. They both represent you and Auntie Esther so well. I'm working hard to continue to live out the lessons you kept sharing with me everytime we spoke. You are such a great mentor! Thank you for your willingness to share your experiences with me. That's love. Because you gave it so freely I have the opportunity to make sure my perspective of life stays in alignment with God's will. His Word says that Jesus came to give us life and life abundantly. You lived in that abundance by accepting joy everywhere God gives it. Thank for that example. So proud of you. Love you.
June 23, 2022
June 23, 2022
Happy birthday Uncle Minor. Say Hi to my mommy and Mama Pam … we love you .
June 23, 2022
June 23, 2022
Happy heavenly birthday Dr. Tinsley. You are truly missed.
March 2, 2022
March 2, 2022
Sending my love and remembering my Cousin, Minor aka Mr. Porcupine (inside joke since I was little). You brought so much joy and laughter to the Johnson family, you are missed.
To my cousin Ester and my little cousins you are loved. We will always remember your father.
Love Kiendra. 
March 1, 2022
March 1, 2022
"When we lose someone we love we must learn not to live without them but to live with the love they left behind" Dr Minor was full of love for all of us, never a negative word or feeling about anyone. We live with the immense love he left behind. May his gentle, peaceful and graceful soul continue to rest in perfect peace. It is well IJN
February 28, 2022
February 28, 2022
Unforgettable!!! Forever in my heart. My big brother, Minor, continue to Rest In Peace with our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ
February 28, 2022
February 28, 2022
Minor rest on, we still cherish the memories of you at The Father's House, RICC, Lekki, Lagos.
February 28, 2022
February 28, 2022
Uncle - I love you and miss you. I'm doing my best to live out all the amazing lessons you've taught me over the years. Thank you for reminding me to joyful and to enjoy the moments in our lives. I can't wait till I can see you again.

Love you Uncle
July 7, 2021
July 7, 2021
Sorry to learn of this. "Mr Tinsley" (we had to call eachother by our last names on the floor) and I worked together at Best Products in the early 80s. Was a real joy in my life during college.
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
I will never forget your birthday. Exactly four weeks before mine. Every year I have said happy birthday to you and this year won’t be any different. Happy heavenly birthday dear friend. Gone but never ever forgotten.
April 27, 2021
April 27, 2021
I just found out about Dr. Tinsley's death yesterday afternoon. He was a wonderful man. I first met him at Crosby Chiropractic late 2011 and saw him again in 2019 while working with Dr. Cadava. RIP.
April 20, 2021
April 20, 2021
Minor was a great friend to me. We attended San Diego City College together in the early 1980’s. I was so proud of him to learn he had completed his studies and became a doctor. My heart was truly saddened when I opened my Facebook and saw a gravesite memorial being held for him. My prayers are with his lovely wife and beautiful children, his mom, sister and other family members. I will always remember my good friend Minor and thank God that he blessed me to be able to fellowship with him. He was an outstanding and awesome person. I’m truly saddened. God bless you all.
April 10, 2021
April 10, 2021
My dearest cousin, Minor, you were a true blessing to many. The last few weeks I’ve been thinking about the many good memories. You were a great role model to me. I especially thank you for always expressing the importance of education. As I grew older and created my own family you always told me to focus on my family because that was most important in life. Minor had a contagious laugh. If he wasn’t telling me a joke, using a funny voice or impression, then his laugh just made me laugh. Every single time I remember seeing him, he was making me laugh. I’ll always remember that. My prayers and deepest love to my cousins Esther, Tori and Roli. Love you Mr. Porcupine.
-Kiendra White, M.Ed (1st Cousin)
April 4, 2021
April 4, 2021
We could not have asked for a better father, a better teacher, or a better advisor, and we are forever indebted to God for giving us you as my daddy. If you were a great father, then we know God has to be the Greatest Father. You led your life seeking to embody the Scriptures manual of how to be a good father, and you did well. You loved God, you loved the Scriptures, and thus, you knew how to be the best father to us. We now have two fathers in heaven, one earthly and one heavenly, and we want nothing more in life than to please both and bring smiles to their faces.

