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We need more Monica!

August 26, 2020
I don't exactly know when I met Monica. 2006, 2007, 2008? I haven't had the energy to figure it out since learning of her passing. What I do know is...Monica was a big part of many of the great programs with Inventa I will remember more fondly becasue she was part of them. Spirit Train, BCLC Games Dome, Coke Olympic Torch Relay, JobFest...i know i am missing so many.

Monica's energy was a light that gave me and those around her energy. 

When I last saw her I asked if she would consider coming back to Inventa. I said to her "we need more Monica at Inventa."

More stories will come, more pictures too but for now, Ryan, her family and friends i know and love (and those I have not met)...my sadness is with you.

Monica you brought something amazing to Inventa but more importantly you brought something special me as a person. The world needs more of what Monica gave to me. Rest in Peace my friend.

So much energy, love and life

August 26, 2020
I met Monica way back in 2005 working at NEWAD. She was one of our go to promo reps and we both worked a ton of events together and became friends. How could you not want to hang around Mon! So positive, so much energy, always up for anything- she even acted in a silly short film I directed! Life got busy but FB let us keep in touch and we’d occasional pick up a chat here and there and catchup. It was inspiring watching Mon overcome her injuries and go back to triathlons!!!  As always so many people in her corner. I’m sad we never did manage to meetup to grab that cup of coffee and catch back up in person. She i absolutely someone who I am thankful to have had in my life if only for a season, she is someone who made the world a bit brighter. My heart breaks for all the friends and family. 

Extraordinary Monica

August 26, 2020
Querida Monica, where do I even start?I cannot believe you are gone, there were still so many adventures I wanted to share with you, but I’m so grateful for the ones we’ve had over the past 15 years.

I met Monica in 2005 in CapU along with a fantastic group of people who many, are some of my closest friends today.I remember the 1st time I met her; we were in the same interview session for the Tourism Management Program. She talked about her recent trip to the Caribbean and her travels with such enthusiasm and passion that I knew immediately she was someone wonderfully unique that l really wanted to get to know better.

Throughout the program and over the years afterwards, her kindness, energy, love of life, and embrace for the unexpected was so contagious that our friendship grew stronger as time passed by. There are some many wonderful and fun memories with you Monica. Like that day we were at Mt. Baker for a girls’ ski trip and your dad (who was our personal Chef for the trip btw) freaked us out with that creepy Scream mask so much that Margaret fell out of her chair. It was one of the best laugh attacks we ever had. Or that ski trip up to Whistler where we spent half the time speaking in Spanish because you wanted to practice for your upcoming trip to Guatemala.And that evening we were walking around False Creek and you told me about this amazing new guy in your life, Ryan…I’ve never seen such sparkles in your eyes.

I miss your wonderful laugh, I miss your energy, I miss our many conversations, I miss our trips, I miss your signing, I miss you so much Monica

May your rest in peace my dear, amazing friend, I love you

A cup that overflowed.

August 26, 2020
by Theo L
I remember this one day, stepping into the Radius office on a dreary, rainy Vancouver day. I remember feeling dreary and dark, too. And then I remember Monica’s energy and smile embracing me. It’s like she knew or could see that I was down, and ever so gracefully and graciously, she lifted me up and out. She asked me about all the things lighting up my life. She laughed and smiled almost to tell me they lit her up, too. She spoke with such passion and energy about her work and projects, it was impossible not to want to return the same energy and listening she had given me. That unforgettable smile and laugh. I remember her so clearly. She was like a cup. Full. Of all the good and hope and joy a human could have. And she was overflowing. A full cup, gifting us all with her overflow of love.
August 26, 2020
It's been a few days, and I'm still trying to process this.

The second I heard you were gone, I didn't know what to make of the world anymore.

Your smile, your spirit, your energy, your kindness, your compassion; you were one of a kind.

When we met in 2009, it was the stories you were telling me about all you had done in your life and those were the stories that inspired me to have a more open mind, and to travel and see the world.  You motivated me to see the world differently, and to take risks and not be scared of what's out there, outside of our little bubble we call Canada.

We grew close as colleagues but closer as friends.  We would visit one another when in each other’s cities, hang out, talk, laugh, and cry. We would climb mountains, go rollerblading, swimming, partying, hang at the beach and you would just be active and show me the smaller joys of life the way it should be.

You were always cool and relaxed, no stress about anything, yet you were hype and had a good energy about everything. 

