I took a business trip to Amsterdam this week and on the way to the office the first morning I saw this beautiful rainbow. In Mom's final weeks on Earth, I became drawn to rainbows and I still am to this day. After thinking about this some more, I just realized why.
It's because Mom is in every rainbow. I see and feel her beauty and love in every rainbow now, and I think it's just another reminder that she is watching over us and spreading her love and light and beautiful happy energy all across the world.
I felt inspired today to upload the "True Colors" song by Cyndi Lauper onto this website. It's the song that comes to my mind and heart when I think of rainbows. And if you're visiting this site and hear that song, just know that Mom is sending you happy, healthy and beautiful energy right now. And Mom's magical energy always comes at just the right time....sometimes it's when we need it most and sometimes it's just there to give us a little extra boost of love and inspiration to keep going....to keep loving, to keep listening to our heart and to keep uplifting everyone in our life. Sometimes a smile or a couple simple words is all it takes to make a difference in someone's life.
Here's an example of what I mean by that...
About a month before Mom passed, my brother and I were visiting her and Dad at Moffitt Cancer Center in Tampa and it was pure and raw emotion in Mom's room. It was pure love and brought tears of happiness and sadness to everyone there. I don't know if that makes sense, but sometimes translating emotions into words doesn't fully capture the reality of the moment. This was at a time when we didn't know how much longer Mom had with us, but she was a warrior and was giving us all strength during those beautiful hours.
My brother and I slept in Mom's hospital room while we were there, and we took turns taking showers during the day at a nearby hotel. In the midst of all the tears and all the unknowns and all the hope and all the love and all the everything, when it was my turn to leave the room to go take a shower, Mom said these two simple words to me.....words she had said to me all my life since I was a little kid.....
"Happy shower!"
Those simple words rang in my head all the way to the hotel that day and I still hear them often in my head now. Two words that seem so simple, yet they have made such an impact on my life over the years. Those words and the energy with which Mom said those words embodied love, optimism, peace and happiness. And they were always so comforting to hear. Without saying it, they said "I love you. I want the best for you. I want you to enjoy today. I want you to feel good. You deserve the very best, including a happy shower right now."
That day I actually cried my eyes out for a long time in the shower. It wasn't a pure, simple "happy shower" that I had experienced so many times over the years. It was one of pure raw emotion...everything from frustration to fear to love to sadness to loneliness.
Why do I share this with you now? It's simply to give you another little taste of how special and how loving and how strong our Mom is. In the midst of a battle for her life, she still found strength in her heart to think of my needs in that moment and to say those simple encouraging words to me one more time....Happy shower!
I see your true colors in every rainbow, Mom. Thank you for all your love and for all the rainbows! I see you and feel you everyday. Your love and inspiration live on in my heart and in the lives of so many others who you have touched over the years.
I love you forever,
Matt