You have left your imprint in the hearts of people you loved. We see aspects of you in our mom, in Mama, in Auntie Cindi, and in us. We know that even though we are without you, in a way, we still have you. You seem a million lightyears away, but we have to remember you’re not too far away from us.

We love you Daddy so much, there is no one in the world like you, and We hope to see you again.

Love your bigg gurl and little gurl
April 4, 2021
April 4, 2021
To Daddy

Because of you, I now know what it means to not only love, but to love well. My fondest memory of you is a conglomeration of moments where you said three words: “I love you.” You said “I love you” to me every single day, accompanied with a warm engulfing hug or with a light kiss on the forehead or simply with loving eyes. You made me feel loved; you made me feel cherished; you made me feel safe; you made me feel like I was the most precious thing to you in the world. The words “I love you” were not just an expression to you, they carried momentous weight and truth because your actions were emblematic of your love for us. Your hugs, your kisses, your listening ear, your endearing nicknames for your loved ones “bigg-girl, little girl, baby, boo, wife, Roo” and your desire to spend quality time with the people you loved all were displayals of your immense love for each and everyone one us.

Because of you, I know how to live a good life. You showed me the importance of family, raised me up in the church, emphasized the value of education, taught me the power of prayer, advised me accordingly, encouraged me to be thankful even for the little things in life, brought fun into every aspect of my life, and fed me your words of wisdom. You always reminded me to cherish each and every moment of every day, being appreciative of each and every thing God has provided us. Such advice now has newfound meaning, and I hope to be like you, snapping photographic memories of life’s moments -- appreciating the beauty of creation in the San Diego landscape, admiring the way Roli’s whole face lights up when she has a good laugh, feeling the warmth of your wife’s caring embrace. A month ago you told me: “You are very fortunate to have God as your cloud by day and your star by night. In all things, find reasons for praise.” And so, I will.

Because of you, I know what true sacrifice is. You poured your all into raising my sister and I up. You sacrificed your everything to see our flourishing, the most selfless thing a parent could ever do. And you did it intentionally, willingly, happily, and lovingly. Not only will I always be thankful, but I yearn to do the same as you, because you were the ultimate giver.

I love you.
April 3, 2021
April 3, 2021
He will be missed on this side on heaven but we are comforted he rests. Rest on till that day.
April 2, 2021
April 2, 2021

As we have laid my Uncle Minor to rest today, I thank God for the Life he lived. A great man, indeed he was. Always full of life, radiating joy, happiness and only good vibes. So many fond childhood memories were shared in San Diego at his home where he was always so warm and accommodating of our huge family, cracking us up and barbecuing a storm. He shared the sweetest and model relationship with my dear aunty, they were a very loving couple, He was a great Dad to my cousins Tori & Roli. I pray and trust that God gives them, Aunty Cindy & Grandma the strength that they need to bear this, and indeed us all. We will not mourn like the unbelievers for we know uncle minor was a man of faith, upright & living to please God so we have the confidence that he is in a better place with our Heavenly Father.
Precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of his saints. Rest well my dear Uncle, you are loved and missed greatly.
April 2, 2021
April 2, 2021
I always thought of Uncle Minor as a good man. Most of my childhood holidays were spent in America and a good portion of that time was spent with my Aunt Esther and her family. I enjoyed my time with them and Uncle Minor always made me feel welcome and happy during my holidays. Even though we visited America a lot less in recent times, every time I saw Uncle Minor he always reminded me of the fun times I had when I’d visit. Even though we must all return to the earth one day, my heart still aches because it was too soon. Only God knows why, but I am sure Uncle Minor is in a better place. I know he will always be watching over his family and I know he will always be here in all of our hearts. Rest In Peace Uncle ❤️
April 2, 2021
April 2, 2021
“For to me, to live is Christ, and to die is gain” Philippians 1:21

Our God in his infinite wisdom has called our dear uncle Minor home, I have peace knowing that your spirit is alive by the almighty power of God.

My dearest Aunty Esther and darling cousins, we love you so much and are praying that the master comforter fills your hearts with peace that surpasses all understanding. It is well with your souls.