ALWAYS POSITIVE - ALWAYS SMILING - ALWAYS INSPIRING.

You would go out of your way to help others, and make sure they are okay and happy, showing your selfless and compassionate side.

You were in another league, one that I am still striving to get to.

I remember there was a time where you would hike Grouse Grind, what seemed like every other day, and you'd tell me, "I'm going up tomorrow at 6am! Let's go!" I made it up with you once, and it was really fun, exhausting, but fun.  

There was a time I was in Whistler, feeling kind of down, and like the angel you are, you were there in whistler too, and you were there to talk to me and helped guide me with my problem. 

And of course the infamous night in Timmins, Ontario, New Year’s Day 2010.  I was there to see you in -52 weather, carry the Olympic Torch for Canada, with the BIGGEST SMILE on your face, and it was worth every toe that I lost that night.

Those are just a few of the many wonderful memories that I have and will cherish till one day, we sit down on a cloud and reminisce about the good ole days together.

To your family and Fiancé, I express my deepest condolences.

Say hi to Nicola and Adrian from us.
And if you run into Kobe and Gigi, tell them we miss them too.

You will forever be in my heart Monica Davis.

Thank you for everything.

Till we meet again.
Love,
"Farry"
August 26, 2020
I only knew Monica briefly during my short stint with Urban Rec as an official. Though I did not know her closely, her smile, energy, and warmth is hard to forget and she always made me feel welcome at any of the social events even though I didn't know a lot of people. She was one of those people who genuinely connects with others. It is hard to believe and heartbreaking to think that this lovely person who was so full of life is no longer with us. My condolences to her partner, family and friends and all those who have had the pleasure of crossing paths with her. <3

Beach Blast Love

August 26, 2020
I use to see Monica every year at the beach blast. Although we only saw her once a year, my goodness did she make an impact on you. She had an infectious energy and positivity that she brought to every situation. And it didn’t take you long to notice and to want to be around her. I enjoyed volunteering for the beach blast every year in part because she made the “work” fun and something you wanted to be a part of. 
This world needs more Monicas and I can understand how she had such an impact on so many people. 
Nikki & Aubrey Reine 

Smiles for Sammies

August 26, 2020
Sincere condolences for everyone that Monica touched in her life and from the stories here that seems like so many people had the absolute honour of knowing you. We worked together on the Smile for Sammies project in the receiving bay of Urban Rec. You were concerned about making sandwiches for the homeless in a warehouse and kept calling me Lettuce girl lol. Your love for everyone was contagious and your spirit for life was inspiring. This world is a lot heavier without you in it. I hold my loved ones a little tighter from now on and keep yours in my thoughts and prayers. Rest peacefully Monica, you will be missed terribly.


August 26, 2020
I met Monica when we worked at PDW together. She always had the most infectious positive energy, and was a ray of sunshine to be around with. She was incredibly strong and brave, and I’m sure she’s touched many people’s lives. She’ll be dearly missed.

Larger than Life

August 26, 2020
Monica was one of the most inspirational and positive peopleI have met, and I was fortunate enough to have been touched by her positive energy and infectious joy that made her seem larger than life. She was always doing something exciting and adventurous! 
I met Monica around 12 years ago while working at Inventa, and we became closer friends when working on the Vancouver Olympic Torch Relay. She was the last roommate I had before I moved to the U.S. and although we have not seen each other for some time we have stayed in contact. She recently inspired me to do a triathlon and constantly reminded me that I can do anything I set my mind to.
Monica, you were so greatly loved and I will miss you terribly. I am a better person because of you, and you will always be remembered in my heart. Thank you for the time we spent together. Rest In Peace.

CapU schoolmates

August 26, 2020
I met Monica when we ended up in the same classes while at CapU. We worked on projects together and quickly became friends. Being older than me, she become something of a mentor and helped me with the various transitions I was going through at the time. 

