February 25, 2019
February 25, 2019
To all of Monica's family and friends - I think of Monica when I go to Sub-way it was one of our favorite lunch stops. She is missed
Monica Lynn Wilder, 49, a resident of Butner, left us to be with Jesus, Thursday, February 23, 2012.
A native of Tionesta, Pennsylvania , the daughter of the late Garold L. “Gary” Williams. She was a member of First Baptist Church in Butner and was employed with the State of North Carolina, Best Shared Services.
Funeral Services will be conducted at 7:00 PM, Saturday, February 25, 2012 at First Baptist Church in Butner by Rev. Jimmy Walker.
Surviving are her husband, Alan Wilder of the home, her mother, Karen M. Williams of Warren, PA., two daughters, Rachel Maynor of Roseboro, Samantha Brady, of the home, two brothers, Shane Byers of Bradford, PA, Dennis Williams (Katie) of Brookfield, Mass. and one granddaughter, Airianna Maynor.
Cut flowers or potted plants accepted or memorials may be made to Duke Hospice, 4321 Medical Park Drive, Suite 101, Durham, North Carolina 27704
Visitation will be held from 6:00 - 7:00 PM, Saturday, February 25, 2012, prior to the funeral services at First Baptist Church in Butner and other times at the home.
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February 23, 2017
February 23, 2017
Monica, It has been 5 years since you when home to be with your Lord and I can't say its got any easier our hearts are still hurting from not seeing you or hearing your voice. I miss our phone calls I hate not being able to talk to you when I need to talk. Love always, Mom
February 23, 2016
February 23, 2016
Monica is always in my heart - I see things that remind me of her. We would lunch at Subway frequently. I miss her friendship. I hope her children and family are well and thriving. Ginny Kammer
February 23, 2016
February 23, 2016
Monica, It has been 4 years since you left us to be with your Lord and I can't say that it has gotten any easier, ours hearts are still hurting from missing you. Love always Mom
February 25, 2015
February 25, 2015
Its been 3 years since I have looked upon your face I miss you so much, know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers. A mothers heartache is never really gone Love and Miss You Mom
October 10, 2013
October 10, 2013
The year has gone quickly - I remember Monica frequently .
I hope her children are doing well. Ginny
I hope her children are doing well. Ginny
October 10, 2013
October 10, 2013
I think of her often and miss her a lot. I can hear her laugh even now... Happy Birthday Monica!
February 25, 2013
February 25, 2013
You're gone, but never will be forgotten. I miss you so much.
~Ka'Tina
~Ka'Tina
February 25, 2013
February 25, 2013
I remember Monica Frequently ... We ate lunch at Sub-way on Tuesday's... Miss her Ginny
October 10, 2012
October 10, 2012
On this anniversary of Monica's birth I celebrate her life. My memories of her are strong. I miss her and her family at work miss her. Ginny Kammer
March 2, 2012
March 2, 2012
Allen and family so sorry for your loss.May God comfort you at this time.Praying for you.
Doug and Marie
Doug and Marie
March 1, 2012
March 1, 2012
My name is Linnda Kmetz Vorek. I live in Pittsburgh,Pa. I was so sorry to her of the passing of Monica,I never got to meet her,but she was my cousin. Her father Garold was my uncle,his sister Marilyn was my mother.My thoughts and prays are with you and your family. God Bless all of you!
February 29, 2012
February 29, 2012
May God continue to bless the family. Monica was so positive and inspiring in her time of illness which was a blessing to me. Family stay strong and encouraged. God Bless!!
~Angela~
~Angela~
February 27, 2012
February 27, 2012
I have and always admire Monica's determination and positive attitude. I am so very sorry for your loss. Monica will always be an inspiration to us all!!
February 25, 2012
February 25, 2012
My heart is so very heavy and I wish I could be there with all of you. I admire Monica so much for her courage and strength she had throughout her illness. God will honor her for being so faithful to him. May God's love and peace be your comfort now like he was for Monica. Please know I am here for you and will always be. My love and prayers are with you. I love you Monica.
February 25, 2012
February 25, 2012
"Karen and Family ,
Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad
time . Please know you are in our thoughts. All our love.
Norma and Jim Depto"
Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad
time . Please know you are in our thoughts. All our love.
Norma and Jim Depto"
February 25, 2012
February 25, 2012
Aunt Karen, Shane, Denny and families
Chris, Lisa, Shelly, Buck and I are saddened by your loss and you are all in our thoughts....we will keep all of you in our hearts and our prayers...Godspeed Monica...our newest angel in heaven
Chris, Lisa, Shelly, Buck and I are saddened by your loss and you are all in our thoughts....we will keep all of you in our hearts and our prayers...Godspeed Monica...our newest angel in heaven
February 25, 2012
February 25, 2012
Wilder Family,
Our hearts go out to you during this time,we pray you will always feel Monica's presence and love for you all.