Sleep well Uncle Minor, till we meet again.
April 2, 2021
April 2, 2021
May your soul Rest In Peace. May God comfort your entire family.
April 2, 2021
April 2, 2021
Dr minor u live d world like a vapour that blows to d air sir u we surly be miss good bye
April 2, 2021
April 2, 2021
This is so hard for me. How can I say Farewell or is it goodnight or goodbye to you Minor my dear brother, friend and confidant. You were such a good person.
A great ,loving, caring husband to my sister Esther. A fantastic super dad to your two beautiful children Tori and Roli. A caring loving Uncle to all your nieces and nephews. A loving and caring brother to all of us. A loving and caring son. What more can I say about Minor?

Is it his lovely smile that welcomes you when you see him. Who is going to say to me “the Okoturo sisters can cook” or “I’ll pick you up from the airport” he was always showing up.

I waited this long thinking of what to say/write about Minor but the words are just not coming out, it’s all in my heart and mind.
Minor I’m so happy i saw you in January 2020 and you got to see Ella, her “grandpa Minor” she loved you.

Minor Sleep on at the bosom of the Lord and keep watching over your wife, children, sisters, brothers, moms and friends.
April 2, 2021
April 2, 2021
Where do I really begin? My dearest uncle Minor, you were a good man with a heart of Gold, you leaving this earth is so you watch over all of us , you touched Lives and had lots of Love to Give, thanks for giving my Aunt Esther, Tori and Roli the best life. The host of heaven definitely has gotten another Angel.

It's till we meet again uncle.
Sleep well
April 2, 2021
April 2, 2021
Uncle Minor

What news! ‘But precious in the sight of the Lord is the death of His saints’ Ps 116:15 and we know that our loss is Heaven’s gain, Phil 1:21. Your faith was exemplified by the way you lived, your love for God, your wife, daughters, mother, sister, and every member of the family as well as the people you came in contact with. We pray for God’s comfort for us all. Our thoughts and prayers are with Esther and the girls. Your legacy lives on! Till we meet again to part no more 1Thess 4:13-18
April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
We're lost for words....
Thinking of all the good times we all had at family gatherings for the holidays.
Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. (Matthew 5:4)
Uncle Minor is loved and will be truly missed.
-Toya and Nay
April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
Minor, my nephew, I have known you all of your life. And I can truthfully say that you are one of God's special souls. Not only were you kind, considerate, and thoughtful, you were also consistent. In all of the years, I have known you, I have never observed you to exhibit anger at anyone or anything.  Minor, you were also unique. You chose not to follow a beaten path, but to make your own path. The purity of your soul allowed you to interact with people in a very personal and caring manner. Your positive energy flowed from you to the people around you - family, friends, colleagues, even strangers benefited from your presence. Everybody loved you!! Clearly God also loved you because he gave you this gift and you used it wisely. 
Minor, your physical presence may no longer be with us, but you have not left us. Your soul, your energy, your spirit will always be with each and every one of us who knew you. 

Roli, Tori, and Esther, Minor lives inside each of you. When you are sad and are missing his physical presence, just look in the mirror ........ he will be there.
April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
Dear Esther and family,
I am so sorry on the passing to glory of Minor. He was a gentle and caring man. I remember when he attended my birthday in LA, he was just smiling and so happy to see Esther’s friends. What a gentle man. Great father, husband and son. We surrender all into God’s hands. He is the author and the finisher of our souls. May God Almighty give us the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss. May Minor’s memory on earth brings smile to your face. May his gentle soul rest in perfect peace. May God comfort and strengthen family and friends he left behind. May God give the departed eternal rest. Minor, we love you, but God loves you more, sleep well, sleep well.
April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
Dear Esther and family,
When I think of Minor, I think of how joyous he was every time I saw him. Truly a man who loved God and his family. I'll never forget how he was able to correct the pain in my back and was instrumental in my recovery and elimination of pain meds and muscle relaxants. I'm forever grateful to him. I pray that you will continue to cherish the times you had with him and knowing that he is in the presence of God will provide some comfort during the difficult times. Anytime you need a getaway, I'm here. 
April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
My dearest Brother Minor,

I can scarcely believe that I am writing this. It had been many years since we had last seen each other but my abiding memory is of that summer I came with the children to San Diego, your house was the centre of all family connectivity. Such was your warmth and welcoming smile that we all felt that your house was our second home.