Her smile and laughs were infectious and her personality was bubbly, caring, loving and so much more. She was a breathe of fresh air and the world has lost a truly wonderful and beautiful person.
August 26, 2020
To Monica, we met in Antigua, Guatemala in 2015 when we were studying Spanish and my fondest memory is when we all went out to party at the local discoteca and proceeded to have a ridiculous night of fun, trying out our mediocre Spanish with each other, and letting loose which was a nice break from all the studying that we were doing. I can remember how warm and genuinely happy you were, all the time! It's truly rare to find someone so smiley and happy and it was infectious between our Guatemala group. Here's a picture from that fun night in Antigua! Sending my condolences to your family and loved ones. You'll be missed but never forgotten. Elan

Shave Gel Luxury

August 26, 2020
One of my most memorable conversations with Monica was about shaving our legs. We were both laughing about how we don't need fancy pants shave gels, a plain old bar of soap is good enough for us. She then told me about a friend she had, and she and that friend would give each other shave gel as gifts, because it's a luxury. I laughed, and loved it, and now any time I have shave gel in my bathroom I think of Monica, and how luxurious I'm being. I told her this all the time, that it felt so weird that every time I shaved my legs I thought of her. She loved it. She laughed big. My friend watched my kids while we went to see Ryan the other night, and when we came home, I paid her with a can of shave gel and told her to enjoy some luxury, Monica style. Monica would have loved it. 

Monica, you are so loved!

August 26, 2020
Monica was boundless energy and enthusiasm. I toured with her on Jobfest 2012 and she wanted to learn everything, meet everyone, see everything. Someone could meet her for 10 minutes and forever remember her warmth and smile. She could make friends with anyone and was the true definition of bubbly.

Monica was also deeply reflective, introspective and observant. As much as she loved a crowd, she also loved connecting one on one with people and talking about life. I remember at that time she was single, which she lamented, and I told her I thought there was someone looking for her as fiercely as she was for him. Years later, she reminded me of that conversation, and said that she had undoubtedly found her man that had been looking for her too. Ryan, I cannot imagine your grief. We have never met, and yet I know the depths of Monica's love for you.

She was also hilarious. I remember once being in Iskut in Northern BC and I asked her if her and Daisy's room had a TV. Without missing a beat she said, "no, but we have lamp. We are going to watch lamp later."
I remember her telling me about a trip she had taken beforehand, and how she had been wracked with anxiety, and that when she was there she saw a lighthearted sign that said, "don't worry, mon". She took it as a sign that she could relax. She was so connected to people and to nature and always wanted to investigate the mysteries of the world.

I also remember Monica talking so fondly of her sister. I have sisters too, and we talked about what magic it is to grow up with a sister. She loved her family so much. I cannot imagine what grief you are all experiencing, and I send you love, peace and healing as you navigate this monumental loss. 

Monica attended our wedding in 2013 despite not having seen us for a year before. She made the trek out to Harrison Hot Springs to celebrate with us, and brought that beautiful party energy she always seemed to have endless amounts of.

We will keep Monica in our hearts everytime we strike up a friendly conversation with a stranger, take a walk in the woods, or visit a wonderful new place. Mon, the world is better because you were in it. You are so loved. 

RIP Monica

August 26, 2020
I will always remember Monica in a very specific way. After meeting her at Cap University and having the pleasure of spending some time with her, I remember thinking that she was the most authentically positive person I had ever met. Her outlook on life was truly infectious. I know people often say this about those who leave us too soon, but that could not be more true when speaking of Monica.

I specifically recall being inspired by this, and drinking in her energy and spirit. Even though our paths crossed so many years ago and after college went in different directions, I have thought of her often as someone with such grace. I hope to embody just a fraction of what she brought to this world. A true gift to us.

Monica, may your soul rest in peace and may your family take some solace in knowing how many people you touched, inspired, impacted, loved and were loved by.

You will be missed and I will think of you often -- and when I do, it will remind me to live every moment and to be thankful for what it gives me.

Love,
Michelle
August 26, 2020
I had the absolute honour to have met Monica through the beach soccer blast. She was always there with a smile and a kind word for everyone she met. A beautiful and genuine soul. A playful bundle of energy on the field, she threw her self into every tackle. Off the field we had loads of fun playing with walkie talkies and spent a wonderfully sandy weekend every August for many years hanging out with old friends, living our days in 14min segments announced by airhorn, trying to avoid the inevitable sun burns and enjoying our whitespot. 

Inspirational

August 26, 2020
First, my deepest condolences to Ryan, Monica's family, her friends, and all the people she inspired around the world.