God Bless
Frank and Teresa Browning
Our hearts go out to you during this time,we pray you will always feel Monica's presence and love for you all.
God Bless
Frank and Teresa Browning
February 25, 2012
February 25, 2012
I'm so sorry to read of Monica's passing, her father was a cousin of mine and I haven't seen her for many years , but my prayers go out to her family, to young, to soon.
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
Allen and family (my dear friends, family and next door neighbor. I am truly saddened by your loss of your lovely wife Monica. I have prayers going out for you all in hopes of the Lord getting you all thru this aweful time in your life. If i can be of any assistance i am just nex door, and tou can call me anytime. God Bless and i will keep u in my thoughts.Love you all, Sheila Bullock cole
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
My heart is heavy from a loss of a mother, daughter, sister, wife, and a dear friend. She was a very strong determined person, and never gave up on anything; she had a heart of gold. Monica will truly be missed, and will forever be in my heart. Your family will be in my thoughts, and prayers.
~Ka’Tina
~Ka’Tina
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
To Monica's Family
Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. Monica was a very caring and loving person and a wonderful friend. She will truly be missed.
LaJunda
Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. Monica was a very caring and loving person and a wonderful friend. She will truly be missed.
LaJunda
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
To all the Family,
Please accept my condolences for your loss. Monica was a great person and a wonderful co-worker. She will be truly missed by all. All of the family will be in my thoughts and prayers. - Amy
Please accept my condolences for your loss. Monica was a great person and a wonderful co-worker. She will be truly missed by all. All of the family will be in my thoughts and prayers. - Amy
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
Karen and family, You have our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Wes and Raffaela Catlin
Tim, Jennifer, Logan and Zachary Carll
Wes and Raffaela Catlin
Tim, Jennifer, Logan and Zachary Carll
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
May the peace that comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead. I pray that God will give you strength and courage in your time of bereavement.
Denise
Denise
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
Monica will be missed. Her family is in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
Allen and family,
My heart aches for your loss. Just hold close your memories and each other at this time. We will all miss her beautiful spirit and infectious laugh. She was a true friend.
My heart aches for your loss. Just hold close your memories and each other at this time. We will all miss her beautiful spirit and infectious laugh. She was a true friend.
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
You all have my heartfelt sympathy. Cherish all those wonderful memories as they cannot be taken from us. I will truely miss Monica........especially her laugh. God Bless
Dawn
Dawn
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
Karen and family, You have my deepest sympathy... life is truly not fair. My thoughts and prayers are with with you all. Take comfort in each other. Rest In Peace Monica.
Denise Hillard Mudryk
Denise Hillard Mudryk
February 24, 2012
February 24, 2012
Deepest Sympathy to Monica's family. God's blessing to the family for strength during this time of loss of Monica. Rest in Peace Monica.
Ellen.
Ellen.
February 23, 2012
February 23, 2012
To Alan and Karen, Rachel and Samantha,
My heart goes out to you at this time of loss. I remember Monica as beign strong and confident, I remember her good spirit and friendship. I will miss her.
Ginny
My heart goes out to you at this time of loss. I remember Monica as beign strong and confident, I remember her good spirit and friendship. I will miss her.
Ginny
February 23, 2012
February 23, 2012
To Monica's Family: Monica had a warm spirt and heart, but GOD has called his Angel home no more suffering. She will be missed by all. She was so excited about becoming a Wife and was so proud of her Daughters and even more excited about her grandbaby. Please continue to be successful and make your mom proud.
Shakeyia
Shakeyia
February 23, 2012
February 23, 2012
Alan, Rachel, Samantha, and family,
Please know that you are all are in my thoughts and prayers. Monica was a beautiful person with a lot of love to give to everyone. We will all miss her.
Please know that you are all are in my thoughts and prayers. Monica was a beautiful person with a lot of love to give to everyone. We will all miss her.
February 23, 2012
February 23, 2012
Alan, Rachel and Samantha, Karen. Extended Family,
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen, nor touched, but felt in the heart.
I will forever remember our friendship and will hold on to the sound of her contagious laughter.
Your family is in my prayers. Jennifer
The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen, nor touched, but felt in the heart.
I will forever remember our friendship and will hold on to the sound of her contagious laughter.
Your family is in my prayers. Jennifer
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February 25, 2019
February 25, 2019
To all of Monica's family and friends - I think of Monica when I go to Sub-way it was one of our favorite lunch stops. She is missed
February 23, 2017
February 23, 2017
Monica, It has been 5 years since you when home to be with your Lord and I can't say its got any easier our hearts are still hurting from not seeing you or hearing your voice. I miss our phone calls I hate not being able to talk to you when I need to talk. Love always, Mom
February 23, 2016
February 23, 2016
Monica is always in my heart - I see things that remind me of her. We would lunch at Subway frequently. I miss her friendship. I hope her children and family are well and thriving. Ginny Kammer
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