I am so blessed to have known you, to know you is to love you. From the day when you made my sister Esther the happiest woman in the world when we witnessed your wedding to the end you were a man of integrity, kindness and humility. May we all remember to embrace these same qualities every time we are reminded of you.

May the Lord continue to bless Esther, Tori & Roli and all of your family always! May he comfort and strengthen them all as they Lean on you and not on our own understanding because it is impossible for us to understand and make sense of this but we trust in the Lord to see us through. What you, Minor, have put in place for your family, the Lord will complete it in the Name of Jesus.

Rest in Peace my brother, until we meet again.
❤️
April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
Minor and I worked together for over the last five years. His dedication to his work, patients and responsibilities were so treasured and appreciated. I sought him out to work at my office and am so glad he agreed.
He always had a smile on his face and genuine interest in other people.
In fact, I can still hear him say every morning, "Good morning all," and to every patient on Monday mornings, "Tell me what you did this weekend and don't leave anything out."

Minor was such a kind soul and would take time with people/patients to hear their stories and give advice, even outside of healthcare. One of the topics I often overheard him talking about with patients was family and being a good spouse.

Minor and I spoke often in between patients about his children and the way him and Esther were raising them. He would say they laid the foundation early for the girls and wanted them to be independent thinkers and kind people. He was a very proud father and husband. One of the last conversations we had about the girls was a question I asked about dating...well, his smile quickly changed to a furrowed eyebrow - then we laughed. Apparently, not in the cards currently in his mind. 

Minor and I would often attend the same seminars. I could always find him by looking for his black baseball cap he would always wear which would inevitably be pulled down over his eyes so he could sleep. Then Monday mornings I would ask him what he learned at the seminar and he would get that big smile on his face because he knew we all saw him sleeping. Again, we would laugh about it.  

Minor was part of my team. My colleague. My friend. 

I'm going to miss my friend. 

My deepest sympathies to Esther, Tori, Roli and family.
April 1, 2021
April 1, 2021
Dear Minor,

You were such a kind, loving, happy, genuine, proud husband and father. Words can not express how shocked I was to hear that you had been called home. I am so blessed to have known you and share so many special memories with you and Esther over the years. I will always cherish those memories forever. You were the only other person that called me shooshay besides Esther. You will be dearly missed.
Rest In Peace my friend.
March 31, 2021
March 31, 2021
Dr Minor.

Former US President Barack Obama said: "When I think about the depth of the grave and the kilos of sand that are going to be thrown at us, there is no need to harm my brother; When I think of the darkness that pervades the tomb after it has closed, there is no need to hurt my sister; When I think of the heat driven back by the ground and the amount of water that will drown me during the rains in this grave, I cannot make my neighbor suffer; When I think that I will be alone abandoned by all, I prefer to enjoy communion when I am alive; When I think my relationships are cut off by my past, I want to perfect my future. If I could be reborn and start all over again, I would no longer make mistakes in my actions. After a long meditation, I understood that all is vanity on earth. May God help us to cultivate humility and love of neighbor, because vanity only gives vanity, everything will be vanity. Be happy and make someone happy.

I shared this quote with Minor only a few months ago in one of our numerous chats, we were sharing views on life in general and its many challenges and part of his response was and I quote;

" Wow! My brother, Great words to inspire thought. You are so right; or let me say, I totally agree with you. I know the circumstances have been tough. Each person has received their own distribution of challenge. We men can't talk, We suck it up, and keep going. You were a blessing to me. Like you said, we have loving wives who care - no doubt about that. We have children who we love. These are two things in life people spend their entire time trying to obtain. You and I are indeed Blessed".

This was typical Minor, thoughtful, humble, generous in mind and spirit, ever forgiving and always understanding. Minor my brother! The news of your passing  made me so sad, it still continues to sadden me but God is in control and is indeed in charge. What  a wonderfully warm, positive and thoughtful guy.  He came to spend time with us in Nigeria with such a wonderfully positive spirit and we spent so much time just sitting, talking, laughing, pseudo philosophising, there was no subject that was  off limits or not discussed, the personal , temporal, spiritual and philosophical and the underlying themes always reflected Minor’s humility, spirituality and positivity.  He never lost faith in his “ brothers” and  he was so proud of his “ African” origins, he never felt deterred or negatively impacted. He was indeed a wonderful and very special person.