I was introduced to Monica through our mutual close friend Sara. The second she ran (to my knowledge she never simply walked somewhere at any point in her life) onto the volleyball court I knew deep in my core that she was different than the rest of us. From the moment the first match started to the last high five of the night, she simply didn't stop moving. Or smiling for that matter. Monica had a positive energy about her that just simply couldn't be bottled up. I couldn't take my eyes off her. Her light was so bright it was clear nobody else could escape her either. When she wasn't motivating our own team, our opponent, or the teams playing on the courts next to us she would be dancing to her own beat putting smiles on the faces of everyone closest enough to see her. Win or lose, I got the impression that she just felt blessed to be alive and thankful for every moment she had on this planet. How lucky was I to have met this amazing person? The crazy part, that was just the first two hours with Monica.

Over the years our lives would remain entwined through various activities and adventures. Maybe the most life changing impact Monica had on my life was her encouragement for me to sign up for my first triathlon. It had been on my bucket list for years but after meeting Monica, who I'm pretty sure completed a triathlon every day before heading to work in the morning, I couldn't put it off any longer. Why put off a dream for tomorrow when today is right here waiting for us to enjoy? Watching Monica train for her races raised the bar for what it really takes to achieve greatness in this world. Although I couldn't possibly match her energy, despite trying on numerous occasions, I did complete my first race and was there to watch her fly by with a smile on the last legs of her "super human category" grouping. I could only imagine how many similar sparks she'd lit in all the people she'd met around the world.

As luck would have it, I suffered a heart attack around the same time Monica had her health issues. Despite her own struggles, she was one of the first to reach out to me and remind me that my life wasn't over. She could relate to the fear that we both had that we'd never be able to compete or live at the same level we'd once thrived upon. I never really knew how, but I'd always receive an encouraging note when I was at my lowest points. Just a quick reminder that there was so much more life to live. If Monica could see the light at the end of the tunnel, that was good enough for me.

I remember thinking to myself at Sara and Matt's wedding that if there was one person on earth that deserved to find true love it was Monica. The twinkle in her eye as she watched the two of them throughout the night warmed my soul. If only she could meet someone that would love her the way she'd loved everyone around her throughout her life. Thankfully, we wouldn't have to wait too long for that to happen. I remember the first time Monica brought Ryan to the volleyball courts. We all knew from that moment that he was the one. They looked at each other the way they do in cheesy movies. I couldn't have been happier for them.

I'm sad today, and I suspect I will be for quite some time. The world seems so dark these days, and we could really use some of Monica's light to remind us what life is really all about. That being said, I'm so incredibly thankful for the time we did have... and know that she will continue to shine on all of us forever. Peace to you Monica, and thank you for making the world a better place.


Cap Girls

August 26, 2020
Mon no words will fully describe your passing. We met in 2005 at Cap College and you have been the life of the party ever since. Your smile and laugh have been with me each day and I will never forget your uncanny ability to be positive about every situation.

Our visits were always full of dancing, singing (mostly by you) and of course the occasional glass of wine or two. Our get togethers with our little squad were something I craved after moving away from Vancouver. One of my favorite nights was when we got locked out of Meaghan’s apartment to go get more snacks and refreshments since we decided to ditch our dinner reservation because our dance party inside was more fun. We had snacks, refreshments and each other. t didn’t matter what we did as long as we were together.

Your challenges in the past year and half were inspirational to us all. You brought out the best in people. Although the world feels a little emptier with you not in it, know that ‘your girls’ will ensure that your vibrant spirit will stay with us forever. Xo

Monica - a beautiful soul

August 27, 2020
I met Monica when working with JUMP! She is such a beautiful soul. She helped me out as I was a beginner and she made me feel confident and able. Her insights were brilliant. It was a great time as we wandered around in Malaysia and Chiang Mai, just laughing and having fun. She had a such a spirit of determination and kindness and it was great to be around her. An amazing woman
August 26, 2020
Monica always showed up with a smile - she was the kind of person that took time to reach out and wish you a Happy Birthday or just to check in to see how you were doing. She was an incredible friend to have.

We went to Byng together and played softball on the same team for years. After I switched high schools she stayed in touch. When I moved to Prince George, she was one of a few who made the trek and came to visit. She came to my wedding at Fraser Lake making another trip up North from Vancouver which really meant a lot to me

I only have a few pics of Mon but both are sweet memories. The first is watching the boys play rugby in the rain (I think we were playing against St George’s) and the second was a girls night out over Christmas break one year, where it actually snowed in Van and we ran outside and played in it.

Monica had an amazing gift for making others feel loved and we will miss the light she brought to our lives. My love and thoughts are with Ryan and the family. She will be greatly missed.