My heart goes out to my sister, Esther and our darlings Tori and Roli. May God give all of you the fortitude and strength to bear this loss.
My brother, Minor, i will miss you deeply.  Rest in perfect peace, my brother. You were indeed a blessing to all of us.




Sent from my Galaxy

March 31, 2021
March 31, 2021
I don’t even know where to begin. Writing this was so hard because this is not something any of us could have ever anticipated and it doesn’t make sense. It still feels like a dream.

Uncle Minor, you seemed like a constant part of my life and now you’re gone. I don’t know how to reconcile that because it doesnt make any sense, so I won’t try to make sense of it because what good will that do?

Uncle Minor??? We thought you’d be here forever.

I can still remember your familiar scent, the lovely barbecue and the breakfast you’d make for Tori, Roli, Aby and I whenever we were around. Even when I was a vegetarian, I would still be tempted by the thought of one of your meals - especially the barbecue! I can’t believe I’ll never taste that again. I remember how you had marshmallows in the garage and you would make rice krispy treats. The day before Aby and I got the news of your passing, I made rice krispy treats and Aby and I talked about the fact that yours were still the best we’d ever had.

I’m going to miss you so much Uncle and your joyful presence. All your funny jokes, the photos and the thoughtful words. The message you sent me on my birthday was so special and I will always cherish it. I will miss you so much.

I’m so sorry Aunty Esther, Roli and Tori. I’m so sorry Aunty Cindy and I’m so sorry Grandma Tinsley. This is a huge loss to bear but we will all bear it with you, cherish you and support you and send you comforting thoughts, even if it’s from far away.

I hope you can find comfort in the words that have been shared, the idea that he lives with you and is looking out for you. I hope you can find a way to live for him so you’re never without him, even if its difficult.

It doesnt make sense. at all. and I’m so sorry.

Lots of love,

Temi
March 31, 2021
March 31, 2021
Don't spend too much
time in mourning.
Tears are for the sad.

I left to be with Jesus, and
this should make you glad.

Don't waste your
hours in grieving.
No need to feel distress.
I'm tired of life's frustrations,
and had to get some rest.

Don't vex yourself with
questions, or try to reason why.
Life here for me was ended;
it came my time to die.

Don't lose the love I gave you;
feed it with your care.
Grow it with devotion and
spread it everywhere.

Don't fret because my leaving
came in such a way.
We'll have another meeting,
in God's Eternal Day!


By :Katie Evans
March 31, 2021
March 31, 2021
❤ REST IN PEACE MY BRO. ❤

Death can never take a good man away, for, in the hearts of loved one, his soul continuous throughout generations.


MY BROTHER MINOR, I CANNOT EXPLAIN HOW MUCH I WILL MISS YOU.

May you find rest and may we all see you again.


To HIS wife MY sister Esther,

Words no matter how kind can’t mend your heartache. However, those of us who care for you wish you comfort and peace of mind.

Losing someone we love is never easy, but we must be thankful for, the beautiful moments and memories we shared with them.

At this trying period in your life, I pray that God will grant you the serenity and peace that you need to get through this and that may the fond memories of your husband Minor bring you comfort during this hard time in your life.


To HIS Children MY LOVELY nieces TORI and ROLI;

I wish I could be there with you guys to honor your dad. "He was a great man, he is my brother.”

Your dad lived for the two of you and he was so proud and loved you guys very much. I hope this comforts you both as you deal with his loss.

He Lives on in the two of you. The lessons your were taught, the love he gave, the way he cared for people…all those good things live on in you guys.

May God give you both comfort. May He wrap His arms around the two of you and give you both peace and hope. May He fill each of you with strength, and may you both feel His love.

Remember, you guys are not alone and be gentle with yourself, and take all the time you need to heal.
Every time you miss him, search in your heart, there you can feel him, be with him and embrace him. Though he is physically gone, the life he lived and the memories you shared remains. You should both have faith and be strong. I on the other hand will always treasure the fun memories I have with your Dad.


To HIS sister (MY sister) Cindy and mother Mrs Tinsley,

There are no words to express my sorrow for your loss, may you both find comfort in the loving memories you shared while he was alive. Accept my condolence.


MY BROTHER DR MINOR TINSLEY IS A GREAT MAN, HUSBAND, FATHER AND FRIEND TO MANY, HE WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN.

Into your hands o Lord our God we COMMIT our brothers spirit. Psalm 31:5.

REST IN PERFECT PEACE MY BRO.

IJMN - AMEN.

❤ Away. Your brother and Sister.
Richard and Irma Okoturo.
March 31, 2021
March 31, 2021
First, I would like to give a honor to God for allowing us to know Dr. Minor Tinsley. I first met Minor in October 1993 at Palmer College of Chiropractic in Davenport, IA. Minor, me, and 3 other black students started Palmer College in October 1993. We were the largest group of black students to start Palmer College. That’s right the 5 of us. There was a total of 250 students in own class. Minor made it his mission to get to know each one of our classmates. He greeted everyone with his wonderful smile. He made everyone feel special. 

Minor had a love for life. He ALWAYS put Jesus first! I never heard Minor cursed (use bad words). He instead would say “fudge.” Minor made me to become a pool player. Minor loved to think and pool is a thinking game. We spent many, many, many hours playing pool. While playing pool, we met many people. Most of them were from Davenport. When I go back to Davenport and/or talk to people from Davenport, EVERYONE ask about Minor.

Dr. Minor Tinsley left a huge footprint on this earth. He has made thousands of people lives better. It is a honor to call Minor my friend. However, it is a greater honor that Minor called me his friend. I will miss you dearly, my brother.
To Minor’s mother, Mrs. Anne Tinsley, his wife, Mrs. Esther Tinsley, his daughters Tori and Roli, his sister Cindi, and his extended family and friends, may God comfort you during this difficult time. Also, as a honor to Minor, greet everyone with a wonderful smile.
March 30, 2021
March 30, 2021
Dearest Esther, Tori, and Roli,

Our deepest condolences ♥️. We thank God for the love, hope, and strength He has surrounded you with during this time, knowing that our dearest Brother Minor is now resting with Him.
Our Father In Heaven wants us all to Know that:
Minor was going to live (on earth) or going to live (in heaven)
Either he was going to be with family (on earth) or going to be with family (in heaven)
Either he was going to be well taken care of (on earth) or going to be well taken care of (in heaven)
 
So, let us trust in God with all our hearts and continue to lean on Him during these times, knowing that our Brother Minor now lives in VICTORY with Him. RIP Brother Minor.

Our love always - The Oyekans and Sijuwades♥️
March 30, 2021
March 30, 2021
Destiny allowed our paths to cross through Minor Tinsley's interest in continuing his education, and as the Multicultural Admissions Representative for Palmer College of Chiropractic at that time, it was my responsibility to keep in contact through the Admissions process to Matriculation. With each call Minor responded ever-so gleefully when he answered my call, and in addition to the Admissions process, he had many questions about what his life would be like in such a culturally deprived state as Iowa—and the harshness of our Winter of which he was completely unfamiliar coming from San Diego. Thankfully, I was able to calm his concerns as I answered his every question. Then with his Letter of Acceptance Minor came for our Campus Visit and he was completely sold! He couldn't wait to get here. His concern for housing was taken care of since I had a report with property owners who only rented to Palmer students. Minor's building was just across the street from the Campus and he loved his new home. Once classes began and throughout the course of study, he laid aside all folly since the curriculum was crushing. Then the season changed, and the bitter cold winds of his first Iowa Winter came—and then the snow and IT TOTALLY BLEW HIS MIND! I'll never forget Minor's reaction—for one never walks slowly when “The Hawk is kicking!”

Throughout Minor's stay in Iowa, as he kept on top of his studies, he cultivated friendships not only with classmates, but with local residents as well. Even now when I am out-and-around, there are still those who ask about Minor, for not only was he liked, he is still held with high regard, and the vibrancy of Minor's personality has not been forgotten. Then there were occasions when the group of students Minor hung with would socialize—and party, and when I could I joined them. Minor often said he intended to “Squeeze every once of happiness from his time in Iowa” for he was young and eyes full of vision. He knew that he was blessed with opportunity and he sought to honor it in everything he did. In justifying his statement he would then say “When it’s over, I'll know that I kept my vow, and I stopped to smelled the flowers along the way—I have no regrets.” In my reflection, Minor knew he was living a dream, an adventure where he spread his wings! How beautiful It was to share that experience. When Minor graduated, he said his goodbyes knowing he was boldly heading towards a more promising future, and that he would never return.