August 27, 2020
To the close friends and family of Monica, I’m so sorry.
I haven’t seen Monica in about 5 years, but we reached out to her about a year ago to check in. We were friends in high school because Monica was literally friends with everyone, everyone loved and respected her because of her kind and bubbly personality. She was the one that would bring different friendship circles together when they normally wouldn’t have. Watching her journeys and stories on social media from Australia was very inspiring and always made me smile.

Monica, you will certainly be missed and thought about regularly, lots of love ❤️.

Our first meeting

August 26, 2020
I met Monica through her cousin Mallory. We were in grade 8 or 9 & we were heading to the movies I believe in Mallory’s dads car. Britney Spears came on the radio and she started singing as if she was front row at the concert. I was in awe of her confidence, carefree attitude and instantly I could tell this girl was fun. From that day on, Monica and I had always usually connected through Mallory. However, lately we had been chatting after her stroke/ following her recovery- she was still confident, carefree and I admired her strength and determination through it all. She was such a beautiful soul, someone I feel lucky to have known. I will try & raise my 3 young girls to have the confidence & courage Monica did. All my love & deepest condolences to the family.
August 26, 2020
Monica, my dear friend. I have no words to express how profoundly you will be missed and what a huge hole has been left in my heart. I’m so grateful to have so many memories and cherished moments over the past 15 years of friendship.

I met Monica at Capilano University, and from the first moment she spoke I remember being struck by that brilliant spark and light, and the most unforgettable smile and laugh. Little did I know that she and a group of four other ladies would become one of the most important groups of friends I’ve ever had.

Though there are countless, one of the memories I keep going back to was a ski trip to Mt Baker with our girls where she had newly started dating Ryan and was just head over heels. The laughs on that trip were the true, deep belly ones that make your abs hurt (‘Scream’ mask scare, anyone..?). Having moved back to Calgary a couple of years before, I felt so lucky to be home and with my best friends – it’s not something I ever take for granted anymore. I had that inexplicable feeling at the time that even as you experience a moment, you look around and know it will stay with you forever.

The very last message Monica and I exchanged was about recommendations I gave her for wineries to visit in the Okanagan last week. She sent me a photo of a wine she chose, telling me it was the winner and she was about to open it. After countless wine nights together, this feels like a fitting final message, and it makes me smile, even through my tears.

Monica, you are so loved. You lived more life in 35 years than many can hope to live in a lifetime. May you rest in peace.

My mon mon

August 26, 2020
We met at urban rec more than a decade ago.  She's one of the sweetest person I'll ever meet.  I remember the days when we worked at urban beach and the days up in Whistler for the Whistler tournament.  We did the grouse grind together.  And I would bump into her at the citadella cafe when she used to live right across from my work.  She was always so helpful and always willing to give a hand to anyone.  She probably has the biggest heart out of anyone I know in my life.  She will be missed so much.  Love you, Mon! May you rest in peace.   

Only Happy Memories

August 26, 2020
One of my first friends when I moved to Vancouver.  Worked together at Whitespot and would have fun during and after work.  Always a positive person and it didn't matter what mood you were in, she would pull you back to the good side.  Every time I would bump into you, or talked to you when you remembered my birthday with a text, you were on to something new and it definitely involved making this a better place. Sorry to Ryan and the Davis Family.  Rest in peace Monica.
August 26, 2020
Wow.  I met Monica in Vancouver at The Games, with Nikola and all from Coke.   She was my video crew's right hand those weeks! .....we could not have done our job without her, but beyond her doing her job - she brought joy to the days  we were together.   Just last month I was going through pictures by Luca and saw Monica's smiling face everywhere.    This is very sad news, indeed.   Condolences all around.  

So full of light!

August 26, 2020
I worked with Monica during our time at PDW producing TED conferences. She never ceased to amaze me. Not only was she so full of genuine positive, caring, and charismatic energy - she was an actual all-star. 

She was constantly running or cycling home from work and doing what seemed like a triathlon every week - I was more than a little impressed. She always brought a vivacious energy into the office and the world will certainly be little less bright without her in it. 