Minor Tinsley was like a beautiful flower, plucked from his life back home, and the gentle breeze of God's love brought him here to his Palmer family. But now his wings have grown strong, and as he always knew, that they would fly him away to a Heavenly Home! And so knowing God's love, take your rest Minor Tinsley and know that even though the stories are too many to tell, we love you and miss you as well.

To the family of one as dear as Minor Tinsley, I offer my deepest condolence for I know your pain is great. May God's tender love comfort you in your time of grief. AMEN

Please click the link below for it contains a message that Minor Tinsley, Doctor of Chiropractic, truly lived.

Sincerely,
Laura Fitzpatrick

https://youtu.be/970fSDr8gjo
March 30, 2021
March 30, 2021
It was extremely shocking to hear this piece of news; you will be sorely missed. Thank you for all you did. God bless you and family now, always and forever.
March 29, 2021
March 29, 2021
A tribute to my big brother, Dr Minor Tinsley❤️❤️

Minor’s death is a monumental loss. I cannot put into words how hard it was for me to write this tribute... it was a struggle. I had to remind myself that I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me (Philippians 4:13).

Minor was a blessing not only to my precious sister, Esther and their beautiful daughters, (Tori & Roli) but to me and many others. His death is incredibly painful and shocking.

Minor had a lot of admirable qualities. He was intentional and deliberate in the way he lived his life. Without a doubt his lifestyle was indeed his pulpit. He lived his life to please God above all others. He was a man that loved God first and family second. A man of genuine faith, simplicity and class ... a real gentleman.

He was a good guy. Doing good was something he did freely and easily. He was honest, true, kind, loving, peaceful, patient, hardworking, focused, intelligent, well accomplished and accommodating of others. He was also very respectful irrespective of age or status, he was handsome and full of humility.

He was naturally warm, full of life and positive energy, which instantly drew people to him. His smile was as bright as the sun. His laughter was infectious and his conversations were always filled with nuggets of wisdom. Minor’s ability to accommodate others and make them feel comfortable around him was another one of his endearing personality.

Minor made my sister very happy in marriage. He was a fantastic husband and father. He was a great son and brother. He brought us all a lot happiness. I will never forget Minor, he will be sorely missed.

Minor knew how to live and embrace every moment. He lived his life ready. He is in God’s hands…indeed we all are.. He is now an Angel in heaven who we will always love, watching Esther, Tori, Roli, his Mum, Cindy and the rest of us from above.

Minor has fought the good fight, he has finished the race and he has kept the faith. Henceforth there is laid up for him the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge, will award to him on that Day, and not only to Minor but also to all who eagerly look forward to the return of Jesus. (2 Timothy 4:7-8)


I take solace in the fact that as a believer in our Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ, Minor is with Christ who gives and takes, resting from his labour, for his good deeds have surely followed him. (Revelation 14:13).

Minor’s life was a blessing, thankfully “love leaves a memory no one can steal” and so Minor lives daily in my heart and I will treasure his memory forever.
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February 28
February 28
Uncle, your legacy is powerful! The last text you sent me was a funny video about dating red flags to watch out for. You knew where my thoughts were and you'd give your advice so willingly. I took it like a sponge. You're still teaching me and loving on me to this day. And I know it will always be like that between us until we meet again. You taught me to enjoy the moments of life while you're experiencing them. I watched you live that truth everytime I saw you. And although I will always miss you, I am constantly reminded of that lesson whenever I see, talk to, or even think of Auntie Esther, Tori, and Roli. You're such a blessing to all of us who knew you. Thank you for loving on us and reminding us that joy is as much of a choice as it is a gift. God's given it to us but it's up to us to use it to it's full potential. You did that so well Uncle! Love and miss you. Greatful to be one of your nephews and to be a torch-bearer, carrying on the legacy you left all of us.
His Life
March 23, 2021
Late in the evening hours of June 23, 1962 at Mercy Hospital in San Diego, California, Minor Sr. and Anne Tinsley became the proud parents of their first child, a beautiful baby boy they named after his father, Minor Tinsley, Sr.