Sending my deepest condolences to all who knew her - she will most certainly be missed.
August 26, 2020
Even though I've known Monica for several years, I unfortunately never got a chance to know her very well having only met her a handful of times (each of those usually being a family gathering and we all know how those can be). Nevertheless, in those too-short meetings I did see all the things that everyone else had mentioned: her positivity, how hard-working and driven she was, her endless exuberance... But the real reason I loved Monica is because my brother did, and I could see the brilliance of her spirit shining through his life. I've never known Ryan to be happier, and for that I will always love Monica. I don't have a long history with Monica to grieve over, but I'm grieving the happy life that Ryan and Monica would have continued to share, the expectation of a new sister, nieces and nephews. To Monica's parents, sister, friends and Ryan - I'm so sorry for this tragic loss. 
August 26, 2020
I met Monica back around 2008 when she was working with Inventa and CP Rail to help bring the Olympic Spirit across Canada on the CP Spirit Train. She was always so full of energy, happy, smiling, positive, and just a joy to be around. She even helped create the Spirit Train Dance which her and the event team performed (video can still be found on YouTube). Couple years later I ran into her again when she was working with the Olympic Torch Relay team, I was in small remote unknown towns so it was really nice to see a familiar face. My condolences to all her family and friends. Monica thanks for showing us all your spirit, you will forever be missed.
August 26, 2020
We met during Vancouver 2010 and we spent the 15 days of the games working together for Coke for our dear Nicola K. I perfectly remember when we went to Whistler and you drove all the way to allow me to take pictures. Then, last year after almost 9 year we met again when I came to the hospital here in Paris to bring you some fresh fruits. Even in that situation your smile was big and your eyes full of happiness. It’s a very sad news. You have been a very unique person and you‘ll be remember also as a special person that have given lots of unforgettable big smiles .
August 26, 2020
Whenever I think of Monica, I picture her laughing. Her smile wide, rosy cheeks glowing, and her huge, beautiful eyes inviting everyone around her to join in the fun. I met Monica in Banff during the summer of 2016 when we spent long days and even longer nights working on a project for TED. Monica was unfailingly kind and humble, cheerful and hardworking. Once, after what felt like a 20-hour work day, she headed back to her hotel room to find that she'd received a cookie delivery. In true Monica fashion, she turned right around, and headed back to the job site to share her bounty with everyone there.

Though I'm heartbroken to think of a world without Monica's presence, I feel certain that her bright soul will continue to shine through those she inspired throughout her time on earth. She was so special. I'm so very sorry for your loss.

An all round lovely human being

August 26, 2020
It is hard to believe that someone so full of life is gone.  My deepest condolences to Ryan and her family, she loved you all so much and talked of you often.
I had the privilege of working with Monica at the David Suzuki Foundation.  She had it all - beauty, brains, creativity, caring with the energy and skills to get things done.  Her great sense of humour meant she was always someone you wanted to be around and aspired to be like.  She embraced every opportunity and encouraged others to do the same.  
The last time I saw her, she was  full of enthusiasm for her work and about her life with Ryan.  I am grateful that I had the chance to get to know her.

"There are some who bring a light so great to the world that even after they have gone the light remains." — Unknown  

An Inspiration to all that knew you!

August 26, 2020
She was such a light and inspiration. My deepest condolences to Ryan and her family. Monica and I did several projects together while going to Capilano. Many at her parents home and they were always so lovely to me. She was also my carpool partner. I always enjoyed her company and her positivity. Ryan, you were such a gift and a blessing in her life. Carry that love with you always. RIP Monica you will be missed.
August 26, 2020
Monica was such an amazing person, she lit up the room with her smile and her laugh was so contagious. She was a ray of sunshine. I will cherish having known her, she will forever be a positive influence in my life. I send my deepest condolences to her family and friends and to my cousin Ryan. 

She was always radiating positivity!

August 26, 2020
I met Monica while working at PDW and was lucky to work alongside her on a couple of projects. While working with Monica I was always inspired by her positivity and zest for life. In the short time I got to know her it was obvious that Monica had a heart of gold.

Monica will be missed. 

Whe was the Spirit !

August 26, 2020
Mon was one of the most positive, bubbly and caring person that I know of. I knew her since 2007 where we have been touring across the country together promoting the  2010 Vancouver Olympics. Actually, The song we had playing over and over again by the band that was touring with plus on the Spirit Train Tour remind me of her and we should dedicated to her! "Jump in the train and show your spirit..." 

We became good friends right away and never ended this beautiful friendship. She made me laugh to tears. We loved acting weird and stupid together just because. Thank you Mon for those memorable years. I'll never ever forget those delightful memories. I'll miss you forever but I know you will be able to guide me through life and help me deal with the hard times I can go through.  
*Im sending my warmest condolences to Monica's family and Ryan.  
#forevermissed
August 26, 2020
I met Monica only briefly a few times a number of years ago including a really nice conversation at The Beach Soccer Blast.  Monica was so obviously a truly warm, caring, genuine, and outgoing person who took an interest in everyone she met (in-spite of the obvious stress and chaos of an entire soccer tournament she was responsible for going on all around her).  She really made an impact on me in only a short time, and inspired me to pass along those traits.

I'm so sorry for your incredible loss.
August 26, 2020
I grew up with Monica and am so very sad and shocked to hear that she has passed. She gave a lot of herself to others and I admired her energy and generosity. We were friends in elementary school and she often invited me over to her house to have lunch or to play after school. I have fond memories of laughing with her while hanging out in her bright and welcoming kitchen. She was kind to her core and made a huge impact on the people who knew her. Though we had mostly lost touch I was happy to see her thriving. It feels like a huge loss to not have her in this world anymore. Sending my deepest condolences to her family and friends.

Sparkle on my friend

August 26, 2020
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My heart is broken! 
This amazing angel is literally an angel
Rest in Paradise Mon Mon 
4 months in a 5 ton Penske with you in 2013 for our rock themed career fair called JobFest   Man the stories shared, the laughs, the lessons 
Getting pulled over at the truck check and we were both in our flip flops ‍♀️ blasting Acre of Lions CD driving 20km an hour up Hungry Hill outside Smithers spending your birthday morning at the Ft. St James historical site and eating in the little restaurant there or how every stop we made on the west coast you were like do you have family everywhere here because every stop I’d have family visiting or how about that random lady in the bar who was my aunties sister a million more memories literally from every stop or taking you to give blood for the first time (saving 8 lives and getting a cookie as you said!)
Learning to sparkle came from you because you always told me I had a sparkle that I didn’t let out ... give my mum a big hug tell her I miss her 
Sending love and light to your family 
I hope they feel the love wrap around them
August 26, 2020
I met Monica at our co-working space; when I started there, she was one of the first people to welcome me with a big hug and offers of support in any way she could... and she was, of course, not only sincere but excited to be of service. Monica had the biggest heart and was incredibly passionate. She had a defiantly positive-attitude, astonishingly high morale, and the best infectious laugh. She was a fighter, tackling all of the challenges thrown her way with her characteristic spirit and determination. She had a light that was undimmable.

I loved being her office-mate and working across the aisle from her. She was impossible not to love, and Ryan, she loved you so much. I will never forget the day I came into the office after you two got engaged-- she was the first one in (as usual), and when I showed up she almost tackled me at the office door because she was vibrating with excitement, ready to share her news. She was absolutely radiant.

I am heartbroken to hear of her passing; my deepest condolences to Ryan and her family.

A much loved member of the RADIUS community

August 26, 2020
Monica has been sharing an office with our team for a long time and she was a joyful, caring and much loved member of our community. She was always the first to ask how I was doing personally or to share an adventure story about running or training, and we often had quick professional check ins about related parts of our work - I'll really miss all of that. She was brilliant, fun and loving with every interaction I witnessed and I'm just so sad to hear this news. Though we haven't been able to work from the same office for some months, from all of our community I know she will be deeply, deeply missed. 
August 26, 2020
I’m shocked... I met Monica while travelling in Guatemala in 2015. We went to the same school to learn Spanish and hiked that damn volcano. While hiking up 9000ft Monica started picking up trash that other people had left behind. She gave such a good example that we all followed this good deed. I remember her as enthousiast, active and so social and warm. In 2018 I was travelling through Canada and we almost got together again in Vancouver... but my plans got changed because of the wildfires in BC... 

My condolences to family and friends
love from the Netherlands

Forever smiling

August 26, 2020
One of the most uplifting positive person I have ever met.  Will truly be missed.  Thank you for touching all the people you have, as this world was a better place with you in it.
August 26, 2020
You never want to hear from a guy that your wife went on a date with, but I had the very good fortune of going for a long walk and getting to know Monica many many years ago. I was young and barely knew how to talk to women so I knew date #2 wasn't in the cards after my performance.

What I remember most about Monica though is that she was so energetic and positive. Everything she said came with a smile and she could make anyone and everyone feel like a friend.

...even if they were just a random date who couldn't carry a conversation.

My deepest sympathies and I am so sorry for your loss. Rest in peace Monica.
Guaranteed that smile will never be forgotten by anyone who's ever met her.