As a toddler and child, Minor was energetic, inquisitive and he loved talking, which often got him in trouble in the early part of his school years, however his talkative nature would one day become a characteristic God would refine and use for His glory. 

At the age of ten, Minor became a big brother to his sister Cindi. He was always attentive and loving to Cindi and the two of them shared a special and unbreakable bond until his passing.

In the early years of Minor’s life he enjoyed the special times he spent with his father and playing with his cousins. He was surrounded by family members who loved and supported him and his little sister, after the sudden passing of their father in 1977.

Minor accepted and surrendered his life to Christ at an early age.
Exposed to the teaching of God’s Word in his home and in church, Minor’s hunger for God’s Word increased, and as God’s Word penetrated deep within him, God began shaping and preparing him for the journey He had planned for him.

Minor’s family understood the importance of education and he was strongly encouraged to continue his education after completing High School.  With the influence of his father who held a PHD and his Uncle Charlie who has a MD degree, he was inspired to purse a profession in the medical field.

Minor received a BS and Master’s degree in Biological Science from UC Irvine in California and a Doctor of Chiropractic degree (DC)  from Palmer Chiropractic College in Davenport, Iowa.

In 1998 he began his practice as an Independent Chiropractor in San Diego and was a certified QME examiner for the State of California. Minor was also a member of the California Chiropractic Association (CCA), The National Board of Chiropractic Examiner (NBCE), and California Society of Industrial Medicine (CSIMS).

On July 15, 2000, he married the love of his life Esther Okoturo and to their union God graciously blessed them with two beautiful daughters, Tori and Roli. 

With all of Minor’s responsibilities as husband, father and practicing chiropractor, Minor remained a faithful and godly servant. He was a faithful and loving leader over his household, ensuring his family was taught to know the the ways of the Lord and to live their lives accordingly.  To extended family members and friends, Minor was respected and known as a leader who would take time to listen, give godly counsel and encouragement. 

Some of Minor’s favorite activities were sleeping, spending time with his family and playing pool. He enjoyed the lasting friendships he had developed over the years with his pool friends.

In the early morning of February 28th, God called Minor’s name and Minor answered His Savior’s call.
While we grieve the lost of our beloved Minor, we take courage from the of words of Apostle Paul in 2 Corinthians 5:8, “Yes, we are of good courage, and we would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord."  


Minor leaves to forever cherish his memory, his loving and devoted wife Esther, his two daughters Tori and Roli, mother Anne Tinsley; sister Cindi (Keith); two adopted bothers, Steven Tedford and Jeremy McQueen; mother-love Elizabeth Okoturo; nieces 15; nephews 9; uncles 2; aunts 6 and a host of sisters/brothers-in-love, cousins and friends.

                                          Minor you will always be in our hearts.


Recent stories
March 30, 2021
Uncle Minor was one of the most compassionate people that I know all of us are missing dearly right now. His charming smiles and the stories he told could easily make our family gatherings full of life. 

    I can fondly remember many times where we had shared our love of photography; He was the person that inspired me to start taking photos, so it always left a smile on my face when he would compliment my photos. At the last family gathering, I had spent the majority of my time speaking with him. He was funny, kind, and energetic, having a natural warmth about him. Although I didn’t know him all that well, I feel as though I connected with him through that one-on-one time we had

  Uncle Minor, thank you for all of the memories and the love that you shared with all of us. We hope that as we live on we can make you proud when you watch over us. You hold a special place in our hearts.
    

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March 24, 2021
I’m still in shock, it’s too painful to even fathom... Uncle Minor was just a wonderful person, it’s his smile and his witty sense of humor that I will always remember. He loved my sister and his girls so so much they were his life and I thank God for that ❤️

Only God has the answers and we have to be obedient and learn to trust in him but it’s still hard, still so painful.. but uncle Minor is in a better place in the arms of the lord ... and we will miss him every day. 

I just pray to God that he wraps his loving arms around my sister and my nieces, that he comforts them And gives them the fortitude to bear his loss. 


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