Numero uno Pizza

August 26, 2020
I met Monica when I first came to Canada in 2003. Met her through her Sister Colette. We would hang out a lot, play indoor soccer beach soccer and drink of course. I mean we named our team Designated Drinkers after all. This one evening I was home and Monica texted me to join her and her friends downtown for a drink. So I went and noticed Monica had already had a few drinks. As soon as I got my first drink Monica tells me we have to go. I was like Monica my drink. Nope we have to go NOW! We have to go to Numero uno Pizza. Monica just give it a few minutes, we will get Pizza. Nooooooo Shqiptar (Shqiptar means Albanian in Albanian) you don’t understand. We have to go Numero uno Pizza NOW! I want Numero uno Pizza. Take me there. She is one the most amazing people I ever met. I’m truly sad we lost one of the best people. My condolences to Ryan and Davis family
August 26, 2020
To my kind, thoughtful, happy, energetic, fun and adventurous friend. Monica, you left this world way too soon, but I am comforted by the many memories I have to keep me company during the times when I miss you the most. I’ll never forget the day I met you over 15 years ago, on our first day of the Tourism Management program at Capilano in January of 2005. What I didn’t know then was that out of that program I’d be given my closest group of girlfriends. We’ve all been so lucky to share a countless amount of fun, belly laughing, heart warming, life changing moments together, that I will always cherish and forever be grateful for. I’ve started a list, which I’m sure I will continue to add to, of happy times we shared together. This has helped me to remember the good old days and brings me a lot of joy and comfort to relive those moments that we shared together. Some of my favourites include; the trips we took to Tofino and Whistler with our Cap group, our crazy Whistler adventures with Margo, snowboarding/skiing together with Julia and Margo, our trip to Colombia for Luisa’s wedding, our girls trip to Vegas, our Pinga parties with the girls (especially our annual Christmas get together), our road trip to Cannon Beach, making our application video for the Amazing Race Canada (still can’t believe they didn’t pick us, must have been my broken ankle;), playing beach volleyball together, our girls trips to Mt. Baker (complete with our own personal chef;), celebrating together at our friends weddings, our ‘Sex and the City’ premiere movie party at Angela’s, rollerblading on the sea wall, when we all lived in the West End at the same time (it felt like being in our own series of FRIENDS’), our June 1, 2013 girls day (when we all needed each other more than we knew during that time), our Canada Day tradition, St. Paddy’s Day in Victoria, brewery crawls with Claus and Eamonn and the day Alex and I spent with you and Ryan in Port Moody in May. I love you so much Monica and you will always be in my heart and I thank you more than I can say for every positive thing you brought to my life. It was a privilege having you as such a good friend for all of those years. May you Rest In Peace

Captivating Energy

August 26, 2020
I had the pleasure of working alongside Monica when I was interning at Urban Rec back in 2012/2013. We did a couple events together and I looked to her for guidance because there was no doubt that she could run that entire place by herself if she needed to. She always had it all together with a contagious smile and this captivating optimism that made you happy whenever she was in the room. She was an amazingly hard worker, a super kind spirit and someone that I feel very lucky to have met. My heart goes out to her partner Ryan and the rest of her family and friends. Sending love to you all during this time ❤️

Always smiling

August 26, 2020
I met Monica while she was working at TED Talks. She walked into the office and brought with her the most beautiful, warm glow. I always appreciated the positivity she brought to everything she touched - always the first person to jump in when you needed a hand, brought such cool ideas to brainstorms, and was very inspiring!  She truly was brilliant and will be missed. 

August 26, 2020
I met Monica back in 2010 as a new Vancouver resident seeking a volleyball team. From a Craigslist ad, I met one of the most gregarious, caring, energetic and inspiring women that, to this day, I have ever met.
Monica's welcoming demeanor and energy made me feel a part of a team and a community. I've never forgotten her never-ending smile... It's really the only way I can picture her. 
Her positivity and outlook on life will continue to inspire me and live on in her memory. 
August 26, 2020
Monica, I'm so sorry to hear this news. I met you facilitating two years ago, then again and again at RADIUS. You're wonderful. You speak so highly of your friends and family. You speak so highly of the world. You bring so much hope. 
Sad we didn't get that one last coffee in, but every goodbye from you was big and bright. 

Ryan, Monica couldn't get enough of you, there is so much love. After everything that happened last year, we all saw you thread together a life and I know how much that meant and will always mean.

<3
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